Seeking Arrangement

So I saw what was being posted about detroitred on SA and I don't think what's being said is fair. She was my SB for over 2 years and it was the best relationship I've ever had. I met her when she started medical school, she knew I was married and that never once got in the way of what we had. She is amazing in bed, gives great head and was really easy to talk to. So I don't know if what happened is actually true because I still talk to her on occasion and I know she's had other long term SD since me.

[QUOTE=FictionGenius;4438264]Hey Guys a fellow monger met this girl in Novi after they fuck he dodges her for a couple of days no text on the app comes back to find messages from her and a strange 832 area code number threatening to expose him to his wife turned out they both were scamming him watch out be cautious.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d2d8bbb1-8e16-45ba-8cb5-e1706a5eb114[/URL]

Her name is Detroit red.[/QUOTE]Detroitred was my SB for over 2 years. I met her when she first started medical school. She knew I was married the whole time and that never got in the way of our relationship. Whoever posted this is flat out looking for a reason for guys to not talk to her. She's a smart, sexy young girl that was 100% discrete for me. Plus she gives amazing head.

[QUOTE=FictionGenius;4440618]He had a fake name and number he wasn't worried but was stressed for a day until he realzed it was a scam he texted the black mailer back with another burner number and basically conned her into meeting then left her stranded.

Be careful out there she is bad news.[/QUOTE]She's back with a new profile. Just hit me up and I blocked her again. Also. She knows about this forum and the reports on her activities.

Profile is now - redxheadx

[QUOTE=MikeRaff;4441236]So I saw what was being posted about detroitred on SA and I don't think what's being said is fair. She was my SB for over 2 years and it was the best relationship I've ever had. I met her when she started medical school, she knew I was married and that never once got in the way of what we had. She is amazing in bed, gives great head and was really easy to talk to. So I don't know if what happened is actually true because I still talk to her on occasion and I know she's had other long term SD since me.[/QUOTE]Well this isn't suspicious at all LOL!

BTW there's no point in sharing specific information on this forum outside of PMs. Why someone would PAY to use SA just to link this forum to girls in messages there is laughable and pathetic.

I ain't getting much attention on Seeking. I don't know if its because I'm ugly or my profile is not up to standard par. Any of you have any suggestions why is that I ain't getting much interest?

I actually met with her Six months ago. We did the whole movie and a dinner thing and left the night like that. Honestly it didn't feel genuine I feel that her pictures are really deceiving as far as her body type goes. Don't get me wrong she has a cute face but from what I remember her stomach was passed her boobs. She said she was curvy and that she work out which I find really hard to believe. Not to mention she had no ass. Does she have big boobs yes. But outside of that she nothing Special. So after dinner we did part ways and I told her that I didn't want to have an arrangement with her. She didn't really take it well. She did end up blowing up my phone with text message I just blocked and ignored her on google voice. It was a lot of empty threats.

I spoke to my freind after your post he states it was incorrect I attempted to take down the post however it isn't allowed by admin my freind was mistaken with the name.

Apologies to Detroit Red if she is reading this.

Any info as I'm chatting we these ladies.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/772f3afa-5f5c-4cd8-9f81-9ba3131e16e0[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/04226ebe-3523-4f40-a014-55ec6310281f[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e780aa62-bdbd-45cf-a64e-fff9d4af748f[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/76ce01cb-4b77-45a2-a2d0-474e59edaf45[/URL]

So the last one seems like a pro get a weird vibe from number 1 wondering if any of you had any experience with them.

Thanks.

Be safe,

Binge.

[QUOTE=Stripclub2000;4442005]I ain't getting much attention on Seeking. I don't know if its because I'm ugly or my profile is not up to standard par. Any of you have any suggestions why is that I ain't getting much interest?[/QUOTE]The non "pros" still do care about looks and intelligence and age to a degree. My profile is pretty much set up like my dating site profiles with slight changes and it tends to do well on there. Without seeing your profile, I can't really tell, but it could be just how you're presenting yourself, as the game there is a little bit different from just going to a strip club or massage parlor.

[QUOTE=BingeMadman;4445700]Any info as I'm chatting we these ladies.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/772f3afa-5f5c-4cd8-9f81-9ba3131e16e0[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/04226ebe-3523-4f40-a014-55ec6310281f[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e780aa62-bdbd-45cf-a64e-fff9d4af748f[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/76ce01cb-4b77-45a2-a2d0-474e59edaf45[/URL]

So the last one seems like a pro get a weird vibe from number 1 wondering if any of you had any experience with them.

Thanks.

Be safe,

Binge.[/QUOTE]The last one is a fake or scam. Google image search brings up her instagram profile with 500 k followers and lives in California.

[QUOTE=Beamer540;4446788]The last one is a fake or scam. Google image search brings up her instagram profile with 500 k followers and lives in California.[/QUOTE]Much appreciated did you use tinyeye? Thanks for the research.

[QUOTE=Stripclub2000;4442005]I ain't getting much attention on Seeking. I don't know if its because I'm ugly or my profile is not up to standard par. Any of you have any suggestions why is that I ain't getting much interest?[/QUOTE]I've been on Seeking for about a year now (not premium the entire time). It seems the longer I've been on the site, the easier it has become. Right now I have 3 beautiful, intelligent college girls interested in seeing me (yes, I have met with all 3 at least once). They're all normal college girls and sweet as hell. They are all quite kinky as well and enjoy spending time together in addition to sexual activities. Allowance varies, but it's less than $ per hour together.

I'm mid 40's, decent looking and in relatively good shape, but these girls wouldn't give me the time of day if they saw me out in public. On seeking it's a different story entirely.

My advice is to cast a wide net, message dozens of girls that you are interested in and wait for a response. These girls get hundreds of messages and quickly become overwhelmed. After making contact, treat them like a prospective date (not an escort or prostitute). Ask what they are looking for from the site and if they want face to face, gauge interest and offer a dinner date with no obligation. I repeatedly hear about how younger guys are immature, only want one thing and rarely take girls out on dates. So treat these beautiful young women to a nice meal and take a genuine interest in their life (even if only for the few hours that you are together). I have met very few girls on the site who weren't interested in having sex after sharing a friendly meal. As far as negotiating an allowance, expect to spend a bit more than you would with a prostitute, but you will also get much more in return.

As for weeding out the scammers, I dismiss the girls looking to sell pics or start with an online only arrangement as these are unlikely to lead to face to face. Also, never transfer money ahead of a date. Requests for this are a big red flag. I have had the most luck with girls who have only been on the site for a few days and also with girls who's accounts have been around for a while but who are not online often. It is best to catch the girls online rather than trade offline messages, so monitor your account as often as you can.

I'm not interested in sharing #s or names at this time. Possibly in the future if I am convinced that the girls would be treated well.

Definitely Seeking over secretbenefits. Not even close.

This is correct; one thing I'd also add is that with a well manicured profile, guys get more messages than women, which is unheard of on any regular dating type site / app.

I have looked at longer term sugar baby's messages and vice versa to compare, and they have been surprised that I get way more messages / likes than they do. Even right now after cleaning my box out the last go-round, I have around 250 unread messages (see below) due to not even bothering past looking at the attached pic and saying "nope. "

You should be the chooser on SA, not the beggar.

[QUOTE=Quarky555;4449509]I've been on Seeking for about a year now (not premium the entire time). It seems the longer I've been on the site, the easier it has become. Right now I have 3 beautiful, intelligent college girls interested in seeing me (yes, I have met with all 3 at least once). They're all normal college girls and sweet as hell. They are all quite kinky as well and enjoy spending time together in addition to sexual activities. Allowance varies, but it's less than $ per hour together.

I'm mid 40's, decent looking and in relatively good shape, but these girls wouldn't give me the time of day if they saw me out in public. On seeking it's a different story entirely.

My advice is to cast a wide net, message dozens of girls that you are interested in and wait for a response. These girls get hundreds of messages and quickly become overwhelmed. After making contact, treat them like a prospective date (not an escort or prostitute). Ask what they are looking for from the site and if they want face to face, gauge interest and offer a dinner date with no obligation. I repeatedly hear about how younger guys are immature, only want one thing and rarely take girls out on dates..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Quarky555;4449509]I've been on Seeking for about a year now (not premium the entire time). It seems the longer I've been on the site, the easier it has become. Right now I have 3 beautiful, intelligent college girls interested in seeing me (yes, I have met with all 3 at least once). They're all normal college girls and sweet as hell. They are all quite kinky as well and enjoy spending time together in addition to sexual activities. Allowance varies, but it's less than $ per hour together..[/QUOTE]Nice post Quarky. I'm curious tho. How can you communicate with prospective SB if you don't have a premium membership? If I remember correctly from when I was a member, you can see ads, but you cannot send messages unless you have the premium membership.

[QUOTE=JohnCast719;4452825]Nice post Quarky. I'm curious tho. How can you communicate with prospective SB if you don't have a premium membership? If I remember correctly from when I was a member, you can see ads, but you cannot send messages unless you have the premium membership.[/QUOTE]I would be guessing but maybe he is on and off with his membership. Gather numbers as you have it and get it again as needed.