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[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4722458]I don't think there is a woman out there offering to meet in person, but they are very clear about ONLINE ONLY.
We should get our memberships extended until the president says we can end social distancing (not an issue of you have a 6'1" cock".[/QUOTE]There definitely is an increase in online only, but many are still willing to meet in person. Takeout coffee from Starbucks sitting in my car and moving to my place is a common scenario.
They need money now more than ever.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;4721782]Waiting for the guy to lower the overpriced subscription to his site. Are there lower cost ways of finding SBs? Has anyone had success using OKC, Bumble etc.[/QUOTE]Any info on Tinder? Thanks CM.
[QUOTE=Zerry;4722792].....the difference between SDs and johns. .....[/QUOTE]None. They (we) both pay to fuck.
[QUOTE=TopGun9;4723238]None. They (we) both pay to fuck.[/QUOTE]In my view SBs are different than escorts mainly because they need to be genuinely attracted to their SD to be intimate. Unlike escorts, that will have sex with almost anyone with the right dollars.
SDs as a result have to seduce and court the SB long before dollars are even discussed. John's need to know how to make the right dollar offer quickly.
If you are looking for escorts on SA, you will alienate SBs and only find escorts. If you are looking for SBs, you will alienate escorts and only find SBs.
The bowl is what you make of it.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4725062]In my view SBs are different than escorts mainly because they need to be genuinely attracted to their SD to be intimate. Unlike escorts, that will have sex with almost anyone with the right dollars.
SDs as a result have to seduce and court the SB long before dollars are even discussed. John's need to know how to make the right dollar offer quickly.
If you are looking for escorts on SA, you will alienate SBs and only find escorts. If you are looking for SBs, you will alienate escorts and only find SBs.
The bowl is what you make of it.[/QUOTE]I agree. And that's what makes the bowl so fun. If you've got game and are a decent looking guy it makes a huge difference. I've had relationships with SBs where I paid them nothing, they just wanted somebody fun to fuck Who was decent looking and respectful and not weird LOL. Not saying it happens often but it does make a difference.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/49ed09df-6616-4171-801f-71b30a9794d6[/URL]
Seen this girl recently, complicated in many ways. She is a pro dances in the local bars last one Pure Pleasure. Ready to F# at k up charges services half hour for 3.
Covered half way into BJ and rest is covered, nice on the eyes good body no kissing I guess YMMV, will ell you several times that she is really good at what she does, half ass BJ not even close to being the best, Sweet girl had a rough life and very smart.
If you guys want her contact and want to try it out yourself I can share she is OK with it only to seniors PM me.
Stay safe.
Governor Northam just issued a "stay at home" order for those of us who live in Virginia. I don't know how the order will be enforced, but violating it will be a Class 1 misdemeanor punishable by a $2500 fine and/or a year in jail. We need to take this seriously.
Please, brothers, respect the order and curtail playing in the bowl for the time being. I love young pussy as much as anyone, and I love the chase almost as much as the pussy, but this is not something to fuck around with (pun intended). Please stay home unless you absolutely need to go out.
I can't tell you how many I've had lately.
First message "want to buy feet pics?
Me: "Only if I get to take the photos of your feet crossed behind my neck or back".
BLOCKED.
Works every time.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4725062]In my view SBs are different than escorts mainly because they need to be genuinely attracted to their SD to be intimate. .[/QUOTE]While I humbly believe there's some truth to this, at the end of the day we still pay to fuck; in one form or another. We all like to think the the SBs fuck with us because they are attracted to us and genuinely interested in us, the fact is they still fuck other SDs out there for the bucks.
I've fucked babies for nothing more than a bottle of $20 wine she likes (get to know her and her interests). Wine and dine her.
I've fucked babies for a $30 sexy lingerie from Fredericks (compliments her, make her look and feel sexy, earn her heart).
I've fucked babies for a ticket to a local amateur baseball team (let her know you care about her, and what she's passionate about and loves).
Could I have fucked some of these girls with no gifts or money provided, of course. But I like to remind myself that this is an arrangement. I am not going to fool myself or her into believing this is anything more than that. I am not here for a relationship, or a girlfriend, or a wifey. I am here to fuck.
[QUOTE=TopGun9;4725961]I am here to fuck.[/QUOTE]Ha! Reminds me of Kill Bill 1's hospital scene: "My name is Buck, and 'I am here to fuck'." Great line. They were lighting up her coochie for years.
[QUOTE=VAvet;4725300]I agree. And that's what makes the bowl so fun. If you've got game and are a decent looking guy it makes a huge difference. I've had relationships with SBs where I paid them nothing, they just wanted somebody fun to fuck Who was decent looking and respectful and not weird LOL. Not saying it happens often but it does make a difference.[/QUOTE]That's what I like about Sugar Dating as well. It's more of a sport.
I've seen reviews on these boards of some SB profiles where guys are complaining they are fake or don't reply to messages after I just spent 3 hours with them doing naked aerobics. I don't judge and I've dated UTR / escorts in the past, but I have moved to Sugar Dating because I like the idea of spending an entire date cooking, watching movies, having sex with a hot young woman at my home vs an hourly rate escort. My SB will costs about the same as an escort, but she sleeps with me, spends the entire day and we have sex several times. It's just not the same experience to me. Yes, I am paying to fuck them, but I know they won't fuck just anyone and they genuinely enjoyed spending time with me. I don't really care if they date other men, as long as they give me attention when we are together.
[QUOTE=TopGun9;4725961]While I humbly believe there's some truth to this, at the end of the day we still pay to fuck; in one form or another. We all like to think the the SBs fuck with us because they are attracted to us and genuinely interested in us, the fact is they still fuck other SDs out there for the bucks.
I've fucked babies for nothing more than a bottle of $20 wine she likes (get to know her and her interests). Wine and dine her.
I've fucked babies for a $30 sexy lingerie from Fredericks (compliments her, make her look and feel sexy, earn her heart).
I've fucked babies for a ticket to a local amateur baseball team (let her know you care about her, and what she's passionate about and loves).
Could I have fucked some of these girls with no gifts or money provided, of course. But I like to remind myself that this is an arrangement. I am not going to fool myself or her into believing this is anything more than that. I am not here for a relationship, or a girlfriend, or a wifey. I am here to fuck.[/QUOTE]
I agree that they fuck for money and we pay them to fuck and from that point they are the same. I see them as being on very different sides of the "sex worker" range. With that said, some escorts act more like SB's and some SB's act more like escorts (or even streetwalkers).
[QUOTE=TopGun9;4725961]While I humbly believe there's some truth to this, at the end of the day we still pay to fuck; in one form or another. We all like to think the the SBs fuck with us because they are attracted to us and genuinely interested in us, the fact is they still fuck other SDs out there for the bucks.
I've fucked babies for nothing more than a bottle of $20 wine she likes (get to know her and her interests). Wine and dine her.
I've fucked babies for a $30 sexy lingerie from Fredericks (compliments her, make her look and feel sexy, earn her heart).
I've fucked babies for a ticket to a local amateur baseball team (let her know you care about her, and what she's passionate about and loves).
Could I have fucked some of these girls with no gifts or money provided, of course. But I like to remind myself that this is an arrangement. I am not going to fool myself or her into believing this is anything more than that. I am not here for a relationship, or a girlfriend, or a wifey. I am here to fuck.[/QUOTE]
There is no such thing as free pussy, so by definition, any female letting anyone into their vag is a pro unless they are paying for the cock (which results in negative balance).
Buying dinner, drinks, or other gifts toward getting laid is a traditional dating ritual but it's still paying for pussy.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8882261a-ef80-409f-92a9-0b59322983bb[/URL]
Missxxbby.
Claims to be your Student. But talks such a good game and has some hot pics and a vid she sent for free. As a preview of what I'd get for $180 to prove I was a serious in person canddiate when the crisis clears.
Otehr than that being too far off in the future, I get the sense she is just a pic seller.
Kylie or whatever her name is, is back again.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9cdb3e7a-f22c-4b1d-bd1e-400f0a42e172[/URL]
She was outing SDs on her social media in the past.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4726525]I agree that they fuck for money and we pay them to fuck and from that point they are the same. I see them as being on very different sides of the "sex worker" range. With that said, some escorts act more like SB's and some SB's act more like escorts (or even streetwalkers).[/QUOTE]Oh absolutely. SBs are the closest you can get to the girl next door or dating experience.
They don't fuck for a living. They don't fuck 10 guys a day while living in some shitty motels. They don't fuck by the hour. They don't insert needles into their arms or snort powder up their nose.
SBs actually have a real / normal life. They have jobs, go school, kept themselves clean, fuck you for hours and as long as you want. Let you cum in any of their holes and allow you to make as many videos as you like without any up charges. They often don't care if you fuck them raw and used them like a ****. SBs are wonderful, and I love fucking them.
After getting swamped with messages, I added a line saying I was not meeting up as long as Coronavirus is around. They disapproved it. The reason box didn't apply as it said it was due to commercial activity. I guess the C word is bad.
Her location keeps changing but seems to be a dancer on the mid atlantic circuit.
She is from Cville and in the area currently.
Pretty hot pics despite all the tats and is totally DTF, but have yet to get to damage and menu.
Any thoughts?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b2117ad-ae87-4998-bd1d-5bed4d9fec5a[/URL]
[QUOTE=JustLonely;4727523]After getting swamped with messages, I added a line saying I was not meeting up as long as Coronavirus is around. They disapproved it. The reason box didn't apply as it said it was due to commercial activity. I guess the C word is bad.[/QUOTE]Seeking approved my update. It was something like "I am taking a break for a bit. Be safe and distance!" Didn't use the word "coronavirus".
Has anyone had the opportunity to chat with this one? If so please PM to exchange intel. I have her digits and engaged briefly in a conversation but I'm curious to see if she's worth the trouble.
Thanks BG.
I'm about to jump back in the bowl after a long absence although I do still have a few regular sugar babies I see. Are you guys finding the girls are willing to meet up during corona time? Also, obviously it's difficult to do public meeting greets because all the social venues are closed so how are you arranging that? Most girls are reluctant to come straight to your hotel without having known you.
And lastly, Please tell me seeking has some kind of discount on their ridiculous membership during this crisis? Or are they still holding firm on their $90 a month rip off.
Virgin post here after looking from the sidelines for a while.
This situation is absolutely killing me, I'm ready to make a move on some SB! I think I'm diving into seeking with a paid membership. I agree with everyone supply should be way up! Happy hunting my friends, stay safe!
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;4728313]I'm about to jump back in the bowl after a long absence although I do still have a few regular sugar babies I see. Are you guys finding the girls are willing to meet up during corona time? Also, obviously it's difficult to do public meeting greets because all the social venues are closed so how are you arranging that? Most girls are reluctant to come straight to your hotel without having known you.
And lastly, Please tell me seeking has some kind of discount on their ridiculous membership during this crisis? Or are they still holding firm on their $90 a month rip off.[/QUOTE]I was still seeing girls as recently as early last week, but of course much as changed just in that time period, so I've decided to avoid meets for a while. I was definitely getting some fear-induced cancellations even before I decided to distance. On the other hand I found I had only minor issues getting girls to let me come pick them up and go right to the hotel or just come to my room for the first meet, because the restaurant / bar shutdown resulted in such a reduction of public places to meet, that it made a good excuse for skipping some extra expenses.
Right now (and this is only my opinion so no offense for those continuing to partake) -- I figure any girl who is randomly fucking guys during such a health-crisis is a bit too careless, or perhaps even a bit too desperate, for my liking and I don't really want to take the risk right now. I also worry that the girls aren't at their best right now -- salons / spas are closed so they can't get their hair done or their pussy waxed. That's not to say the coronavirus resulted in a lot of unkept hairy pussies overnight or anything, but most people are undergoing the stress of lifestyle changes right now and I don't think sex with these girls is optimal under those conditions.
Economic impacts will continue for some time, so I will take advantage of all the cheap pussy then.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;4728313]I'm about to jump back in the bowl after a long absence although I do still have a few regular sugar babies I see. Are you guys finding the girls are willing to meet up during corona time? Also, obviously it's difficult to do public meeting greets because all the social venues are closed so how are you arranging that? Most girls are reluctant to come straight to your hotel without having known you.
And lastly, Please tell me seeking has some kind of discount on their ridiculous membership during this crisis? Or are they still holding firm on their $90 a month rip off.[/QUOTE]As far as I know, SA is holding to their "ridiculous price. " I just renewed because frankly I'm so bored that just browsing the site and striking up the occasional conversation is one of the things that helps me kill time. Also, sometimes, the thought of a real girl, even one I haven't met, is more "inspiring" for those"critical moments" than online porn.
I have had 2 MG's since this nonsense got going. Both took place in my car. One led to a quick determination of disinterest and a five minute ride around the block to drop her off where I picked her up. The other was delightful, and led to a drive to a secluded spot for some front seat brain of a very high order. (More details in another post.).
Just as the COVID thing was heating up. I met one of my all time home run greats from the site. Junior in college, very light skinned AA, totally cute features, absolute spinner body, and smart enough to carry on a half way decent conversation. 3 dates so far: (1) on initial meeting, drive to a minimally secluded spot for some quick brain drain; (2) second meeting, drive to a more secluded spot for more of the same, but at a more leisurely pace, with attention to adjacent areas; (3) third time meeting, FC at a cheap hotel, everything a man could want, including 4 O's on her part -- 2 manual, 2 during the deed itself -- which I have no reason to think were faked; and my choice of options to finish. I went with sliding it above her pie while she ground her pussy into my balls, till I covered her lower stomach. Honestly, in 6 years on and off the site, it hasn't been any better. And to top it off not greedy about gifts.
So, what to do now? I'm kind of in agony. She's down to meet again, but lives in a dormitory type setting with other students, which makes her at least something of a candidate to be asymptomatically risky. My state has just imposed a stay at home order. And I do live with a SO. So I'm sadly thinking she's got to put on hold for a month, and that's probably what I'll do. But it kills me to have something this wonderful (and for me at least this rare) and have to put it on ice.
The huge relief bill cuts off dependents at 16 for families to get $500 per child. So far 13 Senators have signed to make a change to extend to dependent college students.
[QUOTE=BlakGekko;4728146]Has anyone had the opportunity to chat with this one? If so please PM to exchange intel. I have her digits and engaged briefly in a conversation but I'm curious to see if she's worth the trouble.
Thanks BG.[/QUOTE]Well, well, turned out to be a dud!
Wants to 400 PPM 200 upfront so she will give you address and 200 at the meet, LOL.
WTF they think they are dealing with dumb ass idiots. I am sick of these girls thinking that most of us are dumb stupid enough to fall for this shit. Told her good luck.
Stay safe.
Young white teen blonde with the screename "cardibaby".
Can anyone else see her?
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4733491]Young white teen blonde with the screename "cardibaby".
Can anyone else see her?[/QUOTE]Still active, last login on April 3rd.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0b6c4b3a-2ee3-43be-9697-9e2737e209eb[/URL]
I may take some criticism, but please do not reply or pm me asking for her name or her SA profile. I'm sure her messages would get blown up and would some how screw things up for me.
I started messaging with her a couple months ago but she was working a regular 9-5 job and our schedules didn't work for meeting. So once everything started shutting down from COVID-19 I checked back with her a couple weeks ago to see if she was still working and she said she was. Two days later she texted me, guess what we all got sent home come on over LOL. Went to her place, hit it off pretty fast with good conversation and a couple of beers and then fucked a couple of times. In the process of chatting afterwards she let slip that she lived in LA a few years back and made a couple of videos. She's 24 or 25 now so she would have been 20-21 then. We agreed that we wanted to see each other again and I left.
Of course I had to look into these videos, and without too much trouble I was able to figure out who she was. She was definitely all-in on porn for about a year and a half, shot videos for several major studios and pretty much hit all the categories: daddy-daughter, girl-girl, gang bang, huge black dicks, anal creampies, etc. Definitely a new experience to be fucking new pussy one minute and the next day be jerking off to her getting fucked by James Deen. Saw her again yesterday and made no mention of it but the sex was even better and she wants to keep seeing me as long as schedules allow. The allowance she wants is extremely reasonable (amounts to about 200 per) and she's extremely cool to just hang with. The only thing that can fuck this up is me psyching myself out by watching her getting railed by huge porno dicks and trying to compare myself to that. Also trying to figure out if / how I should talk about it with her and how wild I should try to get her to be. Crazy to stumble on this in central VA!
[QUOTE=EBob1111;4736147] The only thing that can fuck this up is me psyching myself out by watching her getting railed by huge porno dicks and trying to compare myself to that. Also trying to figure out if / how I should talk about it with her and how wild I should try to get her to be. Crazy to stumble on this in central VA![/QUOTE]I have met a few porn stars over the years -- a few times met them when they were working at strip clubs, and more recently online on SA. I think sugaring and / or escorting is a natural career path for former porn workers, because of the longevity potential. Porn tends to be a very short-lived gig since new girls are typically a more valuable commodity in that industry than familiar faces are.
I did not choose to partake, simply because in all cases so far their approaches to everthing were more that of sex workers rather than the variety of SBs I typically go for. They quote a high per-meet expectation, or start laying some ground rules about condoms etc., which I see as characteristic of professional sex workers. I don't want girls who approach sex as a job they have to do to earn a living. While I do fully believe former sex workers are certain capable of shedding that mentality, I prefer girls that don't need to exert effort to get past that sort of thinking.
Watching their previous video work is usually a turn-off to me. It's not that I'm worried she'll compare my dick to anyone, it's just that when I see them with some other dude's gunk on their face, it's just unappealing for some reason. I know that's purely a YMMV thing, but seeing a large cock in them doesn't bother me -- seeing them in lesbian action is a huge turn on. Seeing them get gangbanged, covered in jizz, spit on and similar is a huge turnoff.
[QUOTE=OliverNP;4736940]I have met a few porn stars over the years -- a few times met them when they were working at strip clubs, and more recently online on SA. I think sugaring and / or escorting is a natural career path for former porn workers, because of the longevity potential. Porn tends to be a very short-lived gig since new girls are typically a more valuable commodity in that industry than familiar faces are.
I did not choose to partake, simply because in all cases so far their approaches to everthing were more that of sex workers rather than the variety of SBs I typically go for. They quote a high per-meet expectation, or start laying some ground rules about condoms etc., which I see as characteristic of professional sex workers. I don't want girls who approach sex as a job they have to do to earn a living. While I do fully believe former sex workers are certain capable of shedding that mentality, I prefer girls that don't need to exert effort to get past that sort of thinking.
Watching their previous video work is usually a turn-off to me. It's not that I'm worried she'll compare my dick to anyone, it's just that when I see them with some other dude's gunk on their face, it's just unappealing for some reason. I know that's purely a YMMV thing, but seeing a large cock in them doesn't bother me -- seeing them in lesbian action is a huge turn on. Seeing them get gangbanged, covered in jizz, spit on and similar is a huge turnoff.[/QUOTE]Damn bro we cut from the same cloth. I love a freaky somewhat nasty girl. I just don't want to know about it. We all know they got bodies but it's a turnoff to actually know how many bodies and what was done. It's all part of the game we play. What I can speak on is desperation is starting to creep in on some of these independent girls and I'm all here for it.
[QUOTE=OliverNP;4736940]I have met a few porn stars over the years -- a few times met them when they were working at strip clubs, and more recently online on SA. I think sugaring and / or escorting is a natural career path for former porn workers, because of the longevity potential. Porn tends to be a very short-lived gig since new girls are typically a more valuable commodity in that industry than familiar faces are.
I did not choose to partake, simply because in all cases so far their approaches to everthing were more that of sex workers rather than the variety of SBs I typically go for. They quote a high per-meet expectation, or start laying some ground rules about condoms etc., which I see as characteristic of professional sex workers. I don't want girls who approach sex as a job they have to do to earn a living. While I do fully believe former sex workers are certain capable of shedding that mentality, I prefer girls that don't need to exert effort to get past that sort of thinking.
Watching their previous video work is usually a turn-off to me. It's not that I'm worried she'll compare my dick to anyone, it's just that when I see them with some other dude's gunk on their face, it's just unappealing for some reason. I know that's purely a YMMV thing, but seeing a large cock in them doesn't bother me -- seeing them in lesbian action is a huge turn on. Seeing them get gangbanged, covered in jizz, spit on and similar is a huge turnoff.[/QUOTE]I definitely hear what you're saying. I watched her do a bunch of nasty shit online before going back a second time not knowing mentally how I would respond but it didn't slow me down at all. Would be a totally different story if she was someone I was trying to have feelings for. The fact that I didn't meet her in a strip club, she's not quoting me high prices, she comes across like a regular SB in a small town and seems to be into the connection we're making. Of course the old adage that all SBs lie is in the back of my mind so waiting on the other shoe to drop!
[QUOTE=EBob1111;4736147]I may take some criticism, but please do not reply or pm me asking for her name or her SA profile. I'm sure her messages would get blown up and would some how screw things up for me.
I started messaging with her a couple months ago but she was working a regular 9-5 job and our schedules didn't work for meeting. So once everything started shutting down from COVID-19 I checked back with her a couple weeks ago to see if she was still working and she said she was. Two days later she texted me, guess what we all got sent home come on over LOL. Went to her place, hit it off pretty fast with good conversation and a couple of beers and then fucked a couple of times. In the process of chatting afterwards she let slip that she lived in LA a few years back and made a couple of videos. She's 24 or 25 now so she would have been 20-21 then. We agreed that we wanted to see each other again and I left.
Of course I had to look into these videos, and without too much trouble I was able to figure out who she was. She was definitely all-in on porn for about a year and a half, shot videos for several major studios and pretty much hit all the categories: daddy-daughter, girl-girl, gang bang, huge black dicks, anal creampies, etc. Definitely a new experience to be fucking new pussy one minute and the next day be jerking off to her getting fucked by James Deen. Saw her again yesterday and made no mention of it but the sex was even better and she wants to keep seeing me as long as schedules allow. The allowance she wants is extremely reasonable (amounts to about 200 per) and she's extremely cool to just hang with. The only thing that can fuck this up is me psyching myself out by watching her getting railed by huge porno dicks and trying to compare myself to that. Also trying to figure out if / how I should talk about it with her and how wild I should try to get her to be. Crazy to stumble on this in central VA![/QUOTE]Hmm sounds like a needle in haystack find. You also lucked out because most of these girls come with habit. That's a second needle in haystack found. My suggestion is if you have to ask how to get her out of 4th gear into 6th gear that might be a problem. You also got to remember that these girls was paid to perform certain acts in these movies so not everything you have seen on film she might not be into unless paid more. That's the trouble calling sex workers a sb. Talk to the girl and tell her what you want, they aren't shy and will tell you what their limits are. This isn't rocket science.
Which pre-paid Visa or MasterCard is recommended to use for purchasing a month of premium access to Seeking?
Have used credit card in past. No longer wish to use.
Prepaid card needs to be able to complete international transaction per Seeking. Needs to be available at Walmart or Grocery store for purchase.
Appreciate your insight / recommendation for buying a Seeking premium membership month without use of credit card. Thanks in advance.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;4738180]Which pre-paid Visa or MasterCard is recommended to use for purchasing a month of premium access to Seeking?
Have used credit card in past. No longer wish to use.
Prepaid card needs to be able to complete international transaction per Seeking. Needs to be available at Walmart or Grocery store for purchase.
Appreciate your insight / recommendation for buying a Seeking premium membership month without use of credit card. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]OneVanilla Visa or Mastercard work fine. Found at any CVS or Walmart.
I'm a senior member.
Been on the forum for years. Don't want to splurge on CC for seeking arrangements. Would any fellow senior members be willing to share info of ladies they have met? I have a few UTR'S to trade. I've contributed a lot on here. Just looking for fresh college students.
Especially if it is local or in a nearby town?
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;4740941]Especially if it is local or in a nearby town?[/QUOTE]The very few times I've been asked, I've replied by asking for a wake up call or asked what time breakfast starts. That either derails the chitchat attempt or delivers enough of a "mind your business" vibe to serve my purposes.
If you really want to answer the question, the toilet backed up and flooded the house.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;4740941]Especially if it is local or in a nearby town?[/QUOTE]