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[QUOTE=Redneck1;7021644]Might want to reconsider your sharp distinction between a BBBJ from an "AMP provider," for which you're "concerned" about catching herpes, and a "BBBJ from a regular girl," for which you "wouldn't worry" about catching herpes. A well-known report of the National Center for Health Statistics (issued in 2018 and based on data from 2015-2016), states that 50.9 percent of females in the USA between the ages of 14 and 49 were infected with Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1. This infection rate was among females in general, not limited to AMP providers or other providers. The same study found that 15.9 percent of females in the USA in that wide age range were infected with Herpes Simplex Virus Type 2. Again, this infection rate was among females in general, not limited to AMP providers or other providers. The report said that both types of these infections would be "lifelong". So even among females in general within that broad age range, the infection rate for HSV-1 was more than 1 in 2 females, and the infection rate for HSV-2 was almost 1 in 6 females.[/QUOTE]Fair point. I wonder what those stats are for providers -- its got to be higher. I guess if you look at their lips and they look okay, then you're good? Or just don't worry about it and keep yourself clean and hygenic.

[QUOTE=WetAndWild;7026078]Is there a max dosage of Viagra that I should not exceed? Years ago before Covid I could take 50 mg and that was enough. Now 100 mg doesn't sustain the erection, so upped it to 150 mg and this is better with no ejaculation and stored cum for a week Im able to last the session at the AMP. Maybe, it's time to see a Urologist?[/QUOTE]Most people should only take 100 mg or less per day, guess it depends on your health. But I actually used to get really good stiffys with 25 mg, but I had to up it to 50 mg to get the same performance. But I have not yet had to increase it. Just like you, I have to not cum in a week and I'll be good to go when I get into the room. I noticed since I gained plenty of weight that my ED was prominent. Cleaning up my diet and hitting the gym to lose 20 lbs helped a lot performance wise. I can take 25 mg now and not be super hard, but it still does the job!

[QUOTE=Electrician1;7026208]Thanks for the info

Fair point. I wonder what those stats are for providers -- its got to be higher. I guess if you look at their lips and they look okay, then you're good? Or just don't worry about it and keep yourself clean and hygenic.[/QUOTE]When I quickly looked for studies on HSV infection rates among female providers, those that I found were distinguishable because they applied to foreign countries or also included male and transgender providers. However, you and anyone else on the forum are welcome to research that topic. I wouldn't be surprised if the female provider rates in the USA were higher than for females in general, but my point in my original post was that even if a guy just receives BBBJs from females in general, a significant percentage of them would already be infected with HSV.

Unfortunately, to just "look at their lips" and see if "they look okay" wouldn't provide complete protection. "Both HSV-1 and HSV-2 are most contagious when sores are present but can also be transmitted when no symptoms are felt or visible" (World Health Organization, Herpes Simplex Virus Fact Sheet). Also, even if there are some oral sores, they can occur inside the mouth on the "tongue, roof of the mouth, or the gums" (Cedars-Sinai medical center webpage on Herpes Simplex Virus Mouth Infection). So, especially in a dimly lit area, a guy might have to use a flashlight on a wide-open mouth to see inside-the-mouth sores. How romantic!

I would think that the extent to which a guy would worry about HSV infection from providers or non-providers would depend on individual personal factors, such as if he was married to a woman without HSV and absolutely wanted to avoid infecting her, and his level of risk aversion.

I take the generic of Viagra 20 mg. It was working and my solid cock stayed that way after I would shoot my load with a condom in that pussy. Now, I can't even get hard. I take the 20 mg pill at the beginning of the session and 20 minutes in and time to get a BBBJ HJ and especially fuck time I don't get hard. Should I ask my doctor if I can take more?

[QUOTE=Ck813;7027862]I take the generic of Viagra 20 mg. It was working and my solid cock stayed that way after I would shoot my load with a condom in that pussy. Now, I can't even get hard. I take the 20 mg pill at the beginning of the session and 20 minutes in and time to get a BBBJ HJ and especially fuck time I don't get hard. Should I ask my doctor if I can take more?[/QUOTE]That's a relatively low dose, so obtaining medical clearance to increase the dosage (perhaps even gradually up to 100 mg) seems like a reasonable idea. Another idea may be to take the V in advance of the session, rather than "at the beginning of the session". Personally, I've found the beneficial effects of V for me are usually maximized at about one hour after I take it (on an empty stomach), and then usually stay maximized for about another hour. The [URL]viagra.com[/URL] website states that V "usually starts to work within 30-60 minutes," so if a guy is taking it only "20 minutes" before sexual activity, that might not be the best timing for him to maximize its effectiveness.

[QUOTE=Ck813;7027862]I take the generic of Viagra 20 mg. It was working and my solid cock stayed that way after I would shoot my load with a condom in that pussy. Now, I can't even get hard. I take the 20 mg pill at the beginning of the session and 20 minutes in and time to get a BBBJ HJ and especially fuck time I don't get hard. Should I ask my doctor if I can take more?[/QUOTE]I am on the wrong side of 70. With my doctors blessing I tried 100 mg of generic Viagra. I checked with the doc because I do take daily medications that I thought may interact poorly. Based upon what I was taking my doc said 100 mg would not have negative effects for me. So yes, check with your doc first but in my case there were no side effects taking 100 mg of generic Viagra with the exception of a blue tinted vision. As aside it really didn't work for me anyways. Bummers.

So.

If the meds no work, check with one urologist for options. As previously mentioned, you may need to consider one penile (expensive) implant (unless you plan to go overseas for the procedure). Go see one specialist. Good luck.

Yep. I'm married and I keep this hobby to myself. It would be impossible to explain how I suddenly have HSV to my lady. Hence my wariness of bare play. As much as I would like it, its just not worth it. I think as another gentleman said, getting used to some ultra thin condoms would be good. I've never liked CBJ. I just can't feel much. But, that said I've never tried the kine he mentioned. Mahalo for sharing your research. Stay safe gentlemen.

[QUOTE=Redneck1;7026723]When I quickly looked for studies on HSV infection rates among female providers, those that I found were distinguishable because they applied to foreign countries or also included male and transgender providers. However, you and anyone else on the forum are welcome to research that topic. I wouldn't be surprised if the female provider rates in the USA were higher than for females in general, but my point in my original post was that even if a guy just receives BBBJs from females in general, a significant percentage of them would already be infected with HSV.

Unfortunately, to just "look at their lips" and see if "they look okay" wouldn't provide complete protection. "Both HSV-1 and HSV-2 are most contagious when sores are present but can also be transmitted when no symptoms are felt or visible" (World Health Organization, Herpes Simplex Virus Fact Sheet). Also, even if there are some oral sores, they can occur inside the mouth on the "tongue, roof of the mouth, or the gums" (Cedars-Sinai medical center webpage on Herpes Simplex Virus Mouth Infection). So, especially in a dimly lit area, a guy might have to use a flashlight on a wide-open mouth to see inside-the-mouth sores. How romantic!

I would think that the extent to which a guy would worry about HSV infection from providers or non-providers would depend on individual personal factors, such as if he was married to a woman without HSV and absolutely wanted to avoid infecting her, and his level of risk aversion.[/QUOTE]

Appreciate it. I will talk to my doctor and hopefully I get back on track. I just saw Meenoy and it did not go well especially for what she charged. I was happy except the smell mad short.

[QUOTE=Redneck1;7028681]That's a relatively low dose, so obtaining medical clearance to increase the dosage (perhaps even gradually up to 100 mg) seems like a reasonable idea. Another idea may be to take the V in advance of the session, rather than "at the beginning of the session". Personally, I've found the beneficial effects of V for me are usually maximized at about one hour after I take it (on an empty stomach), and then usually stay maximized for about another hour. The [URL]viagra.com[/URL] website states that V "usually starts to work within 30-60 minutes," so if a guy is taking it only "20 minutes" before sexual activity, that might not be the best timing for him to maximize its effectiveness.[/QUOTE]

Thank you brother. I have been documented to have afib diabetes stroke and others. He said there is no reason 20 mg I could take. I will check.

[QUOTE=Shipshape;7029125]I am on the wrong side of 70. With my doctors blessing I tried 100 mg of generic Viagra. I checked with the doc because I do take daily medications that I thought may interact poorly. Based upon what I was taking my doc said 100 mg would not have negative effects for me. So yes, check with your doc first but in my case there were no side effects taking 100 mg of generic Viagra with the exception of a blue tinted vision. As aside it really didn't work for me anyways. Bummers.

So.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ck813;7027862]I take the generic of Viagra 20 mg. It was working and my solid cock stayed that way after I would shoot my load with a condom in that pussy. Now, I can't even get hard. I take the 20 mg pill at the beginning of the session and 20 minutes in and time to get a BBBJ HJ and especially fuck time I don't get hard. Should I ask my doctor if I can take more?[/QUOTE]No rush, relax, connect, get comfortable. Your the customer paying for their service. Let them do their job and take care of you.

I'm usually soft when laying face down for the massage, hoping that the therapist will tease me up before the flip. Usually works wonders everytime for me if they are experienced.

After the flip, if I'm still soft, really depending on her magic hands to make it work. Doesn't matter if she's young, old or fugugly, it's the sensual hands technique.

Just rubbing the shaft is not a good HJ. Must include some skills on the helmet where most of the sensitive area is. This is where I ask for a BJ. Rejected most of the time unless FS is on the menu. If no FS then I go for the pussy play. If that happens, I pay alittle extra without any negotiations.

At this time I won't pay $200 for a massage and HJ. AMPs and SPAS charge $200+, no massage and a short time for FS.

Only 1 time that no completion on a HJ from a pretty therapist with no touch, no skills or technique, bad attitude. It happens.

FME.

[QUOTE=Ck813;7027862]I take the generic of Viagra 20 mg. [/QUOTE]One point that I neglected to mention in my original reply is that if Viagra (sildenafil) is the only ED medication that you've used so far, you also might want to try others such as Levitra (vardenafil) and Cialis (tadalafil). Years ago, I did some research and found reports on other internet forums where some guys were saying that one type of med worked well for them while another didn't.

[QUOTE=Blake123;7024946]I wouldn't recommend it as it's unpredictable. It's nothing like using Viagra where you can select the time you wish to get hard.

I tried PT-141 for a few months about 10 years ago. It only gave me occasional, random, sporadic hard-ons and usually not when I cared for one. For example, I would be watching a baseball game, and all of a sudden, I would get a hard-on--just like that! That's what it does to you. Weird! I wouldn't waste time with this product.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feedback. I already ordered it so I'll post up my experience.

[QUOTE=BenchWarmer;7032465]Thanks for the feedback. I already ordered it so I'll post up my experience.[/QUOTE]As I posted earlier, PT-141 is unpredictable. Using it immediately prior to an AMP visit may or may not work. In my experience, I sometimes didn't get hard until maybe 8 hours after injecting this stuff. It's a hit and miss. That's why I stopped using it. Good luck and let us know how it works for you.

[QUOTE=MitsFunai;7029469]If the meds no work, check with one urologist for options. As previously mentioned, you may need to consider one penile (expensive) implant (unless you plan to go overseas for the procedure). Go see one specialist. Good luck.[/QUOTE]One alternative is a product called TriMix. It's a painless injectable. This stuff is guaranteed to get you as hard as a Louisville slugger for 1-4 hours--depending on prescribed dosage. I used to order it from Universal Men's Clinic, but it was getting a bit expensive with weekly AMP visits, so I stopped using it. As far as I know, the only possible negative side effect is peyronie's disease (some potential curvature of jr), but it seems to be a better alternative than going thru the process of getting an implant.