Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=BMWGuy;4779872]This is an excellent read that I found last night: [URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/gg5qo9/why_sa_sucks_but_is_still_better_than_all/[/URL].[/QUOTE]This read is on the mark. I have been on (and off) SA over 5 years. Each time I'd look for a new SB, it had changed. It is a mixed market. Still found great SB's and worked out PPM deals. I'm out now. I agree that one will just have to screen better and get reasonable specific about expectations. If you know what to expect, it helps with the screening process. Girls come and go once they have an arrangement they like. I found the experienced SB's were the easiest to deal with. Wish all of you Good Luck!

Would some mentor please send me the Women site please.

Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return[/QUOTE]Sometimes you can score gold on these kinds of arrangements, and sometimes you end up with the shorter end of the stick. I've always evaluated these kind of arrangements versus a PPM arrangement. For me personally, if I'm getting at least a $100 per visit meet, then it's a good value. So five meets per month would be my minimum to even entertain this kind of arrangement.

Personally I would be too afraid to give a monthly allowance right now given the plethora of scammers, fakes, flakes, etc. That seem to run rampant on SA. If you find a lady you trust who can be dependable, then you've found the unicorn we're all looking for.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.[/QUOTE]I have had most girls expecting about $2000 per month. Had one who said she used to get $5000 per month. I told her good luck. Six months later she called back wanting $400 PPM. I gave it a try and she thought I was an ATM. So that ended very quickly, Plus for about $600 one should get a Porn Star experience. (had one in DC one time with a pro. Was worth the money, I digress) I still would favor PPM. Around here, I hear most guys (SD's) offer about $200 to $300 ppm. If they could host I would pay them half the difference of a notel room. All about negotiation. I'd rather get a lower price obviously, but if we are really hitting it off together, I would give more once in awhile. They seemed to appreciate it and was an incentive to stay in the game with me. Good luck.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.[/QUOTE]My Last arrangement I gave $1,200.00 at the first meet of every month for 2 years. My current arrangement asked if I could pay her rent for her which is $900 per month. Obviously there is extra cost in both arrangements for food, alcohol, doing date type stuff and all the holidays but I get to hang out and do fun stuff and as much playtime as I can work in. As I've stated for me it's just like dating except the first meeting of the month I bring an envelope and leave it. Honestly it's never discussed except normally a "thank you" text when I leave for that day. Maybe I am lucky and found the diamonds in the rough that really just tired of dating guys their age and don't really want the weight of a full time "boy" friend, but I had a lot of options back when I was looking for similar type arrangements. My suggestion is if your budget is $500 find someone you like and go car shopping. Have them apply for the credit and put it in their name, but say you will make the payments. $500 per month buys a nice car.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LayenLow;4784155] My suggestion is if your budget is $500 find someone you like and go car shopping. Have them apply for the credit and put it in their name, but say you will make the payments. $500 per month buys a nice car.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NerdJohn;4783625]Sometimes you can score gold on these kinds of arrangements, and sometimes you end up with the shorter end of the stick. I've always evaluated these kind of arrangements versus a PPM arrangement. For me personally, if I'm getting at least a $100 per visit meet, then it's a good value. So five meets per month would be my minimum to even entertain this kind of arrangement.[/QUOTE]If you're looking at a non-pro, UTR or SA novice type, age 21-35, traditionally attractive, height and weight proportionate, is either in school and / or has a civilian job that doesn't cover all of her bills. ,. ,. ,. , target at most 100 per meet (at least 1 hr, MSOG, non-clock watching), that should cover 5 meets per month as NerdJohn noted. If you're not getting that kind of mileage, just blow it as part of the retail rate on an older pro and call it a day (but keep searching for a UTR that genuinely appreciates any help). Ignore pros completely on the allowance discussion of as little as 500.

Happy hunting,. , ,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.[/QUOTE]There are certainly several ways you can approach the product your looking for. I have 2 UTR's that are in college and are very attractive and have awesome bodies and skills. I see each one twice a month and cover their rent, my total 1600 and the length of time they spend with me is very generous. I can assure you it is worth every penny.

Keep in mind each of us has a different idea on what the words attractive and nice body mean and what we consider a fair value for what we are leasing. Keep in mind in a dream you are not buying anything, you are leasing a product for a specific time and conditions.

You have received advice from several well known and trusted Seniors so now you can input your perimeters for leasing your dream and go from there.

OG 11

Thanks for the insight gentlemen. This board has always been a great about more experienced guys sharing their thoughts. Thanks again.

If your ever in the Greenville area or feel like taking a little drive, this little 18yr old is a diamond in the rough.

Dj.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/09696a97-c7fe-4681-8153-347409951f20[/URL]

Care to PM me some details. I was talking to her but moved on. I must have misread her. She looks like a doll baby.

[QUOTE=DiverJames;4789067]If your ever in the Greenville area or feel like taking a little drive, this little 18yr old is a diamond in the rough.

Dj.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/09696a97-c7fe-4681-8153-347409951f20[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.[/QUOTE]My two cents.

Like many other guys, I am typically in the 200-300 per meet range.

Had one recently that I offered 1 K per month for weekly meets then 1500 for twice weekly when we were settled in.

So that works out at under 200 per meet if you want to look at it that way.

Another was 500 for twice a month then I increased to 800 for weekly visits.

Some girls want more than I can offer. I'm happy to politely say no to them because I like to feel that I can give them a lot more than just $$.

Another didn't want anything. Just a relationship. And we fell in love.

While some SA girls have watched too many Sugar Baby movies and have unrealistic expectations, my max is $1,000/ month. And always an all-you-can-eat plan. Many won't do that, but with a little work, you can find them. I've been seeing the same girl since late last year. $500/ mo, no clock, no limits. Back in pre-pandemic days, we had great field trips.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4783552]Just tossing this out for discussion. What is a reasonable return on a $500 per month allowance? Just curious about others expectations and what they actually get in return.[/QUOTE]

Could someone please tell me what the screen names are that people have at the bottom of some of their pages (example below)? Is this their Kik user name or something else?

I feel old.

-Joyboy.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6e174277-caad-419f-bf70-b7faa9c86351[/URL]

[QUOTE=Scintillator;4789920]My two cents.

Like many other guys, I am typically in the 200-300 per meet range.

Had one recently that I offered 1 K per month for weekly meets then 1500 for twice weekly when we were settled in.

So that works out at under 200 per meet if you want to look at it that way.

Another was 500 for twice a month then I increased to 800 for weekly visits.

Some girls want more than I can offer. I'm happy to politely say no to them because I like to feel that I can give them a lot more than just $$.

Another didn't want anything. Just a relationship. And we fell in love.[/QUOTE]Been there 6 weeks of amazing sex no $ here on business.