Lets have a little respect
There is something that really concerns me that I feel needs to be discussed. On two different occasions I have had girls I know tell me someone has told them that there was information about them on the internet. It was information I posted. I do not mind giving information about ladies I think can provide a descent service at a reasonable price. Now guys I know we are walking a fine line here;
1. Providing information to each other about the quality of service being offered. I really believe this helps us all.
and
2. Violating the privacy of our provider without their consent.
I am sure some of these ladies welcome the reviews because it increases their revenue. But I know one of the girls has been spooked and I have not seen her around since she told me about it. She told me she even given the WWW address to read what was written. And the other girl was told me someone told her that people had been talking about her on the internet. They both told me almost word for word what I posted about them on this site. One of them told me that a guy from Decatur had told her he read about her and had to drive over to Huntsville to “check her out.” I might suggest we keep what we read to ourselves, I cannot see any reason to look for a provider just to tell her, “Hey there is information about you all over the internet.” I think in the long run we will lose. Might I suggest, let’s read each others reviews, keep the information to ourselves, and enjoy. Unless of course they ask us to tell others about them, which some do ask.
while on subject of posting about others ...
Last month there was a posting about someone saying a "SW was being pursued by health dept [HD] to be tested for AIDS". Well, first off, be/see of privacy issues, the HD would NOT tell anyone that someone should be tested for AIDS. Second, one does NOT test for AIDS, but for presence of HIV. 3rd, whether the SW whom said this is "clean" or not. 4th, just for the record if believe stats: 2/3 of black wimmen in madison county aged 24-34 are HIV+ (so if black dude goes w/ white SW after going w/ a black woman--whether the blk woman is working gurl or not, then.) and so on, and so forth.
WAS stated in that posting, "whether believe this or not". But, a SW of course would say something bad about another one simply thinking it would steer biz away from the other one (ESP if SW <35 y-o). The other one, if you think about it, had prolly had done nothing more than some slight is more likely the case.
Bottom line: THINK first before saying stuff about others as was said in the posting.
stats -- glad asked, I thought high too
Am GLAD asked that! (thought about when posting; but, didn't have time to look up at the time) I thought it very high too! Read in HT sometime about late summer/early fall '06. k, just spent the past couple hours trying to look this up -- is the thing with stats, eh? why quantified stating, "if believe stats" ... who believes them?
[all paraphrased, direct quotes]
black Males 79.8% AIDS/HIV entire state of ala (all ages)
black Females 20.2% AIDS/HIV entire state of ala (all ages)
age 20 - 49 of BOTH sexes is 85% HIV/AIDS of black population of alabama
source: ADPH (ala dept of public health), sept 2006.
there were 358 new HIV in Madison in 2004 ... the aids action coalition currently serves 500 clients in madison county.
African-American and Hispanic women, who represent less than 25 percent of all U.S. women, account for more than 79 percent of AIDS cases in women. More specifically, African Americans make up nearly 60 percent of AIDS cases in women ... white women account for only 16.8 percent. HIV/AIDS ... is the leading cause of death among African-American women in 20-34 yr age group.
Sources: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of HIV/AIDS Prevention-Surveillance and Epidemiology, Special Data Request, November 2006.
[end paraphrased, direct quotes]
[and, no, numbers do not add up; seldom do in stats]
no, could NOT find stats on HIV/AIDS for black wimmen in Madison County.
THAT is why glad asked. sooooooo, according to this, you guys can still see black F ...
as stated previously ... we're responsible adults, so we use raincoats, eh? do that and then don't have to worry about stats, jacks.
["am a poet and don't show it" ... ok ok already ... is from some song, i think, excuse ...]
Have fun but be safe,
Sun
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Update: Madison County Statistics
I have a friend who is a doctor and asked her about the statistics for HIV cases in Madison Co. She updated me with the following current stats:
Total cases - 558
56.8% Black
41.6% White
1.6% Other
~20% of the cases are female or roughly 112 cases. 89 are black females, 19 are white females, the remaining are other.
She told me that per cap., the hispanic population carries more STD's including HPV (#1), chlamydia, syphillis, gonorrhea, and herpes.
The major STD treated in Madison Co. is herpes. It is possible to get herpes from a BBBJ but is rare. You can get chlamydia, hepatitis A, HPV (warts), shigella, and syphillis from a BBBJ. The riskiest form of sex for STD's is anal.
Think about it the next time your little head starts thinking and you don't have a condom.
Keep it SAFE,
Father Mike