General Reports

[QUOTE=Rkc99;3212924]I can't come close to matching your numbers. I'm not that young anymore either. Even though I have seen providers for about 12 yr, I haven't been serious about the hobby until about a year & half ago, and I really don't consider myself a hobbyist. In 2016 I saw 9 different providers. Five were FS and the others were just BRs. With these 9 providers I had 23 visits. I keep notes on an online calendar about whom I saw and what we did.[/QUOTE]Feel free to post a review or two on your favorites. Talent scouts are watching.

[QUOTE=BestBuddy;3212963]Feel free to post a review or two on your favorites. Talent scouts are watching.[/QUOTE]If you check my posts you'll see that I have discussed 5 of them in the past 4 months. Not all were full reports but I do PM anyone who asks questions. I usually ask a provider if they would like for me to leave a review for them. Some don't want it out there so I'll respect their wishes. In the cases where they don't want a review I just say that I met them and whether it was good or not.

I'm looking for a place that you mongers go to to have STD checks, what's the best fastest and cheapest place you go to? I'm freaking out here in the worse way and haven't slept for two days and my stomach is in knots. My soon to be fiancé, I allowed her to use my work iPad, and when was in bed she woke me up and showed me a text message (my iPad and iMac somehow links my phone texts so my phone texts show up on my iPad / and iMac, how do you unlink so that doesn't happen), anyways I thought I've had my texts deleted but I overlooked one, and she saw where I texted a provider for rates, and an appointment, back on Nov 2015, fortunately on this occasion I didn't follow through, but long story short the whole trust and don't believe me.

But in the past two years I've been hobby I started out only seeing BR girls and only getting the rub and tug and the occasional BBBJ, then I moved on to escorts. I haven't seen many maybe only 6-7 and out of those I only had unprotected sex with two of the providers, but of the two I saw couple times, saw each maybe 3-4 times and each time ended with BB sex.

Well Fiancé is saying she's going to have std check because here lately over last several months something just hasn't felt right down there for her, one being during sex it kind of hurts and on occasions might result in spot of blood, and discomfort when we're done and I'm pulling out.

I've looked at my genitals and I don't have any discharge nor do I feel any burning when I urinate, but I know a lot of STDs are unseen.

So now I'm freaking because if I have an std and have given it to her, there is no excuse and no way I can talk myself out of this and the previous accusations will all be proven true.

What's my best options fellow mongers, what's fastest, quickest, cheapest place here locally to get checked.

Anyone else been in this situation? How did it turn out.

I know my fault, for doing BB not always my option, but when things get going, and I never buy condoms of fear of being found or caught.

Anyways any help greatly appreciated and after this I'm out of game guys, can't chance it anymore.

[QUOTE=Saleen21;3219070]I'm looking for a place that you mongers go to to have STD checks, what's the best fastest and cheapest place you go to? I'm freaking out here in the worse way and haven't slept for two days and my stomach is in knots. My soon to be fianc, I allowed her to use my work iPad, and when was in bed she woke me up and showed me a text message (my iPad and iMac somehow links my phone texts so my phone texts show up on my iPad / and iMac, how do you unlink so that doesn't happen), anyways I thought I've had my texts deleted but I overlooked one, and she saw where I texted a provider for rates, and an appointment, back on Nov 2015, fortunately on this occasion I didn't follow through, but long story short the whole trust and don't believe me.

But in the past two years I've been hobby I started out only seeing BR girls and only getting the rub and tug and the occasional BBBJ, then I moved on to escorts. I haven't seen many maybe only 6-7 and out of those I only had unprotected sex with two of the providers, but of the two I saw couple times, saw each maybe 3-4 times and each time ended with BB sex.

Well Fianc is saying she's going to have std check because here lately over last several months something just hasn't felt right down there for her, one being during sex it kind of hurts and on occasions might result in spot of blood, and discomfort when we're done and I'm pulling out.

I've looked at my genitals and I don't have any discharge nor do I feel any burning when I urinate, but I know a lot of STDs are unseen.

So now I'm freaking because if I have an std and have given it to her, there is no excuse and no way I can talk myself out of this and the previous accusations will all be proven true.

What's my best options fellow mongers, what's fastest, quickest, cheapest place here locally to get checked.

Anyone else been in this situation? How did it turn out.

I know my fault, for doing BB not always my option, but when things get going, and I never buy condoms of fear of being found or caught.

Anyways any help greatly appreciated and after this I'm out of game guys, can't chance it anymore.[/QUOTE]Wow. Tough situation. I needed some testes done recently and ended up going to my regular doc. A couple days later I had results. They weren't the results I was wanting. I'm now out of the hobby but I still read the board in case I can add any info.

Can you PM me with the girls you went BB with? I'm tracking some of this. I have 2 friends with the gift that keeps giving and we are trying to cross match the common threads. Problem is in the last few months none of us have seen the same providers. Biggest lesson for everyone is be careful. In 10 years in the hobby I've lost count how many BR and escorts I've seen. I can remember 11 BB chicks of which 4 were this year. The one I feel gave me a problem is completely denying it and says she only BB with me. I'm sure that's not true.

As far as the girlfriend go, just hope there is not STD. That complicates thing really bad. If there isn't, you can talk your way out but either way it will be a huge struggle to ever regain her trust. My wife saw one text about 5 years ago and she still brings it up occasionally. She doesn't know about my STD. Not sure how to tell her. She never was a sexual person so I may be ok not saying anything.

Good luck and keep us posted. Especially if you do have something, for the sake of all other mongers you should sure the BB girls at least in a PM.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3219128]Wow. Tough situation. I needed some testes done recently and ended up going to my regular doc. A couple days later I had results. They weren't the results I was wanting. I'm now out of the hobby but I still read the board in case I can add any info.

Can you PM me with the girls you went BB with? I'm tracking some of this. I have 2 friends with the gift that keeps giving and we are trying to cross match the common threads. Problem is in the last few months none of us have seen the same providers. Biggest lesson for everyone is be careful. In 10 years in the hobby I've lost count how many BR and escorts I've seen. I can remember 11 BB chicks of which 4 were this year. The one I feel gave me a problem is completely denying it and says she only BB with me. I'm sure that's not true.

As far as the girlfriend go, just hope there is not STD. That complicates thing really bad. If there isn't, you can talk your way out but either way it will be a huge struggle to ever regain her trust. My wife saw one text about 5 years ago and she still brings it up occasionally. She doesn't know about my STD. Not sure how to tell her. She never was a sexual person so I may be ok not saying anything.

Good luck and keep us posted. Especially if you do have something, for the sake of all other mongers you should sure the BB girls at least in a PM.[/QUOTE]You guys are the reason I gave up this hobby. I know BB sex feels great but guys you are not the only.

Monger they sleeping with and with reading alot of these monger post their are some nasty guys out here. Mongers daty with known pos providers etc. Mongers with knowing std's and still on here posting about seeing providers come on dudes. Think with the big head sometimes!

[QUOTE=GoTaHaveIt;3219148]You guys are the reason I gave up this hobby. I know BB sex feels great but guys you are not the only.

Monger they sleeping with and with reading alot of these monger post their are some nasty guys out here. Mongers daty with known pos providers etc. Mongers with knowing std's and still on here posting about seeing providers come on dudes. Think with the big head sometimes![/QUOTE]You're right, bad decisions. But once I had symptoms, I've not seen a provider since. I do keep up with the boards. I will post when there is something I can ad or info I can pass along.

[QUOTE=Saleen21;3219070]I'm looking for a place that you mongers go to to have STD checks, what's the best fastest and cheapest place you go to? I'm freaking out here in the worse way and haven't slept for two days and my stomach is in knots. My soon to be fianc, I allowed her to use my work iPad, and when was in bed she woke me up and showed me a text message (my iPad and iMac somehow links my phone texts so my phone texts show up on my iPad / and iMac, how do you unlink so that doesn't happen), anyways I thought I've had my texts deleted but I overlooked one, and she saw where I texted a provider for rates, and an appointment, back on Nov 2015, fortunately on this occasion I didn't follow through, but long story short the whole trust and don't believe me.

But in the past two years I've been hobby I started out only seeing BR girls and only getting the rub and tug and the occasional BBBJ, then I moved on to escorts. I haven't seen many maybe only 6-7 and out of those I only had unprotected sex with two of the providers, but of the two I saw couple times, saw each maybe 3-4 times and each time ended with BB sex.

Well Fianc is saying she's going to have std check because here lately over last several months something just hasn't felt right down there for her, one being during sex it kind of hurts and on occasions might result in spot of blood, and discomfort when we're done and I'm pulling out.

I've looked at my genitals and I don't have any discharge nor do I feel any burning when I urinate, but I know a lot of STDs are unseen.

So now I'm freaking because if I have an std and have given it to her, there is no excuse and no way I can talk myself out of this and the previous accusations will all be proven true.

What's my best options fellow mongers, what's fastest, quickest, cheapest place here locally to get checked.

Anyone else been in this situation? How did it turn out.

I know my fault, for doing BB not always my option, but when things get going, and I never buy condoms of fear of being found or caught.

Anyways any help greatly appreciated and after this I'm out of game guys, can't chance it anymore.[/QUOTE]I understand about freaking out, but try and calm down and think things through so you won't make more mistakes. Here are some suggestions: Step one have your girlfriend go to her gynecologist first that priority one. Have herself check out. Next step For yourself check, MojoGuy suggested link. #7014 dated 12072016 below. Third step deal with the residual consequences later, your priority is your girlfriends health and yours. Hope this helps.

[URL]https://louisvilleky.gov/government/health-wellness/services/sexually-transmitted-disease-prevention-specialty-clinic[/URL]

I bet most of the these girls have one or more STD's. The STDs that have symptoms probably get treated. Its the STD without symptoms like HPV and Chylamydia can easily unintentionally give it to you. You then pass it to your SO or next conquest. Our brother Saleen found this out the hard way, although I hope he tests negative. I asked a friend on mine who is an ER doc what he would if he wanted to enter a mono relationship and not use protection. He said. First a battery of STD test for both persons, only protected sex for 6 months, a second battery and if all negative ok the have unprotected sex and both partners must remain monogamous. I too enjoy the BBBJ, but don't partake because of the risks. BTW. Don't do DATY either, because I think I might be giving one of you bastards a BJ by proxy!! Just some thoughts on a cold day. DnC Oh, BTW, I do know that the Louisville Dept of Health offers free, anonymous and confidential testing. I haven't been there but I friend of mine has. Probably be able to find something online to send a specimen to. DnC.

[QUOTE=DickensCider;3219406]I bet most of the these girls have one or more STD's. The STDs that have symptoms probably get treated. Its the STD without symptoms like HPV and Chylamydia can easily unintentionally give it to you. You then pass it to your SO or next conquest. Our brother Saleen found this out the hard way, although I hope he tests negative. I asked a friend on mine who is an ER doc what he would if he wanted to enter a mono relationship and not use protection. He said. First a battery of STD test for both persons, only protected sex for 6 months, a second battery and if all negative ok the have unprotected sex and both partners must remain monogamous. I too enjoy the BBBJ, but don't partake because of the risks. BTW. Don't do DATY either, because I think I might be giving one of you bastards a BJ by proxy!! Just some thoughts on a cold day. DnC Oh, BTW, I do know that the Louisville Dept of Health offers free, anonymous and confidential testing. I haven't been there but I friend of mine has. Probably be able to find something online to send a specimen to. DnC.[/QUOTE]I only hope you're wrong about most girls having STD's. But there's no way to be sure. I do know it's hard to catch anything with BBBJ (except for the girl, if she gets a load in the mouth). A good rule of thumb would be to never have unprotected intercourse with a girl, ever. Unless you're in a relationship. Then follow the rules above. Just my 2 cents.

Just as a follow-up, thought this was interesting.

[URL]http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/conditions/sexual-health/a12020/infection-risks-associated-with-oral-sex/[/URL]

[URL]http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp[/URL]

[URL]https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png[/URL]

DnC.

[QUOTE=DickensCider;3219536]Just as a follow-up, thought this was interesting.

[URL]http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/conditions/sexual-health/a12020/infection-risks-associated-with-oral-sex/[/URL]

[URL]http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp[/URL]

[URL]https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png[/URL]

DnC.[/QUOTE]This whole conversation is why I choose a handshake only. No spit, nothing. While not 100% safe its pretty damn close.

Stories like this one scare the crap out of me.

[QUOTE=GrittyB;3220022]This whole conversation is why I choose a handshake only. No spit, nothing. While not 100% safe its pretty damn close.

Stories like this one scare the crap out of me.[/QUOTE]I also choose not to take the risk of getting the gift that gives forever. Too many people think with their little heads for that brief pleasure and at the risk of catching one of the many stds floating around out there. I've had several offer me BBFS over the years. I've always enjoyed a good rub and handshake and know that I'm clean. I sleep better that way.

Not much pisses me off more that a girl that won't BBBJ but then spits all over my dick. If I am not going to get the pleasure of a blow job I definitely DO NOT want the RISK of a blow job. Some lube or coconut oil will do just fine.

[QUOTE=Saleen21;3219070]I'm looking for a place that you mongers go to to have STD checks, what's the best fastest and cheapest place you go to? I'm freaking out here in the worse way and haven't slept for two days and my stomach is in knots. My soon to be fianc, I allowed her to use my work iPad, and when was in bed she woke me up and showed me a text message (my iPad and iMac somehow links my phone texts so my phone texts show up on my iPad / and iMac, how do you unlink so that doesn't happen), anyways I thought I've had my texts deleted but I overlooked one, and she saw where I texted a provider for rates, and an appointment, back on Nov 2015, fortunately on this occasion I didn't follow through, but long story short the whole trust and don't believe me.

But in the past two years I've been hobby I started out only seeing BR girls and only getting the rub and tug and the occasional BBBJ, then I moved on to escorts. I haven't seen many maybe only 6-7 and out of those I only had unprotected sex with two of the providers, but of the two I saw couple times, saw each maybe 3-4 times and each time ended with BB sex.

Well Fianc is saying she's going to have std check because here lately over last several months something just hasn't felt right down there for her, one being during sex it kind of hurts and on occasions might result in spot of blood, and discomfort when we're done and I'm pulling out.

I've looked at my genitals and I don't have any discharge nor do I feel any burning when I urinate, but I know a lot of STDs are unseen.

So now I'm freaking because if I have an std and have given it to her, there is no excuse and no way I can talk myself out of this and the previous accusations will all be proven true.

What's my best options fellow mongers, what's fastest, quickest, cheapest place here locally to get checked.

Anyone else been in this situation? How did it turn out.

I know my fault, for doing BB not always my option, but when things get going, and I never buy condoms of fear of being found or caught.

Anyways any help greatly appreciated and after this I'm out of game guys, can't chance it anymore.[/QUOTE]You've probably already solved this, but for the iPhone and other Apple devices being linked, you need to go into your iCloud settings and turn off messages, contacts, and practically everything. Otherwise all your phone data will be available on any Apple device your Apple I'd is associated with.

Fellow mongers, it is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I tell you we have lost one of our own recently. My good friend and fellow monger Kaintuckman unexpectedly passed away a few weeks ago. Please do not pm me for details because out of respect for Kain's privacy I will not answer them. Rest in peace my friend.