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[QUOTE=MrCharmo;4221670]Said she hated when guys sweated her too much. Even after they had sex. I've reached out a couple times and nothing. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4221649]So, this was Thursday and I've texted her a few times since then. Radio silence. Nothing, nada. No word back from her. She was that good. But, I can't get over why the radio silence. Any thoughts? Guesses?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4221697]I'll give her a few days and circle back with her to see if she wants to meet again.[/QUOTE]Don't contact her. Ever. Shows you're needy, (you're sweating her, aka smothering.) Also puts her in the driver's seat. No contact on your end, she'll wonder why you haven't. If she Does contact you, DO NOT respond quickly. (The Alpha Male has more important things to do.).

I think both of you guys are being played. LOL 1: They're reeling you in. 2: They'll hit you up when they need additional funding.

Just a reminder, guys: if she sends you four pics, where three are hot and one is not. Bad news but she's not hot, she’s fat. Stop lying to yourself and wishing for the best possible outcome. You'll have a Beast possible outcome instead!

Stop wasting your time and money, put your foot down and send her back from whence she came.

She can come back after she hits the gym for eight months.

So true, same on any website, too. Such as LC. Look at ALL the pics, if you don't like the worst of them, pass her by. Learned this the hard way. Luckily she had a hot friend there, and they were all cool with me doing the friend instead. (That was actually surprising, that the first one was so cool about it.).

[QUOTE=MrCharmo;4221814]if she sends you four pics, where three are hot and one is not. Bad news but she's not hot,[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SideTalker;4221336]On a similar note: anyone have any experience with booking porn stars? There are a couple on my bucket list.[/QUOTE]I have been with two, but it was many, many years ago. One was through a well known local agency and the other was through her website directly. Both times it was super easy to arrange meetings. For the independent, I actually saw her a couple of times. Both stars, though, were definitely not A-listers and the prices were very reasonable. If you have the inclination and means then I would say, "Just do it. ".

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4221649]So, earlier this week I went on whisper for the heck of it to see what I can find. Two days later and many frustrating chats / scams later I was ready to give up. Out of the blue, I was contacted by someone and it turns out she was a 19 year old college student at Loyola looking to be spoiled. She then gave me her number and we started texting each other. This was Wednesday night and we made plans to meet the next day and worked out the arrangements. I was going to get a room downtown and pick her up to take her there for some fun. Thursday comes around and she gave me her address and off I went. I pulled up in front of a dorm in the Loyola campus. Out comes this vision of a perfect GND Loyola college student. We drive downtown and chat along the way. She's Latina and claims she's never done this before. I think I believe her since she's really nervous. We get to the hotel and check in. Made our way up to the room and get settled in. We start making out and she goes on her knees to give me an outstanding BBBJ. I didn't want to blow too quickly so I pulled her up and remove her clothes. Underneath was the perfect 19 year old body with the firmest natural D cups that only someone her age can have. Slim waist and bubble Latina butt. I was in heaven. The next two hours we spent together was easily in my top 3 experiences ever. Eventually, we finished up and I drove her back to campus and dropped her off in front of her dorm. We talked about seeing each other again and figuring out a schedule to do this on a regular basis. So, this was Thursday and I've texted her a few times since then. Radio silence. Nothing, nada. No word back from her. I'm just a wreck now. I'm hooked on this girl now and I have no clue why she's not responding. If this was my unicorn and a one time experience I guess it's a good thing since this girl will seriously drain my bank account. She was that good. But, I can't get over why the radio silence. Any thoughts? Guesses?[/QUOTE]If her name starts with a "D" and ends with an "I" you are stressing yourself out for no reason. Chill out, she likes to play. If she is interested, she will text you back.

[QUOTE=GaryMan;4221775]Don't contact her. Ever. Shows you're needy, (you're sweating her, aka smothering.) Also puts her in the driver's seat. No contact on your end, she'll wonder why you haven't. If she Does contact you, DO NOT respond quickly. (The Alpha Male has more important things to do.).

I think both of you guys are being played. LOL 1: They're reeling you in. 2: They'll hit you up when they need additional funding.[/QUOTE]I know, I know. It sounds so naive and silly but I really thought we had a genuine connection. Since I had picked up her from Loyola's campus and drove to downtown. Between our playtime and hitting rush hour on our way back we easily spent over four hours together. Not once in those four hours was there an awkward moment or silence. And when we were enjoying each other's company physically there were no limits. It was no holds barred and incredibly intimate at the same time. Like I said I'm hooked and can't stop replaying the moments in my mind. We even talked about me coming to see her in her dorm which would be just incredible to be able to relive my college days! I just can't bring myself to move on!

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4222596]I know, I know. It sounds so naive and silly but I really thought we had a genuine connection. Since I had picked up her from Loyola's campus and drove to downtown. Between our playtime and hitting rush hour on our way back we easily spent over four hours together. Not once in those four hours was there an awkward moment or silence. And when we were enjoying each other's company physically there were no limits. It was no holds barred and incredibly intimate at the same time. Like I said I'm hooked and can't stop replaying the moments in my mind. We even talked about me coming to see her in her dorm which would be just incredible to be able to relive my college days! I just can't bring myself to move on![/QUOTE]Sometimes these girls are so adorable that you can't help but think there could be more than pay to play.

Sounds like this girl gave you the performance of a lifetime GFE. Best to move on from this girl. There are plenty of other girls to play with.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4222596]I know, I know. It sounds so naive and silly but I really thought we had a genuine connection.[/QUOTE]It [I]seems[/I] genuine as long as it's in their interest for it to [I]seem[/I] genuine. It is dismaying how well they can read us and manipulate us, but women have [i][b]evolved[/b][/i] over 1000s or 10s or 100s of thousands of years to survive by manipulating men.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4222596]... I just can't bring myself to move on! [/QUOTE]It's completely out of your control. Go screw another and forget this one. Getting emotionally involved with these girls will destroy you.

[QUOTE=GWheaton;4222384]If her name starts with a "D" and ends with an "I" you are stressing yourself out for no reason. Chill out, she likes to play. If she is interested, she will text you back.[/QUOTE]Yes, her name does start with a "D" and ends with an "I". I sent you a PM.

I feel for you man. I'm a self proclaimed Rico Suave and used to the love them and leave them, but I had one gal play my like a Steinway piano! I was like, what about the all night lovemaking, talk until dawn, breakfast in bed! She's like See ya! Wouldn't want to be ya! Touché my merciless angel. Touché, waaaah!

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4222596]I know, I know. It sounds so naive and silly but I really thought we had a genuine connection. Since I had picked up her from Loyola's campus and drove to downtown. Between our playtime and hitting rush hour on our way back we easily spent over four hours together. Not once in those four hours was there an awkward moment or silence. And when we were enjoying each other's company physically there were no limits. It was no holds barred and incredibly intimate at the same time. Like I said I'm hooked and can't stop replaying the moments in my mind. We even talked about me coming to see her in her dorm which would be just incredible to be able to relive my college days! I just can't bring myself to move on![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GWheaton;4222384]If her name starts with a "D" and ends with an "I" you are stressing yourself out for no reason. Chill out, she likes to play. If she is interested, she will text you back.[/QUOTE]Throw a bone to us that don't use the apps?

[QUOTE=GaryMan;4221775]Don't contact her. Ever. Shows you're needy, (you're sweating her, aka smothering.) Also puts her in the driver's seat. No contact on your end, she'll wonder why you haven't. If she Does contact you, DO NOT respond quickly. (The Alpha Male has more important things to do.).

I think both of you guys are being played. LOL 1: They're reeling you in. 2: They'll hit you up when they need additional funding.[/QUOTE]Gary, I think you missed my point. I simply wanted to lend an example of similar experiences. You can have a great time and be salivating over the next time you meet, then not hear from the girl again. Happens sometimes.

But I can assure you I am not being played. LOL. Within the hour of dropping off the girl I mentioned I was getting head from another girl on the same bed. I was still horny, and why let a rented room go to waste?

Definitely recommend not wasting your time overthinking nor over pursuing. But I don't agree about cutting off contact always being the best strategy. P4 P girls are getting hit up by tons of guys trying to get in the door. On top of the guys who they deal with on their day to day. Sometimes texting them at the right time can hit. It has personally served me very well: from hooking up with one of the biggest sex freaks I've met with to having sex with p4 p girls without paying. Sometimes you just get lucky.

Either way this is the p4 p game. I'm not interested on proving to be alpha or following the pua handbook, though also don't recommend wasting your time catching feelings either.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4221649]So, earlier this week I went on whisper for the heck of it to see what I can find. Two days later and many frustrating chats / scams later I was ready to give up. Out of the blue, I was contacted by someone and it turns out she was a 19 year old college student at Loyola looking to be spoiled. She then gave me her number and we started texting each other.[/QUOTE]Peter, the only reason I hobby in Chicago is for those few unique moments with the amateurs. It's mostly about good timing and I credit 262 for most of my success. That particular booker is the only one that has consistently recruited fresh faces to the scene. All the high end agencies have rosters of semi pros to pro, not my taste.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4221649]So, earlier this week I went on whisper for the heck of it to see what I can find. Two days later and many frustrating chats / scams later I was ready to give up. Out of the blue, I was contacted by someone and it turns out she was a 19 year old college student at Loyola looking to be spoiled. She then gave me her number and we started texting each other. This was Wednesday night and we made plans to meet the next day and worked out the arrangements. I was going to get a room downtown and pick her up to take her there for some fun. Thursday comes around and she gave me her address and off I went. I pulled up in front of a dorm in the Loyola campus. Out comes this vision of a perfect GND Loyola college student. We drive downtown and chat along the way. She's Latina and claims she's never done this before. I think I believe her since she's really nervous. We get to the hotel and check in. Made our way up to the room and get settled in. We start making out and she goes on her knees to give me an outstanding BBBJ. I didn't want to blow too quickly so I pulled her up and remove her clothes. Underneath was the perfect 19 year old body with the firmest natural D cups that only someone her age can have. Slim waist and bubble Latina butt. I was in heaven. The next two hours we spent together was easily in my top 3 experiences ever. Eventually, we finished up and I drove her back to campus and dropped her off in front of her dorm. We talked about seeing each other again and figuring out a schedule to do this on a regular basis. So, this was Thursday and I've texted her a few times since then. Radio silence. Nothing, nada. No word back from her. I'm just a wreck now. I'm hooked on this girl now and I have no clue why she's not responding. If this was my unicorn and a one time experience I guess it's a good thing since this girl will seriously drain my bank account. She was that good. But, I can't get over why the radio silence. Any thoughts? Guesses?[/QUOTE]You are not ruined, just an opposite, You are gaining some valuable experience. Based upon your observations she is a non pro. Irrational, illogical, unexplainable swings in girls behavior and resulting disappointment and frustration mixed with anxiety is the price that men pay when dealing with amateurs. On the other hand, that magic thrill of unpredictability makes the whole game exiting.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4221649]So, earlier this week I went on whisper for the heck of it to see what I can find. Two days later and many frustrating chats / scams later I was ready to give up. Out of the blue, I was contacted by someone and it turns out she was a 19 year old college student at Loyola looking to be spoiled. She then gave me her number and we started texting each other. This was Wednesday night and we made plans to meet the next day and worked out the arrangements. I was going to get a room downtown and pick her up to take her there for some fun. Thursday comes around and she gave me her address and off I went. I pulled up in front of a dorm in the Loyola campus. Out comes this vision of a perfect GND Loyola college student. We drive downtown and chat along the way. She's Latina and claims she's never done this before. I think I believe her since she's really nervous. We get to the hotel and check in. Made our way up to the room and get settled in. We start making out and she goes on her knees to give me an outstanding BBBJ. I didn't want to blow too quickly so I pulled her up and remove her clothes. Underneath was the perfect 19 year old body with the firmest natural D cups that only someone her age can have. Slim waist and bubble Latina butt. I was in heaven. The next two hours we spent together was easily in my top 3 experiences ever. Eventually, we finished up and I drove her back to campus and dropped her off in front of her dorm. We talked about seeing each other again and figuring out a schedule to do this on a regular basis. So, this was Thursday and I've texted her a few times since then. Radio silence. Nothing, nada. No word back from her. I'm just a wreck now. I'm hooked on this girl now and I have no clue why she's not responding. If this was my unicorn and a one time experience I guess it's a good thing since this girl will seriously drain my bank account. She was that good. But, I can't get over why the radio silence. Any thoughts? Guesses?[/QUOTE]You may need to change your attitude. In this case, I would have played it cool as if it was a great first date, and been conscientious of not being a stalker or desperate. You know, let a few days pass to keep them guessing, and not be a lost puppy dog sap. Also, she hooked up with you, what makes you think nobody else had taken her up an other arrangement offers? Also, she may dies of embarrassment if roommates, friends in the dorm catch on. She wants to be discrete too. My advice (may not be worth anything) is to lay low now and wait it out. Be happy you at least experienced it once. Lucky you! A month later if still silent send a polite text asking if she wants to meet up again. Good luck. Nice job scoring it at least once.