On Foot, Unsure what to do?
DarkSoulo. I would try to be more informative than critical. Let's be realistic with your plight. You are on foot, you see a girl you would like to approach. You are not sure how to handle the situation to accomplish your goals.
The stroll is no place for a novice to be alone for any reason. Anything can and will happen. Especially to someone that has no idea how to handle a simple encounter let alone a hostile one. Rest assured my friend, people you don't even see out there are sizing you up for some type encounter. Just to set you up. One may ask for a cigarette, a light, change, directions or any of a dozen other things to put themselves in your space. What seems innocent to most can be a well thought out plan to separate an unsuspecting transients from their cash or any valuable they may possess. Walking in a high crime area with no other motive than to get a BJ is not a well thought out plan at all. This goes for the seasoned monger as well as the novice. Do you think before you attempted this venture you should have figured out your game plan? Maybe what to say or how to handle rejection if you have made an error in judgement, as we all have. Always keep in the front of your mind this one thought. If you don't have or lose control of any situation, then you are in danger. If you don't remember anything else I tell you, remember that. It is up to you to take care of you out there. Going to LEO for any bad encounter out there is not an option. The locals know that and use it to their advantage. First thing LEO will ask is what you are doing there. Which you don't legally have to answer. They will still ask. Again please don't take this as criticism. Not meant to be that. More informative than critical.
Now lets get past the many dangers one may face when on. Foot. If you are still intent on being on foot then you need a plan that will work.
You can always approach a girl with the same methods the locals use to approach you and share your space. That is ask for a light, offer a smoke which most will accept with great pleasure etc. Can always ask if she would like to get a soda and a burger as most girls are also hungry. Ask if she would like to hang out. Just a simple hello can also put you within their space. Everything I mention here is perfectly legal and acceptable public behavior. Once you have their attention they will get into your space. They will want to see what else you have to say. Watch body language. See if they smile. Do they move toward or away from you. Are they social or anti social. The main thing is never ever approach them as if they are a working girl. If you are wrong it could get you in a lot of trouble. Never offer money for anything but to buy them food or drink. If they are working they will come right out and tell you most of the time. They will more than likely say they are trying to make money. Build your own confidence. A confident monger is a secure monger. With out confidence you will never get what you are after out there. You can PM me anytime and I will respond within a short period. There are a bunch of members here with a boatload of knowledge. Most will share if you contribute to the board also. Take your time. Get to know a few of the members. Many are great guys once you get to know them. Last and easiest is this. If you have a phone with video capabilities. Figure out your approach to a girl you may never have met. Record yourself using that approach. Then review the video and see if you find yourself believable or laughable. If not tweak it as necessary. Once you approve your own approach then you will be more confident and secure. I hope this helps you somewhat sir. Keep asking questions. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.
Pick Up Around the Corner, Not on the street
[QUOTE=Cowboy5343;3085279]T One of my cardinal rules is I will never stop and pick a girl up right on K Avenue. Most girls get it. What about you guys? Do you scoop a girl right off Kensington? It doesn't feel safe to me. Like to know your opinions.[/QUOTE]I think you have it right! Rule #7.
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