I think it is about setting expectations
I think the key is giving information that is line with is actually most likely going to mirror the experience. In the case with Melissa, this is almost never going to be for someone new to walk in the door for the first time and expect to have a happy ending. Maybe after several sessions and several hundred dollars. Maybe. . and that's if the "personalities click", as you say.
I think most would agree they'd rather know that going in, than get the impression something more is definitely on the table.
As far as treating providers with respect, that's an absolute. To do anything less is pointless and counter productive.
[QUOTE=Starliner63;2128849]One nice thing about this forum is that we are all entitled to our own opinions. I have been an enthusiast for quite a while but have backed away from full service. I enjoy a nice rub / massage with a happy ending. Melissa has been good to me and gives great service. Our personalities click and I like her. Out of the many providers I have seen, she has been one of the most stable I have seen. She has never backed out of an appointment and has met me with very short notice, more than once. As far as drama goes, she has not brought any to our sessions.
Like it is said with many of the providers I have seen and read about, treat them with respect and you are usually rewarded.
I do like variety and am always looking for new experiences and I may venture to the full service arena again. If so, I appreciate the information gained here.[/QUOTE]