2022 Experience summary June to December
I was working in Detroit during the second half of 2022. It took me a while to sort through all my adventures since I went to the strip clubs on 33 nights and completed 58 trips to the VIP. I would often visit the VIP 2 times on the same night and one night I went 3 times and one night I went 4 times, and one night I couldn't find anyone to go with and left with zero VIP sessions.
19 nights I went to BTs and 20 nights I went to Criket.
I need to be attracted to both a girl's looks and attitude to take her to the VIP. My preference is for young thin fit spinners, with small firm perky natural tits, firm flat stomach, and minimal or no tattoos, piercings and make up. I watch the girls dance on stage, and I will tip $1 to a girl I find attractive and invite her sit and talk to me. While we are talking, I assess her attitude. I expect her to pay attention to me and not her cell phone. If we have good natural chemistry, she is friendly, in a good mood, and shares some information about herself, then I will agree to negotiate a VIP session.
Looks are subjective and standards of beauty are different for each guy. There are plenty of older, curvier, heavier, big breasted girls, heavily tattooed, pierced and girls wearing significant amounts of make up for those of you who prefer that.
Over 58 VIPs I spent time with 10 girls who passed both the looks and the attitude test. As always YMMV.
3 girls provided almost perfect VIPs which I enjoyed so much that I would follow these girls from club to club if they changed clubs, I suggest others try them and are likely to be happy with them.
- Skye at Criket.
- Alana at BTs.
- Aurora at BTs.
3 girls provided good VIPs and I would be willing to repeat with them but wouldn't chase them from club to club. As always YMMV.
- Nae at BTs.
- Kenzie at Criket.
- Arabella at BTs.
4 girls provided adequate sessions, I might repeat depending on who else is dancing, but prefer to try a new girl. As always YMMV.
- Vegas at BTs.
- Coco at Criket.
- Reina at BTs – after seeing her twice she told me I needed to tip her more than $1 so I stopped tipping her.
- Selena at BTs.
I did repeat sessions with every girl except for Selena.
3 girls I wanted to try but had to walk out of the VIP.
- Asia at BTs – She insisted I pay first, after that she wouldn't even talk to me when I came in the club, I tried multiple times to engage her.
- Natalie at Criket – She insisted I pay first.
- Crystal at BTs – She offered extras but then in the VIP said kissing her tits and stomach was not included. I have learned to cut my losses when a session doesn't work out and I walked out. She used to dance under China at BTs. She has beautiful long curly hair.
I have never had paying in advance work out well. I do think it is fair to show the girl you have the money so she is not being cheated, but then it goes back in my pocket until I am happy. These girls are helping you avoid bad sessions with them by insisting on payment up front, they will at best be mechanical, and at worst grab your money and walk out leaving you unhappy.
Negotiations: I always request no song count and to go to the VIP after she finishes her stage set. I was able to average paying $200 per VIP. A couple of times I negotiated lower and a couple times I paid more. Regardless of negotiated price I offer each girl a $20 - $40 tip if they exceed my expectation and succeed in making me happy during the VIP. My expectations are extremely high and it is difficult for the girls to exceed them but there were 19 times out of the 58 sessions I was so happy the girls earned my tip (largely the top 3 girls in my list). Also, for girls who I repeated with and enjoyed their company, if they would sit with me in the main room, I would buy them drinks or food. So, my total spend on the girl could be as high as $250 if I bought her a drink and she earned a tip.
Strip club alternative activities:
I hate the tiny little VIP rooms with the chairs that are too small for two people to sit on.
Despite these uncomfortable VIPs, I like going to the strip club in addition to regular VIP sessions I will sometimes take a girl for one clean dance just to feel her up. It is a unique experience. Imagine if you could walk up to any girl on the mall or the beach and say let me give you $25 to $45 to feel you up and lick your breasts for the next 3 minutes. I bet a lot of guys would eagerly do this, but most girls are not receptive to this kind of request. I enjoyed.
- Cakes at Criket twice.
- Sasha at Criket twice.
- Summer at BTs once.
And while sometimes the negotiations turn hostile or the girls get angry if you can't agree on VIP terms, but other times both people are respectful to each other, clearly communicate what they want and legitimately can't reach an agreement. I had two girls who I explained that I was very attracted to them and even though we couldn't negotiate an agreement to go to the VIP, I would like to touch them. They were both receptive to the idea and allowed me to feel them up at the table including their breasts, stomachs and inner thighs. I did not directly touch their panties. I also get a real thrill out of touching girls on the intimate parts of their bodies while others go about their business serving food and dancing on the stage. You could never do this in a restaurant that is not a strip club.
- Cleo at BTs – She insisted on paying up front even though I have taken her friend more than 10 times who allows paying at the end but she wouldn't change her mind. Although she just got breast implants so she is no longer on my list.
- Anna at BTs – He price point was too high for me, but we agreed to keep negotiating the next time we are both in the club.
Strip club enjoyment:
There are 3 distinct types of pleasures girls can provide in the club. Some guys are only interested in VIP dances and some girls only focus on VIP dances, but there are at least two other pleasures.
Female attention: Guys like it when attractive females talk to them, pay attention to them and listen to them.
Female affection: Guys like it girls hold their hand, rub their back, put their arm around them, sit in their laps.
All three kinds of activities have value (female attention, female affection and VIP dances) and are provided by the best strippers.
Most successful clean girl compete in the clubs by providing female attention and female affection to guys who are starved for female attention and affection.
MM.