Life Ain't Nothing But Bitches And Money! -Ice Cube.
The way I look at it you are either paying for pussy on the front end or the back end. If you have a girlfriend, wife, mistress or friends with benefits. You are spending money on them with paying mortgages, rent, utilities, buying food, car payments, dates, gifts, vacations. And ect. Lose your job and see how long your wife or girlfriend you live with continue to give you pussy. That is paying for it on the back-end. The front-end is what we guys are. Doing. Laying the money on the dresser and getting the pussy! Take a random chick out to dinner and a movie at night. It will cost you a $100 dollars or close to it. You still might not get any pussy especially if it is a first date. Unless she is a ****. So it works both ways. But most guys don't think they are paying for it on the back-end. LOL.