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[QUOTE=TheFonz;2798937]Curious if anyone's heard anything new since October?[/QUOTE]Happen to ride by there today and space looks vacant.

Saw this on Facebook of all places.

[URL]https://www.facebook.com/makethisviralnow/videos/221026328239449/[/URL]

A be see the E F G H I J K L M and O P Q are S T you V W X why Z.

Hi brother mongers: First post to say hello. New to posting on the board but have been following for years.

Just retired from the military and returned home to louisville. Although I have sampled to local cuisine over.

The years when home on leave, I planned to be move active on the board. As an aside, I have enjoyed.

Following your posts while overseas. Anyway, I am starting my quest -- to sample a girl representing each.

Letter of the alphabet (her posted name of course). To measure my progress, I will post the Alphabet, A to Z.

With each post as capital letters. After seeing a provider, the letter will shift to lower case indicating they.

Have fallen. The provider can be either a BR or ESC, since I am limited in letters and only one per letter.

I of course will enter a review on each and cannot repeat a letter once fallen. So, this is my quest!

Johnny Out.

Ladies and Gents, I've done this hobby since I was 18. My first time was with a provider, I've taken breaks from the hobby for various reasons, marriages, LTR's, 12 Step Programs etc. I've never dated a provider and never will, I think it's a recipe for failure.

But I have decided to put all this, this hobby behind me, why? I've decided to try to become a better person. No I haven't found religion, No I haven't contracted anything permanent or life-threatening I just got checked out and all my tests came back clean. There's nothing prompting me to do this other than my desire to stop. I've done it all I think, (well not all, all that I desire to do / try) and the bucket list is empty.

I can look at a beautiful woman now and not think of what It might be like to have her. Because I've had many beautiful women, and have had lots of great experiences with women. I've had my fun, more fun than I can remember, more fun than most men will ever experience. Now what? To keep on doing it is akin to playing Russian Roulette. I don't have a death wish, I'm not trying to kill myself, but I have put myself in risky situations for kicks, for thrills. For what?

I also have to look at things external to me, these experiences were selfish pursuits, I don't have any relationships with these girls other than I like how they treated me, and that's why I saw so many repeatedly. To all the girls I've been with that treated me so well, thank you, for providing a very personal and intimate experience and making an old man happy, even if just for a little while. Thank you for not judging me, and for entertaining my requests no matter how strange they may have been.

I also have to come to terms that many of you girls have habits and circumstances that prompted you to sell yourselves, I do apologize to all of you for taking advantage and for enabling you to continue your self destructive behavior. I always respected you as people, I never wanted to hurt you or make you do things against your will, but maybe feel that I have. Sure there are some providers that do enjoy what they do, but I was told once by one I'm pretty close to, that a girl doesn't do this because they want to, it's because they have to, there's no other alternative, so I feel I've taken advantage of some really good people when they have hit rock bottom.

And for that I apologize, the Ursula saga did affect me. She's a nice girl deep down. And she got the "Pretty Woman" fairy tale ending, she had a client, a good man, well to do, mature, self-made, a guy willing to forgive her past, who fell in love with her, and wanted to marry her and have a family with her, and she blew it. I didn't help her, Instead I used her. For that I feel ashamed.

To those on the board that mock me, for seeing so many, or for seeing so many at one time then giving you all the dirty deets (bragging really), maybe I deserve to be mocked. Just know that I'm not a better person for having done that. I'm not proud of my actions or what I have become. I have an addiction too, I am a sex addict and it is thrill seeking, self-destructive behaviour. I not only facilitate the girls hurting themselves, but those around me and those close to me. To those that admire me, you shouldn't. I'm not doing you any favors by helping you follow in my footsteps and that's why I haven't returned some PM's and my absence from the board the last few weeks.

This board and all of you will still exist and continue after I am gone. Just be safe, and try to get help, and be kind to the girls if you see them, but don't get too close, that's only going to hurt you in the end. Everyone needs to come to terms with why they do what they do. The guys and the girls. Ladies, If you're playing with fire, doing dangerous drugs, please try to stop, seek help. Guys you cannot help them by providing income they use to feed their addictions. In the end you'll just probably feel as I do now. Empty, Sad, Ashamed and Broke, I've spent a small fortune on these selfish pursuits with nothing to show but memories. Memories that don't make me feel better anymore.

So this still being a pretty new year still. I've decided to stop and seek help for myself, I hope all of you mongers and all the girls do the same. After I post this I'll leave my account up for a bit, then eventually delete it. L to the see out.

Hello.

I'll be coming to visit, near the Expo on or about the 27th. I'd love some info on a reliable provider. I like them short, spinner type.

I hate the "hunt" and would appreciate some help.

Thanks.

Wishing you the best LC, everyone that reads your post will only be the better for it. And I am sure many of us here are on a similar path, with a similar ending.

You have always been kind to me when I requested advice, info, etc. , and you did not need to be. For that I thank you. Although we do not know each other, I certainly wish you the best going forward. You cannot control the past, only the present. Take that attitude and you will be fine.

All the best to you.

[QUOTE=ZeroPointZero;2801240]Wishing you the best LC, everyone that reads your post will only be the better for it. And I am sure many of us here are on a similar path, with a similar ending.

You have always been kind to me when I requested advice, info, etc. , and you did not need to be. For that I thank you. Although we do not know each other, I certainly wish you the best going forward. You cannot control the past, only the present. Take that attitude and you will be fine.

All the best to you.[/QUOTE]Thanks LC for being a solid member. I understand your position and have struggled with similar issues. I wish you great success.

Was checking out the Louisville scene from Cincinnati and noticed this is what happens when you choose to play in the hobby and you still haven't woken up to the facts of life. We use the ladies. The ladies use us. We're here for our own fucking reasons and that's that. You worship your god? Cool. I worship none. And batman worships the joker. You suck on your own dick? Oh wait, you sucked on someone else's dick? Oh wait, she peed in your mouth? Oh wait, she fucks her dog? We all have our fucking issues and reasons. Trauma? Substances? Abuse? Addiction? Like that shit doesn't happen outside of the hobby? But the hobby is to blame? What? Now you're guilty of sex trafficking because you paid a former junkie whose now putting herself through college while raising her ex-con baby daddy's love child? Wake up! You're not a fucking sex addict. You're normal. You were almost honest with yourself. We're here on this planet to seek strange and spread our fucking seed. Plain and simple. And guess what? The ladies are here for the same reason. They're settling down with guys like you used to be like and fucking the shit out of the warriors from the next town without condoms because their natural urge is to seek out the DNA from the local dominant males while the wimps like you used to be like raise what she will deceivingly lead you to believe are your own offspring. Thanks to paternity tests and Maury Povitch, guess again. The only difference? The females know how to control us with the power of the pussy. Who's exploiting who? It has nothing to do with cash. You feed her: she fucks you. You give her nice jewelry: she fucks you. You tell funnier jokes than the next guy: she fucks you. You give her great orgasms: she fucks you again (assuming there's a box of KFC on the dining room table by sundown). All you need to feel ashamed about is how you're still drinking the coolaid the fucking pilgrim fucking Puritans brought along with them to fucking Plymouth rock leaving us all embarrassed we're fucking before marriage, fucking outside of marriage, drinking on Sundays, gambling on the riverboat, watching porn in our hotel rooms, and especially paying cash instead of buying her dinner / movie / roses / champagne, blah fucking blah. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and I say, "man-up!" You were right all along by showing up here in the first place. How about saying farewell to your old tired ethics, go CIM in a local MILF, and PLEASE brag about it here on this amazing USASG board? Prices have never been better!

Cam.

[QUOTE=LotharioCancer;2800714]Ladies and Gents, I've done this hobby since I was 18. My first time was with a provider, I've taken breaks from the hobby for various reasons, marriages, LTR's, 12 Step Programs etc. I've never dated a provider and never will, I think it's a recipe for failure.

But I have decided to put all this, this hobby behind me, why? I've decided to try to become a better person. No I haven't found religion, No I haven't contracted anything permanent or life-threatening I just got checked out and all my tests came back clean. There's nothing prompting me to do this other than my desire to stop. I've done it all I think, (well not all, all that I desire to do / try) and the bucket list is empty.

I can look at a beautiful woman now and not think of what It might be like to have her. Because I've had many beautiful women, and have had lots of great experiences with women. I've had my fun, more fun than I can remember, more fun than most men will ever experience. Now what? To keep on doing it is akin to playing Russian Roulette. I don't have a death wish, I'm not trying to kill myself, but I have put myself in risky situations for kicks, for thrills. For what?

I also have to look at things external to me, these experiences were selfish pursuits, I don't have any relationships with these girls other than I like how they treated me, and that's why I saw so many repeatedly. To all the girls I've been with that treated me so well, thank you, for providing a very personal and intimate experience and making an old man happy, even if just for a little while. Thank you for not judging me, and for entertaining my requests no matter how strange they may have been.

I also have to come to terms that many of you girls have habits and circumstances that prompted you to sell yourselves, I do apologize to all of you for taking advantage and for enabling you to continue your self destructive behavior. I always respected you as people, I never wanted to hurt you or make you do things against your will, but maybe feel that I have. Sure there are some providers that do enjoy what they do, but I was told once by one I'm pretty close to, that a girl doesn't do this because they want to, it's because they have to, there's no other alternative, so I feel I've taken advantage of some really good people when they have hit rock bottom.

And for that I apologize, the Ursula saga did affect me. She's a nice girl deep down. And she got the "Pretty Woman" fairy tale ending, she had a client, a good man, well to do, mature, self-made, a guy willing to forgive her past, who fell in love with her, and wanted to marry her and have a family with her, and she blew it. I didn't help her, Instead I used her. For that I feel ashamed.

To those on the board that mock me, for seeing so many, or for seeing so many at one time then giving you all the dirty deets (bragging really), maybe I deserve to be mocked. Just know that I'm not a better person for having done that. I'm not proud of my actions or what I have become. I have an addiction too, I am a sex addict and it is thrill seeking, self-destructive behaviour. I not only facilitate the girls hurting themselves, but those around me and those close to me. To those that admire me, you shouldn't. I'm not doing you any favors by helping you follow in my footsteps and that's why I haven't returned some PM's and my absence from the board the last few weeks.

This board and all of you will still exist and continue after I am gone. Just be safe, and try to get help, and be kind to the girls if you see them, but don't get too close, that's only going to hurt you in the end. Everyone needs to come to terms with why they do what they do. The guys and the girls. Ladies, If you're playing with fire, doing dangerous drugs, please try to stop, seek help. Guys you cannot help them by providing income they use to feed their addictions. In the end you'll just probably feel as I do now. Empty, Sad, Ashamed and Broke, I've spent a small fortune on these selfish pursuits with nothing to show but memories. Memories that don't make me feel better anymore.

So this still being a pretty new year still. I've decided to stop and seek help for myself, I hope all of you mongers and all the girls do the same. After I post this I'll leave my account up for a bit, then eventually delete it. L to the see out.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CameronB;2801344]Was checking out the Louisville scene from Cincinnati and noticed this is what happens when you choose to play in the hobby and you still haven't woken up to the facts of life.Cam.[/QUOTE]To the BBQ and fight thread.

[QUOTE=LotharioCancer;2800714]Ladies and Gents, I've done this hobby since I was 18. My first time was with a provider, I've taken breaks from the hobby for various reasons, marriages, LTR's, 12 Step Programs etc. I've never dated a provider and never will, I think it's a recipe for failure. But I have decided to put all this, this hobby behind me, why? I've decided to try to become a better person.

And for that I apologize, the Ursula saga did affect me. She's a nice girl deep down. And she got the "Pretty Woman" fairy tale ending, she had a client, a good man, well to do, mature, self-made, a guy willing to forgive her past, who fell in love with her, and wanted to marry her and have a family with her, and she blew it. I didn't help her, Instead I used her. For that I feel ashamed.

So this still being a pretty new year still. I've decided to stop and seek help for myself, I hope all of you mongers and all the girls do the same.[/QUOTE]I recently have determined that the hobby is just like any other hobby, say football. Many entrepreneurs have tried to introduce other professional football leagues only to fail because of popularity and financial issues. These other football leagues were developed to give consumers some variety, but the audience was smaller than the budget. The hobby is similar, it provides for sexual variety in this puritanical country for the few who partake. The audience is not large enough, or should I say still mostly in the closet, to make it mainstream. Other parts of the world don't have the same moral restrictions on sex and their societies have evolved to allow sexual variety. I have come to learn that being sexual and wanting variety is a normal human emotion. How we deal with these emotions and the effect it has on our conscience is what makes us human. I have chosen to focus my sexual desires in what I feel is a more principled manner. I have no problem with anyone who still enjoys a wide variety of hobby experiences, as long as respect is a part of the experience. Respect has become such a broad term that it has disturbed me to the point of altering the direction of my hobby life. The Ursula saga affected many but what is sad is it hasn't affected Ursula in the way some of us had hoped. Maybe someday she will choose to make a change.

LC, I never really knew you and I wish you well as you deal with your conscience in a way that only you know how. Good luck to you and the choices you make in the future, whatever they may be.

HOWEVER that does not mean I can not wish you well in your new ventures and hope everything goes good for you. Best wishes in whatever you do BMack.

LC, I wish you the best in what ever you want to do.

I think our whole Country is turning to the shit of heroin, not just in the hobby, but that is not the only reason these Ladies do what they do.

I don't know you but we have a lot of connections, I thank you for the advice and information that you shared, and hope you find the peace your looking for.

BG,

P.S. Play safe, have fun, give and get respect, find some crazy and TPHFB.

[QUOTE=LotharioCancer;2800714]Ladies and Gents, I've done this hobby since I was 18. My first time was with a provider, I've taken breaks from the hobby for various reasons, marriages, LTR's, 12 Step Programs etc. I've never dated a provider and never will, I think it's a recipe for failure.

But I have decided to put all this, this hobby behind me, why? I've decided to try to become a better person. No I haven't found religion, No I haven't contracted anything permanent or life-threatening I just got checked out and all my tests came back clean. There's nothing prompting me to do this other than my desire to stop. I've done it all I think, (well not all, all that I desire to do / try) and the bucket list is empty.

I can look at a beautiful woman now and not think of what It might be like to have her. Because I've had many beautiful women, and have had lots of great experiences with women. I've had my fun, more fun than I can remember, more fun than most men will ever experience. Now what? To keep on doing it is akin to playing Russian Roulette. I don't have a death wish, I'm not trying to kill myself, but I have put myself in risky situations for kicks, for thrills. For what?

I also have to look at things external to me, these experiences were selfish pursuits, I don't have any relationships with these girls other than I like how they treated me, and that's why I saw so many repeatedly. To all the girls I've been with that treated me so well, thank you, for providing a very personal and intimate experience and making an old man happy, even if just for a little while. Thank you for not judging me, and for entertaining my requests no matter how strange they may have been.

I also have to come to terms that many of you girls have habits and circumstances that prompted you to sell yourselves, I do apologize to all of you for taking advantage and for enabling you to continue your self destructive behavior. I always respected you as people, I never wanted to hurt you or make you do things against your will, but maybe feel that I have. Sure there are some providers that do enjoy what they do, but I was told once by one I'm pretty close to, that a girl doesn't do this because they want to, it's because they have to, there's no other alternative, so I feel I've taken advantage of some really good people when they have hit rock bottom.

And for that I apologize, the Ursula saga did affect me. She's a nice girl deep down. And she got the "Pretty Woman" fairy tale ending, she had a client, a good man, well to do, mature, self-made, a guy willing to forgive her past, who fell in love with her, and wanted to marry her and have a family with her, and she blew it. I didn't help her, Instead I used her. For that I feel ashamed.

To those on the board that mock me, for seeing so many, or for seeing so many at one time then giving you all the dirty deets (bragging really), maybe I deserve to be mocked. Just know that I'm not a better person for having done that. I'm not proud of my actions or what I have become. I have an addiction too, I am a sex addict and it is thrill seeking, self-destructive behaviour. I not only facilitate the girls hurting themselves, but those around me and those close to me. To those that admire me, you shouldn't. I'm not doing you any favors by helping you follow in my footsteps and that's why I haven't returned some PM's and my absence from the board the last few weeks.

This board and all of you will still exist and continue after I am gone. Just be safe, and try to get help, and be kind to the girls if you see them, but don't get too close, that's only going to hurt you in the end. Everyone needs to come to terms with why they do what they do. The guys and the girls. Ladies, If you're playing with fire, doing dangerous drugs, please try to stop, seek help. Guys you cannot help them by providing income they use to feed their addictions. In the end you'll just probably feel as I do now. Empty, Sad, Ashamed and Broke, I've spent a small fortune on these selfish pursuits with nothing to show but memories. Memories that don't make me feel better anymore.

So this still being a pretty new year still. I've decided to stop and seek help for myself, I hope all of you mongers and all the girls do the same. After I post this I'll leave my account up for a bit, then eventually delete it. L to the see out.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LotharioCancer;2800714]Ladies and Gents, I've done this hobby since I was 18. My first time was with a provider, I've taken breaks from the hobby for various reasons, marriages, LTR's, 12 Step Programs etc. I've never dated a provider and never will, I think it's a recipe for failure.

But I have decided to put all this, this hobby behind me, why? I've decided to try to become a better person. No I haven't found religion, No I haven't contracted anything permanent or life-threatening I just got checked out and all my tests came back clean. There's nothing prompting me to do this other than my desire to stop. I've done it all I think, (well not all, all that I desire to do / try) and the bucket list is empty.

I can look at a beautiful woman now and not think of what It might be like to have her. Because I've had many beautiful women, and have had lots of great experiences with women. I've had my fun, more fun than I can remember, more fun than most men will ever experience. Now what? To keep on doing it is akin to playing Russian Roulette. I don't have a death wish, I'm not trying to kill myself, but I have put myself in risky situations for kicks, for thrills. For what?

I also have to look at things external to me, these experiences were selfish pursuits, I don't have any relationships with these girls other than I like how they treated me, and that's why I saw so many repeatedly. To all the girls I've been with that treated me so well, thank you, for providing a very personal and intimate experience and making an old man happy, even if just for a little while. Thank you for not judging me, and for entertaining my requests no matter how strange they may have been.

I also have to come to terms that many of you girls have habits and circumstances that prompted you to sell yourselves, I do apologize to all of you for taking advantage and for enabling you to continue your self destructive behavior. I always respected you as people, I never wanted to hurt you or make you do things against your will, but maybe feel that I have. Sure there are some providers that do enjoy what they do, but I was told once by one I'm pretty close to, that a girl doesn't do this because they want to, it's because they have to, there's no other alternative, so I feel I've taken advantage of some really good people when they have hit rock bottom.

And for that I apologize, the Ursula saga did affect me. She's a nice girl deep down. And she got the "Pretty Woman" fairy tale ending, she had a client, a good man, well to do, mature, self-made, a guy willing to forgive her past, who fell in love with her, and wanted to marry her and have a family with her, and she blew it. I didn't help her, Instead I used her. For that I feel ashamed.

To those on the board that mock me, for seeing so many, or for seeing so many at one time then giving you all the dirty deets (bragging really), maybe I deserve to be mocked. Just know that I'm not a better person for having done that. I'm not proud of my actions or what I have become. I have an addiction too, I am a sex addict and it is thrill seeking, self-destructive behaviour. I not only facilitate the girls hurting themselves, but those around me and those close to me. To those that admire me, you shouldn't. I'm not doing you any favors by helping you follow in my footsteps and that's why I haven't returned some PM's and my absence from the board the last few weeks.

This board and all of you will still exist and continue after I am gone. Just be safe, and try to get help, and be kind to the girls if you see them, but don't get too close, that's only going to hurt you in the end. Everyone needs to come to terms with why they do what they do. The guys and the girls. Ladies, If you're playing with fire, doing dangerous drugs, please try to stop, seek help. Guys you cannot help them by providing income they use to feed their addictions. In the end you'll just probably feel as I do now. Empty, Sad, Ashamed and Broke, I've spent a small fortune on these selfish pursuits with nothing to show but memories. Memories that don't make me feel better anymore.

So this still being a pretty new year still. I've decided to stop and seek help for myself, I hope all of you mongers and all the girls do the same. After I post this I'll leave my account up for a bit, then eventually delete it. L to the see out.[/QUOTE]Good luck LC with whatever you want to do. You were an honest and accurate reviewer and that is all any of us on this Board can ask. That being said I feel I need to make a post on the exploitation aspect of this thread. I agree there is nothing lower on this planet than a pimp, and I mean that. They liars, woman beaters, lazy cowards and child rapists, all rolled into one. That includes those that go by boyfriends, managers, thugs or whatever. As to the rest, agree to disagree. Being a prostitute is so reviled, even by many workers, because society tells them to feel bad about themselves. That's not some hippy-dippy bullshit its a fact. Society telling us what to think and believe starts before we can really process our surroundings and never stops. Not to go all pin-head on the board but there have been numerous societies, including a total of billions of people, in history that haven't look down on prostitution the way post 1860 America has. Hell in some societies it has been respectable and at least one well known one it was more respectable than motherhood (but they don't teach that part in high school history) As for exploitation, I guess that depends on your definition. I'm no communist but I've heard and read plenty of them. They think everything is exploitation, working as a maid or in a factory or in a store. Basically if you have to work a job you don't like to buy necessities they call it exploitation. I don't see how this is any different. Yes I know drugs particularly heroin and pills, will change you brain and make you desperate. Maybe I'm being too self-righteous but if a truly independent girl wants to fuck me for cash she can use to buy drugs that, to me, isn't exploitation. Besides, and I don't have your cred but we are going to have to agree to disagree on one point. Specifically I have been mongering for going on 24 years, in all kinds of countries, states, cities, (legal) age groups and ethnicities and there are plenty, plenty, more than 1 in a 100, of girls who do this and have no pimp and have no drug problem. They're trying to pay the bills and the last thing they want is for us to stop coming by because we think its exploitation. They don't want that anymore than the factory worker who hates his job he has to have to buy food and pay the mortgage wants his factory to close down even though he hates his job. I'll end with this, to me, if she's got no pimp its no different than anybody else who has a job they need but don't like. My 2 cents. P.S. Still treat them with respect and expect the same.

Thanks for the info you have provided. Good luck.

+1 Norsem, good post. Money is fungible. If they get money from a stranger and then buy a Wildcats t-shirt, does that make the stranger pro-UK? I think not.