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A2 is correct does she spend time with you off the clock? Even if she does dude don't fuck up your real world. I learned a long time ago and I'll tell my sweet ladies that I see, "I'll always love ya but I just ain't gona' fall in love with ya'.

Too answer your question, yes I thought I fell in love with this one chick, time off the clock, bareback, text and email every single day BUT long story short for her it was all about the $$. By the grace of God I learned my lesson and didn't let it screw up my long marriage!

On the other side of the coin I can't tell you how many ladies that I know and or have known that have met "Mr. Perfect" and it didn't work out it just fucked up a good thing, for me, LOL.

ColaGuy I've been in the game a looooong time and yes I know it hurts and yes your heart is in turmoil but trust me when I say this, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN and don't look back. It ain't worth it!

Love them' don't fall in love with them'.

L2 p.

Can someone pm me about details for P.S. I'm looking to schedule an appointment with amber this week and wanted to know what I should bring.

Really good advice! Thank you. Nothing has progressed to the point of seeing her off the clock etc. I doubt it ever would. I've only seen her once but stopped by a few times to give her small gifts (excuse to walk in and ask for / see her). She seemed happy to see me but as you said, that is their job. Doing some self searching and reading things on the internet, you guys have summed it up. The ladies are people that have feelings and as one article supposedly written by a sex worker said – she became addicted to the money and the boost to her ego (being wanted by many men). Reflecting back on our session I am sure she has started to develop many of those same traits. I'm fooling myself and I know with time it will go away. I can't seem to ever catch her again which I guess is a good thing and I should just give up. Like you said, I don't want to wreck what I have and the best thing to do is just forget. Its just tough. Like I said its not like I lost my virginity or did something I haven't done with countless other women – hell I didn't even go for all she had to offer. But for some damn reason I got attached and I can't stop thinking about her. Its dumb. This morning I realized for 6 years I've been doing this hobby off and on. Looking for someone beautiful, my age or younger, english, good personality, etc etc and I just found her. And the ironic thing is it sucks! Because I thought things would be different, like all the other times. Buts its not. Its probably best I stop seeing her (or trying to see her), and funny thing is, I feel like my thirst is quenched – I'm not interested in seeing anyone else or trying any other place. Like I'm done if I can't see her – and I shouldn't as we have all agreed, damnit. Exceptttt Aubrey has kind of caught my eye. Haha JK! I can't. I might be done for real.

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[QUOTE=Clayborneguy;2959738]Can someone pm me about details for P.S. I'm looking to schedule an appointment with amber this week and wanted to know what I should bring.[/QUOTE]First post. Really.

When that gets removed from the equation by her then you might have a snowballs chance. Until then, you are being played. Remember that providers real lives are a drama filled mess 99% of the time.

[QUOTE=Lov2play;2959289]Without copying all of your post.
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A2 is correct does she spend time with you off the clock? Even if she does dude don't fuck up your real world. I learned a long time ago and I'll tell my sweet ladies that I see, "I'll always love ya but I just ain't gona' fall in love with ya'.

Too answer your question, yes I thought I fell in love with this one chick, time off the clock, bareback, text and email every single day BUT long story short for her it was all about the $$. By the grace of God I learned my lesson and didn't let it screw up my long marriage!

On the other side of the coin I can't tell you how many ladies that I know and or have known that have met "Mr. Perfect" and it didn't work out it just fucked up a good thing, for me, LOL.

ColaGuy I've been in the game a looooong time and yes I know it hurts and yes your heart is in turmoil but trust me when I say this, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN and don't look back. It ain't worth it!

Love them' don't fall in love with them'.

L2 p.[/QUOTE].

One word. WoW! I'm a regular at P.S. And have visited most of the girls there. I visited Francesca two weeks ago and she introduced me to Amber. She is a beautiful woman and her pics are accurate. My visit with Francesca was outstanding as always. You can't go wrong with any of the girls. Allie, Aubree, Francesca or Amber. I had my first visit with Amber last week and it was a treat. Great personality, smoking hot and a skill set to match. I will repeat with all of them in the future. My advice is to schedule an appointment with whomever you want to see instead of just dropping in. They all work different schedules each week. No way you will be disappointed!

Happy Hunting!

From my limited 31 years of experience on this earth I have come to realize there are two types of people when it comes to learning – those that learn from others and those that have to learn for themselves. Sadly, in most cases I appear to be the second type.

Thank you everyone for your many years of advice and answers (I am also colaguy with posts back in 2012 but forgot the password and email associated with it so stared colaguy1985). I should have listened when it was suggested to run the other way, just leave it alone, etc etc. Well, I couldn't. I knew – I felt. I had to see her again. To see what happens, to ask questions, to see what was there.

Details aside, I made an ass of myself. But to tell you the truth, I had rather have made an ass of myself then to have gone on questioning.

I'm done. Not because of anything she did. But because of who I am. She is damn near perfect. Her personality, her body language, her attitude, her understanding, it's all incredible. I hope that never changes! Columbia is lucky to have her.

Was I in the hobby for a good time, sure. But I think I may have also been deep down looking for someone or something. I stumbled onto it and as one member put it "my heart is in turmoil. " I'm left with wondering if she will ever realize what she meant to me and how she changed me. Thank you.

With that, I'm done. I found my treasure at the end of the rainbow, I found my unicorn, I caught the prized fish, blah blah and the best thing to do is to leave it there – beautiful.

Will I miss her, God yes. Will I think about her a lot, of course I will. But time should heal this. I apparently get attached too easily and its best I step aside and leave the hobby. As one guy put it that emailed me about a situation he was once in.,"its not healthy".

For 6 years, and many providers later. I found her. I can't decide if it was a good thing or a bad thing. If she happens to read these forums. Don't ever change your personality, your attitude, your understanding, you're intelligent, you're amazing- perfect in my eyes, and above all. Thank you.

There are people that come into others lives and change them. She has changed my life and I will never forget her, funny thing is I never really knew much about her.

I guess my point in all this is. Enjoy the hobby guys. Its not worth it getting attached. But its nothing she did, its not like she led me on. Its just for some stupid as hell reason I just got attached. I have a very beautiful wife and we have a good sex life. So why did I get attached? Why is she so different from all the others? Maybe because she is so damn gorgeous and sexy I didn't keep my feelings in check when I saw her? What could have been if I wasn't married. Am I kidding myself that I am anyone special? In the end, she saved me from myself but what if she hadn't? I don't really know. I don't have the answers. All I know is.

Don't be like me. Learn from the mistakes of others and it will save you time, turmoil, heartache, and trouble. I know I was just another person to her. But gosh damnit she was, is, and probably forever will be so much more to me than that.

Yes, these wonderful ladies have feelings, emotions, passions, dreams, just like all of us and especially the ones that chose the lifestyle and enjoy their work. Treat them with respect. So wonderfully put. Love them, but don't fall in love with them.

As for me, looks like I'll have to start going to the gym as much as my wife thinks I have been. Thank you for everything and have fun and be safe. I hope that by wearing my heart on my sleeve like this, I have helped others curious like me or people going through what I am.

[QUOTE=PharmaGuy2;2938731]Haven't heard or seen any ads lately for Victoria's spa. Are they still open or out of business.[/QUOTE]It's my understanding that they are out of business. Additionally I haven't seen a car in the lot in weeks.

Where in Columbia would be the best place to goto for a four hands massage with HE? Any intel would be appreciated.

AmxGuy.

I have never had a four hands massage. I have seen that Francesca lists it on backpage as an option. Might want to give her a call at Pure Serenity (not even sure who the second pair of hands would be. Hell, I don't even know if you would need another pair of hands. Haha jk). She is really nice and eay to talk to! But again, I can't tell you about four hands specifically. I can just say the two ladies I have spent time with there were phenomenal.

So after trying to detach myself from going to Pure so much, heck almost daily, I took some time off. Traveling for a bit of fun and business will do that.

Today I couldn't help myself but to go see the new girl "Jade". I have to say she fits in perfect with all the other girls at Pure. She's in her 20's, small but curvy and fit and sexy as hell. She had a bit of an Asian look, probably just her makeup. She was really good at teasing verbally and physically during the rub down also. I'm not one for spinner types but I must say "Jade" is another perfect addition to the "pure" girls. I recommend trying her out.

Get it while it's hot. Have you noticed there's a couple of new places that have popped up or about to. Be careful out be careful out there.

[QUOTE=Hornyone69;2963538]It's my understanding that they are out of business. Additionally I haven't seen a car in the lot in weeks.[/QUOTE]Yes they did did go out of business, too many places opening up and Mandy was calling Victoria's customers and putting up $30 specials. She was also telling Victoria's customers that we closed a long time ago. She's a dirty player. Be careful out there, the owners of Victoria's did a lot for her and she turned around and screwed them even gave her money for abortions and hired her even though she had been arrested 16 times for prostitution and assault.

[QUOTE=Fireman673;2969416]Yes they did did go out of business, too many places opening up and Mandy was calling Victoria's customers and putting up $30 specials. She was also telling Victoria's customers that we closed a long time ago. She's a dirty player. Be careful out there, the owners of Victoria's did a lot for her and she turned around and screwed them even gave her money for abortions and hired her even though she had been arrested 16 times for prostitution and assault.[/QUOTE]You must have taught her well, as her business seems to be dominating the talk on this site and she seems to be pleasing most or all of her clients!

[QUOTE=Fireman673;2969416]Yes they did did go out of business, too many places opening up and Mandy was calling Victoria's customers and putting up $30 specials. She was also telling Victoria's customers that we closed a long time ago. She's a dirty player. Be careful out there, the owners of Victoria's did a lot for her and she turned around and screwed them even gave her money for abortions and hired her even though she had been arrested 16 times for prostitution and assault.[/QUOTE]So Pure is the sole reason Victoria's went out of business. Well, I can believe it. I mean from experience and reviews on boards like this, Pure is the best spa in town. Also, anyone notice that throughout the post it was they and but all of the sudden it was "we closed a long time ago". Then the next post it goes back to "they". Just saying.

I'm the owner of Victorias and I want you guys to come here and spend money so I'll tell you whatever bullshit I need to in order to make that happen.

[QUOTE=Fireman673;2970735]Victoria's closed down a couple of weeks ago. Mandy has been telling people we closed a couple of months ago and she was also posting that Victoria was now working for her to get Victoria's customers. As for pure being the best spa in town, I don't believe that. Mandy has been posting fake reviews and is having her friends and her employees post for fake reviews.[/QUOTE]Not going to argue back and forth. You are the one who said it put you out of business, I was just sort of agreeing with your post. Sweetie, I am sure no one wants to see your apparent, jealous posts / rage. This is a review forum for the members and even sometimes providers to converse about experiences, whether good or bad. Not to sound mean or bad intentioned, but if someone was able to put you out of business, then they must have a superior product and should cause you to re-examine what you're offering, so you can come back stronger and gain back some of the "share".

Not basic "business 101", but I hope you get my point.

Well I was saying to myself just yesterday, self, it's about time for that ugly head Pure Serenity BS to come up again. It just wouldn't be the Cola Massage forum without it, hahaha.

Fireman we all know who you are, I mean hell we don't think with our little head ALL the time, just in certain brief moments.

As for price cuts, I have never got not even one and what's the difference, Wally World does it. Maybe Mandy needs to call it a blue light special. Then there's Ford and Chevy doing all they can to show up the other. Ex: do you want a truck with an aluminum bed or steel. Bottom line it's called free enterprise and yes it can get a little "dirty" as you call it. Sorry Victoria's closed even though I never visited and the reason being is I usually like more than just a rub and a tug and that's ALL that was said on here about Victoria's so I didn't visit. I did go to Paradise once.

Pure Serenity is a fabulous place to go, is it the best? For me it is but that's me. I know it's damn near standing room only at Pure some times so they must be doing something correct, just saying and for those that want to degrade Pure that's ok, don't go as I don't like long lines. (big Grin).

I just wish Mandy would show me those starz one day, lmao, I'm so bad LOL.

Be kind to one another and Be Safe.

Peace!!

L2 p.

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I hope they're not hating to the point where someone is willing to drop a dime. Think I chill from P.S. Until the cat fight blows over.

Yes the old Victoria's girls have stooped to a level of immaturity that I never even thought was possible. Hopefully they will find better things to do with their time soon.

[QUOTE=Bono26;2972197][URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/BodyRubs/pure-serenty/5769773[/URL]

I hope they're not hating to the point where someone is willing to drop a dime. Think I chill from P.S. Until the cat fight blows over.[/QUOTE]

I agree with Luv- don't see how anyone can hate on Mandy for starting her own business. The girls in there only get a percentage of what they bill out and its not as much as one would think- she probably got tired of doing the hard work (pun intended) and not getting all the money.

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Think I chill from P.S. Until the cat fight blows over.[/QUOTE]There's always going to be somebody saying something about someone brother. It's just a great place to get a really nice massage, that's the only reason I go, correct? LOL.

If I lived in Cola I'd be there so often you would think I was the maintenance guy that worked there, lmao.

L2 p.

I have it on good authority (well good to me), a friend of mine who frequents Paradise and has heard from providers there. He has his likes and finds them to be exactly what he wants / needs at a cost he is willing to pay. Sorry, back to the initial post. That the new "Lavish" spa, is Paradise just moving to a new location and sort of trying to re-invent themselves. Again, take that for what you will, as it's second hand information being passed.

Also, has anyone been to Oasis? Pictures look interesting, but as we all know, that is hit or miss, mainly miss. I actually called to see get directions. The lady who answered, said she was the one in the red dress, in the ad. Gave directions after she had to ask someone specifics. The red flag came when I heard 3 distinctly different male voices providing those directions. I get they could have been customers, MAYBE and that's a big maybe, contractors, but in my mind, a no kept repeating itself. Just wanted to see if anyone has experienced it yet.

As always Stay safe and have fun.

As far as Mandy leaving Victorias. Personally, I have never left a company or left a job because I was happy of how things were going. Sure there are people that just aren't satisfied no matter what you provide or do for them. I don't know Mandy – she seems like a nice lady. However, I do know (being a member of this forum for many years) that once she left things started to go down hill.

Competition, marketing, quality, service, etc etc. Without going into a business lecture, the list goes on and on as to what makes a business successful and what people look for.

Don't take this the wrong way. This is a business of both providing a service and a product. Mandy's business model excels at providing both a superior product and with incredible service. Of course these women are MORE than just a product but for the sake of business stand point.

Owning my own company and coming from a family of people who have been running their own businesses for decades, there comes risk, highs, lowes, mistakes, and above all knowledge and experience earned from all of the above.

Instead of posting ridiculous pictures of obese women, women in compromising positions, disgusting things on back page and labeling it "pure serenity" because you have some "beef" or actually. Jealousy. With them. Learn from what went wrong. What happened? What could you have done better? If I remember correctly, Victorias used to be the prime spot here in Columbia for a short while. What happened?

If you have the means, reopen. I think most if not all guys on here wouldn't mind some friendly competition. Diversity is a good thing.

Keep it classy. This is business. Until then, props to Pure Serenity – Mandy and the other ladies that also make it great.

I'm a long time hobbiest and have seen many establishments come and go in Columbia. Pure Serenity is the best Columbia has seen in a very long time. I've been a customer at Victoria's as well and Pure Serenity simply offers a better product. It kills me to see someone take shots at Mandy. I've been to P.S. Twice and both times left with a smile on my face. Aubree is the real deal. It sounds to me that someone previously affiliated with Victoria's is butt hurt. The solution is simple: Give us a better product than Mandy and you'll be competitive again. Otherwise quit whining!

And drama, catty behavior, rivalries, this stuff is common between American mp's. Don't tell me girls aren't competitive! It was common before the Internet and message boards have just made it easier and brought it out in the open for us customers to see. Just so you know. It ain't a good look ladies. The ones on here defending you are already your customers but this drama runs off a lot of potential new ones.

Trying to figure out where is this Kim chick located now visited Paradise a couple weeks ago a black girl who goes by the name of Kim answer the door. Tall slim kind of chick with red hair real petite body with full lips. I was kind of skeptical due to me not engaging with a black girl before she kind of looks mixed (Caribbean decent) never had one before but I tell you she's the best one tho's guys had in awhile beside the katie chick. Any clue where she could be called multiple times she's never there but seems to be always posted on ads?

Visited NE yesterday early evening.

Mamasan eyed my cautiously as I had gotten a haircut the day before and looked a little clean cut.

Think she thought I was LEO.

She asked if I knew anyone and only one I could think of was Thai (sounds like toy).

Luckily she (Thai) was there.

Nice service after that.

Overall nice visit and left happy.

Still think best actual massage is at the Chinese places but no happy LOL.

Pros and Cons.

Pros: good firm body rub. Clear communication, aim to please customer service. Cute outgoing personality.

Cons: tremendously overpriced. Rooms are small and table is small. Table is hard.

Likely will not repeat.

P.S. Does not fill in all gaps in my opinion as one poster suggest.

I love it at oasis spa the girls are real inviting they make you feel comfortable! I know the owner personally and have seen all the girls and they all made all of my fantasies come true! I'm Definately never leaving there truly a happy ending to my work days.

[QUOTE=Jarnog;2972434]I have it on good authority (well good to me), a friend of mine who frequents Paradise and has heard from providers there. He has his likes and finds them to be exactly what he wants / needs at a cost he is willing to pay. Sorry, back to the initial post. That the new "Lavish" spa, is Paradise just moving to a new location and sort of trying to re-invent themselves. Again, take that for what you will, as it's second hand information being passed.

Also, has anyone been to Oasis? Pictures look interesting, but as we all know, that is hit or miss, mainly miss. I actually called to see get directions. The lady who answered, said she was the one in the red dress, in the ad. Gave directions after she had to ask someone specifics. The red flag came when I heard 3 distinctly different male voices providing those directions. I get they could have been customers, MAYBE and that's a big maybe, contractors, but in my mind, a no kept repeating itself. Just wanted to see if anyone has experienced it yet.

As always Stay safe and have fun.[/QUOTE]Oh yeah The ladies are Fucking Hot.

[QUOTE=Russell27;2975140]I love it at oasis spa the girls are real inviting they make you feel comfortable! I know the owner personally and have seen all the girls and they all made all of my fantasies come true! I'm Definately never leaving there truly a happy ending to my work days.[/QUOTE]Not to sound mean or like I am hating on anyone or any business, but I won't believe it until a senior member provides some information. I am hesitant with your response because you are the only one that has responded and it looks as though you are a brand new account. It was just sketchy when I called and heard those voices, and if you have read these boards at all and watch the news, Uncle LEO loves to set up folks. So I ask again, have any senior members experienced Oasis?

As much as possible, I have tried to do some research and things just don't seem to add up. I am not saying that you are wrong or right or anything of that nature. But we all know that anyone can make a profile here to either promote or catch people. I hate to keep harping on this, but I'll look / wait for a senior member to review to ease my mind some before I take the plunge.

I am not hating or trying to cause any problems, I was looking for an honest review, as there seem to be some new places popping up, and competition breeds possible uptick in service quality, competitive pricing and maybe an overall upswing in variety. I stick to the senior review, just for a little more confidence and security for myself, before heading in to sample the product. I mean you did mention that you know the owner so even being new, you start off, a little more biased toward Oasis.

[QUOTE=Jarnog;2972434]I have it on good authority (well good to me), a friend of mine who frequents Paradise and has heard from providers there. He has his likes and finds them to be exactly what he wants / needs at a cost he is willing to pay. Sorry, back to the initial post. That the new "Lavish" spa, is Paradise just moving to a new location and sort of trying to re-invent themselves. Again, take that for what you will, as it's second hand information being passed.

Also, has anyone been to Oasis? Pictures look interesting, but as we all know, that is hit or miss, mainly miss. I actually called to see get directions. The lady who answered, said she was the one in the red dress, in the ad. Gave directions after she had to ask someone specifics. The red flag came when I heard 3 distinctly different male voices providing those directions. I get they could have been customers, MAYBE and that's a big maybe, contractors, but in my mind, a no kept repeating itself. Just wanted to see if anyone has experienced it yet.

As always Stay safe and have fun.[/QUOTE]I decided to pass by Oasis and check out the girls. I don't believe any of the girls in their ad were the girls that were working. There were three girls available and none were my type but they were very friendly. There was one, Ariel, that has potential but she's at least 6 months pregnant. I politely declined and left. I don't think I'll revisit until they have accurate pictures and I hear some good reviews.

[QUOTE=SeHobbyist42;2957814]I went last weekend and saw Esther. Everything remained covered and I did not leave happy but I did receive a pretty good massage. If anyone has had better results lately please let me know because their girls are the best looking of any AMPs I've been to in the area.[/QUOTE]After receiving some good feedback I gave Bamboo another try and I'm glad I did! This time I went with Lee and left very pleased! I will definitely repeat. Senior members can message me for details.

Went by today. Somebody beat me to Be be today. She had just finished an 1. 5 hr session. She came in and apologized. It was obvious she needed a break. Bebe talked to the girl that was coming in for me. Her name is Bonnie, she said she would be here July and August the back home on business. She is great! I'd see her again in a minute. Nice massage, hot towels and a smile out the door.

After a while away I went back to my atf francesca at pure. Super friendly and willing to please. Well not leave unsatisfied. The eyes get me everytime I know that's not what everyone pays attention to but love the eye contact when she can't exactly say much. If you get my drift.

Has anyone checked out the place flying the streetside "Massage" vertical banners on St. Andrews Road? This is between I-26 and Broad River Road on the South side of the road. I vaguely remember an interesting American massage studio being in that little strip years ago, but she either got busted or just moved on.

Oh, I see "Best Massage" on St. Andrews is open too. For some reason, I thought they were gone.

Spaceman Spiff.

Has anyone had the chance to see this one? Her pictures look pretty good, just have not seen any reviews yet.

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