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I have met with a handful of solid women on site yet my frustration is the bullshit favorites you get from out of state women. Its nonsense and the reason I will not renew. Taking a long break and with the increase in their price good luck with that. Just be honest with the favorites. For shits and giggles I did email back an out of country girl and just got a phone number. Asked another question same reply. Good luck.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5726486]LOL what's crazy it seems like a lot of the girls that are on the site also have boyfriends. Shhh shhh. I'm supppose to meet one up next week. So far the conversations have been very interesting. LOL.[/QUOTE]I was seeing a girl that had a BF but ended it after a few visits. Usually when they get involved with a full time BF is when I move on. The possible drama that it can create is more than I want and most of the girls are BB everything so there's that. Ofc if they don't tell me how do I know so it's all good but usually there are plenty of hints eventually. Personal preference to share her just not mine.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5727080]I was seeing a girl that had a BF but ended it after a few visits. Usually when they get involved with a full time BF is when I move on. The possible drama that it can create is more than I want and most of the girls are BB everything so there's that. Ofc if they don't tell me how do I know so it's all good but usually there are plenty of hints eventually. Personal preference to share her just not mine.[/QUOTE]Remember that girl Jenna from Lowell with the sinus infection. While she was on SA she also had a boyfriend who was hard at work as an electrician working on the Encore Hotel while we were hard at work raw dogging his girl LOL.
[QUOTE=DJrunner;5726631]I have met with a handful of solid women on site yet my frustration is the bullshit favorites you get from out of state women. Its nonsense and the reason I will not renew. Taking a long break and with the increase in their price good luck with that. Just be honest with the favorites. For shits and giggles I did email back an out of country girl and just got a phone number. Asked another question same reply. Good luck.[/QUOTE]By Out of state women did you mean women from Venezuela? LOL Normally I just delete the message without even looking at it LOL.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5726486]LOL what's crazy it seems like a lot of the girls that are on the site also have boyfriends. Shhh shhh. I'm supppose to meet one up next week. So far the conversations have been very interesting. LOL.[/QUOTE]Just curious. What town are you meeting in?
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5727285]Just curious. What town are you meeting in?[/QUOTE]Providence.
[QUOTE=NicosWave24;5726414]I recently saw a friends fianc on SA. I'm torn because he's a long time very good friend from high school. I feel the need to tell him before he marries the chick also that's fighting against my natura instinct to just mind my own. Also not sure how I'd tell him I found her because I'm married and he don't know my involvement woth this hobby. Aahh.[/QUOTE]Tough one! If I ever felt the need I'd probably email screenshots from an anonymous email address. I screenshotted my friends' daughters SA profile but decided quickly to stay out of it. And the girl is moving out of state with a bf, so that's that anyway.
[QUOTE=DJrunner;5726631]I have met with a handful of solid women on site yet my frustration is the bullshit favorites you get from out of state women. Its nonsense and the reason I will not renew. Taking a long break and with the increase in their price good luck with that. Just be honest with the favorites. For shits and giggles I did email back an out of country girl and just got a phone number. Asked another question same reply. Good luck.[/QUOTE]I have no idea why that is so ruining your sa experience. If it's messages just delete them unread. If someone favorites your profile -- who the hell cares? And if you do care, block them.
It really is just a very side issue to using the site.
Seems I'm having a really bad streak with SA.
Met tonight Dreammexoxo (no link, as she either deactivated the account or ignored me). Phone number ending in 8872.
Met at a hotel, got some drinks, she really seemed genuine, went to the room, did the deed (meh, everything covered, plain and boring). Afterwards I did the mistake of going to bathroom to quickly wash up. When I came back, she was all dressed and ready to go. We said our goodbyes and she left.
One hour later I get a message from Chase that it blocked a large transaction on my credit card. Quickly checked my wallet, my credit and debit cards were missing.
Now, I don't worry much about the cards. I already blocked them and flagged the fraudulent transactions: gas, smoke shop and $200 for uber eats (WTF! ) . However, in the same wallet I had my driving license, so now she might have my real name and address.
Shall I even try to confront her? Or just let it go and hope for the best.
Anyone have any feedback on this one? Dorchester is my kryptonite but she's cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/13fe042f-0c5f-4542-b1ce-ae0e1468bd75[/URL]
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Shall I even try to confront her? Or just let it go and hope for the best.[/QUOTE]I don't think you need to confront her, that might just exacerbate the situation. There's a couple ways you could go if you wanted to though.
When I have first meetings I only have cash in the room and my wallet, ID, etc. Either in another room in the same hotel or in the car.
[QUOTE=BR1201;5728186]Anyone have any feedback on this one? Dorchester is my kryptonite but she's cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/13fe042f-0c5f-4542-b1ce-ae0e1468bd75[/URL][/QUOTE]She wanted $1,200 so I didn't go through with the meeting, her age and looks don't warrant that price in my opinion.
[QUOTE=BR1201;5728186]Anyone have any feedback on this one? Dorchester is my kryptonite but she's cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/13fe042f-0c5f-4542-b1ce-ae0e1468bd75[/URL][/QUOTE]She had said she would meet for 800. I said that is out of my range and said goodbye. She is cute, but I would not spend that much money on a meet up.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728167]Seems I'm having a really bad streak with SA.
Met tonight Dreammexoxo (no link, as she either deactivated the account or ignored me). Phone number ending in 8872.
Met at a hotel, got some drinks, she really seemed genuine, went to the room, did the deed (meh, everything covered, plain and boring). Afterwards I did the mistake of going to bathroom to quickly wash up. When I came back, she was all dressed and ready to go. We said our goodbyes and she left.
One hour later I get a message from Chase that it blocked a large transaction on my credit card. Quickly checked my wallet, my credit and debit cards were missing.
Now, I don't worry much about the cards. I already blocked them and flagged the fraudulent transactions: gas, smoke shop and $200 for uber eats (WTF! ) . However, in the same wallet I had my driving license, so now she might have my real name and address.
Shall I even try to confront her? Or just let it go and hope for the best.[/QUOTE]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.
Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.
Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728391]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.
Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.
Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?[/QUOTE]Up to you but she sounds like she wants to squeeze you for more $. You could either A) Just block her number and ignore her. She's not going to do anything outside of texting and trying to shake you down via Venmo or CashApp for more money. I find it highly unlikely she will show up at your house. What would she get out of that besides you being exposed and actually calling LEO. Or B) Catch her in the act of doing something illegal. But B requires a lot of effort on your part and would expose your activity anyway. So A would be my recommendation. Sorry this happened it's awful.