Just a few updates on my experiences in case any align or differ
Yourhottestbaby-.
I know she has been on the site before under another name so not new but she told me she has not done this before? Profile sounded platonic so I asked if she was just open to online / texting and replied back "Yes, you have to earn to see me in person"! I got a kick out of that. Now that I have declined her she keeps coming back talking / probing?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0a1ae28e-76aa-4a33-b7ab-aee188c5913e[/URL]
Rogue-.
Seemed new, way on the other side of town for me but seemed real, wanted 400+ppm. Would not share pic which is always a red flag for me but other may have success.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0a0985d0-4318-43c0-b934-c3853527f109[/URL]
Goddess mbaby-.
She has been here a while and some other reviews on her but I had to try again in case any different. She had Finedom all over the older profile but is now gone. Sent her an offer for M&G and a PPM but she came back with her terms! 200 ppm for public meet and will discuss in person if want more. Some here indicated she just wants to get the $ for meeting in public and skips out which might be why she would not accept / discuss her ppm for private time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/734da107-b358-46e7-b9d0-36becc342e73[/URL]
Goodvibes21-.
She had a profile pic up but now took it down. Indicated she wanted just an online / texting friend.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8a419d4e-93a2-462a-96bf-ca94154f21cd[/URL]
Bella Mia-.
Was hitting me up hard for dates (DTF) but super far away so declined.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/4fbe060d-2795-4a45-9728-defc3a9f8203[/URL]
SweetLauren1-.
Super sweet and cute, indicated she had several long term previously which I could see and wants min 700 ppm- was GPS for me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0244569d-9425-47f9-897a-8b466ed4101e[/URL]
HiddenGem-.
Replied just interested in selling content if I want to spoil her!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c1b21945-def4-492a-a43e-1ddd2cb221a3[/URL]
Tallbeauty-.
Seems real and was down to meet but has kid and busy schedule so never got to far with scheduling.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/43e4059d-308e-47c2-a97a-48263e118dea[/URL]
Blondebaby13-.
Maybe real and seemed open to meet but shocking- car trouble (although said one of you is fixing it) plus works a lot so never moved to meeting.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18d961e1-0fbe-4522-bf6a-e8b09a6c10e3[/URL]
Corrected- Just a few updates on my experiences in case any align or differ
Yourhottestbaby-.
I know she has been on the site before under another name so not new but she told me she has not done this before? Profile sounded platonic so I asked if she was just open to online / texting and replied back "Yes, you have to earn to see me in person"! I got a kick out of that. Now that I have declined her she keeps coming back talking / probing?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0d05bcd-221f-4502-8878-e50fa4d1cc1f[/URL]
Rogue-.
Seemed new, way on the other side of town for me but seemed real, wanted 400+ppm. Would not share pic which is always a red flag for me but other may have success.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0a0985d0-4318-43c0-b934-c3853527f109[/URL]
Goddess mbaby-.
She has been here a while and some other reviews on her but I had to try again in case any different. She had Finedom all over the older profile but is now gone. Sent her an offer for M&G and a PPM but she came back with her terms! 200 ppm for public meet and will discuss in person if want more. Some here indicated she just wants to get the $ for meeting in public and skips out which might be why she would not accept / discuss her ppm for private time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/734da107-b358-46e7-b9d0-36becc342e73[/URL]
Goodvibes21-.
She had a profile pic up but now took it down. Indicated she wanted just an online / texting friend.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/12d970bc-7755-428a-b095-b0ab256cc909[/URL]
Bella Mia-.
Was hitting me up hard for dates (DTF) but super far away so declined.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9b41a2e7-a5fa-4c3b-bc49-5a8cdc783b0d[/URL]
SweetLauren1-.
Super sweet and cute, indicated she had several long term previously which I could see and wants min 700 ppm- was GPS for me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0244569d-9425-47f9-897a-8b466ed4101e[/URL]
HiddenGem-.
Replied just interested in selling content if I want to spoil her!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c1b21945-def4-492a-a43e-1ddd2cb221a3[/URL]
Tallbeauty-.
Seems real and was down to meet but has kid and busy schedule so never got to far with scheduling.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82317f83-8545-4b67-9fef-ca9a3dc32a6f[/URL]
Blondebaby13-.
Maybe real and seemed open to meet but shocking- car trouble (although said one of you is fixing it) plus works a lot so never moved to meeting.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18d961e1-0fbe-4522-bf6a-e8b09a6c10e3[/URL]
No need to post time wasters or scams
Follow these rules instead!
I used to post these too but I have since stopped since they outweigh the legit girls.
Step 1.
Get a phone number immediately and get on the phone (within 1 or 2 messages).
-if she tells you, she only has telegram or WhatsApp RUN those are scammers from other countries.
-if she wants to only do Snapchat I look at girls like that as not being serious especially with this day and age, you can easily download a free burner texting app.
-Girls that are serious about meeting. I have have no problem giving you their number.
Step 2.
In the first text message I always ask them what city they're in.
-I already know the answer on their profile but I want to see if their answer is correct a lot of times it's not because they post different cities and they forget who they gave their number to.
-if the number isn't out of city or even worse out of state area code, it could be a red flag but not always.
Step 3.
-ask them for pics on your text thread, because you get a lot of messages messages and you don't take anybody seriously until you actually meet them since there's a lot of scammers. Usually understand that and have no problem as long as you explain it to them like that.
Step 4.
-Get them to meet! I always go for same-day meets.
-Sometimes same-day meets are not always feasible, so I'll give them the benefit of the doubt if they have a good enough excuse.
-always meet within the first three times you ask them.
-If they always have an excuse, then it's not worth it just move on.
-if they agree to meet up right away and start telling you all the things that they want to do or start talking explicit, it's a red flag.
-If they agree to the same day, meet up, then go to step five.
Step 5.
-arrange the meetup.
-Don't do dinner dates invite them over to your place instead.
-If you do a dinner date chances are they just using you to get free dinner and then they will back out saying they don't feel a vibe but hey, they just got free dinner.
-never give them any parting money for these dinners if you decide to go that route.
-I personally will offer drinks (one drink) then let's feel if there a vibe, if there is then maybe a second drink, maybe an all night thing.
-I always ask them for their logistics before I agree to meet them. Meaning I asked them if they have any other plans tonight so that way I don't get double booked by them.
-Arrange the meet up place then ask them how long it will take them to get ready and be there.
-Wait for them to reply. They are on their way. (Good sign) OR.
-an excuse. I need gas money or my car broke down, babysitter needs paid etc. These are all scams trust me (I know real girls that I have met that. Tell me they pull this scam with no intention of ever meeting the guy. And their excuse as to why they do it is because it's easy and guys fall for it.) so don't FALL FOR IT.
-never ever give any money up front.
-If she legitimately doesn't have a way there, I will offer the Uber NOT GIVE THEM MONEY for the Uber.
-If they are OK with this then game on have fun!
-if they come up with an excuse that they don't want you to know where they live and don't want to be picked up then again that's a scam block and move on.
In closing if the comms are slow I always move on. I send the first text and then I might follow back through the next day if they haven't replied with another text and then if she seems cool, I'll go back to her profile and tell her that I text her sometimes they put the wrong number in there, but if they are not replying or if they are replying once a day or once every several hours and especially if the message is green (not an iMessage) then chances are pretty good that they are texting through the Internet on the website and they're having a hard time keeping up with all the messages that they're getting which usually those are scams too.
Hope this helps!
What has a SB asked for from you that was just stupid?
I have had two different ones, ask for a car and for a 7 K allowance so she didn't have to work and take care of her kids. Both local to the cleveland area.
On meet and greet she practically ordered the whole menu and had a decent to go bag, dinner cost me around 400. Just got a hug at the end. She thought it was great and kept asking when could we do it again.
What has a SB asked for from you that was just stupid?
[QUOTE=BDingas;6845769]I have had two different ones, ask for a car and for a 7 K allowance so she didn't have to work and take care of her kids. Both local to the cleveland area.
On meet and greet she practically ordered the whole menu and had a decent to go bag, dinner cost me around 400. Just got a hug at the end. She thought it was great and kept asking when could we do it again.[/QUOTE]I think I meet this same girl- local! I had a M&G that went 7 hours from restaurants and bar's all over downtown. She would not discuss financial support that afternoon / evening just kept the day / date going. Later she indicates she needs by text and told me what her last did and what she needed; apartment, school, kid's needs, car, monthly vacations (some with just her GF) and free money to fully spend time worry free time when I needed her (1 x week). Ask was min 7 K month to start. She also loved the date and wanted another scheduled platonic date just to make sure I was not a weirdo. Suppose but I did not schedule again, I haven't seen her profile recently as they always open new accounts when we block their old ones.