Sassy needs more NO votes to force her to clean up her communication skills
[QUOTE=DrDave39;2858346]As do I. Had some awesome sessions with Sass. But after 2 no-shows (when confirmed 40 minutes before!) my money is going elsewhere. If she doesn't want to see me, don't text back and forth over several hours, then crickets when you arrive. Flat pissed me off.
The good dr.[/QUOTE]I had my third disaster with Sassy the other day.
Twice before, due to her communications issues and moody temperament, I wasted over two hours driving round trip to see her. On both those occasions, I went up thinking we had an appointment on the books. She knew I was coming and sat there in her moody silent space ignoring all my texts, not caring in the least about wasting my time. Each time, I drove up and waited, only to turn around and go home.
I want to be clear that, once you get inside the room with her, you will have an amazing time. She is one of the hottest little numbers available today. I have seen her three times and she rocked my world each time. My complaint is not about the sexual side of her services. My complaint is about her terrible communication skills.
On this day, I was trying very hard to make sure things went perfectly. Since I drive a long way, I left early, willing to get there early and wait, just to insure her schedule would not be compromised. I confirmed the day before and the morning of the appointment. The appointment was set for 5 PM.
As I was driving up the road, I get a text at 3:40: she asks if I want a hhr or hr, says she forgot.
A short time later, at 4:12, she texts: Babe I'm sorry I'm in traffic there was a shooting in the highway and it's all backed up I still haven't even showered, got a room or anything.
I replied that I would wait for her. Just text me the room number when settled in. I had not seen her for months and wanted to enjoy her company again.
She replies: I just told you right after h texted me earlier that I was still in traffic and still haven't got a ruin or shower or anything.
Now she sounds angry and I don't get why. But I wanted to get laid so I ignored that. LOL.
After this she stopped responding to my texts. I tried calling her four times. Her voicemail box was full. The third time she clicked me off so I know she had her phone with her. Finally, after waiting long enough in my opinion, I decided to pull the plug on the day and the whole Sassy experience. As this was the third time she has done something similar to me, I sent a text saying I would not be back after this one.
She then immediately replied: I told you earlier was a crazy accident on the highway I told you how I hadn't a shower had a room or anything I told you that once and you kept insisting on coming so I told you again and you still wasn't assisting I'm sorry that I kept trying to tell you that I wasn't going to be able to make it today and you just didn't grasp the concept.
So I ask you how in the hell am I supposed to get the meaning she says she intended from what she wrote? She may have had the thought "I wasn't going to be able to make it today" floating around in her brain but apparently her fingers did not get the concept because they did not text what she was thinking. She clearly expects us to read her mind, not her words.
This is quite typical of her poor communication abilities. I can't say enough good things about how great a fuck she is but after wasting eight hours plus driving up there on three occasions, with her ignoring me and not clearly saying "No, we aren't hooking up today. ", she gets no more of my time or money.