As always your words are eloquently spoken
[QUOTE=Supereloquent]One of the rules of this forum is not to make negative comments about a monger's choice to use or not use a raincoat. Moreover, we would be pretty hypocritical to have encounters with high risk SWs who use needles, etc., and then condemn another for his choice of protection (even if nothing) against any number STDs, the most serious of which are lifelong and/or deadly. A reasonably intelligent person knows the risks and the precautions to take and makes his choices accordingly. As for me, I choose to take what I consider to be acceptable risks and I certainly have no death wish nor desire to catch anything, which I have been fortunate enough never to experience.
When I heard from various "Deep Throat" SW informants that the incidence of requesting BBFS was in the 60-70% range I will admit that I was quite surprised. There would seem to me something amiss that this would be the case. I am not sure what it says about sex education in our public schools and elsewhere, the availability of STD information or perhaps just the recklessness of many who think they are indestructible, or just don't care about the possible consequences. But apparently it is a fact and not just speculation, whatever the reasons. Fortunately the better providers don't engage in such risky behavior, even though asked frequently, (or at least they say they don't, and say so quite emphatically). While I can't help what another monger decides not to do for his own protection, I still have a concern over his bad behavior posing a further risk to me. It is in that vein that I do not condemn him but sincerely wish he would wise up.[/QUOTE]
Sorry...... such reckless behavior is just plain stupid. If your "deepthroat" source is correct. Then the stroll is much more dangerous than I ever imagined. The number one reason why a monger may not care to use protection is becuase he has nothing to loose(he already has a disease).
I hope those of you that are spending time on the ave are taking notes and remembering the ladies and the mongers who are exhibitting this kind of behavior. I think we all know the risks of this hobby we engage in but some things are just plain stupid. This is one of those things.
You are absloutely right....
[QUOTE=Peter Johnson]Agreed and it is a good rule. The others can get off their high horse because no one cares what they think is reckless or not....for one it is a buzzkill and makes it less likely for those mongers to share information and pics.
the general public thinks seeing any provider covered or uncovered is crazy and reckless. You guys need a reality check.
Life is about taking risks and it's up to each person to decide what risks are "crazy" and which ones are "worth it". So with all due respect, stfu if you do not agree with the risk/reward ratio that another monger has decided is appropriate for himself.[/QUOTE]
I should "stfu" since I dont even particpate in this activity anyway. JUsty voicing my opinion and ....my opinion is nill on this subject...
thanks for putting me in my place...