Provider knows my handle?
I try to keep my handle secret but maybe because of posts that weren't scrubbed, a provider I see may have figured out my handle. I posted a couple of red herrings to see if she would react. The first time I did, she contacted me pretty quickly. Most recently, things have been "stressed" between us and I posted another red herring. Soon after, she blew up my Phn with texts.
Could be coincidence, since she never mentioned posts or my handle. But, suspicious nonetheless. Anyone have a provider figure out your handle? Was it good or bad?