Relationships with Massage Providers

[QUOTE=Brahmabull]I have dated many and I am with one now. NONE of them have been anything like you described. I am sure the people you speak of exist, but it is not 9 out 10 of them. You made that up.

You sound like you have an axe to grind, or you are maybe still pissed that you trusted someone and they took advantage. I am sorry to hear about that. But it slants your perspective when you deal with a bad person you start to see everyone as bad.

Same for me, I have dealt with only good honest ladies and therefore I am trusting of most AMP girls I meet. I am not a sucker and I am not stupid, but if a lady refuses to take money from you, she is not after money.

Girls I have met is not interested in staying here, they intend to go home, they do not want a greencard.

There are bad apples everywhere, you can meet any girl outside a spa and run just as much risk of her being after your money or status as a girl working a spa.[/QUOTE]I did say don't get me wrong there are some good ones out there but they are rare and hard to find. I'm glad that the ones you've met were nice girls. That puts a smile on my face because I don't want to think about my race as just users. I've been working in the AMPs for 15 years and I've met a lot of girls I've even owned my own spa before. What they tell you a man and and what they show and tell me are two complete different things. Truthfully I don't have any axe to grind because it was my own stupidity that got me cheated. I was raised as an American by Caucasian parents. So maybe I don't understand as much about them as I would have if I had been raised as a Asian. I just know what I've seen and heard. I'm sorry if my comments offended some people. I didn't mean to do that. I just wanted to say just be careful.

I posted on this thread before under my old handle. Look back; you'll figure it out. I hadn't posted in so long, I forgot my password, tried to get a new one from Jackson but failed, so I created this new name.

Anyway, my wife and I have been together five years and married for three years. She got her Green Card a little over a year ago. We went to Korea last summer and I met my wife's entire family. We all went on vacation together and we had a great time for the three weeks we were there.

I couldn't ask for a better wife. She's miles better than my first wife: better cook, better in bed (no surprise there) and so much nicer to me it should be illegal.

This woman never asked for a dime from me. In fact, and my previous posts will back this up, she threw/throws money at me like it's candy.

Our marriage is fan-fucking-tastic. My wife is a diamond in the rough and others like her are out there. You just have to be a decent enough guy to snag one.

Just remember this: you don't choose the girl. She chooses you.

Good luck and sarang haeyo. ;)

[QUOTE=Chon Maneyo]I posted on this thread before under my old handle. Look back; you'll figure it out. I hadn't posted in so long, I forgot my password, tried to get a new one from Jackson but failed, so I created this new name.

Anyway, my wife and I have been together five years and married for three years. She got her Green Card a little over a year ago. We went to Korea last summer and I met my wife's entire family. We all went on vacation together and we had a great time for the three weeks we were there.

I couldn't ask for a better wife. She's miles better than my first wife: better cook, better in bed (no surprise there) and so much nicer to me it should be illegal.

This woman never asked for a dime from me. In fact, and my previous posts will back this up, she threw/throws money at me like it's candy.

Our marriage is fan-fucking-tastic. My wife is a diamond in the rough and others like her are out there. You just have to be a decent enough guy to snag one.

Just remember this: you don't choose the girl. She chooses you.

Good luck and sarang haeyo. ;)[/QUOTE]

Gotta love them asian women.

For a hobbiest. I knew I should have never crossed that line. We both new he was married and it never was going to work. My heart felt things I never had felt before. It's so hard when you both have so much in common, and it feels so right. But yet he still goes home to her every night. It's been a year and he is still with her.

So unless you both are truly not attached to anyone. Please spare hearts and really really thinkg about what you are doing.

I feel better now I got that off my chest.

It takes all kinds to make the world go around. My experiences parallel more what Jasmine is saying but I have heard from others who have found a match and have even married. That's a good thing. I have had some who have lived with me but in general, and I emphasize "in general," gambling or drinking has been a problem. I don't drink and my gambling is limited to a casino visit once or twice a year. One lady I dated for a long time would make arrangements to take time off and go somewhere with me. She would start drinking and then decide to go with friends who were drinking buddies and go back to the spa instead of with me. Another who lived with me disappeared one day for two and a half days. Turned out she was at the casino. The second time I had to ask her to leave. Be that as it may, I don't regret the relationships because I enjoyed the ladies, had many good times beyond the obvious, and would take a chance again if a lady expressed interest. I was told however from a very Americanized Korean-born former spa owner that the most important thing for most, emphasizing most, of the workers was the money. Another former spa owner who was just a very good friend of mine told me I should not be looking for a relationship with a spa lady. She even introduced me to a very proper Korean lady. Unfortunately the language difference was too much to overcome.

For those who have been successful that's great. For those who are considering a relationship, just go into it with your eyes open. Enjoy it as much as it can and be prepared if it doesn't turn out to be what you want it to be. Those I've been with had great senses of humor and provided lots of good company. I learned a lot about the culture and enjoyed some of the greatest physical relationships I've ever had while with them.

[QUOTE=Jasmine Smith; 951805]Hi guys,

I am an Korean American ex spa worker. I have worked in the spas for 15 years and from my personal knowledge and experience I have found out that 9 out 10 times the girl is a con-artist and a liar. A lot of these girls used to brag to me about the men they were using either for money / material goods or a greencard. I also have been conned out of money from these girls who I thought were my friends. I unfortunately have a soft heart and would believe their sob stories and give them the financial help that they said they needed. When they were supposed to pay me back they couldn't be found. I have often told my clients if they want to date Asian girls to find the ones who don't work in a spa. In most Asian countries and especially Korea the mentality is they are out for themselves and they don't care who they step on or hurt to get what they want. I know a lot of them have told me that American men are a bunch of suckers and very easy to use. I myself no longer have any contact with spa workers since I've gone independent, but I no longer have to put up with all the drama from these girls.

Now don't get me wrong there are a few good girls out there but they are very rare and hard to find. Just be careful when hook up with a spa girl. [/QUOTE]I have found one that was all that Jasmine said! Not all are like that. Some are very loving and honest! I lived with two MMS in the Baltimore / DC area and they were perfect ladies. I think about them once in a while! And I'm sure they check the Hawaii board to see how I'm doing. I later found out that she was married. Now that's got to be a strain on a marraige! And I found out that he cannot handle being married to a provider. He did threaten me a number of times. It must be sad to think that at one time he thought he could handle marraige to a provider. Only to find out that he couldn't! I don't fool myself when it comes to marraige to a provider. I know I cannot handle it! Since she owns a Massage Parlor and provides. You know she wants her cake and eat it too! A woman can't do it and be in the business. Anyway, that's my story on that. If she is not married, then she could be nice! Just be careful Mongers!

[QUOTE=Waikikian;1073212]I have found one that was all that Jasmine said! Not all are like that. Some are very loving and honest! I lived with two MMS in the Baltimore / DC area and they were perfect ladies. I think about them once in a while! And I'm sure they check the Hawaii board to see how I'm doing. I later found out that she was married. Now that's got to be a strain on a marraige! And I found out that he cannot handle being married to a provider. He did threaten me a number of times. It must be sad to think that at one time he thought he could handle marraige to a provider. Only to find out that he couldn't! I don't fool myself when it comes to marraige to a provider. I know I cannot handle it! Since she owns a Massage Parlor and provides. You know she wants her cake and eat it too! A woman can't do it and be in the business. Anyway, that's my story on that. If she is not married, then she could be nice! Just be careful Mongers![/QUOTE]I too have had a similar experience! I just got fed up with the lies and false behavior from her and will have no more! I totally gave her up!

[QUOTE=Sidney Merlot; 954998]For a hobbiest. I knew I should have never crossed that line. We both new he was married and it never was going to work. My heart felt things I never had felt before. It's so hard when you both have so much in common, and it feels so right. But yet he still goes home to her every night. It's been a year and he is still with her.

So unless you both are truly not attached to anyone. Please spare hearts and really really thinkg about what you are doing.

I feel better now I got that off my chest. [/QUOTE]Sidney is right!

It should never come to this.

[QUOTE=Sidney Merlot; 954998]For a hobbiest. I knew I should have never crossed that line. We both new he was married and it never was going to work. My heart felt things I never had felt before. It's so hard when you both have so much in common, and it feels so right. But yet he still goes home to her every night. It's been a year and he is still with her.

So unless you both are truly not attached to anyone. Please spare hearts and really really thinkg about what you are doing.

I feel better now I got that off my chest.[/QUOTE]The problem with a provider is."How do you know whether the provider is putting on an act, to get your money, or that she is serious about you"?

I ran into a provider that had all the signs of a seriously in love straight woman! Very jealous, said she loved me and had all the signs of a regular woman in love! These days, I discard any and all love reactions, from a provider, because of her! A provider is in a predicament and no matter what she does, most mongers will not believe her! Sorry Sidney, but it's true!

[QUOTE=Chon Maneyo; 953464]I posted on this thread before under my old handle. Look back; you'll figure it out. I hadn't posted in so long, I forgot my password, tried to get a new one from Jackson but failed, so I created this new name.

Anyway, my wife and I have been together five years and married for three years. She got her Green Card a little over a year ago. We went to Korea last summer and I met my wife's entire family. We all went on vacation together and we had a great time for the three weeks we were there.

I couldn't ask for a better wife. She's miles better than my first wife: better cook, better in bed (no surprise there) and so much nicer to me it should be illegal.

This woman never asked for a dime from me. In fact, and my previous posts will back this up, she threw / throws money at me like it's candy.

Our marriage is fan-fucking-tastic. My wife is a diamond in the rough and others like her are out there. You just have to be a decent enough guy to snag one.

Just remember this: you don't choose the girl. She chooses you.

Good luck and sarang haeyo.[/QUOTE]This one sounded too good to be true. And surprize. The dude is banned from this site- LOL.

[QUOTE=Sidney Merlot; 954998]For a hobbiest. I knew I should have never crossed that line. We both new he was married and it never was going to work. My heart felt things I never had felt before. It's so hard when you both have so much in common, and it feels so right. But yet he still goes home to her every night. It's been a year and he is still with her.

So unless you both are truly not attached to anyone. Please spare hearts and really really thinkg about what you are doing.

I feel better now I got that off my chest.[/QUOTE]This one is just messed up. A provider falls in love with a married customer?

[QUOTE=Carmello;1121651]This one is just messed up. A provider falls in love with a married customer?[/QUOTE]The truth is. There is a time when the married monger is very vulnerable. And if she would have told him that she would marry him, at that moment in time. He would have left his wife and family, for her!

Once the prostitute gaves him enough time to sober up and get his bounderies back. Then, it's too late for her!

That has actually happened to me! I still care very much for her, but I'm a lot more sober about the matter!

Of course if she told me she cared for me now and to marry her. I could still still do it! But don't tell her that!

[QUOTE=Carmello;1121651]This one is just messed up. A provider falls in love with a married customer?[/QUOTE]Since there are more married mongers than single ones, it's only logical that she fall for a married man!

These things happen! Love has no boundaries. Love is forever!

In my 40+ years of mongering I have had sex with thousands of straight and p4p women. I have enjoyed every minute of it! Of the maybe 5000 p4p women I have had, I must say that I have fallen in love with three and these three were mutually in love with me. The last one that I fell in love with has really affected me. I have to forget about her.

I have decided that I will cease visiting these p4p women. I know my percentages are very slim, but I cannot risk falling in love with another prostitute, no matter how slim the chances are. So, in order to avoid this, I feel I have to get rid of this p4p disease. Oh, I will visit straight Massage Therapists, but I will avoid the p4p ones. Drastic as this may seem, I feel it's the only way. Just too painful for me to fall for a woman that fucks other men. No can I risk this again!

[QUOTE=Numbah One; 1188915]In my 40+ years of mongering I have had sex with thousands of straight and p4p women. I have enjoyed every minute of it! Of the maybe 5000 p4p women I have had, I must say that I have fallen in love with three and these three were mutually in love with me. The last one that I fell in love with has really affected me. I have to forget about her.

I have decided that I will cease visiting these p4p women. I know my percentages are very slim, but I cannot risk falling in love with another prostitute, no matter how slim the chances are. So, in order to avoid this, I feel I have to get rid of this p4p disease. Oh, I will visit straight Massage Therapists, but I will avoid the p4p ones. Drastic as this may seem, I feel it's the only way. Just too painful for me to fall for a woman that fucks other men. No can I risk this again! [/QUOTE]We deal in pay for play. It's all about money and only money. Anything else is fantasy!

[QUOTE=Numbah One; 1188915]In my 40+ years of mongering I have had sex with thousands of straight and p4p women. I have enjoyed every minute of it! Of the maybe 5000 p4p women I have had, I must say that I have fallen in love with three and these three were mutually in love with me. The last one that I fell in love with has really affected me. I have to forget about her.

I have decided that I will cease visiting these p4p women. I know my percentages are very slim, but I cannot risk falling in love with another prostitute, no matter how slim the chances are. So, in order to avoid this, I feel I have to get rid of this p4p disease. Oh, I will visit straight Massage Therapists, but I will avoid the p4p ones. Drastic as this may seem, I feel it's the only way. Just too painful for me to fall for a woman that fucks other men. No can I risk this again! [/QUOTE]OK. My post isn't really pertaining to the main point of your post, but I still have to ask.

40+ years of mongering. That equals about 500 months of mongering. Yes? 5000 p4p women. Yes? 5000 divided by 500 = 10. So you've seen 10 different p4p women a month for 40+ years?

Also. 5000 p4p women at 150 bucks a pop (yes. I know they must have been cheaper 40 years ago. But just for illustration). That is 750, 000 in mongering you've spent!

WOW!

[QUOTE=TivoTerry; 1204586]OK. My post isn't really pertaining to the main point of your post, but I still have to ask.

40+ years of mongering. That equals about 500 months of mongering. Yes? 5000 p4p women. Yes? 5000 divided by 500 = 10. So you've seen 10 different p4p women a month for 40+ years?

Also. 5000 p4p women at 150 bucks a pop (yes. I know they must have been cheaper 40 years ago. But just for illustration). That is 750, 000 in mongering you've spent!

WOW![/QUOTE]Instead of a 5, it should be a 2.

[QUOTE=Numbah One; 1188915]In my 40+ years of mongering I have had sex with thousands of straight and p4p women. I have enjoyed every minute of it! Of the maybe 5000 p4p women I have had, I must say that I have fallen in love with three and these three were mutually in love with me. The last one that I fell in love with has really affected me. I have to forget about her.

I have decided that I will cease visiting these p4p women. I know my percentages are very slim, but I cannot risk falling in love with another prostitute, no matter how slim the chances are. So, in order to avoid this, I feel I have to get rid of this p4p disease. Oh, I will visit straight Massage Therapists, but I will avoid the p4p ones. Drastic as this may seem, I feel it's the only way. Just too painful for me to fall for a woman that fucks other men. No can I risk this again! [/QUOTE]Just curious (no flames intended) : what is it about a woman "that f*ks other men" you found objectionable? Anything you didn't know about before you entered into the relationship? She ditched you for another customer, is that what happened?

Also, if you're a married man, (don't know if you are or not) were you demanding of her what you yourself could not give her? I. E. Did you want her to give up "f*king other men" but you weren't about to leave your wife for her? (not that I advocate such things.)

I think you should continue to patronize p4p women, just don't ask them for free sex outside of their job. They didn't throw themselves at you in the beginning. It all started when you tried to get some freebies, and then feelings and emotions progressed from there as you meet up. Continue your hobby, just know what may happen if you decided to break the rules.

[QUOTE=Waikikian;1205667]Instead of a 5, it should be a 2.[/QUOTE]You read my mind, Dude. It should have been a 2 for 2000.

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[QUOTE=Parkinsons; 1206061]Just curious (no flames intended) : what is it about a woman "that f*ks other men" you found objectionable? Anything you didn't know about before you entered into the relationship? She ditched you for another customer, is that what happened?

Also, if you're a married man, (don't know if you are or not) were you demanding of her what you yourself could not give her? I. E. Did you want her to give up "f*king other men" but you weren't about to leave your wife for her? (not that I advocate such things.)

I think you should continue to patronize p4p women, just don't ask them for free sex outside of their job. They didn't throw themselves at you in the beginning. It all started when you tried to get some freebies, and then feelings and emotions progressed from there as you meet up. Continue your hobby, just know what may happen if you decided to break the rules. [/QUOTE]Parkinsons, I do appreciate your candor, but did you just get a few things off your chest! You did rattle a few things that sounded like it came from your experience.

Also, thanks for suggesting I get back to mongering! I'll have to think about that one. I'll take your items into consideration, if they pertain to me.

Thanks much.

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I went to this woman Deeanna in Florence, gives good straight massage with a little sneak of innuendo in there.

But nothing extra. I left a bit unhappy, since she bumped my package a few times, I was thinking more was to come.

We chatted alot but not a thing extra but tease hints, cute. Might go back again to see if more is possible.

[QUOTE=Tickerr3165;1875087]If you fall in love with a provider, masseuse you can't be jealous about what they do for a living, being as that is what brought you together. I am in a relationship with my favorite provider and I now see her less because somehow without really discussing it we both think it is a little weird for me to now go in to p2p. She has been anything other than gold digging. She has been, kind, amicable, gracious and generous. She does not like her husband who we don't talk about beyond that. What I do know is that he is Chinese. She has told me that Chinese do not believe in divorce. I know that she has strong feelings for me but I never assume anything. I have strong feelings for her and would love to spend more time with her but I leave it up to her to decide when, where and how. It was and is hard to do that but her life style is more complicated than mine and you will be rewarded by your patience. I practice staying out of the way and pressing for more than she cam give right now. I hope that helps some of you. Expectations will kill the relationship. Be respectful![/QUOTE]Be very careful. It is difficult to get to know any one in a 'normal" relationship yet alone the one you are in. Remember you're a customer. She's a provider. She has had many customers and will have many more. You may think that you are in a special relationship with her. So may others. An ex wife was a provider in Korean AMPs for 14 years. She had many men believing that she was a special GF and wanted a relationship with them. Scores of guys believed this line and may be hundreds. They were the ones who didn't have to use a condom because they were special to her. Get real. She wanted their money. Any one with a little extra tip or a regular customer (meaning more than once) had her with out a condom. My ex back in the 1990s saw some days 25 guys. She saw on average 140-150 guys a week. About 100 were FS. At least 125 different dicks in her mouth. That's in a week! How could any one think that they're special and in a relationship with some one who has several thousand "lovers" a year. My ex was mid 30's, fluent in English, had 3 semesters in college very attractive and I fell for her very quickly.

I learned the numbers later. I thought that I was a special customer. That I was the only one of a few who she allowed to cum in her mouth or in her during FS. Actually it was almost any one. Now times may have changed in the AMP business since the 1990's. I read that the providers are old women who are not attractive and likely do not have the same trade as in earlier times. They may see only a few customers a day and in a week have less FS then my ex had in less than 1/2 a day. But still think about it more carefully. Just clear your head and think about it.

[QUOTE=Spinnerluvr;570573]Howrich, I dont know where you are and truly do not care, I am in the USA, did you not read about the 32 AMP's that were raided on the East Coast between Maine and Virginia last October I think it was? Hundreds were arrested and dozens charged with Human Trafficking. Please don't kid yourself about where many Amp girls come from or believe what they tell you.

So do I

I'm not faulting you for what you do Brother and wish you the best of luck in both the hobby and finding someone outside of it. All I'm saying is remember it's a HOBBY and these are WORKING girls.


Because some of you are crying in your beer over bad relationships with AMP girls that you and anyone else PAYS to be with in the first place!

Nine or nine hundred posts it does not take a rocket scientist to know you don't fall for a provider in the sex trade.

I have had ZERO relationships with AMP girls and never will. They provide a service that people PAY for. LOTS of people! ANYONE with a BUCK people.

Do I use their, oh yeah.

You should know first hand that LTR's with AMP girls are a bad idea!

I am very happy that after paying for services that mamason lets you hang out in the kitchen and break room with the working girls. If I pass you on the way to a room with your GF in tow I will wave as I go by.

I thought this forum was about letting others know whats happening in different places around the country and perhaps the world (International Forum) with regards to the various hobbies that mongers and or provider partake in.

I also thought it to be a place for other hobbyists to assist their fellow mongers with other related matters if applicable; and my response was aimed at "Kudlow" who was stating he fell in love with an AMP girl after break up of a 10+ year relationship and who was obviously on the rebound.

I at no point disrespected anyone including providers. I simply pointed out to Kudlow and anyone else who would fall for a pro regarless of the genre of her profession that WE pay then for their company and THEY provide us a service and not to forget it.

And I assure you, am I far from new at this!

Happy Hunting

Jack[/QUOTE]Don't get into a relationship with the AMP girls. You are ruining yourself. If you want to check out the massage parlors that offer extras, check out rubmaps. Not always perfect but can get a guideline of how the AMPs are like so you know which ones are legit and which ones offer some goods.

Happy Hunting.

Want an Asian, go to asia, meet someone with perhaps less baggage.

[QUOTE=PrinceAlbert;1917346]Don't get into a relationship with the AMP girls. You are ruining yourself. If you want to check out the massage parlors that offer extras, check out rubmaps. Not always perfect but can get a guideline of how the AMPs are like so you know which ones are legit and which ones offer some goods.

Happy Hunting.[/QUOTE]

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I dated an Asian girl for 6 years who worked in AMP. She never admitted to me that she does extras. I read from forums and heard from buddies that she gave BJ and HJ. Not sure about FS. But I told her it does not bother me if she does extras, but she never admitted. That did hurt me.

I've had a couple of friendships, one romantic and sexual with a massage provider. I used to see one for legit massage for years, and though I tried to get her to give me a HE she gently refused. I liked her, became friends with her, enjoyed talking as she gave me the massage, also salt scrubs, stretching, all kinds of good physical therapy.

I gave up on the HE but one day, during a salt scrub when I was undraped except for a small cloth over what became a raging hard on, she asked if I would like a "release." Who was I to turn her down? It was wonderful and as she very slowly brought me to my happy ending, she talked about how she had thought about doing this for me as a special friend earlier and how she understood it was a nice thing to do for someone. I was not sure if this was going to be a one time offer or something I could expect in future sessions. As it turned out, she asked the next time if I would enjoy that, and even admitted she was looking forward to it because she really enjoyed "doing that for a good friend" Unfortunately, she left town a few months later. I miss her.

[QUOTE=Toshi69;2045957]Want an Asian, go to asia, meet someone with perhaps less baggage.[/QUOTE]Those are usually the ones that go with white boys.

Falling for a masseuse is a terribly stupid, naive thing to do. It's also a terribly human thing to do, and I suppose if it ultimately winds up going anywhere, good for you. It'll likely be a wild ride indeed. I can't say as it's ever happened to me, but then, I'm also kind of new to this whole mongering thing. Okay, actually I've only patronized a single masseuse so far, albeit multiple times because she's damned good at what she does. It would be silly to say that there aren't feelings there. I mean, obviously I think she's attractive, and she's good at getting me off. And I'm sure she at least values me as a repeat customer, but it'd be silly to assume that we are anything more than customer-client. And yet, if she were to ask to move in with me, I probably would let her. I'm only human.

Just my two cents on the matter.

I've been married to three AMP girls over the years. All ended in divorce. Sex life was never as good as the AMP had been with each one. Plus they are were all real bitchy and lazy ducks after the wedding. One was secretly doing heroin, one was molested real young and one turned out to be a post op. Well what I'm tryin to say is they all had reall bad baggage and is normal for those AMP girls. They will never make good wife's or long term lovers. All they are food for is a quick duck or blow and go. More than that and you get taken.

[QUOTE=MajorSlowCum;2469214]I've been married to three AMP girls over the years. All ended in divorce. Sex life was never as good as the AMP had been with each one. Plus they are were all real bitchy and lazy ducks after the wedding. One was secretly doing heroin, one was molested real young and one turned out to be a post op. Well what I'm tryin to say is they all had reall bad baggage and is normal for those AMP girls. They will never make good wife's or long term lovers. All they are food for is a quick duck or blow and go. More than that and you get taken.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you need a better screening process for future wives.

I would say I have nothing against massage provider / patient relationships. We are all people, and baggage, stress and drama happen to everyone. All my patients are my friends, and I appreciate their business.

[QUOTE=MajorSlowCum;2469214]I've been married to three AMP girls over the years. All ended in divorce. Sex life was never as good as the AMP had been with each one. Plus they are were all real bitchy and lazy ducks after the wedding. One was secretly doing heroin, one was molested real young and one turned out to be a post op. Well what I'm tryin to say is they all had reall bad baggage and is normal for those AMP girls. They will never make good wife's or long term lovers. All they are food for is a quick duck or blow and go. More than that and you get taken.[/QUOTE]How do you not know she's a post op previous to marriage? Legitimate question, not mocking.

I've read stories on this and other forums about guys who really hit it off with a therapist (or other P4 P girl) and get their service for free, meet up outside the business, etc. I believed the stories. It's uncommon, but sometimes you do feel a real connection. I never had anything that strong, until now.

I had been to this particular spa several times before. I was greeted and taken to a room by a girl who was new to me, though. She was a nice Chinese girl with a pretty face, eyes and hair. We talked for a bit during the massage and she was very friendly. She gave me several compliments which I assumed were just ego-stroking. Likewise, on the flip she told me my dong looked so good and so big. I asked for a BJ and she agreed. But then she looked me in the eyes and whispered 'I want to feel your big cock inside me. ' I still figured it was just upselling, but I was happy to succumb. She totally rocked it. It was the best FS I ever had at an AMP. She seemed to have a very real orgasm which I assumed was faked for my entertainment. Still, I'll take service like that any where, any time. Afterward, she was very friendly and seemed eager to have conversation all the way up until I left.

I didn't make it back for a while, but when I did, her face immediately lit up when she saw me. It was even better this time. I arrived at 11:00 pm and paid for a half hour (the spa closes at midnight). But I didn't leave until almost 12:30 am! During the cleanup, she asked 'If I give you my phone number, will you come fuck me?' I was glad to accept.

We kept in touch through text messages and she soon asked me to come see her. In this case, she only had me pay the house fee. Once again, we had a red-hot time together.

Soon it was time for her to go back to her home city. The night before she left, we met at a hotel. We had so much sex that night, she was just so horny. I'm talking hours and hours of fucking. I'm looking forward to doing it all again if I have a business trip to her city. She also tells me she wants to come back and visit me sometime soon.

[QUOTE=TheBoobHound;3300115]I've read stories on this and other forums about guys who really hit it off with a therapist (or other P4 P girl) and get their service for free, meet up outside the business, etc. I believed the stories. It's uncommon, but sometimes you do feel a real connection. I never had anything that strong, until now.

I had been to this particular spa several times before. I was greeted and taken to a room by a girl who was new to me, though. She was a nice Chinese girl with a pretty face, eyes and hair. We talked for a bit during the massage and she was very friendly. She gave me several compliments which I assumed were just ego-stroking. Likewise, on the flip she told me my dong looked so good and so big. I asked for a BJ and she agreed. But then she looked me in the eyes and whispered 'I want to feel your big cock inside me. ' I still figured it was just upselling, but I was happy to succumb. She totally rocked it. It was the best FS I ever had at an AMP. She seemed to have a very real orgasm which I assumed was faked for my entertainment. Still, I'll take service like that any where, any time. Afterward, she was very friendly and seemed eager to have conversation all the way up until I left.

I didn't make it back for a while, but when I did, her face immediately lit up when she saw me. It was even better this time. I arrived at 11:00 pm and paid for a half hour (the spa closes at midnight). But I didn't leave until almost 12:30 am! During the cleanup, she asked 'If I give you my phone number, will you come fuck me?' I was glad to accept.

We kept in touch through text messages and she soon asked me to come see her. In this case, she only had me pay the house fee. Once again, we had a red-hot time together.

Soon it was time for her to go back to her home city. The night before she left, we met at a hotel. We had so much sex that night, she was just so horny. I'm talking hours and hours of fucking. I'm looking forward to doing it all again if I have a business trip to her city. She also tells me she wants to come back and visit me sometime soon.[/QUOTE]Something I've always been looking for.

I'd like to find an independent Asian so I can save the house fee.

Goof luck to all.

This has also happened to me. I have really got addicted to some massage therapists. I have went to the same therapist for tens of different times because I loved the connection between us and not the happy ending so much. How ever I have realized that they are often masters on making this so called fake connection. Off course it is good for their business if they can make lonely guys come back again.

[QUOTE=Nikitin22;3572908]This has also happened to me. I have really got addicted to some massage therapists. I have went to the same therapist for tens of different times because I loved the connection between us and not the happy ending so much. How ever I have realized that they are often masters on making this so called fake connection. Off course it is good for their business if they can make lonely guys come back again.[/QUOTE]You're correct. Some of them are masters at this. I had been doing the same thing with a gorgeous 9/10 Chinese lady. Looked 30 but was probably late 30's or even a little older. I wasn't in love but had strong feelings for her. But the more massages I got from her the more I realized either she had a bf or husband or just viewed me strictly as a client (which is fine and expected). However, I could always tell she was playing games with me. Perhaps she liked me but not in the relationship sense. I know she was playing games. And I actually love it when a hot babe does that! I would never let a fat, old, or ugly chick do that!

I didn't help that she spoke very little English and I had a hard time communicating with her. Nonetheless, when I became lonely at times she provided the much needed care and comfort only a beautiful Asian woman can provide! And I now realize she was and is, most likely, my once in a lifetime find. Thus, I had at least 15 massages by her in under 3 months and will continue to go back as long as she works there. It's truly therapeutic for me to spend an hour with her when I can. And the first time she massaged my butthole and started stroking my shaft. I felt like I was in heaven. Plus always getting to grab her ass is worth it's weight in gold to me!