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[QUOTE=Sancho2063;1084914]If you become a regular or see / get to know a provider she will cuddle. Many of them seem to like it.[/QUOTE]Just tell-um you want to cuddle. Main thing she knows she getting her 150, she doesn't care or shouldn't care. I'd think she wouldn't mind cuddling vs giving a BBJ or anal rimming. Try askum nicely if they would. Nothing to lose but 150 hehe.
Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]Good question. Maybe it's a "quid pro quo" thing. Most of us may think most of them as generally "unfaithful" since even though there's that thought that we may be the special one to them, though they all f*ck different guys and they want to see if we are unfaithful to spouses. And it may also be:
1-The girl may be looking for a sugar daddy or a real friend relationship.
2-The proud idea that "Yeah, I'm the ONE he really wants. "
It's usually first time encounters when a MP girl asks that. When you are their regular, it's kinda given that you are either married or not. I'm not and I must admit, there have been times with certain girls I wouldn't mind "retiring" from the hobby with! Stay safe.
Oh, checked in a few places and it's all dead. I guess a lot of girls took the night off to go Waikiki.
[QUOTE=Lahainawhaler; 1085561]Good question. Maybe it's a "quid pro quo" thing. Most of us may think most of them as generally "unfaithful" since even though there's that thought that we may be the special one to them, though they all f*ck different guys and they want to see if we are unfaithful to spouses. And it may also be:
1-The girl may be looking for a sugar daddy or a real friend relationship.
2-The proud idea that "Yeah, I'm the ONE he really wants."
It's usually first time encounters when a MP girl asks that. When you are their regular, it's kinda given that you are either married or not. I'm not and I must admit, there have been times with certain girls I wouldn't mind "retiring" from the hobby with! Stay safe.
Oh, checked in a few places and it's all dead. I guess a lot of girls took the night off to go Waikiki. [/QUOTE]One more reason.
- Married or S / O guys are supposedly more careful and can be considered cleaner cause can't take something home to the S / O and not lose the house, car and dog, LOL. At least that is a reason I was told! All you married, S / O Mongers feel free to confirm, hahahaha!
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I wonder why too. I don't get that very often, but once in awhile I do. I always had a few theories.
1) They are checking you out. Thinking maybe if you are married, you might not play around as much and thus, perhaps you are 'clean' and will be an easy customer to deal with. If you are married, you are probably interested in having a good time and then just getting out of there to get home and stay out of trouble.
2) If you are married or have a girlfriend, they know that if you start giving them trouble, all they might have to do to get you to settle down (if you become a problem) is a 'scratch' here or there on your body, a bite mark perhaps, or some other unexplainable ("how did you get that hickey THERE?") thing your wife may see.
3) If you are NOT married, they may suspect you are a regular player (that may be good or bad) and should "know" the rules at the AMP you are visiting. You may become a "regular" which is good for the girl. But if you also are not married, they might also be wary that you might be a 'challenging' customer with more exotic demands. Perhaps.
4) Finally, if you are not married. Perhaps the 'sugar daddy' theory may very well be on HER menu. This I believe is probably the real reason they ask. But others above are the "back-up" safety reasons.
Just a theory.
Here's a good question that may actually be worth another thread.
If a provider ask you if you are married or have a girlfriend, should you tell her "yes" or "no" if you actually are married? How does your answer affect how she treats you either way? That should really be one for you "girls" out there that read this board.
Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]This is a good question where you'll get alot of different answers. I do agree with what others have posted about the sugar daddy part. They see you as a possible provider and someone whom they can fall back on. I would say this is very high on the list because I have been asked the same question many times with providers from an AMP, MT and girls at hostess bars. In addition, they also ask: "What do you do?"
I get the same thing when I monger in other countries. The two questions pop up.
1, Are you married? GF?
2. What do you do? What's your job?
[QUOTE=Uki Eater; 1085961]This is a good question where you'll get alot of different answers. I do agree with what others have posted about the sugar daddy part. They see you as a possible provider and someone whom they can fall back on. I would say this is very high on the list because I have been asked the same question many times with providers from an AMP, MT and girls at hostess bars. In addition, they also ask: "What do you do?"
I get the same thing when I monger in other countries. The two questions pop up.
1, Are you married? GF?
2. What do you do? What's your job? [/QUOTE]I get these a bit, too. I am exempt from Darkman's Theory #3 as I play the Ugly card, which no girl can refute :). In my case, it helps cultivate the business relationship.
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]When I first started hitting the AMPs and was asked this questions, it was pretty obvious to the girls that I wasn't being truthful to them. I guess I am not a good lier. Finally, when I just came right out and told the truth, the relationships with the other AMP girls actually became a lot easier because they began to trust me even more. I know strange, but who can figure out the mind of any woman? Now it is like,"how is your family" "what are you and your son doing this weekend?" "does your SO like going with you to football games." Before when I gave them the impression that I was single, there seemed to be more emotional issues involved like jealousy, calling a lot, asking why is your sperm count so low. Did you fuck someone else recently?
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00; 1085949]Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk[/QUOTE]What happened?
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00; 1085949]Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk[/QUOTE]My heartfelt condolences to you, brother and to her friends and family. Rest in Peace.
[QUOTE=Subway45;1085995]When I first started hitting the AMPs and was asked this questions, it was pretty obvious to the girls that I wasn't being truthful to them. I guess I am not a good lier. Finally, when I just came right out and told the truth, the relationships with the other AMP girls actually became a lot easier because they began to trust me even more. I know strange, but who can figure out the mind of any woman? Now it is like,"how is your family" "what are you and your son doing this weekend?" "does your SO like going with you to football games." Before when I gave them the impression that I was single, there seemed to be more emotional issues involved like jealousy, calling a lot, asking why is your sperm count so low. Did you fuck someone else recently?[/QUOTE]It's not strange at all. I mean yah, if a guy is married, he would be reluctant to say that he is married because of what he thinks a provider may think of him. But, the girls know that alot of guys who are married go to those places. In fact, a provider mentioned to me that alot of married guys go to AMPs. I'm sure some guys just came out and honeslty tell them. One of the girls mentioned that a guy who has issues with his SO would go to an AMP and vent out to her about it.
If she can sense that you pretty much lied about your marital status, she'll be reluctant to converse with you on other things because she feels that other things you may tell her, will also be a lie. She feels this negative vibe about you. The girls know that not all guys who visit an AMP will all be single. Imagine if every single guy says he's not married when asked that question. The providers will find it hard to believe that every single guy said: "No, I'm not married" If you're on the older side, she'll wonder why you're not married yet. What you thought her response would be if you told her you were married?
"What? You are married and you come here? That is terrible! You know what, I can't service you sorry. You need to leave and go home to your SO"
If they said that, imagine how slow those places would be. It's already slow as it is. Besides, AMP girl or BG, they themselves wouldn't want to have their friends or family members know what they do. So basically, they not so goody goody themselves.
Thanks for the replies fellas. Interesting read. As someone suggested, maybe we can take the discussion in another thread or just PMs to keep this thread kosher. I have some thoughts and can share my experience but I don't want to I.D. myself at the same time!
Some posters seem to be budding porn novel writers or spend quite a bit of time reading porn fiction and material. Their style clearly reflects and apes that genre of exaggeration and imagination.
All these see*s try to make customers and their egos believe that they're "smart, handsome, the best". They try to feed your ego by making you feel, via their BS act, that you are desirable and wanted. Oldest trick in the book to loosen you up and extract the real attraction: your money and self. For whatever reason, everything they do and say has been orchestrated and are lies.
[QUOTE=Aflack;1086478]All these see*s try to make customers and their egos believe that they're "smart, handsome, the best". They try to feed your ego by making you feel, via their BS act, that you are desirable and wanted. Oldest trick in the book to loosen you up and extract the real attraction: your money and self. For whatever reason, everything they do and say has been orchestrated and are lies.[/QUOTE]Aflack, the BG, AMP girl MT etc can say things that' s orchestrated and lie to make a monger feel good. Plus, they want the money, which is obvious. But, as long as your mind is not weak and have the control, then whatever stuff they say or do shouldn't phase or affect you. These girls can say all they want, it shouldn't affect you. But, if you are going to go to those places, heck might as well make the most of it and enjoy yourself. But, for those who think too much like that she is a ROB, only likes your money etc etc. Then, they simply shouldn't go to those places.
[QUOTE=Uki Eater;1086511]These girls can say all they want, it shouldn't affect you. But, if you are going to go to those places, heck might as well make the most of it and enjoy yourself. But, for those who think too much like that she is a ROB, only likes your money etc etc. Then, they simply shouldn't go to those places.[/QUOTE]That is correct and also good advice.
[QUOTE=Uki Eater;1086511]Aflack, the BG, AMP girl MT etc can say things that' s orchestrated and lie to make a monger feel good. Plus, they want the money, which is obvious. But, as long as your mind is not weak and have the control, then whatever stuff they say or do shouldn't phase or affect you. These girls can say all they want, it shouldn't affect you. But, if you are going to go to those places, heck might as well make the most of it and enjoy yourself. But, for those who think too much like that she is a ROB, only likes your money etc etc. Then, they simply shouldn't go to those places.[/QUOTE]Tried and true formula for them I guess. So you know the more experienced ones know the game. But what about the young ones not experienced. Seems you can expect more honesty from them huh? I for one blew it off when my very first provider told me,"I like you." What does that mean anyway? But when numbers are exchanged, dates are gone out on, this illusion starts to fuck with your mine and you're thinking, perhaps this illusion is real. I truely believe us mongers and the girls do get things all confused. Because I know people who have dated AMP / bg, and people who have actually married them.
This is a funny subject and I think too much thought is going into it. The girls may only be asking if you are married or not just for conversation sake. Many of them may prefer you to be married as you will not get attached. That is why some girls date married men. It is a NSA type situation. They get sex, gifts, etc, without any hassles. AMP girls get a NSA and paid $ at the same time.
The even funnier thing is that many of these girls are married themselves. KBGs, AMP girls and MT alike are often married. If they are Thai, they are married! How else do you think a Thai girl gets into the USA? If a Korean girl (Bar or AMP) stays here more than 90 days, she IS married. In my experience the KBGs do a "contract" marriage only. The Thai girls actually got married for real. Well, at least their husbands think so and the girls did at first also. They started with good intentions but are often blinded not by love but by greed! You take the girls out of the 3rd world country and give her a taste of $ and she turns into a monster.
I know of a few very popular KBGs who got a contract marriage. One blurted it out to me one night when she was drunk. She even told me how much she paid. ($30,000 just in case you were wondering) Not going to dime these girls out because hey, at least they were honest with the "fake" husbands.
As previously stated, pretty much all of the Thai girls at CC are married. Some of the husbands even hang out at the "office" (Kay. Ta is married to some haole dude and they have a kid. I think he is in the Army or Air Force and stationed on the east coast or somewhere in the mainland. I wonder if he knows she gives HE, BJ & FS.
[QUOTE=Hotdogboy;1081179]I'm in search of women who enjoy cuddling and snuggling. Anyone have suggestions?[/QUOTE]Try Yumi at Ichiban. She will snuggle up to you and fall asleep in your arms, Plus, she is a real sweetheart with her soft singing voice.
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00; 1085949]Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk[/QUOTE]Anyone know what happened? Car accident? Disease, Health just curious, Condolences!
[QUOTE=Carmello;1086523]Tried and true formula for them I guess. So you know the more experienced ones know the game. But what about the young ones not experienced. Seems you can expect more honesty from them huh? I for one blew it off when my very first provider told me,"I like you." What does that mean anyway? But when numbers are exchanged, dates are gone out on, this illusion starts to fuck with your mine and you're thinking, perhaps this illusion is real. I truely believe us mongers and the girls do get things all confused. Because I know people who have dated AMP / bg, and people who have actually married them.[/QUOTE]Got that right! We (at least I) tend to fall for these girls when they push all the right buttons. Most just stick to the physical, but once in a while you run across one that really f*cks with your mind and it's difficult to tell what is real. Dating them is playing with fire, you will get burned!. Max
[QUOTE=Tsunami69; 1086551]This is a funny subject and I think too much thought is going into it. The girls may only be asking if you are married or not just for conversation sake. Many of them may prefer you to be married as you will not get attached. That is why some girls date married men. It is a NSA type situation. They get sex, gifts, etc, without any hassles. AMP girls get a NSA and paid $ at the same time.
The even funnier thing is that many of these girls are married themselves. KBGs, AMP girls and MT alike are often married. If they are Thai, they are married! How else do you think a Thai girl gets into the USA? If a Korean girl (Bar or AMP) stays here more than 90 days, she IS married. In my experience the KBGs do a "contract" marriage only. The Thai girls actually got married for real. Well, at least their husbands think so and the girls did at first also. They started with good intentions but are often blinded not by love but by greed! You take the girls out of the 3rd world country and give her a taste of $ and she turns into a monster.
I know of a few very popular KBGs who got a contract marriage. One blurted it out to me one night when she was drunk. She even told me how much she paid. ($30,000 just in case you were wondering) Not going to dime these girls out because hey, at least they were honest with the "fake" husbands.
As previously stated, pretty much all of the Thai girls at CC are married. Some of the husbands even hang out at the "office" (Kay. Ta is married to some haole dude and they have a kid. I think he is in the Army or Air Force and stationed on the east coast or somewhere in the mainland. I wonder if he knows she gives HE, BJ & FS. [/QUOTE]Tsunami is spot-on about the Thai girls. All married or have a boyfriend / sugar daddy. Some of them even have both.
[QUOTE=Aflack;1086478]All these see*s try to make customers and their egos believe that they're "smart, handsome, the best". They try to feed your ego by making you feel, via their BS act, that you are desirable and wanted. Oldest trick in the book to loosen you up and extract the real attraction: your money and self. For whatever reason, everything they do and say has been orchestrated and are lies.[/QUOTE]Don't you think that a big part of their job is to do this? I want to hang out with some girls who don't give a shit about that stuff, and will make me forget about the real world crap for awhile sometimes. And I know they lie. That's the way the world goes round, so I just accept it for what it is.
[QUOTE=Aflack;1086478]All these see*s try to make customers and their egos believe that they're "smart, handsome, the best". They try to feed your ego by making you feel, via their BS act, that you are desirable and wanted. Oldest trick in the book to loosen you up and extract the real attraction: your money and self. For whatever reason, everything they do and say has been orchestrated and are lies.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Stevet09]Don't you think that a big part of their job is to do this? I want to hang out with some girls who don't give a shit about that stuff, and will make me forget about the real world crap for awhile sometimes. And I know they lie. That's the way the world goes round, so I just accept it for what it is. [/QUOTE]You the best Aflack!
Stevet09,
No that's not her job. And many, many women whom I've seen are strictly business! These. Love you, providers.
And providers that talk like they are your gf / wives are going a little too far! Look, if they are not beautiful and most all are not, they should just accept that fact and give a good session or get out of the business! If she cannot hold her clientele then, get out of the business!
I have read of many horror stories that start out with the provider saying more then they should to a client!
They should shut the fuck up and just do a good job! That's what they are paid to do! And not tell every client that she wants to marry them!
Here's a chuckle for everyone: 1. Go to Google maps.2. Go to directions 3. Type Japan as the start location.4. Type China as the end location.5. Go to direction #43.6. Laugh, and repost.
[url]http://maps.google.com/maps?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&hl=en&tab=wl[/url]
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00; 1085949]Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk[/QUOTE]Damn this is sad news.
RIP Jayda.
Anybody know how it happened?
[QUOTE=Sancho2063; 1087438]Here's a chuckle for everyone: 1. Go to Google maps.2. Go to directions 3. Type Japan as the start location.4. Type China as the end location.5. Go to direction #43.6. Laugh, and repost.
[url]http://maps.google.com/maps?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&hl=en&tab=wl[/url][/QUOTE]Sancho how the heck did you figure that out and why? Laughing my okole off right now! That would have to be a really big gas tank.
Health isues not related to escort.
[QUOTE=Eman007;1086686]Anyone know what happened? Car accident? Disease, Health just curious, Condolences![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sancho2063; 1087438]Here's a chuckle for everyone: 1. Go to Google maps.2. Go to directions 3. Type Japan as the start location.4. Type China as the end location.5. Go to direction #43.6. Laugh, and repost.
[url]http://maps.google.com/maps?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&hl=en&tab=wl[/url][/QUOTE]ROFL! To funny!
[QUOTE=Blake123;1087014]Tsunami is spot-on about the Thai girls. All married or have a boyfriend / sugar daddy. Some of them even have both.[/QUOTE]Damn, these hot Thailand girls no longer got to get dick for $20 a pop where she desperate for any american dude to get her out of her homeland. Get married to the sucker with her charm and now can hoe around for around $150 tax free a pop all day and even collect welfare is she like perhaps. Then cause she know she hot, she meet one handsome guy or sugar daddy to make her boyfriend while lagging around the hubby. Fellaz, are we getting played or what?
[QUOTE=Carmello;1087873]Damn, these hot Thailand girls no longer got to get dick for $20 a pop where she desperate for any american dude to get her out of her homeland. Get married to the sucker with her charm and now can hoe around for around $150 tax free a pop all day and even collect welfare is she like perhaps. Then cause she know she hot, she meet one handsome guy or sugar daddy to make her boyfriend while lagging around the hubby. Fellaz, are we getting played or what?[/QUOTE]As long as the information provided get me dick done, then I am a happy camper. If I was out there looking for a relationship, then I am playing myself. If you want $20 Thai chicks then got to Thailand, that is why the country is named Thailand, Land of the Thai. Haha, just kidding. Well you should head over the Fillipines or Phillipines can get some young-ins there for free. The goal is that you marry them and bring over the family, so watch out and never tell them when you going to leave. Leave like a thief in the night. That way only they get hurt not you.
[QUOTE=Snatchthat;1087944] The goal is that you marry them and bring over the family, so watch out and never tell them when you going to leave. Leave like a thief in the night. That way only they get hurt not you.[/QUOTE]Been there done that!
If you go to USA Guide International you will find a lot of debate over where is better to go. That said, I spent two weeks in Manila last Dec. I met this MILF online and she was giving me cam shows for about a month before I went there, my only mistake was I only saw her but she spent day and night with me and I felt like I was married again. I got laid every night, BBCIPCIM, I had to resupply the blue. All the while she thought I was bringing her back. Since then I have met several Pinays online and all gorgeous and all promise the same experience with the belief that I will bring them to land of the free. I am carefully planing my next trip. It is easy to meet these ladies on line, internet chat is huge in the Philippines.
On my way home last night / this morning at about 3 a. M. Had this car on the H1 heading east in the west bound lane! Almost got into one accident, right between Farrington high school and Bishop museum. Where were the cops when shit like this happens? Didn't have my cell on me, so couldn't do anything. Hope that idiot didn't kill anyone.
[QUOTE=CheapCharlie;1088393]On my way home last night / this morning at about 3 a. M. Had this car on the H1 heading east in the west bound lane! Almost got into one accident, right between Farrington high school and Bishop museum. Where were the cops when shit like this happens? Didn't have my cell on me, so couldn't do anything. Hope that idiot didn't kill anyone.[/QUOTE]Glad you made it out safe. A coworker of mines had a similar thing happen to her, but wasn't able to avoid the oncomeing car. Luckily she survived but now she has to live the rest of her life in pain.
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00;1087785]Health isues not related to escort.[/QUOTE]It was enough to influence a friend and fellow provider to "retire" from providing though.
Bummer nonetheless
[QUOTE=Chubs; 1089456]It was enough to influence a friend and fellow provider to "retire" from providing though.
Bummer nonetheless[/QUOTE]Who retired?
About two Wednesdays ago around 930-10 pm I was passing that XXX rated store and at the bus stop was this Beautiful person in a white dress with a figure and body to die for. Now I know usually there are all men but if this was one then damn!
Anyone else see or have any 411?
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00;1087785]Health isues not related to escort.[/QUOTE]I saw her a couple times a couple years back. Great girl great attitude. I had alot of fun when I saw her. WOW. What were the health issues? Godspeed, Jayda. Rest in Peace.
Aloha gentlemen,
Got the kala for a fun weekend and considering another 'recon' mission. But first some questions about a variety of providers and hoping one or two of you may be able to provide some 411.
Here goes.
1) Riley West on eros-hawaii. Com.
[url]http://www.eros-hawaii.com/sections/hawaii_escorts.htm[/url]
Anyone have some experience with her? Kinda like her different look, but for 400 / hr kinda like to know she will deliver the goods.
2) Emmanuel, also on Eros.
[url]http://www.eros-hawaii.com/sections/hawaii_escorts.htm[/url]
Mature French woman who has been here before. Curious if anyone has partaken from her vine recently?
3) Cuban Sicilian playmate on Honolulu backpage.
[url]http://honolulu.backpage.com/BodyRubs/cuban-sicilian-playmate-for-body-rub-27/2393809[/url]
Don't normally get 'it' with this type of girl, but those long legs and healthy rack have my interest peaked. She's been in town and advertising for several days. Anybody try yet?
4) Reina on backpage.
[url]http://honolulu.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/satisfaction-is-my-1-priority-28/2368385[/url]
Is this the same "Reina" who used to advertise everywhere before? These pictures seem quit different from the ones before. But the name is rare enough to make me wonder if it is the same girl. She appears older in the pics (30ish. Curious if this is somebody completely different or do any of you recognize the tats?
Mahalo in advance for any scoops, appreciate the heads up. PM me if you want.
Stay safe!