Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=Dali0869;5353691]Most won't message you back and the ones that will want to sell you pics and videos, had very low success rate so far, have had zero trouble in other towns but this one is unusual. If you happen to find yourself in Oklahoma City those girls don't play games like here.[/QUOTE]Not aware of your full approach to SA, the content of your introductory message, your search criteria, or otherwise. ,. , but it's still a gold mine out there to the point that you only need to use a wasteland like STG if you fail to plan properly.

A lot of the gals on SA in this neck of the woods are refugees from BP and CL (bonafide pro escorts) posting ads on STG or other escort sites simultaneously along with those trying to promote an OwnlyFans and never plan to meet. If you're only focused on stunning 8's to 10's, you may want to scale that back to some eager 7's and grateful 6's to get your needs met. It can be daunting, but with patience and an eye on the long-game. ,. , you'll reap the rewards around here.

Happy hunting. ,. ,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=Dali0869;5353691]Most won't message you back and the ones that will want to sell you pics and videos, had very low success rate so far, have had zero trouble in other towns but this one is unusual. If you happen to find yourself in Oklahoma City those girls don't play games like here.[/QUOTE]Every town is different, but from what I've gathered the larger markets like Miami are much, much easier to land a lady. Limited supply of SDs makes competition fierce. With that said, I only message 7-10's and can land about 25% of the ones I message for reference.

We should have a discussion to figure out everyone's tactics, what works, what doesn't, etc. Would be beneficial I think.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;5354204]Not aware of your full approach to SA, the content of your introductory message, your search criteria, or otherwise. ,. , but it's still a gold mine out there to the point that you only need to use a wasteland like STG if you fail to plan properly.

A lot of the gals on SA in this neck of the woods are refugees from BP and CL (bonafide pro escorts) posting ads on STG or other escort sites simultaneously along with those trying to promote an OwnlyFans and never plan to meet. If you're only focused on stunning 8's to 10's, you may want to scale that back to some eager 7's and grateful 6's to get your needs met. It can be daunting, but with patience and an eye on the long-game. ,. , you'll reap the rewards around here..[/QUOTE]I have tried several different approaches have messaged several starting with 6's and up. Most just simply don't message back. I have in my profile I am working in the area and here for a few weeks, most towns that does not seem to be a hindrance. Not sure but I keep getting the ones that message you and before you can even right back they have deleted their account.

[QUOTE=FireBall99;5354441]Every town is different, but from what I've gathered the larger markets like Miami are much, much easier to land a lady. Limited supply of SDs makes competition fierce. With that said, I only message 7-10's and can land about 25% of the ones I message for reference.

We should have a discussion to figure out everyone's tactics, what works, what doesn't, etc. Would be beneficial I think.[/QUOTE]Different markets indeed. This area is very much a seller's market right now. High demand low supply causing competition among buyers. I often read / research other cities USASG forums around the country. Richmond VA for example has one of the best Arrangement blogs I have seen can be informative and insightful.

[QUOTE=MiddleAge2;5354859]Different markets indeed. This area is very much a seller's market right now. High demand low supply causing competition among buyers. I often read / research other cities USASG forums around the country. Richmond VA for example has one of the best Arrangement blogs I have seen can be informative and insightful.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. The local ladies here who are 6's or above are getting absolutely carpet bombed with messages, so they have the luxury of picking and choosing. And the overwhelming majority of the 8's or 9's are looking for virtual arrangements only or just selling pics or vids and / or trying to drive traffic to their Only.Fans. Much like real estate, it's definitely a seller's market right now, and that sucks for us, fellas.

[QUOTE=EastsideLurker;5356279]The local ladies here who are 6's or above are getting absolutely carpet bombed with messages, so they have the luxury of picking and choosing.[/QUOTE]100%. I hung out with a girl from SA about 6 months ago who used to be a stripper from another state. She was a solid 8 or 9. Her first month on SA she averaged 40+ messages per day and had been favorited 900+ times. Had a lotta fun with that one.

The secret is to stand out. No matter how many OF followers these women have they still crave personal attention and being treated like a woman. I've had arrangements for the past 9 years and all have been very hot women only wanting a true gentleman. You have to stand out by not throwing money at them but selling the experience of being treated like a friend, woman, princess if you will. I hang their drapes, arrange the movers, find someone to look at their car if its broken even if I don't pay for it I help them from being ripped off. These women are so use to having money thrown at them they don't respond, but do respond to being treated nice and cared for. My "opening line" includes that I've had great success with long term arrangements built on caring and respect. A few other details but it is also how I treat them. Currently in the 18th month of a wonderful arrangement with a formal model and enjoying it and spending way less than I did per month back in my days of mongering. To each their own, but best of luck.

[QUOTE=FireBall99;5356627]100%. I hung out with a girl from SA about 6 months ago who used to be a stripper from another state. She was a solid 8 or 9. Her first month on SA she averaged 40+ messages per day and had been favorited 900+ times. Had a lotta fun with that one.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LayenLow;5356951] My "opening line" includes that I've had great success with long term arrangements built on caring and respect. A few other details but it is also how I treat them. Currently in the 18th month of a wonderful arrangement with a formal model and enjoying it and spending way less than I did per month back in my days of mongering. To each their own, but best of luck.[/QUOTE]I find that "Taylor Made" opening lines work best. For example, if something long term appears to be important to your target then putting something regarding long term in the opening message would be appropriate.

We all have different criteria and scoring systems but we all are looking for the best overall experience scores that we can find.

[QUOTE=Skboy;5238026]Has anyone seen this SA gal?

PM is fine.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0fa94fe6-e2bb-4159-a313-5ee08a3a68de[/URL][/QUOTE]She is in the thug life. I would stay away.

I am in NE TN we have very few posts about sugar ladies.

I am a much older gentleman.

Looking for a SB, not a twenty year old gold monger.

Or an escort.

It would just be twice a month.

My budget is 250 to 300 per meet.

ADVICE PLEASE.

[QUOTE=Wolfman42;5358142]She is in the thug life. I would stay away.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info reply Wolfman. Never saw her but did read another review on her.

More or less said what you did.

[QUOTE=OldMan49;5359612]

Looking for a SB, not a twenty year old gold monger.

Or an escort.

It would just be twice a month.

My budget is 250 to 300 per meet.

ADVICE PLEASE.[/QUOTE]Prices will vary, there often is a big difference between the asking price and settlement price. Some guys are able to negotiate better than others. Even with high acceptance criteria I rarely pay more than 200 for what I am looking for. It all depends on what the product, services and overall experience is worth to me.

Several wise old mongers have noted their search terms and criteria for increasing their odds of success on SA. Here are a couple of real life examples I thought I would share. I'm not currently seeking anyone, but I do still enjoy keeping up with SA each day. It's kind of like reading the newspaper.

This first girl is attractive, but nothing a 10. I am guessing that she is probably not trying to make a living off of SA. She's probably healthy, sexual, but does not have an assembly line running between her legs. If I was in the market right now, I would message her, making a comment or asking a question about her graduate degree and her dog.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2684c2a5-46a5-4a69-8582-62e9a145042e[/URL]

(By the way, as proof that my system is far from guaranteed, I struck out with Curvy sweetie under a different user name of hers. I couldn't find the old profile this morning, donit may be gone. She is not new to SA.).

Any time their profile indicates anything about enjoying conversation or talking, I just assume she isn't up for meeting IRL, so I pass. Here is an example:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/836371b3-73da-4f51-83ad-08c443d00374[/URL]

Here is an example of a girl I would likely not contact, at least unless I just had some free time. She wants you to know she has a passport. She's used to being spoilled.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9279f975-49d3-47c9-b6a3-366d8514a1f5[/URL]

Once a girl gets past 6 public SA pics, she probably has a high opinion of her attractiveness, especially if one or more of the pictures are posed model-want to-be type photos.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/20ad789e-bcd5-456f-956b-f547be7cadc6[/URL]

Luxury lifestyle, platonic, every photo is filtered and has 99 items on her wish list? Pass.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/691f02c8-1e41-4658-b956-7d82a381b7a1[/URL]

"Make it worth my while"? Maybe I'm losing out, but this girl's profile screams GPS to me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4231260b-1642-42b1-94f8-7c47189ffa94[/URL]

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;5360741]Several wise old mongers have noted their search terms and criteria for increasing their odds of success on SA. Here are a couple of real life examples I thought I would share. I'm not currently seeking anyone, but I do still enjoy keeping up with SA each day. It's kind of like reading the newspaper.

This first girl is attractive, but nothing a 10. I am guessing that she is probably not trying to make a living off of SA. She's probably healthy, sexual, but does not have an assembly line running between her legs. If I was in the market right now, I would message her, making a comment or asking a question about her graduate degree and her dog.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2684c2a5-46a5-4a69-8582-62e9a145042e[/URL]

(By the way, as proof that my system is far from guaranteed, I struck out with Curvy sweetie under a different user name of hers. I couldn't find the old profile this morning, donit may be gone. She is not new to SA.).

Any time their profile indicates anything about enjoying conversation or talking, I just assume she isn't up for meeting IRL, so I pass. Here is an example:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/836371b3-73da-4f51-83ad-08c443d00374[/URL]

Here is an example of a girl I would likely not contact, at least unless I just had some free time. She wants you to know she has a passport. She's used to being spoilled.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9279f975-49d3-47c9-b6a3-366d8514a1f5[/URL]

Once a girl gets past 6 public SA pics, she probably has a high opinion of her attractiveness, especially if one or more of the pictures are posed model-want to-be type photos.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/20ad789e-bcd5-456f-956b-f547be7cadc6[/URL]

Luxury lifestyle, platonic, every photo is filtered and has 99 items on her wish list? Pass.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/691f02c8-1e41-4658-b956-7d82a381b7a1[/URL]

"Make it worth my while"? Maybe I'm losing out, but this girl's profile screams GPS to me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4231260b-1642-42b1-94f8-7c47189ffa94[/URL][/QUOTE]I like to keep it simple, but agree with Galt. Always make sure they know you read their profile. As far as the joke goes and simplicity, try finding a flirty knock knock joke and just make your first message as simple as. Knock knock. If they're real, they can't help but want to hear the joke.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;5360741]Several wise old mongers have noted their search terms and criteria for increasing their odds of success on SA. Here are a couple of real life examples I thought I would share. I'm not currently seeking anyone, but I do still enjoy keeping up with SA each day. It's kind of like reading the newspaper.

This first girl is attractive, but nothing a 10. I am guessing that she is probably not trying to make a living off of SA. She's probably healthy, sexual, but does not have an assembly line running between her legs. If I was in the market right now, I would message her, making a comment or asking a question about her graduate degree and her dog.[/QUOTE]I agree with 99% of what you say and like your style. We certainly have similar approaches. I too am not in the market, but like to window shop and see the new profiles. I look in the profile and if it is all about what they want and nothing about how they are willing to reciprocate, then it's a "No" for me. I don't mess with women under 25 typically unless their profile seems mature, but I have never had luck with one younger than 25 and since I am married I need them to have their own place to hang out and enjoy each other's company. I want long term, mutually beneficial arrangements so "emotional connection" "Long term" is something I want to see on their preference. I can't travel so I pass on the gals that are "passport ready" and "vacations" as part of their profile. It's also easier for me to meet during the week so someone doing a 9-5 Monday through Friday job isn't going to be for me. I have seen a Retail Manager, A Realtor, A woman who worked in retail, A Nurse and they all had some weekday availability at least once a week.

Looking today this one caught my eye and I would definitely have hit her up. Discretion, Flexible schedule, Attentive (my selling point), Emotional Connection (another biggie I provide) and she even states in her wants that she desires communication. Long term SB all over it. I just hope the pictures are nice.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1180aaab-a80f-61c3-319e-6360f069bfe3[/URL]