Safe Mongering in Honolulu

Just say you were hanging out and visiting with your friend.

The following you tubes should be required watching for all mongers and girls at an AMP (and mamasans) -- I would guess that 99% of the time unlcle LEO dons't have enough to prosecute anyone for anything unless one of the girls says they were "forced into it", or if they say they were giving massage and don't have a license they just incriminated themselves.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GzKXOWxtJo[/URL]

(exact language of what to say).

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmtIizXdh88[/URL] (Advice from woman lawyer).

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7o9xYp7eE[/URL] (kind of funny video re don't try to talk your way out of anything. Because it will only make it worse).

[QUOTE=SamH;5886648]Just say you were hanging out and visiting with your friend.

The following you tubes should be required watching for all mongers and girls at an AMP (and mamasans) -- I would guess that 99% of the time unlcle LEO dons't have enough to prosecute anyone for anything unless one of the girls says they were "forced into it", or if they say they were giving massage and don't have a license they just incriminated themselves.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GzKXOWxtJo[/URL]

(exact language of what to say).

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmtIizXdh88[/URL] (Advice from woman lawyer).

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7o9xYp7eE[/URL] (kind of funny video re don't try to talk your way out of anything. Because it will only make it worse).[/QUOTE]Yup, I agree those videos are valuable resources for mongers and providers. However, none of them recommend lying to the police, such as: "Just say you were hanging out and visiting with your friend". Personally, I think that respectfully and politely invoking your Hawaii and federal constitutional rights to remain silent is preferable without also lying to the police.

[QUOTE=Redneck1;5888310]Yup, I agree those videos are valuable resources for mongers and providers. However, none of them recommend lying to the police, such as: "Just say you were hanging out and visiting with your friend". Personally, I think that respectfully and politely invoking your Hawaii and federal constitutional rights to remain silent is preferable without also lying to the police.[/QUOTE]I wasn't thinking that "hanging out with my friend" was a lie since in most cases the girl is a friend so to speak, and we're just hanging out and having a little personal interaction. But, you're right, the less said the better. I read somewhere even "relaxation" therapy needed some kind of license. As the videos say, there are 10,000 ways you can say something that can get you arrested. If they have enough to arrest you talking more won't help. If they don't have enough to arrest, talking can only help them. If you want questioning to stop say you respectfully want to talk to your attorney, and assert your right to remain silent, nothing more.

Hey why'all, I received a call / text (s) from an "escort agency" that demands me to pay large sums of money and threatens to kill my family if I don't cough up. They claimed that I made an appointment and no show. I'm 99% sure it's a scam, but the thought of someone murdering my family for this hobby is making me anxious. How do you guys deal with this?

[QUOTE=YAsianKid;5911542]Hey why'all, I received a call / text (s) from an "escort agency" that demands me to pay large sums of money and threatens to kill my family if I don't cough up. They claimed that I made an appointment and no show. I'm 99% sure it's a scam, but the thought of someone murdering my family for this hobby is making me anxious. How do you guys deal with this?[/QUOTE]Yes, it's a scam. Best thing to do is get a hobby phone and not give out your real number. You could also get a google voice number too.

[QUOTE=Redneck1;5888310]Yup, I agree those videos are valuable resources for mongers and providers. However, none of them recommend lying to the police, such as: "Just say you were hanging out and visiting with your friend". Personally, I think that respectfully and politely invoking your Hawaii and federal constitutional rights to remain silent is preferable without also lying to the police.[/QUOTE]I agree. Popo knows why you are there. Responding with a obvious lie will just invite more shit from them. The whole piont for these mother fuckers are to keep you talking. Best advice from every criminal attorney I spoke to was to turn on your phone recorder, say nothing and walk. HPD or any LEO as a matter of facts are not your friend and they are authorized by law to lie to you. Hell, they lie in court most of the time. You have the right to remain silent. Use it.

[QUOTE=SamH;5886648]Just say you were hanging out and visiting with your friend.

The following you tubes should be required watching for all mongers and girls at an AMP (and mamasans) -- I would guess that 99% of the time unlcle LEO dons't have enough to prosecute anyone for anything unless one of the girls says they were "forced into it", or if they say they were giving massage and don't have a license they just incriminated themselves.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GzKXOWxtJo[/URL]

(exact language of what to say).

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmtIizXdh88[/URL] (Advice from woman lawyer).

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7o9xYp7eE[/URL] (kind of funny video re don't try to talk your way out of anything. Because it will only make it worse).[/QUOTE]The only thing when you are being questioned to ask to have a attorney present. I have done it a couple of times and the questions stop and usually I simply leave. They may lie to you or entrap you into something you didn't do. Also don't let them into your car or take your cell phone.

As mentioned in some of my posts, I very much enjoy "Road Head," receiving a long and sensual BJ while driving. I've never had an accident because of it, but as this news report indicates, paying close attention to safe driving while experiencing the pleasures of road head is essential.

"Oral sex sends Florida man crashing into FedEx truck".

[URL]https://nypost.com/2022/06/03/oral-sex-sends-florida-man-crashing-into-fedex-truck[/URL]

[URL]https://www.insider.com/man-catches-new-super-gonorrhea-sex-abroad-std-antibiotic-resistant-2022-6[/URL]

Didn't know what thread to put this in and for now probably pertains more to the brothers that are planning to monger internationally. Regardless, be safe out there.

[QUOTE=ClaraForever;6768899]If I were she, I would take one month vacation for herself. Not for her clients but for herself.

Receptive bb anal intercourse sounds extremely risky. I don't think she care for clients' past sex history that much (wonder whether she has minimum knowledge on what the hell hiv is. Hope she is not one of many fob from China who believe only gays can get HIV). That is why some of bb providers strictly offer Greek to selective customers on the condition of protection use.[/QUOTE]You're correct that it's extremely risky. A few years ago I went to Life Foundation on Ala Moana (now known as Hawaii Health and Harm Reduction Center) specifically for an HIV test (result was negative) because the Diamond Head clinic was not offering that test. The counselor there explained to me that if a woman is infected with HIV, having BB anal with her is the easiest way to catch that disease from her.

[QUOTE=SnJn909;6977934] Be a little bit careful doing bare at (name of business deleted). Tested positive HSV-1 last month. My report was deleted somehow. ... girls provide BBBJ no charge, BBFS extra charge. But after what happened I'm going to play safe going forward.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, singling out this one particular business (whose name I've deleted) in your post may be unfair. First, according to the National Center for Health Statistics, in 2015-2016 a huge 47.8 percent of people in the 14 to 49 age range in the USA were carriers for HSV-1. Second, an HSV-1 infection can be caught even during kissing. Third, HSV-1 can remain dormant for years after infection. So, in light of the foregoing, it can be difficult to know with accuracy where and when a person's HSV-1 infection occurred.

[QUOTE=Redneck1;6978459]Unfortunately, singling out this one particular business (whose name I've deleted) in your post may be unfair. First, according to the National Center for Health Statistics, in 2015-2016 a huge 47.8 percent of people in the 14 to 49 age range in the USA were carriers for HSV-1. Second, an HSV-1 infection can be caught even during kissing. Third, HSV-1 can remain dormant for years after infection. So, in light of the foregoing, it can be difficult to know with accuracy where and when a person's HSV-1 infection occurred.[/QUOTE]My limited understanding is that -1 can be from just kissing and is very common, but -2 is from sexual contact where an initial blister typically shows up at the entrance site in the first couple of weeks. Also that -2 may lay dormant for years while taking up residency in nerve cells such as in the lower spine subsequently presenting as transient outbreaks on the skin.

[QUOTE=HMobius;6978835]My limited understanding is that -1 can be from just kissing and is very common, but -2 is from sexual contact where an initial blister typically shows up at the entrance site in the first couple of weeks. Also that -2 may lay dormant for years while taking up residency in nerve cells such as in the lower spine subsequently presenting as transient outbreaks on the skin.[/QUOTE]Just want to mention that I didn't address HSV-2 in my post because the monger only said that he tested positive for HSV-1. So currently there's no indication that a woman working at this business (name deleted) transmitted HSV-2.

[QUOTE=BigGulp;5979719][URL]https://www.insider.com/man-catches-new-super-gonorrhea-sex-abroad-std-antibiotic-resistant-2022-6[/URL]

Didn't know what thread to put this in and for now probably pertains more to the brothers that are planning to monger internationally. Regardless, be safe out there.[/QUOTE]Yeah I regularly go to Tijuana to hit up their red light district. (BTW save your money and go mongering in Tijuana, you can get with pornstar level girls for the same price as AMPs here) This one girl just hopped on without a condom and we went at it BBFS til I kinda came back to reality and asked for CFS. International mongering is a little too risky for BBFS for me.

News report: "With cases rising, FDA authorizes first over-the-counter home syphilis test".

"Until now, people who suspected that they had this sexually transmitted infection had to go to a doctor to get tested. With the new test from the biotech company NOWDiagnostics, it will take the user just 15 minutes and a single drop of blood to determine whether they have syphilis".

[URL]https://www.cnn.com/2024/08/16/health/fda-over-the-counter-syphilis-test/index.html[/URL]