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[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7531088]I was really expecting the typical delusional quote of 700-800. This one is so far out of touch with reality.[/QUOTE]Don't have her link anymore and I think she may be leaving town today, but travels back often. Met her but didn't pay the ask so you can negotiate it. Legit 9!
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7531107]Don't have her link anymore and I think she may be leaving town today, but travels back often. Met her but didn't pay the ask so you can negotiate it. Legit 9![/QUOTE]Send me the details. I'm not back in town until Thursday but for sure will try her.
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7531107]Don't have her link anymore and I think she may be leaving town today, but travels back often. Met her but didn't pay the ask so you can negotiate it. Legit 9![/QUOTE]She is also a pro with Midwest ads.
[QUOTE=TheCurve;7527452]Becks - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/232a1341-4b5d-46c1-b86a-8b57afaf1b0b[/URL].
Be wary of expressing attraction for this one. She's on high alert for anyone looking for anything physical right off the bat. You'd think at 27 years of age she'd understand the game.
Aura - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/72880153-70e2-4ca7-ae20-e2243d2f6725[/URL].
Anyone seen her? She is almost aggressively toxic about her insistence against public meets. She a secret fatty that doesn't want to give you an easy out for on-sight rejection?[/QUOTE]Met her a while back. You are right, she is a little thick (but has nice curves). She played that game of being pushy to meet at the room so that you can't change your mind. Not sure how many guys she goes bare with, I actually don't like to go bare just because I am paranoid, so I didn't even try. She gave vibes that she might be high volume, perhaps others can corroborate on this. Performance was average, 500.
[QUOTE=TomFordModel;7531090]Sounds like a hoodrat. Totally delusional.[/QUOTE]That split tongue was a bucket list item. But discussing onsite is absolutely no. Ask Dimples about that.
[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7531449]She is also a pro with Midwest ads.[/QUOTE]Figured she was a pro or semi, stripper, etc.
Good sleuthing!
She's way too fat for me. I'm sure someone wants it.
[QUOTE=Kpop1;7531958]She's way too fat for me. I'm sure someone wants it.[/QUOTE]Agreed! About a year ago we chatted and she sent me some current pics at the time and I recall saying to myself that she was a big girl.
[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7531048][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb818be2-1d25-4e6f-93ca-92519f50776f[/URL][/QUOTE]For anyone that is tempted to follow through with this girl, just be cautious. Found her social media and it all points to her living in Louisiana. Video of her grocery shopping in January even shows that she's in LA and not in the DMV.
Alayayaya5 on almost all platforms, and you can find the rest with that info if you know how to use Google.
I've had a several years old account and so far had not been asked to selfie verify. I have a somewhat obscure image on the app for many years. My current subscriptions runs until next week and all of a sudden I log in today and it is forcing me to selfie verify at [URL]sa.com[/URL]/ selfie-liveness-required is there any possible way to bypass this?
Why all of a sudden? I thought some of us old timers were grandfathered in?
Thankfully my current paid account is almost up so its not like I lost money on it but life is going to suck if I cannot use the site without selfie verification.
For those of you who may have personal and professional reasons not to selfie verify. How do you overcome this situation?
Do they want you to upload a selfie or take one where you move the phone around like setting up Face ID on a phone?
The former gives you a shot at trying a proxie. The live selfie would be a non starter for me. So far dodging that bullet.
[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;7533297]I've had a several years old account and so far had not been asked to selfie verify. I have a somewhat obscure image on the app for many years. My current subscriptions runs until next week and all of a sudden I log in today and it is forcing me to selfie verify at [URL]sa.com[/URL]/ selfie-liveness-required is there any possible way to bypass this?
Why all of a sudden? I thought some of us old timers were grandfathered in?
Thankfully my current paid account is almost up so its not like I lost money on it but life is going to suck if I cannot use the site without selfie verification.
For those of you who may have personal and professional reasons not to selfie verify. How do you overcome this situation?[/QUOTE]
Anyone else getting "your profile is unsearchable" and all of a sudden I need to update my profile? It's asking me to put in a new name and it's denying all the names I put in. I've had my profile for years and all of a sudden this BS. Anyone else having issues or is it just me?
[QUOTE=SRH59;7533515]Do they want you to upload a selfie or take one where you move the phone around like setting up Face ID on a phone?
The former gives you a shot at trying a proxie. The live selfie would be a non starter for me. So far dodging that bullet.[/QUOTE]I have done a selfie verification w / their partner site, What's Your Price. Especially if the OP's obscure image is really him, showing them a selfie that matches what is on the mature profile might be OK. They say you don't have to post the selfie as a profile photo. During the process they tell you that they don't do anything w / the selfie, they don't save it, etc.
If the process is different from this, then sure, you don't want to put something into their hands that they could get broken into.
I had an odd experience. I have used for years photos of someone who looks like me but isn't. I tried taking a real pic of me and using AI to modify it so the facial rec sites didn't recognize it as me. I got that far, but when I tried to add it to a profile (don't recall which site), the photos was rejected because "not of the person".
[QUOTE=Kpop1;7534060]Anyone else getting "your profile is unsearchable" and all of a sudden I need to update my profile? It's asking me to put in a new name and it's denying all the names I put in. I've had my profile for years and all of a sudden this BS. Anyone else having issues or is it just me?[/QUOTE]They are forcing everyone to profile names that are first names. They just got around to you. I was forced to do this perhaps 6 months ago. They killed everything. Profile content, photos, the looking for tabs, etc.
[QUOTE=Kpop1;7534060]Anyone else getting "your profile is unsearchable" and all of a sudden I need to update my profile? It's asking me to put in a new name and it's denying all the names I put in. I've had my profile for years and all of a sudden this BS. Anyone else having issues or is it just me?[/QUOTE]No sooner then when I commented about not having to selfie verify my profile got flagged. Ineligible primary photo and username. My primary photo has my face hidden. So now it just shows the silhouette. I've got a few pictures hidden that still work. Still appears to have my UN. I can still use the site / message people but it says my profile isn't searchable. I keep it hidden anyway.
I'm basically waiting to get fully booted from there. Won't ever put a fully identifying picture up. And I think once you're on their radar nothing good follows.
[QUOTE=Kpop1;7534060]Anyone else getting "your profile is unsearchable" and all of a sudden I need to update my profile? It's asking me to put in a new name and it's denying all the names I put in. I've had my profile for years and all of a sudden this BS. Anyone else having issues or is it just me?[/QUOTE]If your profile is set to be hidden it's now showing you that ribbon bar warning constantly. No way to make it go away unless you take your profile off being hidden.
WTF. They upped it to 150 a month. This dude is getting greedy as fuck.
I'm not even going to bother until I visit NYC. I refuse to waste money for dc subpar things.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7534063]I have done a selfie verification w / their partner site, What's Your Price. Especially if the OP's obscure image is really him, showing them a selfie that matches what is on the mature profile might be OK. They say you don't have to post the selfie as a profile photo. During the process they tell you that they don't do anything w / the selfie, they don't save it, etc.
If the process is different from this, then sure, you don't want to put something into their hands that they could get broken into.
I had an odd experience. I have used for years photos of someone who looks like me but isn't. I tried taking a real pic of me and using AI to modify it so the facial rec sites didn't recognize it as me. I got that far, but when I tried to add it to a profile (don't recall which site), the photos was rejected because "not of the person".[/QUOTE]Not exactly using AI but I found a doppelganger online who is actually a b / c grade model LOL. But a model nonetheless so he has nice looking professional pics and I have those on bumble and hinge. On those vanilla websites I don't mind doing the video / selfie verify and have successfully verified myself using someone else's pictures and my face scan.
In the past 4/5 years only 1 woman called me out on the fake pics during an in person meet.
But I refuse to face scan on seeking. Yes they want the scan, not pic upload. Not doing it. For more than a year now I only use seeking while traveling (DC sucks, I think my last 20 posts on this forum are about how DC SB pool sucks).
Anyway my primary account that I posted about seems to have been suspended for now. I cannot use any features until I selfie verify. It sucks that they did this while I am still a paying customer. WTF.
For now I found another long forgotten account I used to have from maybe around covid time. I successfully got back into seeking using that old account and so far it hasn't asked me to selfie verify. Its currently free I'm going to log in and browse for a few weeks but eventually I'll.
[QUOTE=TomFordModel;7534473]WTF. They upped it to 150 a month. This dude is getting greedy as fuck.
I'm not even going to bother until I visit NYC. I refuse to waste money for dc subpar things.[/QUOTE]For over a year now I only pay when I have an out of town trip planned. DC is the worst. Fat ugly and just nasty nasty nasty.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3657d63c-ce6d-40e9-8605-046a54d9ab70[/URL]
Pretty girl, weird personality. Things were cool until she took her clothes off. She presents as a skinny girl but her body is the flabbiest I've ever seen for someone her stature. I instantly lost my hard on. Unfortunately I let her collect the allowance before the clothes were off. I would have excused her from my place. Her ask was 1000, then 800, I said the highest I'm willing to go is 500. She was worth $40. Please save yourself time and effort. This one is a dud. Had to do doggy to finish. Required rubbers for all activities
[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7534622][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3657d63c-ce6d-40e9-8605-046a54d9ab70[/URL]
Pretty girl, weird personality. Things were cool until she took her clothes off. She presents as a skinny girl but her body is the flabbiest I've ever seen for someone her stature. I instantly lost my hard on. Unfortunately I let her collect the allowance before the clothes were off. I would have excused her from my place. Her ask was 1000, then 800, I said the highest I'm willing to go is 500. She was worth $40. Please save yourself time and effort. This one is a dud. Had to do doggy to finish. Required rubbers for all activities[/QUOTE]She probably used to be fat and lost weight. Can't hide the loose skin.
[QUOTE=Kpop1;7534991]She probably used to be fat and lost weight. Can't hide the loose skin.[/QUOTE]Whatever it was that shit was the worst.
[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7534622][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3657d63c-ce6d-40e9-8605-046a54d9ab70[/URL]
Pretty girl, weird personality. Things were cool until she took her clothes off. She presents as a skinny girl but her body is the flabbiest I've ever seen for someone her stature. I instantly lost my hard on. Unfortunately I let her collect the allowance before the clothes were off. I would have excused her from my place. Her ask was 1000, then 800, I said the highest I'm willing to go is 500. She was worth $40. Please save yourself time and effort. This one is a dud. Had to do doggy to finish. Required rubbers for all activities[/QUOTE]Yeah, she used to be big, so you're going to get all that excess skin. Used to have an OF and did cam work too, it seems. Looks like she dropped a ton of weight in less than a year, so probably medically assisted weight loss, which make the excess skin thing even worse.
Anyone get in with this one yet? She was on for awhile last year, but then disappeared off the site. I'm assuming back on looking again.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3a7adf60-3e76-4477-95ff-ed77cac05494[/URL]
[QUOTE=Emesdee;7537824]Yeah, she used to be big, so you're going to get all that excess skin. Used to have an OF and did cam work too, it seems. Looks like she dropped a ton of weight in less than a year, so probably medically assisted weight loss, which make the excess skin thing even worse.[/QUOTE]Damn, she did lose alot of weight. I can't even imagine all the sag and cellulite underneath.
Jazměn
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae7bbaa7-b0a2-4c10-87a8-019dfca28195[/URL]
Seems like a pro visiting from Miami in March. Quoted 1 k and then came down to 800 when I declined. Covered activities, so I didn't try to negotiate further.
[QUOTE=CharmCityBro;7540190]Jazmn
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae7bbaa7-b0a2-4c10-87a8-019dfca28195[/URL]
Seems like a pro visiting from Miami in March. Quoted 1 k and then came down to 800 when I declined. Covered activities, so I didn't try to negotiate further.[/QUOTE]$800 is still absolutely crazy for a 33 year old. She's a bit past the baby stage.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/84eb6de0-971d-4ace-9a79-bc364f821342[/URL]
Face is meh. Small tits but a nice tight gym body. A shit lay. Not repeating.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/836a65a8-c16d-486a-95bd-5937e7019da5[/URL]
300.
I'm new to the bowl stuff, and just signed up for seeking a week ago. Either I'm ugly as hell or just have zero game because I am struggling hard even after a week. I've messaged about 40 girls, most of which are either online frequently or girls from info posted on this board. I'm struggling to even get a reply. Out of those 40 girls, like 10 viewed my profile and either never opened my intro message or left it on read. The couple of responses I've gotten were a couple girls responding with "hey" and never replying to my message after that, and one girl saying she only does virtual. Sent them a follow up message, no reply either.
I'm not fat and I can't imagine that face wise I'm ugly enough to where a girl on here can't imagine herself fucking me for money LOL. I need privacy so I the only pic I have posted is a clear selfie of my face, but after a while I made the picture private because I came across a girl I know IRL and I don't need that drama. I have a simple one liner for me "about me", and in my "looking for" section I have a simple message that should imply what I'm here for (but not outright saying I want to fuck) so it's not an empty profile. I also set my join date to be hidden so it doesn't look like I'm a scammer.
For my intro message, I've just been trying to be direct without treating them like a prostitute, by saying something along the lines of "Hey, I like your profile and I'd love to chat more about what you're looking for. If you're interested let me know." I've also just tried saying "Hi there / Hey". Even tried a few times to be super direct and leaving my number at the end of the intro message. I'm messaging some of the same girls as everyone else here and yet my response and open rate is abysmal. I have yet to have an actual conversation on Seeking.
Is my intro message trash? Is only having one selfie up turning girls away from me (I'm confused on this one because it seems like most guys don't even upload pics?)
I've messaged most of the girls in the DMV that are active and that I think are hot enough (without messaging the ones who look like models or out of my price range I stay in my lane with those). I'm desperate and any guidance would be greatly appreciated!
[QUOTE=BazookaSteve;7541128]I'm new to the bowl stuff, and just signed up for seeking a week ago. Either I'm ugly as hell or just have zero game because I am struggling hard even after a week. I've messaged about 40 girls, most of which are either online frequently or girls from info posted on this board. I'm struggling to even get a reply. Out of those 40 girls, like 10 viewed my profile and either never opened my intro message or left it on read. The couple of responses I've gotten were a couple girls responding with "hey" and never replying to my message after that, and one girl saying she only does virtual. Sent them a follow up message, no reply either. [/QUOTE]I've found through bits of conversation on there that "hiding" your join date does nothing. Maybe others have found that to be different.
As for the rest, this shit is more like "vanilla" dating than some would make it seem. It's a hybrid where these women have the same selectivity as a dating app and they're doing their best to not feel like full blown escorts. Because of that, game, looks, and being faster than the other motherfuckers on here to the newbies all matter to a varying degree. The ones that will meet you without viewing your profile, are quick to go to text, and don't require much conversation are all those who have given up the pretense and are instead trying to optimize how much money they can make, so they don't care if you are X times their age and / or attractive and / or have any conversational skills. They're only going to be around long enough to say hi, walk to the bed, pretend to enjoy what you're doing to them, and then leave.
[QUOTE=BazookaSteve;7541128]I'm new to the bowl stuff, and just signed up for seeking a week ago. Either I'm ugly as hell or just have zero game because I am struggling hard even after a week. I've messaged about 40 girls, most of which are either online frequently or girls from info posted on this board. I'm struggling to even get a reply. Out of those 40 girls, like 10 viewed my profile and either never opened my intro message or left it on read. The couple of responses I've gotten were a couple girls responding with "hey" and never replying to my message after that, and one girl saying she only does virtual. Sent them a follow up message, no reply either.
I'm not fat and I can't imagine that face wise I'm ugly enough to where a girl on here can't imagine herself fucking me for money LOL. I need privacy so I the only pic I have posted is a clear selfie of my face, but after a while I made the picture private because I came across a girl I know IRL and I don't need that drama. I have a simple one liner for me "about me", and in my "looking for" section I have a simple message that should imply what I'm here for (but not outright saying I want to fuck) so it's not an empty profile. I also set my join date to be hidden so it doesn't look like I'm a scammer.[/QUOTE]This is my approach I don't put any profile pics what so ever there all hidden.
I got 3 hidden pics there the typical selfie pic in the bathroom showing my face and body of course all dress (try and dress nice like its Friday at your work).
I just message them and say "hi hows your day going" and give them access to my pics.
If they respond I just say " you got time this week to meet up this week? If so let me get your number".
If they give me there number I message them and setup a date to meet right away.
This approach has worked well for me.
For my profile about me I just put my hobbies golf, sking something like that.
For what I'm looking for I just put meeting new people and having mutual fun times something like that.
In my limited experience most want to meet up right away.
Some of these girls will probably never respond to you cause there inbox is flooded and some maybe busy too meeting other doods.
Also seasonality too you know valentines day, summer vacations all that stuff.
I am pretty new myself to this.
I'm ok looking 20 lbs over weight 50 but most tell me I look younger so I'm sure you can do well yourself (I am far from a chad).
[QUOTE=BazookaSteve;7541128] I'm desperate and any guidance would be greatly appreciated![/QUOTE]And I guess to be more specific with what I'm asking, how are you guys going about this? Are you guys using public pics? How much info is on your profile in terms of your about me and what you're looking for? And lastly, what sort of intro messages are you sending that actually get responses?
[QUOTE=BazookaSteve;7541128]I'm new to the bowl stuff, and just signed up for seeking a week ago. Either I'm ugly as hell or just have zero game because I am struggling hard even after a week. I've messaged about 40 girls, most of which are either online frequently or girls from info posted on this board. I'm struggling to even get a reply. Out of those 40 girls, like 10 viewed my profile and either never opened my intro message or left it on read. The couple of responses I've gotten were a couple girls responding with "hey" and never replying to my message after that, and one girl saying she only does virtual. Sent them a follow up message, no reply either.
I'm not fat and I can't imagine that face wise I'm ugly enough to where a girl on here can't imagine herself fucking me for money LOL. I need privacy so I the only pic I have posted is a clear selfie of my face, but after a while I made the picture private because I came across a girl I know IRL and I don't need that drama. I have a simple one liner for me "about me", and in my "looking for" section I have a simple message that should imply what I'm here for (but not outright saying I want to fuck) so it's not an empty profile. I also set my join date to be hidden so it doesn't look like I'm a scammer.
For my intro message, I've just been trying to be direct without treating them like a prostitute, by saying something along the lines of "Hey, I like your profile and I'd love to chat more about what you're looking for. If you're interested let me know." I've also just tried saying "Hi there / Hey". Even tried a few times to be super direct and leaving my number at the end of the intro message. I'm messaging some of the same girls as everyone else here and yet my response and open rate is abysmal. I have yet to have an actual conversation on Seeking.
Is my intro message trash? Is only having one selfie up turning girls away from me (I'm confused on this one because it seems like most guys don't even upload pics?)
I've messaged most of the girls in the DMV that are active and that I think are hot enough (without messaging the ones who look like models or out of my price range I stay in my lane with those). I'm desperate and any guidance would be greatly appreciated![/QUOTE]A few thoughts:
It's not as much you vs the DMV pool. The attractive women are very much the minority of profiles. Then they get all the messages.
Add to your bio. Play around with it. Make yourself seem easy to chat with. Share an interest.
Try different pictures. I keep my few pictures hidden. What I have shows enough of my face to gauge attractiveness. Then a full body one in business casual attire.
Message women when they're online.
Play the long game. I get women responding to messages weeks or more after sending. They should have an Out of Office response "fucking 3 other dudes atm. Will respond when my roster dries up. ".
Never seem desperate. Do this by matching or only slightly outdoing their level of engagement. So many women give 3 word messages that make it hard to get a convo going. That's just part of it.
A ton of these women use the word "intentional" in what they want a man to be. We can't say I intend to fuck you though. I'm never sexual in early messaging. The risk is my messages are boring or too generic. I just try to be authentic. But that opening message is key so try different things.
Last, and I'm not ashamed to admit this, but I've messaged plenty of women more than once when they didn't respond. And finally gotten a response. Wait a week or more but that's an option.
Mary.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7cebc52e-d0d7-4696-89f8-cb5e2e7f68da[/URL]
She's in Bmore and drives. Set up for her to come out yesterday but she requested 30% of the allowance before she comes out. Obvious no for me.
[QUOTE=TomFordModel;7540676][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/84eb6de0-971d-4ace-9a79-bc364f821342[/URL]
Face is meh. Small tits but a nice tight gym body. A shit lay. Not repeating.[/QUOTE]Yea the scratch wasn't worth the sniff with her. Didn't speak any English. Just laid there, didn't give head.
[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7541427]Yea the scratch wasn't worth the sniff with her. Didn't speak any English. Just laid there, didn't give head.[/QUOTE]Google translate! Nah, I told her to suck it and she did.
She has potential to be hot but the face needs work.
Awesome body just need a bit more tits.
[QUOTE=BazookaSteve;7541309]And I guess to be more specific with what I'm asking, how are you guys going about this? Are you guys using public pics? How much info is on your profile in terms of your about me and what you're looking for? And lastly, what sort of intro messages are you sending that actually get responses?[/QUOTE]Can you travel, if yes then use NYC. DC is horrible. I keep trying to find one and its just a shitshow on this area. The good ones were 5 years ago now I'm wasting time / money for whatever is out there.
I'm not renewing anymore.
Thanks for the advice guys! Going to try out some of these approaches.
[QUOTE=TomFordModel;7541516]Can you travel, if yes then use NYC. DC is horrible. I keep trying to find one and it's just a shitshow on this area. The good ones were 5 years ago now I'm wasting time / money for whatever is out there.
I'm not renewing anymore.[/QUOTE]If I'm going all the way to NYC for pussy it's going to be to CIP hot Japanese girls.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e77cd73c-f460-4950-8ce9-b019dd618317[/URL]
Very curious if anyone has met up with this girl.