[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2311263]Ah Amigo, pull up a chair we gots some learnin' to do. One has some "interesting" perceptions.
I'd rather hook up with a girl off CL - One just has got to learn to spot the fakes and frauds and then, when discovered, FLAG them. Chances are a girl on CL might be an under the radar (UTR) girl - i. e. Single Mom, employed thrill seeker, etc. These are the gems that one can repeat with, are discrete and can be a great date! Some things to know about CL:
1) Again, [b]tineye and Google image are your friends.[/b] Use those and after a while you should "get an eye" for the fake pictures. Rather than getting a boner over a VERY hot pic, one will be able to spot the fake and flag the post or move on and not waste any time.
2) Second when you respond to a CL advert and the first reply you get from that inquiry - [b]IF that response has an e-mail address in it - FORGET IT! It is a fake.[/b] This response is nothing more than a poster trying to get real verified email addys to sell to spammers.
3) Next [b]watch out for posts that have been reposted[/b] 3 days ago, 5 days ago, 15 days ago. Whatever! Look any girl who posts gets 100 replies in the first hour. I can't figure out why a girl could not find a FB out of the massive number of replies. There is NEVER an reason for a girl to need to repost her CL advert. That is the lazy step the spammers take.
4) [b]Watch for incomplete CL posts[/b] - no age, no location, etc. If one is a spammer they need to post MANY times and adding all of that info takes time, so the spammers short cut things. After a while it is easy to spot. Combine missing info with reposting and it is surely a fake.
5) [b]Phone numbers in CL posts can be dangerous, unless the advert is clearly P2P.[/b] But hey - Be careful, there is a site called "Exposing Johns" that posts adverts on these sites to entrap guys and extort them. If you are gunna call a "blind" CL advert, be smart and use a GV number! - preferably on a burn phone. That way [B][u]when[/u][/B] your numbers get compromised you can send the phone swimming and dump the GV number- then start over.
So with time and experience one will get an eye for CL posts and be able to avoid the bad ones (fakers, spammers, etc.) [u]Remember, half of what most people think of as "garbage" on CL is because the P2 P types frequent there.[/u] One man's garbage is another man's gem stone. I assume yer looking for P*ssy(???), so that fact that it is prevalent on CL should be a good thing. But hey, if one is "sensitive" and gets pizzed off by scammers / spammers then stay away from CL. If one is patient, takes time to learn the skills, then CL can be a resource for the monger tool kit.
Now as to BP - Jeez. [b]About half of what is on BP, I wouldn't stick yer d*ck into let alone my own![/b] Get en eye for the girls in Cooky's posts. Take a ride along K-St. Learn to get an eye for what the K-girls and SWs look like. Once you "know" that "look" one will be able to "see" the BP girls that are the "same" as those on K St. You want to pay "escort" prices for a fancied up, drug addled SW, who will provide SW service? Hey - Its a free country and a fool and his money are soon parted. The point is that there is some misconception out there that "escorts" are on BP. No, every girl that decides to spread her legs and who has the $5 posting fee is on BP. Being on BP is no guarantee for level of service, freedom from disease or drugs or legitimacy. Plenty of guys have been ripped off by BP girls or their BFs or "handlers!"
Look dude you got to decide what yer in the game for?
* You need a quick dump of some baby batter? Find a SW.
* You like "the hunt" and bagging prey? Hunt SWs.
* You like something new all the time? Chase SWs.
* You like the thrill of unwrapping something different each time? Work yer way through the SWs.
* You want an close physical situation with plenty of personal attention & touching? Hit up an AMP.
* You want to make-out, feel like you are with a girl friend for a few hours? Find a real escort on Eros, BGFE, etc.
* You short on funds, want one of the above and go looking on BP? Go to the casino with your money instead!
Get some BP experience! Text, email or CALL 10 adverts there. Report back:
What percentage of the girls answered?
How many sounded stoned, high or semi-conscious?
How many pushed right away with "When you coming?" or "You gots the money?
How many are in a decent neighborhood or safe location?
How many answered your questions about the particular services you like?
How many quoted something different from what is in the advert?
How many have "up charges" for certain things?
How many of the adverts use non-standard English, street slang or ghetto talk?
How many "rocket scientists" does one encounter. Or just too stupid to F*ck?
I know it doesn't make sense, but in this game one really needs to use the BIG head in a big way, before they unleash the little one. Well, I guess that isn't true -if one likes to pay tuition in the school of mongering and one likes to learn things "experientially?" I dunno for me, rather learn to play the game, venture forth only on high percentage dates that are going to be what I'm looking for and in the long run, preserve cash.
But hey, what the heck do I know?
Good luck! Stay safe![/QUOTE]Great advice!!
