Research article: Prostitution. A personal choice
Compelling scientific analysis that governments world-wide should get out of the way of consenting adults. The audio is almost 6 minutes and worthy of a listen:
[URL]http://www.economist.com/node/21611063?cid1=d/dsp/Outbrain/dyn/21611063/20151006-00:00am/paid/display-LA/BR-LC/BRPII/n/subs/US/BR-VT[/URL]
Title: Prostitution. A personal choice.
Tagline: The internet is making the buying and selling of sex easier and safer. Governments should stop trying to ban it.
Stay safe, be smart, and stay informed.
Milfman.
White Knighting: Resist the Temptation
I understand that this isn't my board and not my rules. This rant has been brewing for a while, but I've grown tired of the bickering as a result of White Knighting, seeing increasing instances of it on the boards, and other members attacking each other based on the words of a female. It's really gotten out of control, but we've probably all been guilty of it a time or two in our lives. I don't need another provider threaten to turn more guys against each other when an honest, negative review is posted about her service, how she has been dishonest, or anything unfavorable (the dominant theme is that it's hurting her economically). White Knighting has been mentioned on this board on numerous occasions in the past.
This shyt has an official name so you know it's serious: White Knight Syndrome. Google it until your heart is content. In urban parlance, you may hear it referred to as being a "Captain Save-a-Ho".
Summary: White Knighting or being a "Captain Save-a-Ho" has never worked and will never work because women perceive the white knight as needy and insecure rather than noble and chivalrous. So, you're helping her, but she perceives you as the needy one. WTF, right!? You will come up empty handed as you continue to White Knight causing you to always overpay for what you perceive as getting.
Beware of White Knighting if the majority of these (not a comprehensive list) describe you:
You are frequently attracted to women who make less money than you.
You view women as powerless and unable to defend or take care of themselves.
You have dated women who engage in self-harming behaviors such as cutting or attempted suicide.
You have felt the need to protect your love-interest or providers from bad dudes (for example, an ex-boyfriend, handler, etc.).
You have lent your love-interest or provider money because of a terrible, likely convoluted, situation and you have never gotten your money back (or fair trade for it).
You view women's problems as the result of misfortune or the cruelty of this world, never as their own fault. Women are never responsible for their troubles.
You are mostly attracted to women who "just needed a good influence in their lives".
You fear giving a negative review because you don't want to her feelings or cause her business to suffer.
You rush to a woman's defense when she says that another guy lied about her.
You are attracted to a woman's apparent vulnerability.
You try to gain "favor" by revealing what others have said about them on message boards.
You believe that the "extra" help that you provide somehow moves you to the front of the line or causes her to answer your calls.
You think a woman will forever be grateful to you for helping her. She will praise you, adore you, and maybe provide better than others.
You found yourself attracted to women you found out later had alcohol or drug problems.
You are attracted to women with tragic pasts.
You are attracted to women who seem to need you to make decisions for them.
You date women who have tempestuous relationships with friends, family, co-workers or most other people in their lives.
You have found yourself in situations where you had to "take care" of the woman by doing things like repeatedly moving her and her belongings, driving her around, babysitting for her children, or other activities that use a lot of your time and resources.
You are pissed off now that you have read this far.
If coming to the rescue of women with emotional issues (maybe histories of trauma or addiction) and looking for a load of false drama and tales of woe is your superpower, STOP WHITE KNIGHTING and remind yourself that anything that distracts from the Purpose of this Forum is merely bullshyt.
The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women.
Plain and simple.
Happy Hunting,
Milfman.