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[QUOTE=GolongHorns;3030978]I had an amazing weekend with a girl who's going semi-UTR. I was real lucky for the experience, but she asked me to NOT write a review (because of aforementioned UTR-ness). Sorry.

I've got a question for my fellow mongers. How do YOU find girls who are UTR? Suggestions?[/QUOTE]My UTR girl is a former provider. Saw her 3 or 4 times but she talked about getting out of the business. I stayed in touch through texts from time to time. She would always call me when she needed money. Phone bill due, car battery dead etc. I think at first she cost me more money per BBBJ than a normal provider. But now it costs me less. I get FS and other things, she still needs helpwith money but t I favors at less than the going rate. I just had a feel for this girl right from the start that this was possible. It took some time and some initial investment but well worth it now.

[QUOTE=TenSevenCs;3034372]My UTR girl is a former provider. Saw her 3 or 4 times but she talked about getting out of the business. I stayed in touch through texts from time to time. She would always call me when she needed money. Phone bill due, car battery dead etc. I think at first she cost me more money per BBBJ than a normal provider. But now it costs me less. I get FS and other things, she still needs helpwith money but t I favors at less than the going rate. I just had a feel for this girl right from the start that this was possible. It took some time and some initial investment but well worth it now.[/QUOTE]That's usually how it goes. There isn't an advertisement site for UTR. Then they wouldn't be UTR. Usually it's a provider that "retired" but needs help from time to time. One hand washes the other. I have one now that's been well worth the investment and wait. Taking your time and treating a good girl with respect can move to a new level. It's doesn't always work out but it's worth trying.

[QUOTE=TenSevenCs;3034372]My UTR girl is a former provider. Saw her 3 or 4 times but she talked about getting out of the business. I stayed in touch through texts from time to time. She would always call me when she needed money. Phone bill due, car battery dead etc. I think at first she cost me more money per BBBJ than a normal provider. But now it costs me less. I get FS and other things, she still needs helpwith money but t I favors at less than the going rate. I just had a feel for this girl right from the start that this was possible. It took some time and some initial investment but well worth it now.[/QUOTE]I've had a few similar situations and they did not end well. I have heard of exceptions but most end like mine. Ugly! They lead you on to make you think they need / want you. Usually they just want to use you until they are ready to move on. You will find yourself wondering how you ever thought there was something special there.

[QUOTE=ChipJeep;3035397]I've had a few similar situations and they did not end well. I have heard of exceptions but most end like mine. Ugly! They lead you on to make you think they need / want you. Usually they just want to use you until they are ready to move on. You will find yourself wondering how you ever thought there was something special there.[/QUOTE]That's been my experience too. Play the game, don't get played. They're hookers!! Fun to fuck but think with your big head.

[QUOTE=Golf9979;3025950]It happens. I had a BR gal deliver a pizza to my place once. It took us both a few seconds to connect the dots, but we figured it out at the same same. I was alone at the time, but since she didn't know she just winked and went on her way. I've seen Randi out plenty of times and we don't even acknowledge each other. I'm mainly see a few SBs now, so it's a bit different. My rule when I see one is to play it cool and not acknowledge her. She may be with family or friends and wouldn't want to have to explain any more than we would. Hopefully the professional ones would do us the same courtesy.[/QUOTE]Yup. I ran into a favorite of mine from when I first started to get into the hobby (around 2006), back in 2011. I needed some goods and went into a shop in M-Town and there was one of my favorites from one of the 7th Street clubs. She was cool and even gave me a little bit of a discount on my goods. But she was always hella cool at the club. She smiled coyly and I smiled puzzled, like I didn't recognize her, but I did. I wanted to say more, but I didn't. I'll always remember the old heavy bartender yelling at her about time, because I made her forget, hehehe, Jokes about seeing each other with the lights on and breaking the jukebox, hehehehe. Yup, good times. Yup, it happens.

[QUOTE=ChipJeep;3035397]I've had a few similar situations and they did not end well. I have heard of exceptions but most end like mine. Ugly! They lead you on to make you think they need / want you. Usually they just want to use you until they are ready to move on. You will find yourself wondering how you ever thought there was something special there.[/QUOTE]Why not just go get a real GF and pay her bills no need to worry about the street life of these hoes. Cause every last one of them are.

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[QUOTE=Rubtugjon;3035509]That's been my experience too. Play the game, don't get played. They're hookers!! Fun to fuck but think with your big head.[/QUOTE]You have it exactly right. About a year ago I almost made a very big mistake. I had been seeing a girl consistently for about three years. We both had a lot of fun laughs and enjoy each other's company very much. She did very little advertising and mostly just for the purpose of her regulars. All I had to do was send her a text that said hey and she was asking when I wanted to come over. If I would say her name on here most of you know her and that she would not return calls or text to new guys. Several of you guys got frustrated trying to get your foot in the door with her. I began to think with the wrong head and was just getting ready to make another step. Then it turns out she had a boyfriend. It got kind of nasty for a while and I thought I was going to lose everything. It turned out fine for me but not so well for her. I have talk to her just a couple of times since the first of the year and did see her back in the winter but that has been it. Outside of the hobby I saw her last week at a restaurant but I don't think she saw me. It brought back to many memories. Sometimes I think I would like to see her just one more time but I am sure that would just suck me down a well So the point is be smart.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3035644]You have it exactly right. About a year ago I almost made a very big mistake. I had been seeing a girl consistently for about three years. We both had a lot of fun laughs and enjoy each other's company very much. She did very little advertising and mostly just for the purpose of her regulars. All I had to do was send her a text that said hey and she was asking when I wanted to come over. If I would say her name on here most of you know her and that she would not return calls or text to new guys. Several of you guys got frustrated trying to get your foot in the door with her. I began to think with the wrong head and was just getting ready to make another step. Then it turns out she had a boyfriend. It got kind of nasty for a while and I thought I was going to lose everything. It turned out fine for me but not so well for her. I have talk to her just a couple of times since the first of the year and did see her back in the winter but that has been it. Outside of the hobby I saw her last week at a restaurant but I don't think she saw me. It brought back to many memories. Sometimes I think I would like to see her just one more time but I am sure that would just suck me down a well So the point is be smart.[/QUOTE]"see her one more time" is like just one drink or. You are right, be smart. Most of them have a bf or gf, SD, and they are looking for Ben (several of them).

[QUOTE=DarkSideOfMe;3025374]I must say I do a lot of traveling, Lville has the highest prices for providers I have seen in a long time. I have to laugh when they want $2,300 for their time, I'd like to make that kind of money (cash) for what maybe (15 minutes of real work! I guess like the old man once told me," Pussy is a powerful $$ little patch". Drk.[/QUOTE]Maybe I've been fishing in a small pond. I travel and Louisville isn't out of line with many other locales. I've found that Nashville is pricey compared to our market but it just takes research as well as thinking with the big head to find quality services from friendly natives. Oh and if you are willing to spend $2,300 for a visit I'll put on my makeup, shave the hair off my back, wear a black dress and stockings and come over this afternoon <just kidding maybe .

[QUOTE=BestBuddy;3035839]Maybe I've been fishing in a small pond. I travel and Louisville isn't out of line with many other locales. I've found that Nashville is pricey compared to our market but it just takes research as well as thinking with the big head to find quality services from friendly natives. Oh and if you are willing to spend $2,300 for a visit I'll put on my makeup, shave the hair off my back, wear a black dress and stockings and come over this afternoon <just kidding maybe .[/QUOTE]Problem with Louisville prices is their are no pro sports here whatsoever Nashville, Cincy, Indy even traveling West their are pro teams their money base is so much more than ours. But to each is own in this hobby though! Happy trails.

Hey, been away from it all for far too long, would love to get back in touch with Faith, If you could Faith pm me your contact info.

[QUOTE=BestBuddy;3035839]Maybe I've been fishing in a small pond. I travel and Louisville isn't out of line with many other locales. I've found that Nashville is pricey compared to our market but it just takes research as well as thinking with the big head to find quality services from friendly natives. Oh and if you are willing to spend $2,300 for a visit I'll put on my makeup, shave the hair off my back, wear a black dress and stockings and come over this afternoon <just kidding maybe .[/QUOTE]The service in Nashville is much better and not that pricey.

Many years in the hobby and just had a few thoughts and see if any advice or others had thoughts or suggestions to find good providers. Pretty much the last year or so have pretty much stayed away from the escort ads on BP as I feel 90% of the pics are fake. Even the real ones, at least in my case, are extremely hard to schedule with. The good ones I have found in the past have now gone. Have only made a few attempts recently with a couple well reviewed providers, one with no response at all and another who responds a day later. I hobby maybe 3-4 times a month, + or minus depending. The effort and time spent is the escort area is more time than I have. That being said, I seem to have much better luck with the BR section of BP. Pics, although sometimes old, seem to be more on target, 50% or better. And the majority of the time seem to answer and respond to calls and text. Although some have not been the best and session lacking, less damage to fun fund account. I have met several more what I believe quality providers and once we've met, gone on to more after and even got numbers and met outside of there normal studio locations, some of them even saying they don't normally do that, but who knows and I don't care. Problems is none seem to be long term, seems like once I think I've found the perfect one, they drop off radar and # no longer works. Although I think part of it for me is the thrill of the hunt, just wish I had more time. Amyone else have any thoughts? Thanks.

HC.

[QUOTE=HoosierCream;3051027]Many years in the hobby and just had a few thoughts and see if any advice or others had thoughts or suggestions to find good providers. Pretty much the last year or so have pretty much stayed away from the escort ads on BP as I feel 90% of the pics are fake. Even the real ones, at least in my case, are extremely hard to schedule with. The good ones I have found in the past have now gone. Have only made a few attempts recently with a couple well reviewed providers, one with no response at all and another who responds a day later. I hobby maybe 3-4 times a month, + or minus depending. The effort and time spent is the escort area is more time than I have. That being said, I seem to have much better luck with the BR section of BP. Pics, although sometimes old, seem to be more on target, 50% or better. And the majority of the time seem to answer and respond to calls and text. Although some have not been the best and session lacking, less damage to fun fund account. I have met several more what I believe quality providers and once we've met, gone on to more after and even got numbers and met outside of there normal studio locations, some of them even saying they don't normally do that, but who knows and I don't care. Problems is none seem to be long term, seems like once I think I've found the perfect one, they drop off radar and # no longer works. Although I think part of it for me is the thrill of the hunt, just wish I had more time. Amyone else have any thoughts? Thanks.

HC.[/QUOTE]I have 1 major rule. One absolute iron-clad law. She must have a contact number. No number, no contact. I will not email or msg on a website because that is how we get shunted into the subscription scam racket.