And you thought romance and mystery was dead.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6a9a616c-5c56-4a5a-978b-4c1c589a14be[/URL]
Here's more about me!! Let me know if you're still interested and we can talk more off this app.
Here's a little bit about me:
I'm a Neuroscience PhD student! I'm ambitious, passionate, and love to have fun! Work hard, play hard mentality. In my free time, I love to do anything related to being outdoors — camping, biking, hiking, kayaking, etc. Additionally, I love music! I love going to live concerts! I'm a classically trained musician (French horn) and try to find time to play when I can.
What I'm looking for:
As I said in my bio, I'm looking for something authentic. I'd call it more of a mutually beneficial friendship than an "arrangement. " I want us both to enjoy each others company! I want someone who wants to invest in me as a person and who truly values me.
What dates with me look like:
*This goes without saying but absolutely no money or gifts will be exchanged before meeting! If someone is asking you to do that, they're probably a scammer LOL*.
**Also, this is a very rough timeline. I'm still new to this and learning along the way. We may end up doing 2-3 platonic dates or get to the massage / handjob level and then stay there for a while. I'm interesting in building a connection with someone and hopefully finding the right fit for a long-term arrangement. *.
• First date: all first dates must be in a public place (coffee shop, restaurant, walking date if it's in a well populated area like the Monon). The first date will be platonic. Depending on if here's mutual chemistry, there may be a kiss or make out session involved after. I don't promise this though.
• Dates 2-5: dates after this will really depend on how we're both feeling and what feels right! I'm for sure open to sexual stuff that doesn't involve actually having sex (example: naked massages or hand jobs).
• Dates 5+: This is not a hard set rule! Just kind of an idea for you. At this point, I'm probably going be open to exploring a sexual relationship that involves sex and oral sex. I generally only have sex with one person at a time so I have to make sure this is the right fit before we reach this level.
Allowance:
• First date: For a first date, I generally ask $100. I know this might totally turn you off. I completely respect that!! From my perspective, I want my time and energy to be valued. I also only want to go on dates with people who are serious about me and not just someone who goes on a bunch of dates. If I'm not interested in you, I absolutely would not go on a first date just to get money. That's not who I am or what I'm about.
• Dates 2-5: after the first date, it really depends on where our relationship progresses to and what's involved. If it's strictly a platonic date to get to know each other more, $100 is what I've generally done. If a naked massage or hand job is involved, probably more like $250.
• Dates 5+: Around this time, we'd hopefully feel comfortable with each other and can come up with a monthly or weekly allowance that seems right for our specific arrangement.
