It's pretty simple, really
[QUOTE=Imeanit173;7614956]... how do I approach them with it? I saw that sometimes they don't do things. So how would I go get a massage and SF as well. Thanks for the help guys.[/QUOTE]Maybe call ahead and ask it someone was available for a one hour massage so they expect you. Smile. Be friendly and polite. You'll be led to a room and left to undress. Get naked, face down, do not cover up with the sheet. She'll ask if you want hard, medium or soft touch. Give audible feedback, let her know when it feels really good. When they stand at the head of the table and work your neck is a good time to softly graze the leg and move up and cup their ass. When the girl sees your boner, she knows what to do. Remember to smile, be polite, and say "everything" when she asks what you want. Then it's kinda like autopilot. Good luck.
More touching while face down
[QUOTE=Bigsqueeze;7615329]Maybe call ahead and ask it someone was available for a one hour massage so they expect you. Smile. Be friendly and polite. You'll be led to a room and left to undress. Get naked, face down, do not cover up with the sheet. She'll ask if you want hard, medium or soft touch. Give audible feedback, let her know when it feels really good. When they stand at the head of the table and work your neck is a good time to softly graze the leg and move up and cup their ass. When the girl sees your boner, she knows what to do. Remember to smile, be polite, and say "everything" when she asks what you want. Then it's kinda like autopilot. Good luck.[/QUOTE]When I used to go, when they were by my side, massaging, I would move my hands to my side, but at the edge of the table, if they got close enough for my curled fingers to 'accidentally' touch their pussy area, and they do not move, then I would massage them there while they massaged me. After that, it tends to get better.
Still a little confused but I think I'm getting it
[QUOTE=NewAge7654;7615401]Being this is your first post and obviously very new. It was mentioned already read a bit first. This will give you an idea where to go and if your read enough who to ask for.
BigSqueeze and SGt had it perfect be polite and just let things happen naturally. Sheet off sets the tone for sure. Other option is start with a table shower location. Not sure on the agency recommendation, I think I'd leave that for after you get a bit of experience and at least know what you want and how far you want to take it.[/QUOTE]I've been paying attention for maybe two weeks now, I even went back to very old posts to get an idea. I almost always land on Mint or LAN. How where I can't find anything that is either in Duluth or close. Nor can I decide if it's better to go to an escort instead of a massage parlor. I'm new to both so idk. But yes BigSqueeze and SGt are right. I will try that after I figure out where to go and who to go too.
Take it slow and make sure you are respectful
[QUOTE=Imeanit173;7615514]I've been paying attention for maybe two weeks now, I even went back to very old posts to get an idea. I almost always land on Mint or LAN. How where I can't find anything that is either in Duluth or close. Nor can I decide if it's better to go to an escort instead of a massage parlor. I'm new to both so idk. But yes BigSqueeze and SGt are right. I will try that after I figure out where to go and who to go too.[/QUOTE]Hey man sorry about your divorce, its a hard thing but you will recover. Make sure to talk to a professional don't just take on adult hobbies like whiskey tasting, cigar collecting or. AMPs. That being said welcome so the hobby. I am also new and was also accused of being a cop, yes it hurts, but its legit. Cops join all the time for 'research' no they don't. Its cause they don't want to solve real problems like murder and fraud. So they jump on forums like this find someone who is letting their guard down, become friends, setup a sting and well all of sudden your divorce wasn't as expensive.
Take it slow, don't ask for specifics and don't share any. Be respectful, just cause you are paying you don't own anyone. Be clean. Stay playful and don't push, remember the worst case scenario is cops, however you can also get in trouble with the girls, moms or husband / bf. Be safe be clean and be nice, enjoy it and don't take it too seriously.