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[QUOTE=Aman123;4185766]I'm curious why you would spend $ on others when you can get it free from your wife.[/QUOTE]What a HILARIOUS post!
[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/[/URL] for starters.
ETA: Nobody gets it for free. One way or the other, everybody pays. Except maybe the "Chad Thundercock" guys.
[QUOTE=TwoBlueBalls;4185776]Clearly you're not married. I'm not married either but know enough married folks to understand.[/QUOTE]Make the first comment on this when I saw it. I am not married either but have enough married guys as friends or business associates to know that it all gets very old or in many cases the sex is not an option any longer. I had a gf that one day she just decided to cross her legs. So I mean really the post must either be a spoof or possibly the guy is in a beautiful marriage. First thought would be then why is he participating in this forum?
[QUOTE=KarnEvil9;4185586]Go to the racetrack 4 or 5 times a year etc. You can even take her with you. Go to Arlington Park (Opening Day is Friday May 3rd), have lunch, a few drinks and always tell her you either won less, or lost more than you really did. You'll accept the money spent as a day out having fun and you will be able to rathole pretty easily out there.[/QUOTE]FYI to all you horseplayers. Hawthorne's opening day is this Friday March 15th. A dump of a track for sure but live racing will be back!
I posted this on another thread, but it doesn't get much traffic. Figured I'd try here. I'm looking for a new indie FBSM provider. Younger or mature both fine, don't want obese or hairy armpits. Only want happy endings (multiples nice but not necessary), mutual touch, and available on weekends. Don't want BJ. Trying to be more budget conscious, so none of the $300 nonsense posted on Eros. Any suggestions?
[QUOTE=KarnEvil9;4185586]Start paying cash for as many things as you can. Tell her you you are getting concerned about identity theft and / or big brother knowing what you are buying / spending, and that you want to start paying in cash more often.
Start with, or always keep $500 to $1000 (as an example) liquid cash on hand. If you go to Home Depot and spend $100, if she asks, you tell her you spent $140 and you rathole the extra $40. Just don't keep receipts around if you don't have to. Restaurants are even better. You get the bill, pay cash and just leave the receipt in the leather folder they give you. Odds are, even if she knows how much the entree's cost, she won't know what the drinks cost, or how much tip you gave. You can always say you gave extra on the tip because the service was great tonight.
Paying cash for gas is kind of a hassle, but there is almost no way she is going to know how much you are paying for gas. Also, service on your car. An extra oil change, radiator flush, windshield wipers etc.
Go to the racetrack 4 or 5 times a year etc. You can even take her with you. Go to Arlington Park (Opening Day is Friday May 3rd), have lunch, a few drinks and always tell her you either won less, or lost more than you really did. You'll accept the money spent as a day out having fun and you will be able to rathole pretty easily out there.
Please remember, pigs get fed and hogs get slaughtered. Just try not to do too much, too soon. A little here and there and before you know it, you'll have quite the stash.
Good luck to you.[/QUOTE]Damn, this is some good advice. I also get reimbursement checks from work that are sent to my office, no direct deposit, and I just cash them. Racetrack, casino, guys night out, all good reasons. Also, another tactic is to have a joint and two personal accounts, that's what we have, with the excuse of having presents and surprises stay that way. You just have to remember to actually get her stuff sometimes!
[QUOTE=Vbenny;4185227]My wife has encouraged me to merge my bank account with hers and at this point it would look extremely suspicious if I refuse to do it (it's been 5+ years of being married now). How have you guys navigated getting enough cash out of shared accounts without causing suspicion? I fear that outside of a slow trickle of atm withdrawals I won't come up with any other ideas. That would greatly reduce my dreaming.[/QUOTE]Along with the suggestions from our fellow mongers, even single guys should diversify their accounts. As the saying goes, you don't want to put all your eggs in one basket. For instance, I'm case one of you becomes the victim of identity theft or someone hacks into your account. Good excuse to have multiple accounts whether to deceive known and unknown peering eyes.
I have a room downtown if anyone wants to share it. Bring a girl LOL.
Not a senior myself but known people preferred.
[QUOTE=ChicagoLife;4186901]I have a room downtown if anyone wants to share it. Bring a girl LOL.
Not a senior myself but known people preferred.[/QUOTE]Next time message me direct! LOL.
Jk. It's good to have guys get word out and make this smoother hobby.
[QUOTE=StanleyStankas;4186144]Make the first comment on this when I saw it. I am not married either but have enough married guys as friends or business associates to know that it all gets very old or in many cases the sex is not an option any longer. I had a gf that one day she just decided to cross her legs. So I mean really the post must either be a spoof or possibly the guy is in a beautiful marriage. First thought would be then why is he participating in this forum?[/QUOTE]Even with girlfriends we go through through the honeymoon stage. As the saying goes, when the honeymoon is over, it's over! A beautiful marriage is having a stunning wife that cooks, cleans, sucks and fucks to my hearts desire and understands my need to to explore. Guess I'll remain single for a long time!
Pretty sure if you can get $40 back at Target etc when using a debit card. If she asks to to stop for milk and bread the might not notice the EXTRA $$.
[QUOTE=Vbenny;4185227]My wife has encouraged me to merge my bank account with hers and at this point it would look extremely suspicious if I refuse to do it (it's been 5+ years of being married now). How have you guys navigated getting enough cash out of shared accounts without causing suspicion? I fear that outside of a slow trickle of atm withdrawals I won't come up with any other ideas. That would greatly reduce my dreaming.[/QUOTE]
Anyone have a room to split? Prefer northside or downtown. I also have a girl that might be down. Known friends preferred for getting weird with a girl. Early 20's white.
[QUOTE=MrCharmo;4188228]Anyone have a room to split? Prefer northside or downtown. I also have a girl that might be down. Known friends preferred for getting weird with a girl. Early 20's white.[/QUOTE]Where do you find all these girls? SA? If so, I might have to join. Been hesitant because heard a lot of them were scammer.
[QUOTE=Aman123;4188286]Where do you find all these girls? SA? If so, I might have to join. Been hesitant because heard a lot of them were scammer.[/QUOTE]You have to find which way works best for you. Online is big- SBs, social media, personals. I'm trying to get back into the game, but I've been pretty creative in the past haha. Not always the most obvious ways sometimes, but you can still end up with a naked preMed NW student freak on your bed. You just have to keep swinging to hit. Cliche but true.
P4 p is the easiest, but The BEST are real-time pickups out and about. I've been getting numbers randomly at Target, the girl at the mechanics shop, Home Depot, stuff like that. But you really need to have your game up for that, I'm not quite there yet. Need to work on getting my juice back up to really close.
I'm about to hire an assistant for some work I need done. She brought her daughter last night. Not jaw-dropping but cute early 20's. Not to be a scumbag but I will be nice to her and feel her out. Wouldn't be p4 p, just drinks and show her a nice time.
For p4 p it can be pretty direct, girl you see shopping downtown. Or slow drip long game. That waitress at the restaurant you go to. Chat with her, if you pick up on some signs there can be room to play. Dtf or p4 p.
[QUOTE=Bsuh69;4186401]Damn, this is some good advice. I also get reimbursement checks from work that are sent to my office, no direct deposit, and I just cash them. Racetrack, casino, guys night out, all good reasons. Also, another tactic is to have a joint and two personal accounts, that's what we have, with the excuse of having presents and surprises stay that way. You just have to remember to actually get her stuff sometimes![/QUOTE]I think Clark Howard says the 3 accounts is the best way also. His, hers and joint accounts with common bills from the joint account and then each has their own account to manage their personal expenses. If or when you get divorced or split it will make things much easier also.
Or rubber, latex? I'm having a hard time staying hard when using condoms. But also don't want to hit bb raw too wrecklessly. Someone had mentioned a good resource for pills? I've had pills before but have never used them. And if a girl doesn't really do it for me these days it can present problems. LOL.
Can anyone chime in? Not sure if it was on this thread. Someone mentioned lemonade site or something?