GFE Begins and Ends at the door.
[QUOTE=Tawayem;6758332]Since the debate about prices has risen again, I think most people focusing only on the price are not looking at the full picture. There are some people for whom seeing an escort is just a matter of getting their rocks off. They either have no need or want of a connection. The proverbial GFE. They want to get their dick sucked, and then they want to get off and that's it. These are the people who will more often than not say that 'no pussy is worth X'. The X varies for everyone. For some, it's no more worth than 60 or 80, or 100, and they're willing to take the risk of druggies, shady motels, uncles etc. These are usually the ones who'll just opt for a QV. Get in, get off, get out.
For some others, they don't just want a hole to put their dick into. They want some sort of a connection. They want to talk to someone, they want to kiss someone, and in some cases, also reciprocate and perform oral on the providers. Regardless of your views on whether it's gross or not to perform oral on a provider, I hope you'll agree that all of this comes at a cost. GFE comes at a cost. LFK / DFK, BBBJ, DATY which are the starting features of GFE come at a cost. Being demon-free comes at a cost. Being in a safe location comes at a cost. You can't expect a Samara or a Fiona to provide in an extended stay on Capital or New Bern. That's just asking for trouble.
I invite you to browse different escort sites and see if you can find a GFE provider (a provider with an ad / website / P411 etc) under 300/ hr in Raleigh, today. We recently saw 2 UTRs being introduced and their starting prices are 250/ hr. What happens once they become popular? Raising prices doesn't only mean GPS. It could also mean that providers are simply being contacted by way too many people, and raising prices reduces the effort they have to put in, because now less people will be contacting them. My personal limit is 400, and I've seen Fiona Ender at 400. But I've been priced out now, and thankfully I've found another great GFE within my price range whom I enjoy seeing.
I am not denying that the popularity can get to their heads, and I'm not denying that Tryst and Eros are often avenues where providers upcharge. Easiest example is xxAJ. I saw her post on STG for BJs at 80, yet at Tryst she's advertising 120. You want to call that GPS, go right ahead, I ain't stopping you. But there are providers who only post on Tryst, and there are providers who only post on STG. And more often than not, they're completely different types.
By all means call out providers who do what AJ did and charge different prices based on where they post. But please recognize that no one's paying 600 for Alexxa Nicole. They're paying 600 (if they are) for a demon free, safe, sophisticated provider who can actually hold a conversation and provide a completely different experience.[/QUOTE]Sadly or maybe funny that most that feel they have a connection are just simping to a professional whose job it is to manipulate men. A lunch, extra 15 minutes, cute smile and a comment to make you feel good. Next thing you know you are buying gifts, paying bills, being on call if they need anything. Cigarettes, a ride or even money. The connection one might feel is not reciprocated. It's ok to have a fantasy relationship with a provider. Just don't get heart broken when she tires of you or can no longer get what she wants out of you. And no, it's not a connection, it's a job.
Each Person's Value is Different
It will always depend on what you want and how much you are willing to pay for it. It's the same as shopping different stores for better prices and sales, and what you end of paying is based on how much effort, time, distance, and cost of goods you are willing to accept. Those who are saying "don't pay to bring down the costs" forget that there is a very high probability that not everyone who sees these providers use this forum. So even if 20 people here stopped seeing X provider to try to bring down her rates, there is more than likely 20 more people who don't post that will. I have my standards and will stick with them in order to get what I want; if that means I have to change providers then I do so.
Thoughts on cash app refunds after doing the deed
This is not a rant, but I am posting here since it is not reviewing a specific escort. Not trying to be confrontational, legitimately want thoughts from the forum. I have copied and pasted an excerpt from the ad which is at the bottom, for reference.
My initial thoughts all point to "he should not have done that. " Whatever lies / drama / disrespect / demons were encountered, they were obvious before the deed was done. He even mentioned that he asked her to leave and that is what finally ended her hesitation.
Have her leave for real. Negotiate a lower rate before paying & fucking. Or, go through with the deal, write a bad review, and never see her again. Once he fucked her even if he felt the rate was too high for the service rendered, rescinding payment on the basis of fraud seems wrong to me. It's unfair to her. It potentially puts her in danger, if a pimp or dealer takes it out on her. It only encourages providers to scam us before they get scammed by us.
My post history is consistent, I am all about identifying and avoiding providers who are unsafe, scamming, or aren't worth it. I'm not seeing this method as the way to do it (especially when there were obvious indications that the encounter would not live up to expectations).
Am I missing something or over reacting? I want to know the thoughts of other mongers.
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The donation, I send it via Cashapp to her "Brother" she called a woman on the phone and got the cashapp name. The donation was $160.
After all the above. BB missionary that I don't even pop to, I just stroked until I was almost done and last few pumps filled her up. She cleans up in the bathroom then I walk her out. During the visit it was very clear she was heavy into her demons. The add is a flat out lie. No Drama, No Disrespect? Both where apparent.
So she's gone now and I go to cashapp and ask for a refund due to fraud and "I didn't have my phone in my possession at the time" The mid morning of this visit I get an email from cashapp "Your money has been refunded" So I got a victory for all of us. I got my money back. My sacrifice to save all of us fellow hobbyist.
Be careful with that line of thought
[QUOTE=ToySoldier;6765918]There's not a damn thing law enforcement can do to someone regarding prostitution based on what's on a provider's phone. They are not going to show up at your house to arrest you or to ask any questions.[/QUOTE]Several years ago LEO infiltrated a Seattle based site, tied the website owner to a brothel, arrested him and two underlings, and proceeded to out 50 or so more. They may not be able to bring charges but they most certainly can cause major embarrassment. Closer to home, military police will visit parking lots of massage parlors, jot down license plates and if any are military out the guys to their unit leadership.
Sometimes they like to make an example
[QUOTE=ToySoldier;6765918]There's not a damn thing law enforcement can do to someone regarding prostitution based on what's on a provider's phone. They are not going to show up at your house to arrest you or to ask any questions.[/QUOTE]The "system" can pretty much do what it wants. If they want you guilty, you are. Look at 91 indictments on the former President.
Do you really trust the "system?
Didn't mean to be political
[QUOTE=MmceStep;6767160]I prefer to keep politics out of my hobby, so not biting on that one.
However, wanted to add that 7 years ago, when I was still married I was stopped for a brake light out. The cop ran the woman with me in the car (sugar relationship situation and we were just out on the town), and guess what, she had a prior prostitution bust, which I did not know about. I told her the cop had no right to demand her I'd as a passenger, but she gave it over anyway, uggh. He could see from the registration that I was married, so the cop pulled me out of the car and asked a bunch of questions away from the girl. I played it very cool and they got nothing incriminating. Literally the next day I'm in my office at work and the receptionist buzzes in with "Detective so and so is on the line for you. " I pick up because I think something happened to someone in my family. He says, "hey, I saw you were stopped last night with someone in the car we know and I'd like you to come in to talk about it. I figured, based on the circumstances it would be best to call you in your office vs at home. " Whoa. What I should have done was call my lawyer. What I did instead, (because I was worried about fallout and I knew they had nothing anyway) was go down to Police HQ where I just gave the detective nothing. He was pissed, but could do nothing because obviously no one saw or admitted to a crime. I asked him how he found out where I worked and it turns out. LinkedIn. As we parted in the lobby he said "Hey, I wish you told me the truth, it might have been easier on you if you had. " I had no idea what to make of that veiled threat. I had about a 40 minute commute home and in that time he had called my wife to have an 'off the record talk with her about my prostitution activities. ' Had I gotten divorced immediately at this point, and not a few years down the line, I would have sued the department. But yes, there is much they can do! They are bastards, and I still think this guy had some personal involvement, just never figured out how.[/QUOTE]Maybe I used a bad example with the former president, since the charges, in the mind of som appear to be political and not based on law. Fortunately, we live in a country where we can speak, and have our own opinion. Apologies to anyone "offended".
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