Rants Opinions and Totally Pointless Bullshit

Wow how did I miss this? LOL
Babe we have had a nice peace for a while but let's keep it real.

You used what you thought was my first name and age on this board. Another provider had told you that information and what I did for a living.
That is personal information!!!!

I did not have any tantrums or tell lies. I just passed on, what I was told about you. (Pic's, Weight and Attitude) I offered to meet for dinner or drinks to get pass the misunderstanding.
You refused. Your loss! LOL
I don't know about the weight, or pic's. I do know about the attitude. LOL

It looks like we still both see it different. If you don't think using a board members first name and age is NOT PERSONAL INFORMATION.

Then God help the guys who give you all their personal info!

What you did to me, would be like me going to the NJ, NY boards and using what I think is your first name and age. That would be crazy!

There are to many sweet, attractive, classy providers with great attitudes that I see!
I would not worry about not seeing one provider!

Let's move on!

I do love your pic's! Whoever they belong too! Great apple bottom! LOL

Hobbydude I do agree with about 89% of your post.

I'm still willing to meet in a safe place for drink's or dinner to talk in person and get past this. I still think it is a silly misunderstanding!



[QUOTE=Miss Brunetti]That provider in fact did not have your personal information, it was all the tantrums and lies Blackhawk made up because this particular provider Refused to see him!

To this day, this provider has no personal info on Mr Big Ego!

Just my .02 cents

Ciao e baci![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blackhawk 101]I don't know about the weight, or pic's. I do know about the attitude. LOL

If you don't think using a board members first name and age is NOT PERSONAL INFORMATION.

Then God help the guys who give you all their personal info![/QUOTE]This is why I think these boards are a great resource for hobbyists. If it weren't for you sharing your personal experience with this particular provider, I may have eventually fallen for that great looking behind in her posted pictures and given out my personal information.

It is extremely helpful to me to be able to observe written verbal interactions between hobbyists and providers because that gives me a basic feel for the kind of people they are. I certainly don't want to get mixed up with providers who will use my personal information to get back at me for some perceived injustices that I really have no control over and will never have a chance to make right. I mean, once they've made up their minds, there's nothing you can do really. After all, we won't even have a nano-fraction of information on the providers as they would have on us if we try to book an appointment with them. That's a scary thought, and so we should all double/triple check our homework and play it safer than safe.

For me, providers like this and the last one that created a bunch of drama here are the easy ones to figure out. Like myself (yeah, I'm guilty of it too LOL), they can't keep their mouths shut long enough to plan their moves several steps ahead of time. They react to their emotions as soon as it smacks them, and in the process end up burning bridges that they don't mean to burn. The ones you really have to watch are the smart, cunning, calculating foxes that will have you purring and eating out of their hands before snatching you up and making a meal out of you.

I can't believe how far this crap has gone on and am honestly shocked that you would continue to drag this on and post defamatory remarks about me AFTER you said that you would leave me alone to which I agreed not to post anything else about you. If you really wish it, I will publicly post or PM a copy of the emails we've exchanged to anyone who wishes to decide for themselves.

I was completely stupid in that I shared my personal information with this provider. I was fairly new to the hobby and didn't realize the dangers that lurked ahead last summer. Haleylee09 seemed sweet and the dream itself was a decent one, and I have since recommended her to several of you who showed interest in having a dream about her, but in light of everything that's happened since, I feel compelled to share my experience and to set the record straight once and for all.

This provider has no clue what discretion is if she believes harassing someone at work for a dumb review is a justifiable action and went as far as to threaten me with a visit from LE at my place of employment for harassment and slander when she found my post in which I said she was harassing me at work. What escort in her right mind would threaten to get the LE involved for a review she got about what she's actually done? I didn't slander her with false accusations; I merely posted what both haleylee09 and I know actually happened. I told her I will file a counter complaint against her is she didn't stop harassing me because I will not tolerate this type of threats. She seems to think it's not a big deal that she harassed me at work or threatened me with LE because "This will not hurt Hobby Dude's chance of seeing other providers"??? WTF??? This clearly shows that haleylee09 fails to see the enormity of her actions and threat. It is a huge deal when she's harassing me at work and threatening my job and livelihood, and I will not just lie down and let someone do this to me for some stupid ass review. Unlike her, I have never slandered her with false accusations or claims EVER. I didn't have any reasons to have any kind of ill intent towards her nor have any reasons to want to hurt her business. I certainly didn't want things to get out of hand in this way for something so trivial as an "average" review that was mistakenly left over 5 months ago!!! I have tried everything I knew to appease her about the "average" review and finally succeeded in having it removed and have repeatedly asked her to stop playing games and to stop harassing me.

To address several points that were brought up by halelee09, it is true that after being harassed by her at work, I have spoken to a PI friend of mine to find out some information on this provider in order to protect myself in case she escalated her harassment against me and informed her so. Considering how things have deteriorated, I think it was a smart decision on my part to save everything that was exchanged between us including the recordings of messages she left at my work which shows the number she called me from. Luckily for me, she harassed me using her iphone that was registered to her home address and name which could possibly belong to her or her family member. I requested a copy of the phone record showing calls received from her number and was also able to download an unblurred photo of her that she'd posted on escorts.com as a starting point in building a case against her and am prepared to proceed further in case I have to file a harassment complaint against her should she decide to escalate this sorry situation. My present mindset is that if she insists on continuing to harass and threaten me whether it be by emails, calls, or by any venue she can think up, I will most definitely fight back with whatever means necessary. I do not take her threats lightly, and I certainly won't have anything left to hold me back once I lose my privacy, my job, and my livelihood on her whim. If this makes me a drama queen, then so be it.

In one of her emails to me, she said she started all of this because my "average" review I left by mistake over 5 months ago was hurting her business. I wish she had told me that when I emailed her to apologize back in November so that I could've possibly done something about it then. Harassing me at work hurt her business a thousand times more than any "unflattering" or "average" reviews I could've left for her, mistake or not. And now she claims to have started it because I was begging her and harassing her for verification on date-check. She also claims to have refused my verification request but our email correspondence clearly shows that she did verify me of her own free will. I also have a verification confirmation email that I got from date-check. Those of you who are members of date-check knows that verification request is a one-button deal and there are no begging involved. I even asked her why in the world she approve me after creating all this drama. If she didn't want to verify me, she shouldn't have. I subsequently requested date-check to remove haleylee09's reference for obvious reasons.

As I've continuously told haleylee09 in my emails to her, I am sick and tired of this crap. This drama has gone on long enough. However, if she insists on continuing to harass and threaten me, I will most definitely fight back with whatever means necessary. As I've said before, I don't take her threats lightly and certainly won't have anything left to hold me back once I lose my privacy, my job, and my livelihood because of this stupid crap.

Whoever is going to see you are still going to see you, haleylee09. I'm sure there will be some members here that will decide to believe your side of the story and will contact you for an appointment even after all of this. Hobbyists who can provide you with references rather than personal information have nothing to worry about, I'm sure. This incident will not hurt your business as much as you think it will as people's memories fade. You can blame me all you want for your loss of business if that makes you feel any better. If you think it will bolster your case, I will publicly post the emails that we've exchanged or whatever else. Whatever you want me to do, I'll comply. Just stop harassing and threatening me, stop making false allegations against me, and leave me alone for both of our sakes!!!


[QUOTE=Haleylee09]Please show all the emails and "calls" that I supposebly made. Give it up. I asked you to give it up in every single email you send me daily. You threatened me with a private investigator. Please leave me alone and stop slandering me. You emailed me begging me to approve you on date-check and I told you why I didn't want to approve you. Give it up. Leave me alone![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Haleylee09]I posted multiple times because he posted it multiple times. I had members contact me that it was posted all over this site and that they didn't see my side of the story. So, therefore, this forum topic "escort reports" was more appropriate to post than the other one I posted. After this, I am no longer responding to these immature messages. Hobby dude is a drama queen. He still continues to contact me, threatening to slander me all over the internet. It is really pathetic a middle aged man has nothing better to do then to sit on the internet and play these little games. This will not hurt Hobby Dude's chance of seeing other providers. This does hurt my business because people will now think that I am not discreet. If I want my business to keep flowing, it is necessary that I let people know my side of the story.[/QUOTE]

Colt made the solution to your problems a long time ago. I can assure you it works well the first time.

Later

This is why I'll stick with the street walkers, sure I suppose they could steal my drivers license (license and cash are the only things on me while mongering) but I'll never voluntarily give personal info away. Hobbydude; I hope this drama goes away for you.

be safe all
Trashpicker

I’m not going to address every point because that just starts Tit for tat.

What little credit I have on the Nashville board is from being a straight shooter. I have taken a few for the team that turned out to be great providers. TOFTT- has also wasted my time and money in the past but that’s part of the risk in the hobby.

I do not make up information or disinformation like the post below. I have never made up a post about anyone on the board. If I post it, it's the facts as I know them.

I should have not posted remarks about a provider I had not met last year is my only Faux Pas. I was told the information by someone I trusted who knew the provider.
I did have hobbiest PM me and say the info was correct but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Lesson learned.

I just felt the young hobbiest had been talking down to the board members and putting out info on providers that could get them hurt.

So the reason for the CHILL PILL remark.

Enough said!
Be Safe!


Quote from Quiet X:

Just to clarify

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Okay, I see how it works. Very nice, I think I'll try below.


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Originally Posted by Blackhawk 101
Just copy and edit from your PM file, make up some things to write here, post it on the message board and claim another member sent it to you as a PM. (BTW, this was not written by BH.)

1. I'm not LE like it says in the "PM" posted. If I were, being a criminal psychologist would narrow down the suspects to less than a handful.

2. Not all people going after the "clients" are LE; others can include those who had family and friends who were affected by this "hobby. " Think if you lost your daughter to one of those Columbia pimps for example.

3. I didn't understand what BH meant by calling me "Wilson Way, " but then I saw some old threads. He was an extortionist. I'm not that guy; better yet, he's NOT me. If he were me, providers and their families would not be safe from his activities of extortion. That's not who I am and that's not how I operate.

4. The only providers I identified by name were associates of the Columbia gang. (Read the posts.)

5. Never called providers "bi__h. " If you read my posts, I referred to myself as having been one (with implied sarcasm). (Read the post.)

6. Did say, "okay newbie" and then provided good information regarding valid suspicions about an ad. (Read the post.)

7. Was only rude to newbies whose first posts showed suspicious characteristics in an attempt to keep LE from infiltrating the board. (But they already have; one is a trusted "senior" member who also uses a few decoy names as well.)

8. Points 4-7 clarify the lack of attention to detail shown by some, the same kind that can land a person on a surveillance tape. LE has patience. It's not unusual for them to let a person think he's fooling them, when he really isn't. That's one of their strategies for getting someone on several counts.

9. Thanks for the PMs of support; I realize a lot of you are not comfortable taking part in the message board and just read it to see what's up. Thanks especially to the senior member with over 2, 000 posts who told me that BH does indeed think that he runs the board and has several who are his followers.

That's okay; they can have it.

Remember, you're only as safe as your most careful provider and a provider is only as safe as her most careful client.

I find the the Backpage advertisements with musical accompaniment to be very annoying.

[QUOTE=Bcshocker;1076677]I find the the Backpage advertisements with musical accompaniment to be very annoying.[/QUOTE]Wow, sounds like we are all having different problems with the new set up. I don't see pic's anymore. Did that feeature go away?

Some of you guys are either paranoid or wimps, or both. You seem to worry about getting caught by wives, girlfriends, and law enforcements agencies. This is understandable. But using phrasings such a "I had a dream about." is laughable. Code words are just that. Words that have other meanings. So you're not fooling anyone or mitigating your involvement by such words.

Then we have guys who PM me for contact information after I've posted a report on a provider. I pass on contact information. But instead of asking a question about the provider directly to the provider they want me to answer it for them. I usually put out the basic information that one would need to know to pique one's interest in a provider. Guys, if you want to know more, I'll happily give you the contact information and then you can ask her.

You know, other than Tits Mcfloppin's hysterical reviews and Kryp44's brief recommendation of Vicky, it seems there haven't been any reviews in weeks. In fact over the many months, it seems over 95% of what is on this forum is nothing but rants, meaningless babble, or multiple ISOs that are never answered.

Is the Nashville section of USASG just becoming a blog of crap?

When I travel to Knoxville, I find USASG to be a useful resource. When I have looked at other cities on this forum I find useful information more frequently sprinkled among the goofy stuff on those threads. But for Nashville, my home base, it seems that the threads of this forum are rarely of any value to the hobby any more.

Hey, look, I enjoy the humorous musings of Tits Mcfloppin because although you may need a magic decoder ring to understand it, there is something useful there amongst the hilarious.

I also find the postings of Blackhawk101, Titans123, and a number of other seniors to be reliable recommendations.

And in spite of the rantings, Quiet Xperience provides warnings that the guys here should take seriously even though that information has to be gleened from among the cat fights and careless insults.

I have looked for recommendations and reviews, but find very little of that here any more. I know I have also contributed to the degenerative as well when I have responded to stupid insults I should have ignored. I suppose that is inevitable when a blog takes a downhill turn. So I apologize to everyone here for contributing to the meaningless babble. I will try to stay on topic in the future.

I have posted reviews, warnings for bait / switch situations, and research in answer to other ISOs. Does anyone find that useful?

Does anyone else lament the downward spiral and lack of truly useful information?

Does LE really understand how it is for some of us? I am all for keeping the streets safe and preventing harmful things, but having an active partner is hard for some of us. I have a job where I do not get interact with people. I tried dating sites, even paid sites, no luck or I get ugly old fat married women wanting to meet with me. I tried posting an ad and you only receive spam or girls who send you one message and never reply back. I think they do this just to see if a guy is interested in them. I tried going out to bars and clubs but it is awkward with a bunch of young immature women who are just laughing with a group of their girlfriends and not caring about anyone else there.

So what is the alternative? Going to BP to get a beautiful woman and have a great time, or cruise the streets for some fun and then I can go back to my life feeling happy. I had a relationship and I spent THOUSANDS of dollars on her with all of her financial trouble, crying about misc things in her life, arguing about things that are not my fault, complaining about back and neck pains, etc. I realize that women like to argue just to argue as I did an experiment and tried to do everything right which I did, but she still found something to yell about such as the paint color of my walls. So for a single guy like me there needs to be a better alternative. When the parlors were open that was the happiest I had ever been in my life. On tough days I would hand pick a jaw dropping woman with a body that I didn't know was possible who would do her best to make me happy. There is nothing wrong with that.

[QUOTE=Nash Manner; 1220297]Does LE really understand how it is for some of us? I am all for keeping the streets safe and preventing harmful things, but having an active partner is hard for some of us. I have a job where I do not get interact with people. I tried dating sites, even paid sites, no luck or I get ugly old fat married women wanting to meet with me. I tried posting an ad and you only receive spam or girls who send you one message and never reply back. I think they do this just to see if a guy is interested in them. I tried going out to bars and clubs but it is awkward with a bunch of young immature women who are just laughing with a group of their girlfriends and not caring about anyone else there.

So what is the alternative? Going to BP to get a beautiful woman and have a great time, or cruise the streets for some fun and then I can go back to my life feeling happy. I had a relationship and I spent THOUSANDS of dollars on her with all of her financial trouble, crying about misc things in her life, arguing about things that are not my fault, complaining about back and neck pains, etc. I realize that women like to argue just to argue as I did an experiment and tried to do everything right which I did, but she still found something to yell about such as the paint color of my walls. So for a single guy like me there needs to be a better alternative. When the parlors were open that was the happiest I had ever been in my life. On tough days I would hand pick a jaw dropping woman with a body that I didn't know was possible who would do her best to make me happy. There is nothing wrong with that.[/QUOTE]Nice post Nash. I'd be interested in reading how long attached guys have been in the hobby and why; especially if they are in a good relationship.

[QUOTE=Kryp44;1229349]Nice post Nash. I'd be interested in reading how long attached guys have been in the hobby and why; especially if they are in a good relationship.[/QUOTE]Yes, Krypt, good question. I had a provider tell me one time that she would see this guy, who paid her a good amount, for a quickie. Nothing wrong with that, except she added that he was happily married, happily been the key word here. I don't know about the rest of the guys but if I was "happily: married, I would not be seeing escorts. So how "happy" could he be?

[QUOTE=Jerry1235;1229525]Yes, Krypt, good question. I had a provider tell me one time that she would see this guy, who paid her a good amount, for a quickie. Nothing wrong with that, except she added that he was happily married, happily been the key word here. I don't know about the rest of the guys but if I was "happily: married, I would not be seeing escorts. So how "happy" could he be?[/QUOTE]It is possible to be happily married and yet still want variety, be a frequent traveller and thus unfulfilled, open marriage, having something without having a "relationship", and a number of other reasons. Some providers have exactly that client base, happily married but having the variety for one of the reasons noted.

I don't make any judgments on these reasons. I just figure, to each his own.

[QUOTE=Ufriend2912; 1230661]It is possible to be happily married and yet still want variety, be a frequent traveller and thus unfulfilled, open marriage, having something without having a "relationship", and a number of other reasons. Some providers have exactly that client base, happily married but having the variety for one of the reasons noted.

I don't make any judgments on these reasons. I just figure, to each his own.[/QUOTE]I thought, and correct me if I'm wrong (and I know you will, ha ha) that "happily" implied all was good."Unfulfilled" and "happily" do not go hand in hand. If you want variety, why marry? Unless it's an open relationship as you stated, how fair is seeing an escort on the side to the wife?

I am not judging either, as a matter of fact, you just happened to have used one of my favorite phrases,"to each his own".