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[QUOTE=NetHunter;1202264]I am a newbie here, so forgive my ignorance. How do you know these ads are scams? I've seen providers with out of state phone #s before, with no problems. Just wondered what makes your red flags go up on these provider ads?[/QUOTE]I have an internal checklist I go thru.

Ad frequency:

If I see your ad 10 times on the same day. That's a red flag to me. Specially if the details or price changes. Doesn't absolutely mean you're scamming, but if you need to post that much to get calls it's probably a reason behind that.

Pics:

Are pics professional pics (you can always tell by the perfect lighting and professional backdrop) that show clear picture of face. If so check to see if the same pics are consistently used with the contact number (google is your best friend). If the picture changes a lot then it's pretty sure it's fake pic. Doesn't mean she's a scam, but fake pics indicate basic dishonesty if nothing else.

On the flip side, if the pics don't look professional (cam phone shots) I usually think it's legit because most people wouldn't steal cam pics.

Blurred out / obscured faces. There are legitimate reasons for a provider to do this, so I wouldn't disqualify a girl solely on this, but professional looking photos are with blurred face shots are always a red flag to me. If you're a full time pro and can afford professional shots, there's no reason to blur your face IMO.

Phone number Origin:

If the contact number is out of state, is it from far away. (like Vegas, AZ or CA)? If so I always google the name or number to see where else she has posted ads. If I see ads in every city in the country I usually move on because a person who moves from place to place is more likely to give you a bad experience than someone who visits one or two locations on a regular basis. The exception to this rule are the upscale providers who travel, but I'm not spending their kinda money anyway.

I like girls who tend to post from area codes that are within 2-4 hours driving distance of the triangle. Chances are better that a local or semi local is trying to build up clientel and is not trying to burn anyone.

Conversation:

This is the final test for me. I can usually tell if I'm going to get along with someone by the conversation. I know some girls want to stick to business, but if I can engage with them a bit it makes me feel more comfortable about visiting them. When I get the line "Call me back when you're ready to setup an appointment" before they even ask my name, that's a red flag to me. My thinking is if you're to busy to chat for a minute then why'd you answer the phone. These are the type of chicks who will answer the phone on you during your session.

[QUOTE=NetHunter;1202264]I am a newbie here, so forgive my ignorance. How do you know these ads are scams? I've seen providers with out of state phone #s before, with no problems. Just wondered what makes your red flags go up on these provider ads?[/QUOTE]I'm curious of the same as well.

Is it merely a trained eye?

Or certain language in the post?

[QUOTE=Bobby Young; 1202429]Has anyone seen this girl. She looks too good to be true. I thought I have seen her picture in the ad of Nadia the red head in NC state area (with Nadia's phone number).

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/treat-yourself-to-the-best-sooooooooo-hot-21/5797056[/url][/QUOTE]Nothing on another site about the number or name either.

If any info from others, please post or PM.

Thanks

[QUOTE=Karezza; 1202123]These out of town scammers are ridiculous.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/exotic-pretty-french-canadian-27/5798287[/url][/QUOTE]How are you so sure she is fake? She has 3 reviews on that review site.

I agree with BWS 100% on his "Red Flag System" checklist. And Google is truly your best friend when checking validly of these ladies. As well as numerous other review & verification sites that are out there. You just have to put your time in and do your research!

One thing that I will add to BWS checklist that I have found VERY helpful in weeding out the fake pics & people is this site.

[url]http://www.tineye.com/[/url]

Just put the pic of the lady in there that she has posted. And it will do a quick scan and show you if that pic is listed other places on the web and where it is being used. It is not 100. But works very well and can save you from being scammed. Remember if it looks TGTBT. It probably is!

The final bit of advice that I will give you is. Do your own research. There is a plethora of good honest ladies in this area that just like to have fun like we do. Establish yourself as trusted person who is a gentlemen, and treats the ladies with the respect and courtesy that they so much deserve. And the way that YOU would want to be treated. And you will be fine.

Z.

[QUOTE=BigWilleyStyle; 1202523]I have an internal checklist I go thru.

Ad frequency:

If I see your ad 10 times on the same day. That's a red flag to me. Specially if the details or price changes. Doesn't absolutely mean you're scamming, but if you need to post that much to get calls it's probably a reason behind that.

Pics:

Are pics professional pics (you can always tell by the perfect lighting and professional backdrop) that show clear picture of face. If so check to see if the same pics are consistently used with the contact number (google is your best friend). If the picture changes a lot then it's pretty sure it's fake pic. Doesn't mean she's a scam, but fake pics indicate basic dishonesty if nothing else.

On the flip side, if the pics don't look professional (cam phone shots) I usually think it's legit because most people wouldn't steal cam pics.

Blurred out / obscured faces. There are legitimate reasons for a provider to do this, so I wouldn't disqualify a girl solely on this, but professional looking photos are with blurred face shots are always a red flag to me. If you're a full time pro and can afford professional shots, there's no reason to blur your face IMO.

Phone number Origin:

If the contact number is out of state, is it from far away. (like Vegas, AZ or CA)? If so I always google the name or number to see where else she has posted ads. If I see ads in every city in the country I usually move on because a person who moves from place to place is more likely to give you a bad experience than someone who visits one or two locations on a regular basis. The exception to this rule are the upscale providers who travel, but I'm not spending their kinda money anyway.

I like girls who tend to post from area codes that are within 2-4 hours driving distance of the triangle. Chances are better that a local or semi local is trying to build up clientel and is not trying to burn anyone.

Conversation:

This is the final test for me. I can usually tell if I'm going to get along with someone by the conversation. I know some girls want to stick to business, but if I can engage with them a bit it makes me feel more comfortable about visiting them. When I get the line "Call me back when you're ready to setup an appointment" before they even ask my name, that's a red flag to me. My thinking is if you're to busy to chat for a minute then why'd you answer the phone. These are the type of chicks who will answer the phone on you during your session. [/QUOTE]

Z Mann,

Good find. I always wished I had a tool like that. I shoulda known someone already created it. Definitely will add that to my scammer list.

Will L.

[QUOTE=Z Mann; 1202857]I agree with BWS 100% on his "Red Flag System" checklist. And Google is truly your best friend when checking validly of these ladies. As well as numerous other review & verification sites that are out there. You just have to put your time in and do your research!

One thing that I will add to BWS checklist that I have found VERY helpful in weeding out the fake pics & people is this site.

[url]http://www.tineye.com/[/url]

Just put the pic of the lady in there that she has posted. And it will do a quick scan and show you if that pic is listed other places on the web and where it is being used. It is not 100. But works very well and can save you from being scammed. Remember if it looks TGTBT. It probably is!

The final bit of advice that I will give you is. Do your own research. There is a plethora of good honest ladies in this area that just like to have fun like we do. Establish yourself as trusted person who is a gentlemen, and treats the ladies with the respect and courtesy that they so much deserve. And the way that YOU would want to be treated. And you will be fine.

Z[/QUOTE]

This is a good checklist, I am a new guy at this and wish I would have tried this with body rubs with Lynn.

QUOTE=BigWilleyStyle; 1202523]I have an internal checklist I go thru.

Ad frequency:

If I see your ad 10 times on the same day. That's a red flag to me. Specially if the details or price changes. Doesn't absolutely mean you're scamming, but if you need to post that much to get calls it's probably a reason behind that.

Pics:

Are pics professional pics (you can always tell by the perfect lighting and professional backdrop) that show clear picture of face. If so check to see if the same pics are consistently used with the contact number (google is your best friend). If the picture changes a lot then it's pretty sure it's fake pic. Doesn't mean she's a scam, but fake pics indicate basic dishonesty if nothing else.

On the flip side, if the pics don't look professional (cam phone shots) I usually think it's legit because most people wouldn't steal cam pics.

Blurred out / obscured faces. There are legitimate reasons for a provider to do this, so I wouldn't disqualify a girl solely on this, but professional looking photos are with blurred face shots are always a red flag to me. If you're a full time pro and can afford professional shots, there's no reason to blur your face IMO.

Phone number Origin:

If the contact number is out of state, is it from far away. (like Vegas, AZ or CA)? If so I always google the name or number to see where else she has posted ads. If I see ads in every city in the country I usually move on because a person who moves from place to place is more likely to give you a bad experience than someone who visits one or two locations on a regular basis. The exception to this rule are the upscale providers who travel, but I'm not spending their kinda money anyway.

I like girls who tend to post from area codes that are within 2-4 hours driving distance of the triangle. Chances are better that a local or semi local is trying to build up clientel and is not trying to burn anyone.

Conversation:

This is the final test for me. I can usually tell if I'm going to get along with someone by the conversation. I know some girls want to stick to business, but if I can engage with them a bit it makes me feel more comfortable about visiting them. When I get the line "Call me back when you're ready to setup an appointment" before they even ask my name, that's a red flag to me. My thinking is if you're to busy to chat for a minute then why'd you answer the phone. These are the type of chicks who will answer the phone on you during your session. [/QUOTE]

I have offered what I am comfortable sharing and know to be factually accurate.

[QUOTE=Froggy5;1201707]Can you tell me more about this? Specifically them?[/QUOTE]

Feel free to take comfort in that. I don't want to be the one arrested, while the definition of prostitution is debated. And as mentioned before, there are activities beyond FBSM contributing to the scrutiny.

FWIW.

Buk.

[QUOTE=Karezza;1202127]FBSM only for $$$ is NOT prostitution per NC General Statute"[/QUOTE]

I will offer this: there are many who do not want license plates recorded, or photographs taken while entering / leaving their residences. I am trying to warn without crossing lines. Please take it for what it's worth. We all have a personal threshold for risk tolerance; this crosses my threshold.

[QUOTE=Froggy5;1201707]Can you tell me more about this? Specifically them?[/QUOTE]

Check out Nikki.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/taste-my-chocolate-25/5824064[/url]

She new to the area and the scene. Very reasonable rates. Room is kinda junky. Don't know if she does outs.

Of potential ATF FBSM providers.

Well here I am again with another report of my attempts to find one girl to be my weekly.

This week's loser was.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/v-massage-fit-for-a-king-v-22/5757667[/url]

Too many ads is usually a sure sign of a problem, but I went against my better judgement and gave Hannah a try.

The bad:

Too fucking far away from every and any thing.

The "location". Jesus. I have seen less run down places on the news lately as tornado struck areas.

No air conditioning. Not going to happen in July in NC.

I was running late (due to point one) and she said she had called me back at the number I called from. Not cool. Luckily that is my office and all rhe outgoing shows from the same number.

Hannah. I don't mind bigger girls. Matter of fact I prefer them. But slovenly dressed, flipflops and a sweatstained tank top two sizes too small. No. And why is it that every girl that has a Playboy bunny logo tattoo is so far away from that type it isn't even funny.

Ok, the room. Yeah. The outside looks better. And whats with playing super loud urban contemporary music? Something a bit more low key would be more relaxing. And the bed. I am sort of suspicious of any one that doesn't put a towel down. Doubt she changes the sheets.

The rub. Basic crappy back rub. Flip. 30 seconds of chest and shoulders then.

" Does it usually take you long to nut?" as she starts with the happiness.

Really?

Needless to say I won't be back.

Thanks for that, I was planning on doing the same today.

[QUOTE=Notatall; 1203739]Of potential ATF FBSM providers.

Well here I am again with another report of my attempts to find one girl to be my weekly.

This week's loser was.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/v-massage-fit-for-a-king-v-22/5757667[/url]

Too many ads is usually a sure sign of a problem, but I went against my better judgement and gave Hannah a try.

The bad:

Too fucking far away from every and any thing.

The "location". Jesus. I have seen less run down places on the news lately as tornado struck areas.

No air conditioning. Not going to happen in July in NC.

I was running late (due to point one) and she said she had called me back at the number I called from. Not cool. Luckily that is my office and all rhe outgoing shows from the same number.

Hannah. I don't mind bigger girls. Matter of fact I prefer them. But slovenly dressed, flipflops and a sweatstained tank top two sizes too small. No. And why is it that every girl that has a Playboy bunny logo tattoo is so far away from that type it isn't even funny.

Ok, the room. Yeah. The outside looks better. And whats with playing super loud urban contemporary music? Something a bit more low key would be more relaxing. And the bed. I am sort of suspicious of any one that doesn't put a towel down. Doubt she changes the sheets.

The rub. Basic crappy back rub. Flip. 30 seconds of chest and shoulders then.

" Does it usually take you long to nut?" as she starts with the happiness.

Really?

Needless to say I won't be back. [/QUOTE]

Fellow travelers, I'm new to the field. Found ads for Daisy and Bobbie. It appears they work together at the same house. Only have $ for one and want to leave satisfied. Who do I choose? Bobbie or Daisy?

[QUOTE=Danny Danny; 1180508]Deanna sucks! Catherine is very "business" type. Both offer massage + HE.

Bobbie and Daisi is the best but they located in Sanford which is 30 mins from Cary.

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Zoe is fun, pretty and she got couple friends work with her.

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Henna is pretty good. But her place sucks.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/massage-for-the-working-man-in-the-rtp-area-till-friday-outcalls-also-avail-22/5615842[/url]

Hope this will help! Next time when I come to Charlotte, please be my guide LOL! [/QUOTE]

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