The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=Sparkish;6194452]I haven't been on seeking in a couple years because my life just hasn't left much time for it; but when I was spending time on there, my approach echoed BTC's and I wouldn't change a thing. He's not rewarding the wrong behavior, he's pursuing the course that gets him what he wants. There's more than one way to skin a cat; and just because it's not yours doesn't make it wrong. There's a lot of unsolicited, yet oddly specific, advice on here about people should run their game. If you're getting what you want out of it, then it's not wrong.[/QUOTE]I agree with you- and definitely not trying to tell anybody what to do. Whatever a person is good with for them- more power to them! I originally made the comment because I don't think its necessary to pay somebody for a meet and greet. Drinks and / or lunch or dinner is plenty generous and that will be sufficient for truly interested chicks. The other concern is that paying them merely to meet in situations that go no further just cultivate the expectation of $ to meet (with no further intent) as a hobby among these girls.

[QUOTE=PicHunter;6194238]FriendlyGirl wants 1 K, might take. 8 . Less friendly when you reuse her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/048ca3c2-adc0-472c-afa4-b3ea9532d498[/URL][/QUOTE]Her opener with me was $800. I politely told her no thanks and made no counter-offer.

Subforyou wants cash for gas before heading your way. Boasted about just getting paid 400 by someone else. Even if that was the case, she should have been cashed up enough to get her gas on her way over.

Also, given the pic she sent me, I think that there have been quite a few miles since sunflower pic was taken.

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[QUOTE=Sicilly;6194181]You probably sent $ to a dude. Plus she didn't even show her face on her profile. I can understand if you're like really ugly and need to send $ in order to get a M&G, but you seem to know the unwritten (but always posted) rule about sending $. You still did it and I bet you wasn't that much surprised when she ghosted ya. I'm surprised that you admitted doing it.

1. If you send $ first, they will then ghost ya.

2. If you bust a nut first, then you will ghost them.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure it wasn't a dude because I put the cash straight into her hand. I'm not the type that will cashapp someone so that they can get their power back on or for gas money because they want to visit me from Ocala.

I really just posted the original report to help you all know to avoid that one. If you all think my methods stink and want to criticize whatever, just don't be condescending.

[QUOTE=BTC13;6196950]I'm pretty sure it wasn't a dude because I put the cash straight into her hand. I'm not the type that will cashapp someone so that they can get their power back on or for gas money because they want to visit me from Ocala.

I really just posted the original report to help you all know to avoid that one. If you all think my methods stink and want to criticize whatever, just don't be condescending.[/QUOTE]And her profile is gone which just shows she is full of crap and a scammer. I am not being condescending but I will double down on my opinion that you should not be paying for meet a greets. Word gets around and they will all expect that.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6197384]And her profile is gone which just shows she is full of crap and a scammer. I am not being condescending but I will double down on my opinion that you should not be paying for meet a greets. Word gets around and they will all expect that.[/QUOTE]FunMiss is still up for me. Likely blocked you Rugger.

Regardless, everyone's game has their own rules and goals and that's okay.

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[QUOTE=Sparkish;6194452] If you're getting what you want out of it, then it's not wrong.[/QUOTE]But he didn't, hence the SMH posts. Yes, if he or you want to waste your money then sure, go for it, if it works then good on ya, but we all know it usually doesn't work.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6197384]And her profile is gone which just shows she is full of crap and a scammer. I am not being condescending but I will double down on my opinion that you should not be paying for meet a greets. Word gets around and they will all expect that.[/QUOTE]They have already made up their minds what they expect before you even reach out to them. Last night a woman in Orlando told me that she typically gets $600-800 per meet and doesn't host. Just because I passed at that level doesn't mean that she is going to stop asking for that much, because she probably has gotten that much before. I'm not going to hate on the guy who paid her that much either though because we all have our own budgets and desires. And even if I never paid for a meet and greet, others will so it's not going to stop them from requesting it.

[QUOTE=BTC13;6196950]I'm pretty sure it wasn't a dude because I put the cash straight into her hand. I'm not the type that will cashapp someone so that they can get their power back on or for gas money because they want to visit me from Ocala.

I really just posted the original report to help you all know to avoid that one. If you all think my methods stink and want to criticize whatever, just don't be condescending.[/QUOTE]LOL, I'm sure our "condescending" posts didn't really bother you. Its a known fact that giving $ for a M&G will only get you the meet&greet. If even that. Nobody will change anyone's mind that offering $ for a M&G will lead to anything more. Not going to happen. I do not think you did the M&G to TOFTT, even tho you posted it. If you are old, fat, ugly or just a stupid moron with halitosis and BO then yeah, I can see having to pay for a M $G, but once they see you then its game over. IF on the other hand you're halfway good looking like me, then its a free M $G and they usually will want to go further.

P.S. I've ghosted more chicks I've done a M&G with than they've ghosted me. Those friggn filters piss me off to no end.

What is the best suger site for a long time legit arrangement? I'm asking for a man I work for?

I can't remember the one I used. Maybe it was adult dried finder. I don't believe so.

Looking for the popular one that men had to pay to join.

Ty.

Be safe.

[QUOTE=Ginger1013;6197780]What is the best suger site for a long time legit arrangement?[/QUOTE]Not sure you're real but sites that sell credits for engagement are motivated to have time wasting profiles so you spend credits each time you attempt to engage.

As for an arrangement lasting, that's not site specific, it's between you and her and how well you manage the relationship as the boss.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;6197656]LOL, I'm sure our "condescending" posts didn't really bother you. Its a known fact that giving $ for a M&G will only get you the meet&greet. If even that. Nobody will change anyone's mind that offering $ for a M&G will lead to anything more. Not going to happen. I do not think you did the M&G to TOFTT, even tho you posted it. If you are old, fat, ugly or just a stupid moron with halitosis and BO then yeah, I can see having to pay for a M $G, but once they see you then its game over. IF on the other hand you're halfway good looking like me, then its a free M $G and they usually will want to go further.

P.S. I've ghosted more chicks I've done a M&G with than they've ghosted me. Those friggn filters piss me off to no end.[/QUOTE]Yeah the filters and misleading pictures are insane. Went to meet a girl the other day. She said she was at the end of the bar. Looked like maybe it was her mother instead. I just kept walking. Had no idea how else to handle it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3867aa3e-1012-48ac-8441-2e1846a73eba[/URL]

Wants 50% deposit. Same old I have been scammed before story.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6198275]Yeah the filters and misleading pictures are insane. Went to meet a girl the other day. She said she was at the end of the bar. Looked like maybe it was her mother instead. I just kept walking. Had no idea how else to handle it.[/QUOTE]Had a girl show up for a meet & greet at a thai place for lunch, she was 5'5 & over 300 lbs. ***** even got desert on my dime.

BrightBelle wholesome (near) professional pics, don't think she's real. Didn't try to scam me but don't think she'll ever meet you. Waste of time for me.

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