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[QUOTE=Pibroch;5163109]This site would be better if senior members would stop being fucking assholes to newbies or low volume hobbyists? IJS.[/QUOTE]In the past, the reason why senior members would ask newbies to post a review before asking questions was this was a way to make a LEO check. It wasn't meant for seniors to be assholes to newbies. It was a way to make sure that person was legit.
[QUOTE=MoneyT;5163233]In the past, the reason why senior members would ask newbies to post a review before asking questions was this was a way to make a LEO check. It wasn't meant for seniors to be assholes to newbies. It was a way to make sure that person was legit.[/QUOTE]If the police report from the McDonald shooting is any indication, the cops are pretty good at creative writing. Why would anyone think they couldn't fake a review?
[QUOTE=MoneyT;5163233]In the past, the reason why senior members would ask newbies to post a review before asking questions was this was a way to make a LEO check. It wasn't meant for seniors to be assholes to newbies. It was a way to make sure that person was legit.[/QUOTE]My opinion on the matter is this: Often times, some posters only ask for info and never share any. Sharing is what the site is about. With that said, if someone is asking for info on a first post, or has made 4 posts all asking for info etc. They have not yet earned any credibility, and have not contributed at all. More importantly, it shows a lack of effort in reading and scrolling to get their question (s) answered. There is plenty of info already being provided, all they have to do is search, scroll down a thread, and they would have an excellent starting point. People are very generous about sharing info, but, you can't just show up and start asking without first making an effort to research the threads yourself, or without providing any reviews yourself. It is pretty simple. You work, then you get to eat. This site may be a microcosm of that. Don't put your hand out without first making an effort and don't put your hand out asking for food if you did not contribute to the planting or harvesting. Most guys are ok on this site and are helpful. Don't take the shortcuts first.
You work before you eat. Look at the majority of guys with 1 and 2 posts that ask for info. Almost ALL of them never come back with a report of "TOFTT". Ya never hear from them again. Guys like that simply don't deserve help. Take one for the team. Hell, even go to a known good provider and report that it's still good. Show even just a smidgeon of effort. That's all.
And for the person calling me out as an asshole? Whatever dude. Anonymity breeds heroism. LOL.
[QUOTE=Datsurman;5162895]The internet is so common nowadays, why would a girl who is pretty enough to have options walk around the streets in the freezing cold for some guy to pick her up on the chance that someone will who isn't a ripoff, a cop, or a killer. She could just hang with her friends until she gets a text message. Maybe it made sense 20 or 30 years ago.
On the flip side, my worry would be.
1 the girl is a guy.
2 the girl is a cop.
3 the girl is a ripoff or working with a pimp or gang.
4 the girl is skank.
You not worried about any of these?[/QUOTE]No argument from me. It means most of the girls left on the street probably fall into one of the following categories.
She is always losing phones.
She is always getting phones stolen.
Used up minutes.
So desperate for cash, she can't wait for internet response.
No tec skills.
The only issues I see is the amount of BS on the Internet, what girls on the Internet charge, and eventually LEO will catch up.
[QUOTE=SawBoy1740;5164626]You work before you eat. Look at the majority of guys with 1 and 2 posts that ask for info. Almost ALL of them never come back with a report of "TOFTT". Ya never hear from them again. Guys like that simply don't deserve help. Take one for the team. Hell, even go to a known good provider and report that it's still good. Show even just a smidgeon of effort. That's all.
And for the person calling me out as an asshole? Whatever dude. Anonymity breeds heroism. LOL.[/QUOTE][BLUE]This is in blue which means I'm speaking ex cathedra, anybody can ask any fucking question they feel like and you need to not jump on their ass for it. I hope that's clear enough. You don't have to answer them, you can put them on your ignore list, you can scroll the fuck past but what you can't do is create an environment where a couple of douchebags like you make people afraid to post.
I didn't put you back on moderation because I just got some excellent pussy and I'm in a good mood.
To the guy who said seniors do this to make sure they aren't LEO. If LEO actually trolled these forums, they don't, nothing here is admissible evidence, LEO has much better lines of information than an anonymous sex forum, what in the fuck would stop them from writing a few reports.
SOME senior members do that shit because they are assholes like this idiot who's calling somebody out for being a keyboard warrior from behind his fucking keyboard, and they like to haze people. They are the biggest obstacle to growth and the free exchange of information this forum has.
If you don't want to answer somebody don't, if they are annoying put them on your ignore list, fuck I wish I could, but keep all of this stupid bullshit off the review forums, it has no place there.
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[QUOTE=Datsurman;5162895]The internet is so common nowadays, why would a girl who is pretty enough to have options walk around the streets in the freezing cold for some guy to pick her up on the chance that someone will who isn't a ripoff, a cop, or a killer. She could just hang with her friends until she gets a text message. Maybe it made sense 20 or 30 years ago.
On the flip side, my worry would be.
1 the girl is a guy.
2 the girl is a cop.
3 the girl is a ripoff or working with a pimp or gang.
4 the girl is skank.
You not worried about any of these?[/QUOTE]All four of those could happen whether you found her on the street or online. Those wouldn't be my criteria for deciding what channel to use.
I'm at a restaurant with this so-so looking BBW. A guy walks by and insults / criticizes about her appearance.
What would you do / say in this circumstance / situation?
Administration is welcome to input his / her advice.
[QUOTE=Pibroch;5163109]This site would be better if senior members would stop being fucking assholes to newbies or low volume hobbyists? IJS.[/QUOTE]Senior member won't help newbie therefore asshole. LOL. Senior member tells newbie to put work in if they want to see results. Damn those assholes LOL.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5165499]All four of those could happen whether you found her on the street or online. Those wouldn't be my criteria for deciding what channel to use.[/QUOTE]But it's easier on the street to weed out than if you take the time to park car and go up to the room and knock on the door to find out it's not the girl in the picture or it is LEO or you just dropped $150 for subpar service. It's usually cheaper on the street too.
[QUOTE=HanginBalls;5172896]I'm at a restaurant with this so-so looking BBW. A guy walks by and insults / criticizes about her appearance.
What would you do / say in this circumstance / situation?
Administration is welcome to input his / her advice.[/QUOTE]If some guy insulted my girl I would immediately verbally correct that dudes behavior and take it from there. Most people will show their belly if you push back. But that's me. I'm a large muscular guy, all state wrestler, and purple belt in bjj. Guys like me typically don't associate w bbw's to begin w and random dudes don't insult my date. It's more likely for me to chase off other dudes hitting on my date.
Don't take this personally but I'm guessing you're not like me. I still think you should stand up for her / yourself. Not pick a fight necessarily but calmly and firmly telling him that's not acceptable. I think the odds of escalation beyond that are low and if you catch one in the jaw so be it. In any case you'll feel better about yourself than having done nothing.
[QUOTE=ChezBonobo;5174380]If some guy insulted my girl I would immediately verbally correct that dudes behavior and take it from there. Most people will show their belly if you push back. But that's me. I'm a large muscular guy, all state wrestler, and purple belt in bjj. Guys like me typically don't associate w bbw's to begin w and random dudes don't insult my date. It's more likely for me to chase off other dudes hitting on my date.
Don't take this personally but I'm guessing you're not like me. I still think you should stand up for her / yourself. Not pick a fight necessarily but calmly and firmly telling him that's not acceptable. I think the odds of escalation beyond that are low and if you catch one in the jaw so be it. In any case you'll feel better about yourself than having done nothing.[/QUOTE]When I grew up being a big tough guy put you at the top of the food chain, in todays world there are way too many guys with a blade or a gun who are itching to use them rather than being shown up by anyone else. It is truly a jungle out there.
[QUOTE=ChezBonobo;5174380]If some guy insulted my girl I would immediately verbally correct that dudes behavior and take it from there. Most people will show their belly if you push back. But that's me. I'm a large muscular guy, all state wrestler, and purple belt in bjj. Guys like me typically don't associate w bbw's to begin w and random dudes don't insult my date. It's more likely for me to chase off other dudes hitting on my date.
Don't take this personally but I'm guessing you're not like me. I still think you should stand up for her / yourself. Not pick a fight necessarily but calmly and firmly telling him that's not acceptable. I think the odds of escalation beyond that are low and if you catch one in the jaw so be it. In any case you'll feel better about yourself than having done nothing.[/QUOTE]I'm a smaller guy (except in one particular area). I'm from the streets and have had my share of scuffs. The lady I was with was from a date site where I should actually restate attractive just 50 #'s overweight. She's about 5'10"s, 200#'s with massive tits (40 H) and a voracious sex appetite! I approached the guy verbally and he got smart with me. Let's just say he wound up worse for wear (BTW. He was bigger than me). I was just wondering what one would "say" to a verbal assaulter so one doesn't wind up in a jail cell. How would you verbally correct that dude??
[QUOTE=HanginBalls;5175569]I'm a smaller guy (except in one particular area). I'm from the streets and have had my share of scuffs. The lady I was with was from a date site where I should actually restate attractive just 50 #'s overweight. She's about 5'10"s, 200#'s with massive tits (40 H) and a voracious sex appetite! I approached the guy verbally and he got smart with me. Let's just say he wound up worse for wear (BTW. He was bigger than me). I was just wondering what one would "say" to a verbal assaulter so one doesn't wind up in a jail cell. How would you verbally correct that dude??[/QUOTE]He's a grown man acting like a child. Just point out the ridiculousness of that. Hearing that out loud should be enough for him to recognize he's being a child. At a bare min he'll recognize the immediate onlookers are thinking the same thing. Should be enough for shame for him to backdown. Also very important don't lose control of your emotions. Whoever loses their shit always appears weaker. If you get slugged after that everybody will know you came out on top of that interaction regardless if he knows it or not.
Fellas, lookin for a little help. Been in the hobby for roughly 7 years, mainly back when backpage was in full swing and I didn't even know that this forum existed. Now older, and a need to be sneakier, I was wondering what you all do about a hobby phone number. I have googled my own phone number and it's amazing what I can find out about myself and family. Can't have that coming around to bite me in the ass. This makes it difficult to find new variety as now I am sticking with a regular girl that I trust and AMPs that don't need to know anything about me. Please, give me some ideas. Thanks in advance!