Streetwalker Reports

[QUOTE=Genghis2;3011659]Sooo true. Nice to see there is another cynic in the crowd who has seen the real world of relationships. Reminds me of the phrase: "what have you done for me lately?[/QUOTE]SOOO fucking true! It's really sad to think about it. We're sold this whole romantic image by Hollywood, but it's complete bullshit. I've been divorced for. What? 6 years now? 7? Been trying the legit dating scene off and on, but with struggling through the recession, as soon as a girl I like gets a hint that my bank account is empty as a bell jar, they ghost.

And they ***** that "men only want ONE thing. " *****. So do you, it's just a different thing, so how does that make one any better than the other?

Recently had a woman I was dating for a little while get a good look at the crappy, 25 year old HOnda I struggle to get to work in every day. We had just had a good time at the movies. She gave me a hug and said she had to get home. Next day, she sent me a text, saying how great I am, and how much fun to be with, but she "doesn't see this going anywhere than just friends. ".

Then, she calls me up to tell me again how great I am. And how - "IF YOU EVER WON THE LOTTERY" she would TOTALLY marry me.

Nice, huh.

And people wonder why guys pay sfor sex. Because it's more honest and just plain fucking easier.

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[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;3012036]SOOO fucking true! It's really sad to think about it. We're sold this whole romantic image by Hollywood, but it's complete bullshit. I've been divorced for. What? 6 years now? 7? Been trying the legit dating scene off and on, but with struggling through the recession, as soon as a girl I like gets a hint that my bank account is empty as a bell jar, they ghost.

And they ***** that "men only want ONE thing. " *****. So do you, it's just a different thing, so how does that make one any better than the other?

Recently had a woman I was dating for a little while get a good look at the crappy, 25 year old HOnda I struggle to get to work in every day. We had just had a good time at the movies. She gave me a hug and said she had to get home. Next day, she sent me a text, saying how great I am, and how much fun to be with, but she "doesn't see this going anywhere than just friends. ".

Then, she calls me up to tell me again how great I am. And how - "IF YOU EVER WON THE LOTTERY" she would TOTALLY marry me.

Nice, huh.

And people wonder why guys pay sfor sex. Because it's more honest and just plain fucking easier.[/QUOTE]Amen, brother.

[QUOTE=Ump1969;3011934]This was a good story. There are just as many reasons for mongers to be out there as for the girls to be out there. If you do this long enough, you make friends. God help Antonella that falls in love because the girls can be the most demanding and needy people in existence. I'll use my area near Kankakee as an example. I know most of the girls. The one I have known the longest just entered rehab for the umpteenth time. She won'the make it. What will she do when she gets out? Many of the local employers already know her from past attempts to get back to the work force. She won't have anything useful to do and little money. She'll be hanging out with the same people. One of the local dealers will hand her a baggie just to hook her up again. I feel bad for her because I like her. But I can't rescue her and don't want to be trapped by her. Another one just went back to prison for the second time. She'll be there awhile this time. She went the first time because drugs kept her from succeeding in the job world and the street wasn't helping her. I haven't seen anyone, not one, make it out unless by death or jail. So keep it business. You can't help them without messing up your own life and they probably won't get out, anyway. You want to marry one and take her away from the streets, like "Pretty Woman"? Good luck. If anyone tries it, I'don't love to hear how you introduced her to your family and friends. If you want to be a pimp and control them, I'don't rather not hear about it.[/QUOTE]John's rarely look like richard gere and providers rarely look like old what's her name. Sorry I think she is a terrible actress but I digress. If the provider survives they will do it on their own after a long and hard hit hard to rock bottom! They may get up again and get their lives together. I would not bet on those odds because the street parasites are always there to tempt them. It's sad but agree there is absolutely nothing one can do to help them. While they are in the life they are completely in denial. It is what it is. I have tried to be one less jerk to a higher end provider but in the end she turned on me as she really wants guys around her that feed into her fantasy.

[QUOTE=StanleyStankas;3012626]John's rarely look like richard gere and providers rarely look like old what's her name. Sorry I think she is a terrible actress but I digress. If the provider survives they will do it on their own after a long and hard hit hard to rock bottom! They may get up again and get their lives together. I would not bet on those odds because the street parasites are always there to tempt them. It's sad but agree there is absolutely nothing one can do to help them. While they are in the life they are completely in denial. It is what it is. I have tried to be one less jerk to a higher end provider but in the end she turned on me as she really wants guys around her that feed into her fantasy.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the affirmation. Fantasy? She wants cash for her drug hit. Drug addiction is the worst thing on Earth. You think of nothing but the next high. A truly addicted girl doesn't care if you love her or hate her as long as you pay her. If they are not truly gone, they will put on an Oscar performance, telling you how handsome you are and how much you please them. But it all amounts to the same thing. When I first started this habit, the drugs were not as bad. There were actually girls who treated street work like a job. I knew girls who made pretty good money by servicing a bunch of guys. But the drugs have taken over. Some girls do one guy a night. Earn enough for the hit, go get supplied and she's done for the night. Drugs have ruined our habit just like everything else they touch. Fantasy? The only fantasy is that thee girls imagine they still have a life. They simply have not yet OD'ed die of other causes, or been killed by a pimp or some other wacko. Am I cynical? Probably. I just know how things have changed in the past thirty years. I should also mention that Chicago is one of the worst places there is to monger. I have personally been in Orange County, CA, Louisville, Nashville, Chattanooga, Philadelphia (just about a month ago), Boston, and a few others. It's tough in Chicago and has one of the worst selections. That might add somewhat to my cynicism.

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;3012036]

Then, she calls me up to tell me again how great I am. And how - "IF YOU EVER WON THE LOTTERY" she would TOTALLY marry me.

Nice, huh.
[/QUOTE]Women are all Gold Diggers. I'm buying Powerball Tickets for tonight's drawing. LOL!

" I should also mention that Chicago is one of the worst places there is to monger. It's tough in Chicago and has one of the worst selections. ".

Not as god as it used to be. Was never as good as some other cities. Any ideas on why this is? (Not that it matters.) LE? Some aspect of culture or midwestern values? The guys?

[QUOTE=RonM;3013510]Women are all Gold Diggers. I'm buying Powerball Tickets for tonight's drawing. LOL![/QUOTE]Providers are on you! And we aren't going to slum it on the streets. We want the suites!

[QUOTE=Desparado;3013627]" I should also mention that Chicago is one of the worst places there is to monger. It's tough in Chicago and has one of the worst selections. ".

Not as god as it used to be. Was never as good as some other cities. Any ideas on why this is? (Not that it matters.) LE? Some aspect of culture or midwestern values? The guys?[/QUOTE]Really? Not to me. Chicago has a great selection of ladies to play with.

2 am Sunday. Cruised 47th and CIC aves. At least a dozen girls out. Did not partake myself as BSW's are not my thing.

[QUOTE=RonM;3014355]Really? Not to me. Chicago has a great selection of ladies to play with.[/QUOTE]Won't argue with you. If you're happy, great. But I can compare it with other cities I have visited and I'll stick to what I said.

[QUOTE=SaintChuck;3011372]I can't remember where I heard it, but it had to be from a wise man. You aren't paying a working girl just for sex, you are paying her so that after the sex she will leave and never bother you again. SaintChuck.[/QUOTE]LOL That is a Charlie Sheen Quote! Not anymore though!

[QUOTE=IPickumUp;3014655]LOL That is a Charlie Sheen Quote! Not anymore though![/QUOTE]Heard that from heidi fleiss as he used to use the services of her office I believe as well as pay by check! What was he thinking? Course he is also the guy that was so wasted he parked his vehicle in his driveway but forgot to either put it in park, use the emergency brake or something and it wound up rolling down the driveway and down the side of a ledge in Cali. So go figure. Actually something similar happened to a very pretty girl in my building downtown that was so drunk she left her car running and the door open. Eventually when she sobered up I knocked on her door with the keys. Nope, didn't go there. Married to a great guy! Not me, her! Ha!

[QUOTE=SaintChuck;3011372]I can't remember where I heard it, but it had to be from a wise man. You aren't paying a working girl just for sex, you are paying her so that after the sex she will leave and never bother you again. SaintChuck.[/QUOTE]The saying is " I don't pay them to cum, I pay them to go. " It's been around a long time and the truth travels well. I first heard that saying in Jaco, Costa Rica maybe 15 years ago.

[QUOTE=RonM;3014355]Really? Not to me. Chicago has a great selection of ladies to play with.[/QUOTE]I second Desparado's opinion. I'm originally from Fort Lauderdale and I must say that I expected way more from Chicago. Even if we compare the number of posts in this Chicago forum to the ones in Fort Lauderdale or Miami, they pale in comparison. That being said, I live in Chicago now so I have to make the best of what this city has to offer us mongers.