I have developed a couple of "online" friends over my last 12-15 yrs doing this. We privately help each other out if we stumble upon a girl we suspect the other might like.
I have occasionally posted about an unusually good or bad discovery on the board. While I am not offended if someone asks, I agree with the do your homework mantra.
You have to search another site for reviews. You have to google their phone number. You have to search out a picture of two.
When I was younger I was more willing to toftt. As I have gotten older I am pickier on my ladies. The good news is I am less interested in the 18 yr old blonde with big jugs and find a lovely MILF who enjoys the encounter a much more fulfilling interlude.
I do remember how lost one can feel when you are starting out. On the otherhand, you haven't been jaded yet by really terrible appointments. You need to develop your own sense of how to read between the lines of ads. What poses or types of pictures are dead givaways that you are not going to be happy after parting with the bucks. You have to be burned once by those phoney jack shacks. You have to have a girl promise GFE on the phone only to discover that after the business is transacted that she views touching your boner with anything other than ice tongs a disgusting experience. In short you have to learn from the bad mistakes we all have suffered in order to appreciate the beautiful sexy women that you will encounter and learn to experience in a most pleasant way.
Good luck to the newbies and don't be afraid to learn from your mistakes. We've all been there and its the only schooling in this hobby that pays off.
Randolph.
[QUOTE=Past Tense; 1872774]Gentlemen,
It appears that there are lots of newcomers asking for reviews. Here are some observations gleaned from 15 years of hobbying.
1. The demand for quality providers far outweighs the supply. The discrepancy is filled by crap providers. For every woman that delivers good service for their fee there are 10 who are in it only for a fast buck. The fast buck girls screw you over by. Having too many rules, Assuming that you are willing to pay just to see a litle flesh, don't enjoy their work one bit and let it show, keep asking for more than the advertised or agreed upon price, and in general ruin your hobbying fantasy. The one in 10 are pure gold and you wil find that their rates will gradually increase to balance the supply demand curve.
2. Don't expect anyone to give up their Gem or ATF provider just for the asking.
3. Establish an online persona, post useful info before asking (this has been said ad nausium).
4. Reviews are your friend. Join a decent review site, and check things out. Not all reviews are accurate, but on average you get a pretty good idea from the general concensus. Don't be afraid to critisize a provider who doesn't measure up, either on a review board or here. If she was bad take her to task, after all you won't be seeing her again. This is the only wy for bad providers to learn that they are not cutting it.
5. Try to make friends. A few friends on the board can be valuable, beware of becoming a pest or pathetic.
If you do your homework you will probably figure out that I have not posted review material here in quite some time, so feel free to say screw that guy what does he know.
In any case just remember you have to give some to get some.[/QUOTE]
