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Not surprising
[QUOTE=LukeSolo;6469287]Back in the day clist was amazing for finding women. And since the shakedown it's dried up but I still cast out some ads here in there with little success.
Despite being very specific of who I want. Female - I get so many men replying which gets annoying.
I finally asked one responder why do guys answer the ads clearly seeking for women. His response is below. You can respond anonymously if you want. I just want answers and do not want to try!
"Ok, I'll explain what I'm guessing you already know, but just want to pretend you do not. The reason you get the responses you do are because a lot and I mean A LOT of married straight guys get blow jobs from guys. And most of those guys giving blowjobs are not gay at all. They are Bi and leading very very straight lives. Gay guys like to be with gay guys for the most part. But there are a ton of guys like me, who love having sex with women and do, but there is this fun private bi side that is also not only exciting, but better for some no hassle or stress fun. And, there are tons of older married guys whose wives have just cut them off or don't care about his needs. And those married guys don't want to have a relationship hassle on the side. That's so much work. But they also don't want to spend the rest of their lives without getting a blowjob. Men need and quite frankly deserve to have their cock sucked. So they get over their self imposed limits and let a bi guy suck their cock. And it's awesome. It discreet. It's private. The bi guy loves it bc he can keep this side private and safer.
And it doesn't matter that you are not attracted to guys. Who cares? What, you've never had sex with a girl who was less than attractive just to have sex? Of course you have. You did it to meet a need and it was fine.
So married men place these ads on CL for women. I respond and sometimes they say, you know what the hell, I want a no strings blow job. They sit back. Watch porn. Get an amazing toe curling blow job. And then it's over until the next urge. And they don't have to beg a wife or pay a disease ridden *****. They get a need met and move on. And tons of guys do this. That's why you get those responses. ".[/QUOTE]This doesn't surprise me and it makes some sense. If you stuck your cock through a glory hole, you have no idea who is on the other side. I'm more interested in where you are placing yours ads on CL? What category are you using since CL tried to eliminate those kinds of ads?
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Not surprising
[QUOTE=Baggio57;6469391]This doesn't surprise me and it makes some sense. If you stuck your cock through a glory hole, you have no idea who is on the other side. I'm more interested in where you are placing yours ads on CL? What category are you using since CL tried to eliminate those kinds of ads?[/QUOTE]Ha yeah that's true. I think he was trying to lure me in. No thanks! As for posting I usually just stick to activity partners, missed connections and sometimes volunteers. But I get yelled at in the volunteer section. But most are flagged within hours. But randomly some stay up for days.
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[QUOTE=LukeSolo;6470369]Ha yeah that's true. I think he was trying to lure me in. No thanks! As for posting I usually just stick to activity partners, missed connections and sometimes volunteers. But I get yelled at in the volunteer section. But most are flagged within hours. But randomly some stay up for days.[/QUOTE]That creep has been on Craigslist for 20 years trying to suck dick. He was a huge, thirsty, desperate pain in the ass who constantly spammed me every time I posted an ad back in the old days of Casual Encounters. Wanting to suck my dick, saying it doesn't matter if I don't like guys, etc. He also used to post ads for a gloryhole in some apartment around the south loop and claim he was female and would prove it when you got there. He's a fucking pest. Truth be told, I really sympathized with women who have to go through this BS with guys who can't take no for an answer. Last time he responded to one of my ads years ago I got pissed off and called him every offensive name in the book. I finally stopped posting ads because there was so much garbage from scammers and this desperate homo.
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Doublist
I created an account with this site when it first appeared but never posted anything. Has anyone had any luck with Doublist?
I would assume, to respond to LukeSolo's post, that most of the women have moved to one of the escort sites (those who were pros on CL and BP) or to the various sugar sites (those who might need some extra money here and there but don't want to do this all the time).
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[QUOTE=Chicago41;6470905]That creep has been on Craigslist for 20 years trying to suck dick. He was a huge, thirsty, desperate pain in the ass who constantly spammed me every time I posted an ad back in the old days of Casual Encounters. Wanting to suck my dick, saying it doesn't matter if I don't like guys, etc. He also used to post ads for a gloryhole in some apartment around the south loop and claim he was female and would prove it when you got there. He's a fucking pest. Truth be told, I really sympathized with women who have to go through this BS with guys who can't take no for an answer. Last time he responded to one of my ads years ago I got pissed off and called him every offensive name in the book. I finally stopped posting ads because there was so much garbage from scammers and this desperate homo.[/QUOTE]Ugh. CL is all guys posting stupid ads about offering massage for only women, or some other such nonsense. I flag every one of those things.
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Dl
[QUOTE=DWaits;6471128]I created an account with this site when it first appeared but never posted anything. Has anyone had any luck with Doublist?
I would assume, to respond to LukeSolo's post, that most of the women have moved to one of the escort sites (those who were pros on CL and BP) or to the various sugar sites (those who might need some extra money here and there but don't want to do this all the time).[/QUOTE]I have tried out DL and it's basically CL in different clothes. It's mostly men looking for other men. The few posts I did reply to in the women looking for men section were a bust. One was a guy, and the others either were links to pay sites or just never replied. I definitely miss the old days of CL when it was much better and easier to find a casual hook up.
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D-list
[QUOTE=DWaits;6471128]I created an account with this site when it first appeared but never posted anything. Has anyone had any luck with Doublist?
I would assume, to respond to LukeSolo's post, that most of the women have moved to one of the escort sites (those who were pros on CL and BP) or to the various sugar sites (those who might need some extra money here and there but don't want to do this all the time).[/QUOTE]I had success on double list years ago but then they banned me. I never understood why as there were way more suggestive ads being posted.
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CL Pilsen
Anyone try her or recognize the picture? Let me know before I TOFTT again.
[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/hws/d/chicago-private-massage-starting-at-100/7636561177.html[/URL]
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[QUOTE=DWaits;6471128]I created an account with this site when it first appeared but never posted anything. Has anyone had any luck with Doublist?
I would assume, to respond to LukeSolo's post, that most of the women have moved to one of the escort sites (those who were pros on CL and BP) or to the various sugar sites (those who might need some extra money here and there but don't want to do this all the time).[/QUOTE]I've met up with a couple of women. One was pay for play. The other was a BBW that was looking for a one night stand.
I've met couples for threesomes.
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[QUOTE=Jayp80;6499900]Anyone try her or recognize the picture? Let me know before I TOFTT again.
[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/hws/d/chicago-private-massage-starting-at-100/7636561177.html[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't recognize her but certainly caught my interest, let me know if you check her out.
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Curious
[QUOTE=Jayp80;6499900]Anyone try her or recognize the picture? Let me know before I TOFTT again.
[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/hws/d/chicago-private-massage-starting-at-100/7636561177.html[/URL][/QUOTE]How are you supposed to text her? I don't see a number.
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[QUOTE=Baggio57;6500357]How are you supposed to text her? I don't see a number.[/QUOTE]In the top left corner, there is a "reply" button. Click on it, and an option for text will give you a number.
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[QUOTE=JasoDean;6500374]In the top left corner, there is a "reply" button. Click on it, and an option for text will give you a number.[/QUOTE]Top left corner, click on reply. Gives you her number.
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[QUOTE=HappyGardener;6500152]I've met up with a couple of women. One was pay for play. The other was a BBW that was looking for a one night stand.
I've met couples for threesomes.[/QUOTE]I've met several, but takes more work. A lot more than CL used to. Did meet a hot young redhead 4 years ago, but alas she's vanished after I banged the shit out of her about 30-40 times. Mostly getting hits from very large black women lately. Not my thing!
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Craig'sList ad
Happened to see this in Beauty Services. I HAVE NOT seen her. Just posting if someone else has time and money this weekend.
Hello good afternoon.
I offer bodyrub tantra massage.
I am located near by wicker park 2140 w armitage.
1 hr 200 .
35 min 160.
https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/bts/d/chicago-independent-dania/7636711334.html