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[QUOTE=PicHunter;6187735]EndearingRocker's second message to me was "Where are you from, where do you live, and where are you now?
I offered a DNA sample.
"She" claimed to just wanting information on each other.
Don't waste your time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6c6ee581-bd93-422b-927f-d7efc935d44b[/URL][/QUOTE]"She" will pop up with different profiles and in different cities. I'm not sure about the nature of the scam- but it definitely is.
[QUOTE=RickDugan;6186043]Anyone have any experience with SunshineEli?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b17b46a5-b958-4d2c-8ba9-3d77508a9a02[/URL]
Sorry to come on with my hand out, which I hate doing, but any experiences would be appreciated as I'm deep in discussions with her.[/QUOTE]She claims to be a pro domme. Ask her to verify. If she's legit, that shouldn't be too hard.
I'm suspicious of a 24-year old pro domme claiming years of experience, but hey, weirder things have happened.
[QUOTE=PervNerd48;6188556]She claims to be a pro domme. Ask her to verify. If she's legit, that shouldn't be too hard.
I'm suspicious of a 24-year old pro domme claiming years of experience, but hey, weirder things have happened.[/QUOTE]She is not what I would call a handsome woman.
Met this one for a meet and greet. Was cute and seemed normal. Gave a small donation for the m&g to show I was serious. We set up a regular meeting, but she wound up pushing it back by a day at first, and then ghosted me completely. Don't bother with that one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10a3a07a-02f5-400d-b905-1d4aa0e1cadb[/URL]
[QUOTE=BTC13;6189541]Met this one for a meet and greet. Was cute and seemed normal. Gave a small donation for the m&g to show I was serious. We set up a regular meeting, but she wound up pushing it back by a day at first, and then ghosted me completely. Don't bother with that one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10a3a07a-02f5-400d-b905-1d4aa0e1cadb[/URL][/QUOTE]Why would you ever pay anything for a Meet and Greet?!
That doesn't show you are serious.
If they give you "well it's for my time". Guess what- it's your time too. And whose time do you think is worth more?
A M&G is just that, if they are interested it will happen or not- no reason to pay anything.
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6189747]Why would you ever pay anything for a Meet and Greet?!
That doesn't show you are serious.
If they give you "well it's for my time". Guess what- it's your time too. And whose time do you think is worth more?
A M&G is just that, if they are interested it will happen or not- no reason to pay anything.[/QUOTE]I paid a small amount that I was willing to risk to see if it worked out. A small fraction of what I paid to get on Seeking in the first place. It's not really much different than getting lap dances without knowing your expectations or trying a new MP to see what is available. It wasn't like her account on seeking was created the day before, and when she showed up she was definitely the girl in the photos she had sent me. Bad choice in retrospect, but in this hobby sometimes you take chances.
Bre probably just likes attention and will waste your time. I found her social media so think she's a real local but I don't think she has any intent beyond you sending her money. Lots of pics and they're cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5edcf0a8-7dd9-44ae-9c8c-82bb0a28021a[/URL]
WarmHottie asks personal questions like if you're married or why your using a burner phone number even though "she" is too. Also seems to really want pics of your face. I'm pretty certain she is going to lead to a extort / blackmail attempt.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33da25c0-1f1b-4835-bfb7-f24790da73c7[/URL]
[QUOTE=BTC13;6190272]I paid a small amount that I was willing to risk to see if it worked out. A small fraction of what I paid to get on Seeking in the first place. It's not really much different than getting lap dances without knowing your expectations or trying a new MP to see what is available. It wasn't like her account on seeking was created the day before, and when she showed up she was definitely the girl in the photos she had sent me. Bad choice in retrospect, but in this hobby sometimes you take chances.[/QUOTE]I'm no longer in the sugar game, but I regularly did the same as you. The way I see it, these ladies are putting up with a lot of BS, especially from low-brow mongers who are just looking for a quick lay. By the time I got them thru my own screening process and actually got time to meet with them in person, I figure that was a gift to me, so I chose to give to them in a tangible way. No, that didn't always guarantee a 2nd meet, but I usually didn't walk away feeling like I wasted my time. Besides, I truly enjoyed just having a casual date with a pretty young lady. I don't expect much agreement from many users on a monger site, but I'd hope that's why this discussion is in a separate forum from those expecting a BJ for $40.
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;6190519]I'm no longer in the sugar game, but I regularly did the same as you. The way I see it, these ladies are putting up with a lot of BS, especially from low-brow mongers who are just looking for a quick lay. By the time I got them thru my own screening process and actually got time to meet with them in person, I figure that was a gift to me, so I chose to give to them in a tangible way. No, that didn't always guarantee a 2nd meet, but I usually didn't walk away feeling like I wasted my time. Besides, I truly enjoyed just having a casual date with a pretty young lady. I don't expect much agreement from many users on a monger site, but I'd hope that's why this discussion is in a separate forum from those expecting a BJ for $40.[/QUOTE]I think I'm coming from the knowledge that there are a lot of chicks on here that just want a free dinner and some pocket money with no intentions of ever going any further with other developed plans and allowances. If you are OK paying a young chick to sit with you while you buy her dinner then that's fine- more power to you. To me it reminds me of the joke about the kid who was so homely that the family had to tie a porkchop around his neck to get the family dog to play with him. I can't get past that myself.
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6190761]I think I'm coming from the knowledge that there are a lot of chicks on here that just want a free dinner and some pocket money with no intentions of ever going any further with other developed plans and allowances. If you are OK paying a young chick to sit with you while you buy her dinner then that's fine- more power to you. To me it reminds me of the joke about the kid who was so homely that the family had to tie a porkchop around his neck to get the family dog to play with him. I can't get past that myself.[/QUOTE]I think of it more as what goals you really have in the hobby. I've been doing this for too many years to be content getting lowball deals with average looking women for routine experiences. I'm trying to find extraordinary experiences that are much harder to come across. So I'm not choking up on the bat to hit singles, I'm taking big swings that sometimes lead to strikeouts, but also generate home runs. So a girl on seeking that sends me a price and asks when we can meet up in the first few message interests me less than the one that you have to work a bit harder for, but in the end the experience is something much more enjoyable.
[QUOTE=BTC13;6191122]I think of it more as what goals you really have in the hobby. I've been doing this for too many years to be content getting lowball deals with average looking women for routine experiences. I'm trying to find extraordinary experiences that are much harder to come across. So I'm not choking up on the bat to hit singles, I'm taking big swings that sometimes lead to strikeouts, but also generate home runs. So a girl on seeking that sends me a price and asks when we can meet up in the first few message interests me less than the one that you have to work a bit harder for, but in the end the experience is something much more enjoyable.[/QUOTE]Whatever. You are rewarding the wrong behavior. I am curious how often this works out in your favor. I am guessing not very.
[QUOTE=BTC13;6191122]I think of it more as what goals you really have in the hobby. I've been doing this for too many years to be content getting lowball deals with average looking women for routine experiences. I'm trying to find extraordinary experiences that are much harder to come across. So I'm not choking up on the bat to hit singles, I'm taking big swings that sometimes lead to strikeouts, but also generate home runs. So a girl on seeking that sends me a price and asks when we can meet up in the first few message interests me less than the one that you have to work a bit harder for, but in the end the experience is something much more enjoyable.[/QUOTE]You probably sent $ to a dude. Plus she didn't even show her face on her profile. I can understand if you're like really ugly and need to send $ in order to get a M&G, but you seem to know the unwritten (but always posted) rule about sending $. You still did it and I bet you wasn't that much surprised when she ghosted ya. I'm surprised that you admitted doing it.
1. If you send $ first, they will then ghost ya.
2. If you bust a nut first, then you will ghost them.
FriendlyGirl wants 1 K, might take. 8 . Less friendly when you reuse her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/048ca3c2-adc0-472c-afa4-b3ea9532d498[/URL]
[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6193446]Whatever. You are rewarding the wrong behavior. I am curious how often this works out in your favor. I am guessing not very.[/QUOTE]I haven't been on seeking in a couple years because my life just hasn't left much time for it; but when I was spending time on there, my approach echoed BTC's and I wouldn't change a thing. He's not rewarding the wrong behavior, he's pursuing the course that gets him what he wants. There's more than one way to skin a cat; and just because it's not yours doesn't make it wrong. There's a lot of unsolicited, yet oddly specific, advice on here about people should run their game. If you're getting what you want out of it, then it's not wrong.