Sugar Bowl. ILM

[QUOTE=Brannigan88;4154683]I've only met a handful of UNCW and Cape Fear girls and haven't had a ton a luck. One wanted $800 a meet and wasn't even guaranteeing sex. She was absolutely model hot but there was no way I was going to agree to those conditions. I have had dreams with four college girls but two of them were one-and-done deals. Just didn't hit it off with them and didn't want to continue. One I saw for about six months but she ghosted on me just a few weeks ago. The fourth I've seen a few times but she's a bit clingy and odd and I've been putting some distance between us. Haven't found one yet that I'd like to make my main regular girl.

I agree that finding a hot UNCW girl who wants a reasonable allowance would be the dream. But it seems like it's hard to find one that's reliable and realistic about an allowance.[/QUOTE]I too have encountered some UNC-W lassies who thought quite highly of themselves. I always agree to their outlandish allowance demands -- as long as they don't need any "pre-meet" funds -- and meet them for coffee or at a food court or public park. Never dinner or lunch, as I don't want to be trapped with them. When we meet, I am sure to flash some cash when ordering coffee or whatever, usually like 200 in a money clip all rolled up. I proceed to talk with them about their perfect arrangements, etc. , and feign general interest. When they are done, I simply say look, I have some time right now, and I have x amount on me. We can have some fun or not, period. Sure, I've had some girls storm out in a huff, but I'd say about 3 out of 4 give in to temptation and we end up having fun. That said, not all of those are repeat girls, but let's be honest they're in this for a reason and that reason is they need cash.

Give it your best shot, gentlemen. As always, have fun and be safe. Peace.

[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;4156767]I too have encountered some UNC-W lassies who thought quite highly of themselves. I always agree to their outlandish allowance demands -- as long as they don't need any "pre-meet" funds -- and meet them for coffee or at a food court or public park. Never dinner or lunch, as I don't want to be trapped with them. When we meet, I am sure to flash some cash when ordering coffee or whatever, usually like 200 in a money clip all rolled up. I proceed to talk with them about their perfect arrangements, etc. , and feign general interest. When they are done, I simply say look, I have some time right now, and I have x amount on me. We can have some fun or not, period. Sure, I've had some girls storm out in a huff, but I'd say about 3 out of 4 give in to temptation and we end up having fun. That said, not all of those are repeat girls, but let's be honest they're in this for a reason and that reason is they need cash.

Give it your best shot, gentlemen. As always, have fun and be safe. Peace.[/QUOTE]I'm going to use that one. Thanks, brother.

Anyone had a dream with her lately? It was over a year ago since I saw her and was seeing if she was still good to see.

[QUOTE=Torco74;4161826]Anyone had a dream with her lately? It was over a year ago since I saw her and was seeing if she was still good to see.[/QUOTE]I still see her about once a month. Worth the time!

Who is this provider, can't find any information!

Anyone had any experience with this one. I have always had a thing for redheads. She has been a member on SA for 3 years now so I figured someone would have a little info.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9d520bff-d5ab-1713-71cc-797d0f5acf5c[/URL]

Jumped back on SA to see what the CFCC and UNCW girls had to offer toward the end of their spring semester. Got a couple of fun dates out of it, plus the standard gals asking for a small fortune, a few scammers, and one girl who showed up, texted me that she'd arrived, and upon inspection there she is sitting in the front seat next to a marshawn lynch lookalike who I could only imagine was her pimp LOL. There were a couple of "bots" as I call them, girls who work for SA to try and chat up guys but never meet in order to have them renew their membership, and a few online only girls who were promptly reported to management by yours truly for violating SA rules. All in all, some decent action and it seems to be picking up this last week of classes. My advice? Jump in, have a set budget that you won't deviate from, and when girls set up an appointment days in advance and then the morning of the appointment text you to say they need a cash advance for gas, do what I do and politely say no thank you. Sure you'll get some blowback like the nice text (see attached) I got today from a fine young lady who is a little frustrated, but in the end it's all in good fun. Happy hunting, and remember, have fun and be safe. Peace.

I just got back on $44 for 3 months. Not a single girl from Wilmington on there! Been on site before so am I missing something? Thanks.

[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;4243900]Jumped back on SA to see what the CFCC and UNCW girls had to offer toward the end of their spring semester. Got a couple of fun dates out of it, plus the standard gals asking for a small fortune, a few scammers, and one girl who showed up, texted me that she'd arrived, and upon inspection there she is sitting in the front seat next to a marshawn lynch lookalike who I could only imagine was her pimp LOL. There were a couple of "bots" as I call them, girls who work for SA to try and chat up guys but never meet in order to have them renew their membership, and a few online only girls who were promptly reported to management by yours truly for violating SA rules. All in all, some decent action and it seems to be picking up this last week of classes. My advice? Jump in, have a set budget that you won't deviate from, and when girls set up an appointment days in advance and then the morning of the appointment text you to say they need a cash advance for gas, do what I do and politely say no thank you. Sure you'll get some blowback like the nice text (see attached) I got today from a fine young lady who is a little frustrated, but in the end it's all in good fun. Happy hunting, and remember, have fun and be safe. Peace.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4253184]I just got back on $44 for 3 months. Not a single girl from Wilmington on there! Been on site before so am I missing something? Thanks.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure you are NOT on seeking arrangement aka SA. It's more expensive than 44/ month my friend.

I was on there before and had some success. I am on the right site but it has changed. There used to be an App but not anymore. It is just seekingdotcom now. It gave me two options of $19 p / m auto renew or $44 for 3 months. You are correct in that it was much more. After I paid I had access for about an hour and no women from this area or even close. I than got notification my account was suspended!

[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;4253942]I'm pretty sure you are NOT on seeking arrangement aka SA. It's more expensive than 44/ month my friend.[/QUOTE].

Seem to recall seeing her on Skip. Any intel from someone who's connected with her on SA?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d06c3e9-93ed-cdd8-1c34-7b9f7eec4c40[/URL]

Lot of contacts but haven't closed the deal on anyone yet. Lots of flakes.

I had success in the past. Worst case could browse and look and a lot of local women. When I search now I get two Wilmington profiles and they are terrible. I don't get it 😩.

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;4350174]Lot of contacts but haven't closed the deal on anyone yet. Lots of flakes.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4351533]I had success in the past. Worst case could browse and look and a lot of local women. When I search now I get two Wilmington profiles and they are terrible. I don't get it 😩.[/QUOTE]And got 135 profiles in Wilmington in my search results. Maybe you need to reset your filter?

I have zero filter on other than 250 mil radius. This is what I get. 😩.

Can you text? I can DM you my number.

[QUOTE=Brannigan88;4353345]And got 135 profiles in Wilmington in my search results. Maybe you need to reset your filter?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4354296]I have zero filter on other than 250 mil radius. This is what I get. 😩.

Can you text? I can DM you my number.[/QUOTE]Change your filter to last login maybe?

Or maybe I'm way off.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ccb7bf41-1d7e-4dff-834c-f22b3d5c8d93[/URL]

We texted and were supposed to meet but something came up and I had to postpone. She absolutely went off and started texting that she was googling me and all this weird shit was coming up. I'd stay away. Too bad--she has some cute pics.

Anyone met this one? We texted and were going to meet but I got a bad vibe. Not her fault really, just spidey sense was tingling.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5aeddeb0-66bd-4dbb-996f-ec138b74e21c[/URL]

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;4375915]Or maybe I'm way off.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ccb7bf41-1d7e-4dff-834c-f22b3d5c8d93[/URL]

We texted and were supposed to meet but something came up and I had to postpone. She absolutely went off and started texting that she was googling me and all this weird shit was coming up. I'd stay away. Too bad--she has some cute pics.

Anyone met this one? We texted and were going to meet but I got a bad vibe. Not her fault really, just spidey sense was tingling.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5aeddeb0-66bd-4dbb-996f-ec138b74e21c[/URL][/QUOTE]Tried to private message you but your mailbox is full.

[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;4376459]Tried to private message you but your mailbox is full.[/QUOTE]Oops! It's clear now. Thanks!

[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4254495]I was on there before and had some success. I am on the right site but it has changed. There used to be an App but not anymore. It is just seekingdotcom now. It gave me two options of $19 p / m auto renew or $44 for 3 months. You are correct in that it was much more. After I paid I had access for about an hour and no women from this area or even close. I than got notification my account was suspended!

.[/QUOTE]You may be on the site but it is a different venue. In other words you can either be seeking an arrangement as a man, or accepting the arrangement (women). But the man and women are not counted, SA site only cares if you are looking to pay money for an arrangement and that is $89 or if you are willing to accept money for an arrangement and that is $44. I called support and had this clarified for me because otherwise it is confusing.

So yes the site has changed alright. You may be looking at some Sugar Mamas!!

I was reading through this post a while back and read someone's comment about having success on SA. I had never tried an arrangement like this so I figured what the heck. I created a profile and quickly realized you have to pay in order to communicate with anyone. Ok, so I did the monthly and thought let me see what happens in 30 days. After filtering through its of fake profiles and getting all kinds of fake communication. I found the one true diamond! I kid you not a F ing unicorn. Here's a tip to filter: you'll get all kinds of likes and messages of interest, but as soon as I asked them to send me an email and not use the site to chat, they would disappear and stop talking. I had a handful actually send me an email and they were legit. Any tips on the financial arrangements you guys have made in the past to keep them happy would be greatly appreciated. Happy hunting!!

I let my seeking membership expire again. I got email from seeking as if "what's your price" site my be better fit. I filled out profile and saw some familiar faces. Haven't listened anything yet. Anyone tried it out? Thanks.

[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4504518]I let my seeking membership expire again. I got email from seeking as if "what's your price" site my be better fit. I filled out profile and saw some familiar faces. Haven't listened anything yet. Anyone tried it out? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Have used both Seeking & WYP out here in Colorado, found that Seeking was a more reliable source but they screwed me out of two months of subscription fees and basically told me to FO when I complained. Now am using Secret Benefits but it has mostly lookie-lus and have only hit pay dirt once in six months.

I thought I read something here about most discreet way to join SA was to use a ore paid. I tired and it didn't work. Can someone reach out to me that has had success with paying without using card with all your personal details? Can pm me and if text on my burn. Headed to NY soon and want to explore opportunities. Thanks.

If you go on SA there's tons of potential SBs in Wilmington. Wondering why more info isn't shared.

Full disclosure I had an unreal SB here for over 2 1/2 years. She wasn't on SA & I came to know her through other means. She had a live in BF so she was very discreet & she wasn't open or looking to more than seeing me, so I wasn't allowed to share. Best sex & time of my life!

Maybe that's the problem with the lack of reports? I can see if you find a UNCW babydoll & she doesn't want you to share because she's a one Daddy Baby but why not expose the scammers, platonic only & pic / vid sellers?

It weeds out who not to waste time on. I've had girls in other cities, Fayetteville, Richmond, Roanoke & NoVa that asked me to widen there circle of friends & I have obliged. I've also outed the ones described above.

I need to convert my membership to paid status & will report back.

Good Sugaring All!

DF.

[QUOTE=JDean52;4435086]I was reading through this post a while back and read someone's comment about having success on SA. I had never tried an arrangement like this so I figured what the heck. I created a profile and quickly realized you have to pay in order to communicate with anyone. Ok, so I did the monthly and thought let me see what happens in 30 days. After filtering through its of fake profiles and getting all kinds of fake communication. I found the one true diamond! I kid you not a F ing unicorn. Here's a tip to filter: you'll get all kinds of likes and messages of interest, but as soon as I asked them to send me an email and not use the site to chat, they would disappear and stop talking. I had a handful actually send me an email and they were legit. Any tips on the financial arrangements you guys have made in the past to keep them happy would be greatly appreciated. Happy hunting!![/QUOTE]I'm surprised you got lucky using email. The girls on SA are texting like you & I are talking. It's second nature to them & there most preferred method of communication. They don't hardly talk on their cells anymore. Guarantee, as soon as you ask them to go to text your hit rate will go up, unless your still hooked up with the unicorn POA & your not looking any more.

Be sure to be using a burner phone or texting app. There are some crazy / scammers out there. Now and then, someone gets an extortion attempt. So play safe.

Blonde_bby_girl has anyone ever met her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6922cf0-61fd-478e-8665-b7fd511c952d[/URL]

[QUOTE=Raltime;4701104]Blonde_bby_girl has anyone ever met her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6922cf0-61fd-478e-8665-b7fd511c952d[/URL][/QUOTE]Tried to chat with her. Think she's a waste of time just playing games. Won't engage. Only a few texts back and forth.

Am happy to offer another UTR. Only Senior members. Do not waste my time if you are not a senior on here. PM me for details. Mixed race. Sexy as hell. Please state her name KIM in you response. I will not respond If you don't have her name in your response. GFE. And will go the extra mile to make you happy so you will return.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/a2e005f21a075295[/URL]

Been traveling down to Wilmington on most weekends. SA scene is outstanding. Plenty of gorgeous SBs. Just have to put in the time and cultivate the relationships. Slowly. Well worth the effort. Only one target that was spied.....got away....but I still have hope? Willing to share my successes on DM. Bring something to the discussion table too. Happy Hunting. Cheers. Arma.

I'm not sure what is happening lately but over the past 3 weeks the site is full of talent but they all disappear after a couple days. Are they all bots??

Had the pleasure of having this one again. PM if you are interested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/87e4b4bf-3a08-440b-9c8f-633c92ab6014[/URL]

[QUOTE=Gulf0521;4702946]Tried to chat with her. Think she's a waste of time just playing games. Won't engage. Only a few texts back and forth.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6922cf0-61fd-478e-8665-b7fd511c952d[/URL]

Hey Gents -.

Any information on Callie Stream on SA? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1d83f425-dbfc-4767-b8e6-7877c62a67da[/URL] or.

WildRide 25 [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0145e0c4-83aa-412b-933b-f0bd0c242fa7[/URL].

Looks promising, so wonder if anyone has seen her lately. Older posts.

Cheers.

Arma.

Hey boys. Is this SA site legit? I just found out about it yesterday and. Holy shit. It is Europe level. I have a couple set up, but I am wondering what the catch is. A little inside baseball would be appreciated. I promise I will return the favor after my recon.

I used to see her regularly around 2016 when she worked at a strip club in topsail, before she became a waitress. She was super sexy but had a bitter tasting box. Made daty a little rough. And she wasn't much for going outside her comfort zone in the bed, which was mainly just laying there. But she was always sweet and fun to talk with before and after. I always kept it to $$ per meet even though she pushed for more.

[QUOTE=HardAndLucky;4889329]Had the pleasure of having this one again. PM if you are interested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/87e4b4bf-3a08-440b-9c8f-633c92ab6014[/URL][/QUOTE]

Met her a couple of times but could never seal the deal. At the time she was very into DDLG and talking to her like a baby was a little hard because she wouldn't come out of it. What's crazy is she worked for a car dealership And said she hated the boss. She ended up applying for a position at my workplace twice in the last couple of years. I didn't pass her resume along because from my experience she would be a tiger in bed but a sack of crazy in the workplace.

[QUOTE=MarkUser;4891160][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6922cf0-61fd-478e-8665-b7fd511c952d[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Wheaton278;4901607]Met her a couple of times but could never seal the deal. At the time she was very into DDLG and talking to her like a baby was a little hard because she wouldn't come out of it. What's crazy is she worked for a car dealership And said she hated the boss. She ended up applying for a position at my workplace twice in the last couple of years. I didn't pass her resume along because from my experience she would be a tiger in bed but a sack of crazy in the workplace.[/QUOTE]Never get your pussy and your paycheck In the same building. Never.

[QUOTE=MyrtleBeach;4901823]Never get your pussy and your paycheck In the same building. Never.[/QUOTE]It's a law for me but it's also a struggle because we end up with so many interns and entry level college age females here. So many I can tell would be down for some sugar dating, but I know it leads to disaster. I saw a buddy get blackmailed by it. So it's all burner phones and fake names for me.

[QUOTE=Wheaton278;4901607]Met her a couple of times but could never seal the deal. At the time she was very into DDLG and talking to her like a baby was a little hard because she wouldn't come out of it. What's crazy is she worked for a car dealership And said she hated the boss. She ended up applying for a position at my workplace twice in the last couple of years. I didn't pass her resume along because from my experience she would be a tiger in bed but a sack of crazy in the workplace.[/QUOTE]I did met up with her and in the limited environment, when to front street for several hours for dinner, and then back to my boat. Very good time, but it took a lot of energy to schedule and meet her.