[QUOTE=Azzy15;3614643]Anyone using SA? Is it worth the hassel if msging back and force? Seems like there were plenty of girls on that site who think she's. 01%. Looking for gift showers for coffee dates. I'd anyone have legit SA girl. Please let me know.[/QUOTE]Depends on what you're looking for. There are girls on SA that are P4 P but would prefer to find a reliable SD, there are girls that really want the SD-type connection and won't do P4 P, there are girls with serious GPS, there are girls with the silly notion that guys will pay them just to be arm candy or other "platonic" type connections, and there are (way too many!) girls that are scammers / ripoffs or trying to ply their sob story into something for nothing. On the flip side, there are guys trying to scam those SB's into free sex, misogynists and women-haters and dweebs with mommy-issues that rip them off or beat them up, and guys who play games with them just because they can. It can be a challenge to find what meets your needs for both SDs and SBs. And for some, that challenge is part of the enjoyment.
Some thoughts on playing in the sugar bowl:
1. Know what you want before diving in, and be committed to it. There are forums where some of these girls exchange info on us SDs just like this board lets us swap info on them, so word gets around pretty quickly on guys that are players or "splenda daddies". There's at least one gaggle of VCU girls that I know of that all have SA profiles. They all know each other, are friends and partners in working the guys on SA, and swap info between themselves and to their larger circle of friends, so that's another vector for bad info about SDs to get around. Don't be that guy; don't offer what you can't provide (whether it be money, travel, emotional attachment or whatever it is the particular girl is looking for) and treat them with respect, and you'll have great experiences.
2. Be prepared financially. The $60/ qv type girls are few and far between on SA. The vast majority expect call-girl-level money, whether or not they're actually worth it. Doesn't mean you can't bargain, but in general playing in the bowl is going to cost you noticeably more than street girls or UTRs. Be smart about your finances. Especially if you're hiding your activities from a spouse.
3. As a rule, the younger the girl, the less she understands what the sugar bowl is really about. I've pretty much sworn off all the SBs under 30, and never ever never under 25 or so. The super-hot 21-yr-old might really wind your crank, but she's guaranteed to bring more drama with her too. It's just not worth it. The ladies that are a little more mature understand what this is all about, and tend to be at least somewhat stable and less drama-laden. South of 25 or so, you're much more likely to find a girl who's playing in the bowl because her world is collapsing around her financially and is full of drama. Maybe you're OK with drama. For me, it ain't worth it. What the somewhat older ladies may lack in being that college-cheerleader-hottie type that you crave, they more than make up for in less drama and being easier to work with. My two absolute best SBs (both long-term) were in their 40's; every girl south of 25 that I've tried has been way more trouble that she was worth.
There's more but I'm out of time. There's a whole forum section here on the bowl. You should spend some time reading it if you haven't already.
