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Man, recently started some new meds and now I can't seems to cum. And one else have experienced this problem? Went to see a provider and got to enjoy a nice long fuck. However, thr blue balls at the end really sucked.

[QUOTE=JitMarc;6380632]Man, recently started some new meds and now I can't seems to cum. And one else have experienced this problem? Went to see a provider and got to enjoy a nice long fuck. However, thr blue balls at the end really sucked.[/QUOTE]Are you sure it's the meds? I have a similar problem of having to much fun and it got to the point where I can't cum. I think it's the to much fun for me I think. It's harder for me to have a good orgasm. I used to have the best orgasm to pussy and used to cum a lot, my cum has decreased and I get soft while fucking I used to stay super hard and cum a lot.

[QUOTE=JitMarc;6380632]Man, recently started some new meds and now I can't seems to cum. And one else have experienced this problem? Went to see a provider and got to enjoy a nice long fuck. However, thr blue balls at the end really sucked.[/QUOTE]This happens to me if I've taken an Adderall that day. It helps a lot if you haven't cum in more than a day. If you're going to be taking this medication daily, whatever it is, you should try not to cum for a day or two before you spend time with your partner.

[QUOTE=RobXx7;6380666]Are you sure it's the meds? I have a similar problem of having to much fun and it got to the point where I can't cum. I think it's the to much fun for me I think. It's harder for me to have a good orgasm. I used to have the best orgasm to pussy and used to cum a lot, my cum has decreased and I get soft while fucking I used to stay super hard and cum a lot.[/QUOTE]I doubt it is the meds, although it could be. I'm 70, and happy I can still have fun with ladies. Now, however, I cannot cum with a condom anymore (it is still fun, though). And the volume has definitely decreased. So, selective BBFS works, or a very good BBBJ, and sometimes a good HJ. Part of it is the connection I feel with the provider, too. I'm very happy I'm still having fun. On my way to Spain in two weeks. Should be an interesting trip.

Thank you. I'm probably going to take a break for a little bit and see what happens. Hopefully, after some time away I can resume and enjoy myself again.

[QUOTE=JitMarc;6381802]Thank you. I'm probably going to take a break for a little bit and see what happens. Hopefully, after some time away I can resume and enjoy myself again.[/QUOTE]Try At Least 2 weeks that helped me. No jacking off bring back that sensation.

[QUOTE=JitMarc;6380632]Man, recently started some new meds and now I can't seems to cum. And one else have experienced this problem? Went to see a provider and got to enjoy a nice long fuck. However, thr blue balls at the end really sucked.[/QUOTE]I'm 65 years old and have been having the same problem for the past few years. The solutions are a caring and patient provider and lots of foreplay, being well rested, and relaxed. I don't find that holding off on sex for any period of time really helps. It sucks to get old.

I had to get circumcised a couple of years ago, in my mid 50's. Apart from being painful af afterwards for weeks, now I find it's very hard to cum with a condom, and bare I cum quite fast. And I used to give facials to be proud of but now it's barely a dribble, my ATF is sad.

This is getting kinda funny with the old timers calling out their own performance. I'll join the chorus.

Early 50's and have a hard time cum with a condom, bare is absolutely phenomenal. I've had too many anxious / nervous / sketchy encounters over the years that resulted in boner failure, so viagra is a must. Volume has decreased significantly.

I usually bring a 004 ultra thin condom and the provider has always been cool with that. Now, if I'm fucking with a condom and if I feel the urge to cum I don't hold back, regardless of whether I paid for a QV or hhr / hr. Holding back to get more pussy is great when it works but, usually, if I suppress the initial urge to cum it can be hard to get back to that apex again and often results in mission failure.

There seems to be a catch with the 004 condoms though. If the provider puts it on it stays in place during sex, but if I put it on it usually breaks, and I can feel the difference immediately. At that point I don't look down or change positions so the provider isn't aware of breakage and I finish as quick as possible.

[QUOTE=Lascivious;6351389]I hate seeing so many deletions in the Massage forum. I don't get out nearly as much as many other mongers but I've been through the VIP era and now 108.

VIP lived up to the hype in my experience. 108 is great. They don't need any extra BS hype. They let you see a lineup and always have a lot of pretty good to great choices. It would be a shame if they get banned here.

I've joked about them never offering a discount for giving good reviews. These guys getting deleted have given me a lot of good intel.

We don't need another spa go the way of the other lucky number spa.[/QUOTE]Is VIP even called that still? I think they took the sign down and just left a lot of cheap window dressing. I hope we are talking about the same place next to the smoke shop on Campo. BTW the roof that is connected to the smoke shop has drywall that does not run up all the way. So they can hear what's going on. Which is stupid because there are rooms on the east and west side, and they always provide on the west side next to the shop. Oh well. The artist formerly known as VIP is still pretty good, all young girls in their 20's and early 30's, but nothing spectacular lately. I'll take a 7 that really knows what they are doing and gets into it over a 9 that is a fish.

[QUOTE=UCBaja2;6383105]This is getting kinda funny with the old timers calling out their own performance. I'll join the chorus.

Early 50's and have a hard time cum with a condom, bare is absolutely phenomenal. I've had too many anxious / nervous / sketchy encounters over the years that resulted in boner failure, so viagra is a must. Volume has decreased significantly.

I usually bring a 004 ultra thin condom and the provider has always been cool with that. Now, if I'm fucking with a condom and if I feel the urge to cum I don't hold back, regardless of whether I paid for a QV or hhr / hr. Holding back to get more pussy is great when it works but, usually, if I suppress the initial urge to cum it can be hard to get back to that apex again and often results in mission failure.

There seems to be a catch with the 004 condoms though. If the provider puts it on it stays in place during sex, but if I put it on it usually breaks, and I can feel the difference immediately. At that point I don't look down or change positions so the provider isn't aware of breakage and I finish as quick as possible.[/QUOTE]Hang in there youngsters, I just turned 80 and can still get over the line with the right TLC. Sometimes it's a little hit or miss but always fun.

Good to hear there's hope. I'm about 20 years behind you. Viagra has done wonders for my performance and confidence. I've sometimes wondered how long I'll keep going with the hobby. Just today I saw someone who told me I needed to bring my own rubbers because I was "too big" for the standard house issue. It was the vitamin V doing it's job. My advice: if this is really important experiment with supplements, diet and exercise. There are a ton of resources online. And be patient with yourself. Women are well aware of the body clock ticking. Us guys less so. You don't have to age out of this. You just have to adapt.

[QUOTE=Lovable;6384375]Hang in there youngsters, I just turned 80 and can still get over the line with the right TLC. Sometimes it's a little hit or miss but always fun.[/QUOTE]

I checked out the old VIP many months ago after the owner and cohort that we all loved moved on. Didn't see any younger talent but I got the distinct impression that all was on the table. I've not been back since. As for the relationship with the smoke shop, an impeccable source told me that freebies were offered in exchange for a certain amount of tolerance related to the activities in the old VIP.

[QUOTE=RichJ8991;6383444]Is VIP even called that still? I think they took the sign down and just left a lot of cheap window dressing. I hope we are talking about the same place next to the smoke shop on Campo. BTW the roof that is connected to the smoke shop has drywall that does not run up all the way. So they can hear what's going on. Which is stupid because there are rooms on the east and west side, and they always provide on the west side next to the shop. Oh well. The artist formerly known as VIP is still pretty good, all young girls in their 20's and early 30's, but nothing spectacular lately. I'll take a 7 that really knows what they are doing and gets into it over a 9 that is a fish.[/QUOTE]

Definitely hang in there, and keep plowing along. I'm not quite there chronologically, but I can see it down the road.

Few years back had a "performance" issue that worried me. Had to go on the wagon with a strict diet for a while for medical reasons. Low and behold, something came alive again and has been fine since. Of course the good diet and serious exercise helps too, but I think cutting out the booze for a while helped. Don't know how much anyone drinks, but I really love my craft beer.

I also found finding the right provider who really turns me on influences my stiffness, quality of orgasm, and the cum volume. Have tried Vit "V" but found the right girl worked better than medical chemistry. If she is hot and does it right, it is great.

Another thing a fellow monger told me, which I really have not tried yet, was to spark your hormones up with porn before you visit a provider. I'm a fairly horny guy, so have I not tried this specifically, but it make sense to show up horny to assist arousal. Just a thought to share.

As for condoms. I bring my own. If I put it on, I wipe off Jr. So he's not slippery wet, and I make sure to leave room in tip for expansion, thrusting, and the load that's sure to come.

So far the only one's I've broken were the house condoms, which is why I always bring my own.

[QUOTE=UCBaja2;6383105]This is getting kinda funny with the old timers calling out their own performance. I'll join the chorus.

Early 50's and have a hard time cum with a condom, bare is absolutely phenomenal. I've had too many anxious / nervous / sketchy encounters over the years that resulted in boner failure, so viagra is a must. Volume has decreased significantly.

I usually bring a 004 ultra thin condom and the provider has always been cool with that. Now, if I'm fucking with a condom and if I feel the urge to cum I don't hold back, regardless of whether I paid for a QV or hhr / hr. Holding back to get more pussy is great when it works but, usually, if I suppress the initial urge to cum it can be hard to get back to that apex again and often results in mission failure.

There seems to be a catch with the 004 condoms though. If the provider puts it on it stays in place during sex, but if I put it on it usually breaks, and I can feel the difference immediately. At that point I don't look down or change positions so the provider isn't aware of breakage and I finish as quick as possible.[/QUOTE]

Have a friend developing a cure requiring no drugs. He claims it's based on encoding neuron energy and flow of energy. Example, if a specific neuron causes allergic reaction then, rerouting energy away will discharge the area and prevent allergic reaction at the root. It may seem out there but, I've watched this guy have violent allergic reactions to pollen and food. Now he's cured and we all think it was a supernatural miracle. However, he claims he studied neurology and physics to cure himself. I did see hin doing this. What are your thoughts?