Seeking Arrangement

[QUOTE=Avash88;4423003]I did send a pic sometimes before meeting a headshot not a full body, I usually sent a old one never uploaded to facebook or any other dating site. Don't ever give them your phone number that you use for business or personal. Facbook can look you up using phone number and instagram also.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TheBro;4422993]I've only done one public meeting before. The rest of my FWB meets were done in the hotel room. In the past when I was more active on SA, I mainly saw chicks who were verified through SA in some way (college student, Instagram, Facebook, etc). Whether someone was verified or not, it wasn't hard to find their social media profiles simply by using Facebook to search the phone number, or simply google image searching the pics in their SA profile. Never had an issue with meeting someone who was lying about anything major (drugs for instance). Biggest lie I remember was seeing a chick who claimed to be single, but had a boyfriend. I decided to stop seeing her, but changed my mind after I noticed that they had broken up via her social media.

If you're going to do the FWB meet at the hotel, think about it from her perspective. There are pros on SA but the majority of women on the site are not. They're just college chicks or single moms trying to make some extra money. A lot of them do NOT consider themselves escorts, prostitutes, sex workers, etc. Whether you agree with their opinion is irrelevant. The minute many of them feel like they're being treated like an escort, they ghost you. With that in mind, I always met them at nice hotels, and nice hotel rooms. I'm sure many chicks would be fine meeting at a random Days Inn in a small room, but that wasn't my style. I always wanted to provide an environment that allowed for max comfort. The more comfort you provide, the longer she will decide to stay. I've never really dealt with a SB who decided to leave immediately after sex. On the flip side I had multiple chicks who stayed for hours or overnight.

It's a pricier game to play, but it's worth it to me.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the great info!

I've been emailing her today and this is what she wants: " I am a member of secure online dating site, the essence of this secure online dating will detect who I am, and who am I with, so whatever happen to me the site will know, and if ever something bad happen to me the site can contact the authority quick, I have to ask you to be a member of this secure online dating I am on, this is not only for me but for your own safety too. If you are interested I can send the full procedure on how to be a member of the site".

I don't know about this. Sounds like a scam!

[QUOTE=AirTouchOne;4423252]Thanks for the great info!

I've been emailing her today and this is what she wants: " I am a member of secure online dating site, the essence of this secure online dating will detect who I am, and who am I with, so whatever happen to me the site will know, and if ever something bad happen to me the site can contact the authority quick, I have to ask you to be a member of this secure online dating I am on, this is not only for me but for your own safety too. If you are interested I can send the full procedure on how to be a member of the site".

I don't know about this. Sounds like a scam![/QUOTE]Dude total scam. The "secure online site" might track her phone through her gps but how the hell would it know who she's with or if anything happened? No way. Go to that site and I guarantee it'll need your card info for a "background check". Umm yeah, no.

[QUOTE=JayBird1111;4421473]Bootysofine.[/QUOTE]I've been talking with this one. Should I avoid?

[QUOTE=AirTouchOne;4423252]Thanks for the great info!

I've been emailing her today and this is what she wants: " I am a member of secure online dating site, the essence of this secure online dating will detect who I am, and who am I with, so whatever happen to me the site will know, and if ever something bad happen to me the site can contact the authority quick, I have to ask you to be a member of this secure online dating I am on, this is not only for me but for your own safety too. If you are interested I can send the full procedure on how to be a member of the site".

I don't know about this. Sounds like a scam![/QUOTE]Don't respond to her anymore, move on. That's a scam. Why would some regular ass chick have some "secure" dating app that tracks her like that. A normal chick would use friends for that. As in, "hey I'm going to meet someone at 3 PM. If I don't text you by 3:30 PM saying that I'm ok, something is wrong. ".

[QUOTE=DrStrange2;4423303]I've been talking with this one. Should I avoid?[/QUOTE]She would not send me a verification photo. I am very specific as to what I ask for and she could not provide. It is super easy too. When I have someone who is ready to see me and then cannot provide this it is a huge red flag. Proceed with caution. Let me know how it goes if you decide to proceed.

[QUOTE=JayBird1111;4424154]She would not send me a verification photo. I am very specific as to what I ask for and she could not provide. It is super easy too. When I have someone who is ready to see me and then cannot provide this it is a huge red flag. Proceed with caution. Let me know how it goes if you decide to proceed.[/QUOTE]You nailed it! We had set up a time to meet at her house. An hour before we meet she texts that I need to give her half of what she quoted. Big head was smarter than little head and I said no. Right after that she closed her account out.

[QUOTE=FCooper;4156334]And she's started yet another profile.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5d6a8b37-8be9-42dd-954c-29d8c2195128[/URL][/QUOTE]Well I'm already glad I joined just saw this post you guys saved me. Looks like the same person.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/52df1aba-9f90-4a71-b9b8-857e2e2c5155[/URL]

[QUOTE=DrStrange2;4424809]You nailed it! We had set up a time to meet at her house. An hour before we meet she texts that I need to give her half of what she quoted. Big head was smarter than little head and I said no. Right after that she closed her account out.[/QUOTE]That is what this site is for, to expose the good and bad out there.

I picked up a pretty good regular from there in my latest go round, but pickens were much slimmer than what I've dealt with before. I ran into two scammers, with realistic phone numbers and actual good / decent dialogue who would make a meet and then ask me to send them money for gas / hair / nails etc. The day of before we even met (and then their profiles would mysteriously disappear right around that time). Always just say "no" to any money in advance, period.

I'm thinking about maybe having one more before I cancel again; these people have contacted me. Any experience with them?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73f490e3-ac65-49a3-aae5-fc747d91a7b5[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6fb2133c-af90-41b4-92a0-4cf307e13ece[/URL]

Working on a couple in the Poho area. I'm usually around there on the weekends and it's convenient. Better prices also.

Here's one I hooked up with. Very willing to participate and great head. Unfortunately, she's a bit larger than I like 'them. Pretty face though, great head and she really does have her shit together.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1b92fef0-2421-4ea9-a6b4-f167aadcc9f8[/URL]

This next one is batshit crazy and can't make up her mind. One minute she's into it, the next minute she's not. But a total freak. She's into some weird shit, like humiliation, fisting and facepainting. Some of it's a little too much for me. Again, a little larger than I like 'them, but very pretty.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16991c6f-95cc-4196-a9bb-96e1226f5f8e[/URL]

Lots of options in Flint. Here are two that are ready and willing to go. I'm going to try out the first one next week, when I return from the holiday weekend -.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e84867f2-44cc-4777-b19a-ea0dfed6b2bc[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5fdbde1e-e8d5-48dc-9687-3f83aa632f59[/URL]

Is it just me or has the quality of sugar babies gone down.

I've been hearing the "gas money" excuse for awhile now.

It was interesting this one time when I was going back and forth with this one "woman" in GR. She never had money to drive to me like she said she wanted to. Not even on her alleged payday. She didn't have much of an answer when I asked how she was getting to work if she didn't have $10 for her gas tank. Shortly after this, business took me to GR (which is not my norm but it just happened to work out that way). We made plans to play at my hotel. She mysteriously got sick the night she was supposed to come to my room. Didn't hear from her until I was back home. Coincidence? I highly doubt it.

Anyway, don't send money in advance. If they are so disorganized they don't have $10 or $20 to do an outcall, well, maybe they have a problem you don't want to deal with.

[QUOTE=BrandoM;4428170]I picked up a pretty good regular from there in my latest go round, but pickens were much slimmer than what I've dealt with before. I ran into two scammers, with realistic phone numbers and actual good / decent dialogue who would make a meet and then ask me to send them money for gas / hair / nails etc. The day of before we even met (and then their profiles would mysteriously disappear right around that time). Always just say "no" to any money in advance, period.

I'm thinking about maybe having one more before I cancel again; these people have contacted me. Any experience with them?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73f490e3-ac65-49a3-aae5-fc747d91a7b5[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6fb2133c-af90-41b4-92a0-4cf307e13ece[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Stripclub2000;4431809]Is it just me or has the quality of sugar babies gone down.[/QUOTE]I think the quality has clearly gone down. Part of the reason is that apparently SA aims advertising at college girls telling them that they can make a ton of money on the website and don't have to do anything for it. That's why there has been such an uptick in the number of girls who specify "platonic. " I used to just ignore that label, figuring that a lot of girls just use it to maintain plausible deniability if their friends or family see the profile. But now, with the number of girls who really are looking for a platonic relationship skyrocketing, it's no longer worth it in my view to put in the work on the platonic girls to determine whether they are serious. Also, with the demise of Backpage, a lot of girls migrated to SA. So, if you're looking for non-pro girls who are actually open to sex, the proportion of viable candidates has decreased a lot. I've been on SA for about 5 years and have had some great experiences. That monthly fee is looking more and more like a bad investment.

[QUOTE=LoVecchio;4432277]I think the quality has clearly gone down. Part of the reason is that apparently SA aims advertising at college girls telling them that they can make a ton of money on the website and don't have to do anything for it. That's why there has been such an uptick in the number of girls who specify "platonic. " I used to just ignore that label, figuring that a lot of girls just use it to maintain plausible deniability if their friends or family see the profile. But now, with the number of girls who really are looking for a platonic relationship skyrocketing, it's no longer worth it in my view to put in the work on the platonic girls to determine whether they are serious. Also, with the demise of Backpage, a lot of girls migrated to SA. So, if you're looking for non-pro girls who are actually open to sex, the proportion of viable candidates has decreased a lot. I've been on SA for about 5 years and have had some great experiences. That monthly fee is looking more and more like a bad investment.[/QUOTE]At least hopefully we still have strip clubs and the Asian countries for sex.