Early Experience From Seeking Arrangment
After spending about 4 days on Seeking Arrangement, things might actually start to payoff.
I have a definitely VERY attractive lady (if the pics are her) who has indicated she would host. Her rate iis somewhat more than the going backpage rates. I have not pulled the trigger yet.
I have also been chatted up by a local topless dancer. She is interested in meeting. I am treading carefully with this one.
I have come across an out of town gal who I think I saw at one of the Lima / Washington Center hotels a couple years ago. Incredible body. She is talking about making a trip to Fort Wayne again. If she desires, I may be able to let senior members know about her.
I have talked to several small town gals. I have found that things need to be phrased carefully with them so they don't feel like this is simply a transaction for sex. Honestly, I kind of like that. If I find the right lady who just wants to get together to fool around every once in a while that could work out for me.
Hopefully I will have another report soon detailing an actual visit. Or none of this may work out--who knows?
Seeking Arrangement and WhatsYourPrice
[QUOTE=MiltonBanana;3718680]After spending about 4 days on Seeking Arrangement, things might actually start to payoff.
I have a definitely VERY attractive lady (if the pics are her) who has indicated she would host. Her rate iis somewhat more than the going backpage rates. I have not pulled the trigger yet.
I have also been chatted up by a local topless dancer. She is interested in meeting. I am treading carefully with this one.
I have come across an out of town gal who I think I saw at one of the Lima / Washington Center hotels a couple years ago. Incredible body. She is talking about making a trip to Fort Wayne again. If she desires, I may be able to let senior members know about her.
I have talked to several small town gals. I have found that things need to be phrased carefully with them so they don't feel like this is simply a transaction for sex. Honestly, I kind of like that. If I find the right lady who just wants to get together to fool around every once in a while that could work out for me.
Hopefully I will have another report soon detailing an actual visit. Or none of this may work out--who knows?[/QUOTE]I have used both of these and had some luck. I have met some girls that will get into an arrangement where you essentially give her a gift every time you meet. The "gift" usually ranges between $$ and $$ but the night involves dinner, drinks, and some actually fun before heading back somewhere a little more intimate.
Doesn't always happen on the first date, but the first date on SA, I never pay for, it's more of a get to know each other. On WYP, I will pay up to $100 for the first date, I consider it an investment. It definately takes more effort, but I have had a lot of luck finding VERY attractive, personable friends on these sites that turn into someone recurring.
A sample from the SA diary of DaftMax
I wanted to post this transcript of part of a recent conversation I had on Seeking Arrangements. After only two weeks, I am pretty sure I have plucked all of the legitimate fruit that I consider do-able, and the example below is representative of every single damn conversation I have anymore. I literally have a similar dance 5+ times per day now, and frankly it is starting to bore the piss out of me. I have successfully identified or met quite a few legitimate women in the last two weeks. But the scene is fraught with danger, and traps. I actually chatted with this seemingly smoking hot young AA girl for a couple days before it came to this point. Judge for yourself, LEO, or smoking hot young babe:
FlowersXoxo about 22 hours ago.
I can say the same! Just wondering, before we move any further so we don't waste each other's time. What kind of arrangement are you looking for?
DaftMax1980 about 22 hours ago.
The exact same kind as you. But I won't put anything in writing.
DaftMax1980 about 22 hours ago.
I do end up wasting a LOT of time on here, because a lot of girls lose interest when I won't come right out and offer them money for sex.
FlowersXoxo about 22 hours ago.
I'm happy to know you've actually read my bio and what I'm looking for. Most men don't!
FlowersXoxo about 22 hours ago.
What monthly allowance are you comfortable with? Or are you a pay as you go type of guy?
DaftMax1980 about 22 hours ago.
But, I seem to find ways to meet friendly folks that enjoy spending time with me.
FlowersXoxo about 22 hours ago.
Sure!
DaftMax1980 about 22 hours ago.
I'm more of a work as I go kind of guy right now. I like spreading the sugar around until I find the right girl. I just jumped on here a couple weeks ago because my previous assistant moved to California for a job. If your pic in the little black dress is accurate, I'd say you seem to have great qualifications.
FlowersXoxo about 22 hours ago.
Name your price and we go from there.
DaftMax1980 about 22 hours ago.
I'd love to, but I can't. I have no idea who you are. If you'd like to take a selfie, right now, while holding up your fingers in an "OK" gesture, that would help. You can text it to me at ###-###-####.
DaftMax1980 about 22 hours ago.
FYI, I am not affiliated with law enforcement in any way, shape, or form. I think they are smelly, and tell dumb jokes. Are you in any way affiliated with law enforcement?
DaftMax1980 about 21 hours ago.
Uh oh. I'm starting to feel a dumb joke headed my way.
FlowersXoxo about 11 hours ago.
So sorry I fell asleep early again! I'll get that picture to you though!
DaftMax1980 about 6 hours ago.
Awesome. I was hoping you wouldn't flake out on me.
FlowersXoxo about 1 hour ago.
But just wondering how does knowing who I am effect how much you're willing to pay? I'm a bit confused.
That's where I stopped. I found it interesting that she took a new approach this afternoon, out of the blue. Now, I'm not an attorney, but I watch a shit load of Netflix. Do you see how it keeps coming back to "how much you're willing to pay"? Am I being paranoid? Usually when I use this tactic I never hear from them again. Am I blowing it because I'm not just playing their game? This happens with the most obviously gorgeous girls every single time, but also some less gorgeous. I may look like Gary Busey after a few too many pops, but for some reason the most gorgeous young girls on SA are always willing to chat me up, while other less hot women won’t. Frankly it doesn't matter, because my stable is full at this point. The lesson to learn is that you can pretty much get through the entire population within 50 miles within a week. There's clearly no need for any more than a one month membership. AND, watch what you say. I am curious if a written offer is a crime in and of itself, or if you actually do have to show up with a pocket full of sugar before you can be busted. The more irritated I get, the more I tend to toe the line.