Take careful note of her actions!
Captain,
One does not have much control over whom you have feelings for. That's the human condition.
I would recommend that you very closely watch that her ACTIONS match her words. It's like don't tell me you love me show me you love me (A2's points). Also, she must do this standing the test of time. Not for just a week or month but always. Anything less and YOU should bail immediately.
I wish you all the luck and hope you find much happiness.
CD.
[QUOTE=CaptHook;3088825]Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.
Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.
Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.
I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).
I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.
Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.
I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?[/QUOTE]
Here is a thought. Check out D one of the most dangerous women out there.
[QUOTE=CaptHook;3088825]Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.
Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.
Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.
I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. ..........
I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?[/QUOTE]Hopefully the Admin will not delete this posting as it is truly a warning for those of you that think some of these girls can be salvaged. Take it from someone who truly tried and spent a small fortune to save the unsaveable.
If any of this is about our favorite designated hitter. You know D. Please give me a shout. I will be glad to give you my two cents on trying to save one of these girls. The chances of you actually turning one of these girls around is at best between 20-25% that you might get one of these girls to listen change their lives and give up drugs. Otherwise be prepared to go through 100 k in loss of revenue. Cause that is what they will spend in drugs in a year. Another thing about these girls is even if they get locked up sober up and straighten up. They will from time to time. When the go back to the labor force as D has she will give up and miss the money for pot or whatever clothes or shoes they wanted. They will start tricking then go back to the drugs to deal with the tricks. Then those like D will bring some of the lowest kind in and around your home or trick you to take them to you. Then you will find out the kind of person they are. Drug dealers with dicks or money. So be prepared to share your girl with the "Classiest of the SO CALLED HUMAN BEINGS" I have a history with this CXXT. She is the worst news I ever got. She is the worst thing that ever happened to me. The biggest waste of humanity I know. If she was dying on the side of the road OH WELL. Do I have compassion. Yes for those that are worthy of it. She does not deserve SXXT. I never met a better liar than D. I never met a better manipulator than D. I never hated someone more than D. Why because she wasted my time. She lied tricked and manipulated me more than most. I think I have spent more time thinking about how to get her back than I would like to admit and as long as she breathes air she'll get payback. I invested in her sobriety. Biggest waste of money EVER! Some people deserve a second chance NOT D. NO WAY. She does not deserve the sweat off my Johnson. Would I help D NO FING WAY. She does not deserve my money. Saw her on Gay St. Last Sunday and saw the hatred on her face when she saw me. Lucky for her I could not swing around to say something to that CXXT. I have no more feelings for that sub human SW CXXT. I hear you they "the girls" can be tempting. If I were advising you especially on D. She will set you up over several months. Buying new clothes pushing you for shoes hair dryer essentials only to walk away when she has all that she needs. She will create some kind of excuse like. "Oh I have this friend. I dancer that works at "THE BALL" who I promised long ago I would baby sit for her kids for like 3 days to a week. It will turn into a week and when she calls you back it won't be to come back to you it will be to get you to pay for dope for XXX. Or she will say she needs to go see her MAMA she will load your car or trunk with garbage bags hiding all the stuff she can in them when she gets to where ever she is going she will not be coming back. I know she did both these tricks to me. Her Mama sold her house and changed her phone so D could not find her. I am telling you D is the worst news with the best piece of ass around. If you like being played manipulated or tricked she is your girl. She prefers the big bad drug dealers with the big nasty cocks. The kind that have seen too much action from the likes of the drug world. I would not let her in my boat if she was drowning and the boat was surrounded by sharks. I would let her be eaten. Cause she like some people deserve to die for the trouble they cause. I have pictures of D so if you want to see them I have undeniable proof that she is a complete POS. And that don't mean point of sale. You cannot fix stupid and you cannot fix the likes of D. She and many many others just TOO FAR GONE TO SAVE. SAVE YOURSELF FIRST. FORGET THEM AND MOVE ON. THERE IS NO HOPE FOR THEM BUT WHAT THEY HAVE IN THEMSELVES. WE CAN't FIX THEM. THEY HAVE TO FIX THEMSLEVES. Hope that helps.