Seeking Arrangement (SA)

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;3025345]Exact Quote from a local profile:
[I]
"Hi I just want a sugar daddy to talk to all the time and love me and treat me special and I'll be yours I'm really nice and want to know everything about you, all your interests, hobbies, and issues you wanna talk about I'm here for you ! I really like convos where we ask each other cheesy questions like "what's your favorite food" or "what's your favorite city" so talk to me anytime xoxo"[/I]

Maybe she thought she was posting here? [URL]http://crazygirlfriend.com[/URL].

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]Seems there is an influx of lovelies lately with college starting back. Fertile hunting grounds. I've definitely ran into a few of these though. It's a bit of a WTF moment.

SA member Kayeh using fake pics. Stolen from Instagram model Karin Jinsui.

-Jeepster1.

First I got to say thanks for those who posted their findings on SA. I have had good and bad experiences on TER and BP so I thought I'd give SA a try. Created a free profile 1st week of July. I didn't want to pay for the upgrade so basically I "hid" my e-mail address in my profile in the "what I'm looking for" section. This helped weed out the fakers, bots and spammers. I immediately got a few responses. Met a couple of flakes and 1-2 nice females but it didn't work out. They either wanted too much $ or weren't that attractive or they weren't into me. Fast forward a month later I get a response from a "TGTBT" profile. I wrote it off as fake or too much $, but she wanted to meet for lunch so I said why not and boy was she for real. Close to my age (thirties), sexy as hell, college grad, divorced but looking for long-term fwb but a little extra spending $. What I would have spent for an expensive hour on TER I spent less than half that for one of the most incredible experiences ever. After lunch we met a couple of weeks later at a hotel for a few hours and it was ecstatic. I'll never do BP or TER again. Guys, they're out there, you just have to be patient and be honest and up front what you're looking for.

ClassyGirlNextDoor88 using stolen pics. From the set posted here:

[URL]http://www.xpaja.net/sabrosa-nina/[/URL]

-Jeepster1.

Chulaa Babyy using stolen pic. From a Madison, Wisconsin escort:

[URL]http://www.escortreviewfinder.com/608-676-0523/16358953/large/[/URL]

She also has posted Private pics, which I haven't seen.

-Jeepster1.

Guess who popped up on SA recently?

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345[/URL]

-Jeepster1.

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;3074972]Guess who popped up on SA recently?

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345[/URL]

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]Not sure who you're referring to. There are several other providers I have come across on SA.

[QUOTE=Hl123;3075649]Not sure who you're referring to. There are several other providers I have come across on SA.[/QUOTE]Please check my original post, it has a link to her hobby name and a report about her. That report includes a BP link with pics and contact info. Some of the same pics are in the SA profile.

I could just duplicate it all here, but that takes all the fun out of asking "Guess Who? ".

-Jeepster1.

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;3074972]Guess who popped up on SA recently?

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345[/URL]

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hl123;3075649]Not sure who you're referring to. There are several other providers I have come across on SA.[/QUOTE]It goes to my review of Payton when I click the link. Is that who you are referring to? Damn that girl is so hot. I'm thinking about signing up for SA just to see how much she is charging now. Probably some of the most perfect breast that you will see on a girl under 100 lbs.

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;3074972]Guess who popped up on SA recently?

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345[/URL]

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]Yep. I noticed that too.

[QUOTE=Jayb2003;3076195]It goes to my review of Payton when I click the link. Is that who you are referring to? Damn that girl is so hot. I'm thinking about signing up for SA just to see how much she is charging now. Probably some of the most perfect breast that you will see on a girl under 100 lbs.[/QUOTE]She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.

[QUOTE=Heliman;3077036]She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.[/QUOTE]Well you can tell she's got an expensive habit. Have you checked the prices at [URL]Sephora.com[/URL] lately?

-Jeepster1.

[QUOTE=Heliman;3077036]She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.[/QUOTE]So the $400 that she told me last year was a good deal LOL! She looks awesome naked but definitely not worth $700 to me.

[QUOTE=Heliman;3077036]She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.[/QUOTE]That's insane! The most I've done is $300/ meet and that's for a hot 18 year old true SB, not a hot (true) but tatted up UTR provider.

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;3060755]ClassyGirlNextDoor88 using stolen pics. From the set posted here:

[URL]http://www.xpaja.net/sabrosa-nina/[/URL]

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]Nice find, probably saved me some trouble.

[QUOTE=Jayb2003;3077337]So the $400 that she told me last year was a good deal LOL! She looks awesome naked but definitely not worth $700 to me.[/QUOTE]Yeah she was asking for $400. Never took her up on it. Too many other options at a way better value. She's definitely got a ridiculous rack though.

Had this one message me and within a few messages was straight out asking for P4 P.

Any input from you SA guys? Google image search shows nothing.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b78f4cba-56a9-4223-b77e-0cedcd0be3aa[/URL]

She is stunning naked. Her attitude is equally as bad. Her and her old room mate, Jessica (with the big ass, 'sweet cheeks' were from the same area of Chicago and moved down together. They both had the same terrible attitude. My two visits with Payton were only HJs and she let me play with her boobs and just a bit with the kitty. No penetration. The two visits were both lack luster and mechanical. The only reason I went back for seconds was in hopes that the service would improve b / c she has a damn near perfect body. Nope, the service may have been worse on round two. IMO I would not give her $150 for a visit b / c the service was so bad. I can go look at beautiful women on the porn sites. I prefer to pay for performance.

G.

[QUOTE=Jayb2003;3077337]So the $400 that she told me last year was a good deal LOL! She looks awesome naked but definitely not worth $700 to me.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3091440]Had this one message me and within a few messages was straight out asking for P4 P.

Any input from you SA guys? Google image search shows nothing.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b78f4cba-56a9-4223-b77e-0cedcd0be3aa[/URL][/QUOTE]Never had that happen before! She's on there like two days and A. Messages me first and B. The message is like "What's your plan for tonight?

Doesn't seem like my type anyway but that seems like a red flag.

And then out of the blue she wants me to know she is looking for something fun and discreet and she can host. Want to know if I am interested.

Damn, it must be my profile or something but I am getting hit left and right with girls messaging me.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9831b28c-cdc8-3781-a136-960ab4f60cf6[/URL]

Anyone know anything on this one? Google image is a nogo on her pics.

Met her once and never meeting her again. She's not good looking at all.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3092904]And then out of the blue she wants me to know she is looking for something fun and discreet and she can host. Want to know if I am interested.

Damn, it must be my profile or something but I am getting hit left and right with girls messaging me.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9831b28c-cdc8-3781-a136-960ab4f60cf6[/URL]

Anyone know anything on this one? Google image is a nogo on her pics.[/QUOTE]

If you are into MILF's, and I am, there are numerous ones available in the Nashville area. I am currently texting back and forth with 6 of them. Met with two. Had one who after a quick dinner gave one amazing BBBJ while FIV and FIA in the car who says she is into just about anything except S&M. Must see her again to see how far she will really go. All holes open and says she would DP but I don't know of any other guy who's junk I want to see or have that close to my junk. Total cost for dinner drinks and play was $0. 8.

Had another meet me for dinner and ended up in a marathon 3 hour session where everything was open. Tiny little thing at about 5'1 and 100 lbs or so but really nice firm B cups. 37 years old and I Will Definitely revisit with this one. Total cost for dinner, drinks, room, and marathon session was $$.

Got another visit lined up with one tomorrow who appears to want nothing other than to fuck my brains out and cheat on hubby. I can and will oblige tomorrow.

So far, SA seems to be a goldmine for me when it comes to MILF's. Yeah I get stuff all the time from chicks in the Phillipines, Columbia, Russia, Czech Republic. We all know that is just a scam so they get blocked immediately. Takes a little more leg work, but definitely looks to be much better quality than CL and BP tracked up addicts.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3117391]If you are into MILF's, and I am, there are numerous ones available in the Nashville area. I am currently texting back and forth with 6 of them. Met with two. Had one who after a quick dinner gave one amazing BBBJ while FIV and FIA in the car who says she is into just about anything except S&M. Must see her again to see how far she will really go. All holes open and says she would DP but I don't know of any other guy who's junk I want to see or have that close to my junk. Total cost for dinner drinks and play was $0. 8.

Had another meet me for dinner and ended up in a marathon 3 hour session where everything was open. Tiny little thing at about 5'1 and 100 lbs or so but really nice firm B cups. 37 years old and I Will Definitely revisit with this one. Total cost for dinner, drinks, room, and marathon session was $$.

Got another visit lined up with one tomorrow who appears to want nothing other than to fuck my brains out and cheat on hubby. I can and will oblige tomorrow.

So far, SA seems to be a goldmine for me when it comes to MILF's. Yeah I get stuff all the time from chicks in the Phillipines, Columbia, Russia, Czech Republic. We all know that is just a scam so they get blocked immediately. Takes a little more leg work, but definitely looks to be much better quality than CL and BP tracked up addicts.[/QUOTE]This is the safe and the way of the future.

Stay away, she is seriously threatening to find me and let my wife know. Good thing I use only an app for this type of stuff. I never actually met her in person but the first meet I canceled when she kept postponing and wanted me to front her babysitter money. Second time I had to cancel due to a change in plans on the home front. That is when she blew up and is threatening to find me.

Crazy chicks.

[QUOTE=HornDawgs;3092404]Never had that happen before! She's on there like two days and A. Messages me first and B. The message is like "What's your plan for tonight?

Doesn't seem like my type anyway but that seems like a red flag.[/QUOTE]Too many red flags for me. Immediate P4 P request, wanting to meet ASAP with no advance planning, pressing for meeting in any circumstances (parking in my car somewhere)? Complaining that she had gotten all ready for the rush appointment and it was "all for nothing" when I couldn't drop everything for a meeting, asking about money transfer apps in advance, direct references to sexual favors and costs.

The spidey sense went off a few too many times for me to go any further; my first practice with SA but not my first trip around the block, as it is. I definitely see the promise of SA but be careful out there!

Just wanted to warn everyone this the girl that is part of a group that robs guys after setting up a meeting.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7945e9ff-8262-4aaf-9610-742862105fc2[/URL]

Hey guys first time post. About 1. 5 yrs ago I switched from BP to SA and was the best thing I ever did. Quality just skyrocketed. Although the $ went way up it has been worth it. I actually just moved from Chicago and the SA scene here is a lot better. It def helps that I am younger than most on the site but all I can say is wow. I am seeing three young college ones that you would never think would be in the SD game.

[QUOTE=Jerryspring;3172762]Hey guys first time post. About 1. 5 yrs ago I switched from BP to SA and was the best thing I ever did. Quality just skyrocketed. Although the $ went way up it has been worth it. I actually just moved from Chicago and the SA scene here is a lot better. It def helps that I am younger than most on the site but all I can say is wow. I am seeing three young college ones that you would never think would be in the SD game.[/QUOTE]I have been on SA with mixed success at best. Any links you can post that could be successful?

[QUOTE=CatsFann;3173366]I have been on SA with mixed success at best. Any links you can post that could be successful?[/QUOTE]I found this blog to be helpful: [URL]https://theescortlover.wordpress.com/tag/seekingarrangement-com/[/URL].

My own personal advice:

1) SA requires a different kind of spidey sense than the hobby, which takes a bit to develop. Instead of looking out for Uncle LEO and Lady of the Run Into the Night With Your Cash, you're watching out for Scammer Babe, that cute college coed majoring in Gold Digging, Little Miss Platonic Relationship, and Princess Please Rescue Me. Don't fall for the sob story--rent is due and she's about to be on the street, car broke down and no way to get to work / school but no money to pay for repair, etc. Always insist on a face-to-face meeting (public place, natch) and a date (private place, natch!) before any cash leaves your hands.

2) Get a face-to-face as soon as you can. Be nice. Listen. Ask her about herself. Tell a little about you (in general terms, obviously--college, job, etc.). Pay the bill (duh). This is your chance to get her interested in you and to see if you're interested in her.

3) Don't talk price until after the face-to-face meeting--you develop a little rapport in the meeting, and that helps your cause here. Define and clearly state what you're looking for arrangement-wise, especially on points like pay-per-meeting vs. Monthly, frequency of meetings, extras / gifts / travel, etc. Let her name the price--most seem to either undervalue or massively overvalue what you would pay on the hobby market.

4) Start a new profile every time you re-enter the arena. Let the past be the past.

5) Whatever you're looking for, you can find it--don't be afraid to hear no, or get no response, or get a blowoff. The ratio of SB to SD is such that it's a buyer's market; if one won't fulfill your interests, move on to the next one. Don't be afraid to move the conversation to specific sexual interests.

6) Be prepared for a little more emotional involvement than with most hobby encounters. There's a deeper level of relationship in SB / SD encounters than in most, and I'm still friends (and occasionally FWB) with several of my arrangements.

7) Don't over-commit. It can feel like an all-you-can-eat smorgasbord when you first get started, but your bank account may not last too long that way!

8) Same hobby skills to maintain anonymity--burner phone, separate email, cash, hotel room instead of home (for at least the first several meetings), etc. --and research skills for due diligence. Those digits might lead you straight to her Backpage ad, or Tin Eye might point you in the direction of her bridal portfolio on The Knot (true story, LOL).

9) Don't be a jerk. Treat the relation like you would a dating relationship where you're guaranteed a sure thing--or at least if you're just looking for pay for play, be up front about it.

10) Have an exit strategy. Variety is the spice of life, after all, and one of the reasons I enjoy the hobby--know when to leave, be polite but firm and clear, and move on. On the flip side, don't be offended when she chooses to end the relationship as well; I've had a few end when she got a boyfriend, left for the summer, etc.

11) You'll definitely run across some pros. My general feeling is that they're asking for more on SA than they are in their Backpage ad, so be wary.

12) I get the feeling that most of the legit members have never had a successful arrangement. Use that knowledge to your own advantage.

13) You'll almost certainly need a Premium membership to get anywhere. I usually just do the one-month-at-a-time option because it's pretty easy to find what you're looking for in a month. Adjust your privacy settings to your liking. I recommend being visible on searches but hiding your last active date, hiding when you view someone, and showing when you favorite someone.

14) Keep a sense of humor. I found that about 80% of contacts were obvious scams, not compatible with what I was looking for, far enough out of town to make regular meetings impossible, or pros advertising in a different market than the usual ones we hobbyists frequent. 10% of the rest were outlandish ($5 k+ a month for once a week, her own credit card, cosigning on a loan, etc.). Only way to deal with it is to laugh.

I like monthly allowance relations that last 3-6 months; upfront cost is higher but I wind up getting far more action than I would have for the same expenditure in the hobby arena, and usually have better action as we get to know each other.

I also really enjoy SA for fulfilling some fantasy requests that couldn't be found easily in the hobby. For example, I had a great arrangement with a college girl where one requirement was that our meetings were in her dorm room. That was a fun throwback, to say the least!

Good luck and hope this helps!

This is all fine, but the place to go to study the art of the sugar bowl is the Richmond, VA thread. The Sugar thread is the de facto national blog for SDs, and there is a compilation on a thread called Highlights that catalogs all of the most important posts about how to do it right. The information there is voluminous, and newbies need to study it carefully.

[QUOTE=SirCumference;3177792]I found this blog to be helpful: [URL]https://theescortlover.wordpress.com/tag/seekingarrangement-com/[/URL].

My own personal advice:

1) SA requires a different kind of spidey sense than the hobby, which takes a bit to develop. Instead of looking out for Uncle LEO and Lady of the Run Into the Night With Your Cash, you're watching out for Scammer Babe, that cute college coed majoring in Gold Digging, Little Miss Platonic Relationship, and Princess Please Rescue Me. Don't fall for the sob story--rent is due and she's about to be on the street, car broke down and no way to get to work / school but no money to pay for repair, etc. Always insist on a face-to-face meeting (public place, natch) and a date (private place, natch!) before any cash leaves your hands.

2) Get a face-to-face as soon as you can. Be nice. Listen. Ask her about herself. Tell a little about you (in general terms, obviously--college, job, etc.). Pay the bill (duh). This is your chance to get her interested in you and to see if you're interested in her.

3) Don't talk price until after the face-to-face meeting--you develop a little rapport in the meeting, and that helps your cause here. Define and clearly state what you're looking for arrangement-wise, especially on points like pay-per-meeting vs. Monthly, frequency of meetings, extras / gifts / travel, etc. Let her name the price--most seem to either undervalue or massively overvalue what you would pay on the hobby market.

4) Start a new profile every time you re-enter the arena. Let the past be the past.

5) Whatever you're looking for, you can find it--don't be afraid to hear no, or get no response, or get a blowoff. The ratio of SB to SD is such that it's a buyer's market; if one won't fulfill your interests, move on to the next one. Don't be afraid to move the conversation to specific sexual interests.

6) Be prepared for a little more emotional involvement than with most hobby encounters. There's a deeper level of relationship in SB / SD encounters than in most, and I'm still friends (and occasionally FWB) with several of my arrangements.

7) Don't over-commit. It can feel like an all-you-can-eat smorgasbord when you first get started, but your bank account may not last too long that way!

8) Same hobby skills to maintain anonymity--burner phone, separate email, cash, hotel room instead of home (for at least the first several meetings), etc. --and research skills for due diligence. Those digits might lead you straight to her Backpage ad, or Tin Eye might point you in the direction of her bridal portfolio on The Knot (true story, LOL).

9) Don't be a jerk. Treat the relation like you would a dating relationship where you're guaranteed a sure thing--or at least if you're just looking for pay for play, be up front about it.

10) Have an exit strategy. Variety is the spice of life, after all, and one of the reasons I enjoy the hobby--know when to leave, be polite but firm and clear, and move on. On the flip side, don't be offended when she chooses to end the relationship as well; I've had a few end when she got a boyfriend, left for the summer, etc.

11) You'll definitely run across some pros. My general feeling is that they're asking for more on SA than they are in their Backpage ad, so be wary.

12) I get the feeling that most of the legit members have never had a successful arrangement. Use that knowledge to your own advantage.

13) You'll almost certainly need a Premium membership to get anywhere. I usually just do the one-month-at-a-time option because it's pretty easy to find what you're looking for in a month. Adjust your privacy settings to your liking. I recommend being visible on searches but hiding your last active date, hiding when you view someone, and showing when you favorite someone.

14) Keep a sense of humor. I found that about 80% of contacts were obvious scams, not compatible with what I was looking for, far enough out of town to make regular meetings impossible, or pros advertising in a different market than the usual ones we hobbyists frequent. 10% of the rest were outlandish ($5 k+ a month for once a week, her own credit card, cosigning on a loan, etc.). Only way to deal with it is to laugh.

I like monthly allowance relations that last 3-6 months; upfront cost is higher but I wind up getting far more action than I would have for the same expenditure in the hobby arena, and usually have better action as we get to know each other.

I also really enjoy SA for fulfilling some fantasy requests that couldn't be found easily in the hobby. For example, I had a great arrangement with a college girl where one requirement was that our meetings were in her dorm room. That was a fun throwback, to say the least!

Good luck and hope this helps![/QUOTE]

Thanks FFA, I had forgotten about that one. I read it extensively when I first broke into new waters.

Here's a link: [URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ[/URL].

TL; DR: What works for one person and one area can be vastly different than what works for another. I enjoy the feeling out / negotiating process, hence my satisfaction with SA. What others enjoy may be different. Studying how it's done is vital!

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3177964]This is all fine, but the place to go to study the art of the sugar bowl is the Richmond, VA thread. The Sugar thread is the de facto national blog for SDs, and there is a compilation on a thread called Highlights that catalogs all of the most important posts about how to do it right. The information there is voluminous, and newbies need to study it carefully.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SirCumference;3144722]Too many red flags for me. Immediate P4 P request, wanting to meet ASAP with no advance planning, pressing for meeting in any circumstances (parking in my car somewhere)? Complaining that she had gotten all ready for the rush appointment and it was "all for nothing" when I couldn't drop everything for a meeting, asking about money transfer apps in advance, direct references to sexual favors and costs.

The spidey sense went off a few too many times for me to go any further; my first practice with SA but not my first trip around the block, as it is. I definitely see the promise of SA but be careful out there![/QUOTE]I saw this one and had fun. She's a legit BBW and just doesn't understand that discussing money isn't kosher. Gives an amazing BJ, but will call you like crazy wanting to meet again. PM for contact info.

I am not the typical SD. Heck. Not even a SD at all I have been on SA for 1 month now as a premium member. I have met 4 different women now and I have invested an $11.00 any pizza from pizza hut. Seriously. One chick kept telling me how hungry she was. She even got the hotel room. After I fucked her, I ordered pizza online and had it delivered to the room. I signed for it and took off.

Another girl I met kept telling me how bad she wanted a SD experience. Met her on a car date at a park. Ended up getting BBBJ and fucking her on a park bench in the dark.

Another was married, but could play during the day. It started off the usual. Wanting an allowance. Pay per visit. Whatever. After a meet and greet, we made out and she wanted to go back to her place during the day while her husband worked. I am still pounding this one. I go over on my lunch breaks No investment.

The 4th was kind of a flake and wanted more out of it. I did get a BBBJ though. Didn't nail her.

My month sub just ended. I may wait another month before I reup my sub to get some fresh fish in the pond. So far. Loving this site! Don't get me wrong. I am not 4/4. Probably 4/100. There are many swings and misses. You have to be diligent. I play the part and let my demands be known up front. I always let them no that I am not a pay per visit or allowance type person. I tell them if it goes well, I would prefer to take them out for dinners, movies, events and occasional gifts at my discretion. The ones that only want money will jet immediately. You will quickly find out the ones you really have no shot with too. The ones that are VERY open even after you explain yourself. Those are your target.

Just met up with my second SB. I will call her FLSB2. Met at her place and for a three hour period fucked her like there was no tomorrow. Thing was she fucked me just as much and I was trying to leave, she started grinding her ass on junior who of course woke up. Proceeded to round three where I bent her over the couch and fucked her until I I couldn't stand up anymore. Literally! I am now sitting in the car trying to gather the strength to drive home. Got to love those thirty something women that just want to Fuck and Fuck some more.

I am going on a business trip for two weeks and am flying her out to stay with me for a 48 hour carnal fest over the weekend. Got to love sugar babies.

Have mentioned her before but I am still going to be a greedy bastard and keep her for myself. This one is now my absolute ATF and total was under $3 including several bottles of liquor and wine she requested I bring.

Yeah I know, it is a little more than your typical escort. But crap, she is absolutely smoking hot and fucks like a damn porn star!

I checked out the SA site. To read or basically send a message do you have to be a premium account holder?

[QUOTE=Afflacked;3198521]I checked out the SA site. To read or basically send a message do you have to be a premium account holder?[/QUOTE]You have to have a paid membership to read and send messages.

[QUOTE=Donwhite;3198546]You have to have a paid membership to read and send messages.[/QUOTE]You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3198945]You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.[/QUOTE]You must have some account privileges that I don't have. I cannot send messages when my paid membership expires.

[QUOTE=Donwhite;3198986]You must have some account privileges that I don't have. I cannot send messages when my paid membership expires.[/QUOTE]I would bet that it is because I have not signed up for this account and don't plan to.

I did pay for another account and like you, once the membership expired, pfffft! No more ability to send messages.

I'm assuming you only send messages to Premium members correct? As they are the only ones who will be able to read them?

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3198945]You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.[/QUOTE]