Getting involved with SW's
[QUOTE=Clubber55]Thank you for your insightful comments, Psyberzombie, Bad Bad Boy and Butchcasidy. I do realize that the feelings I have for my ATF and her situation are totally unrealistic, and accept that I cannot save her from herself. I have been debating about getting out of the mongering lifestyle now for awhile, and with my funds becoming less and less available because of a long term financial commitment it just may be time for that. I'll see how I am feeling in the next few weeks and decide then I guess.[/QUOTE]
Clubber, most of us have experienced what you are going through now. We have been emotionally involved with these girls,too. It hurts, it's painful, and you feel foolish. At some point, you will probably be angry too. Just look at it as one of life's lessons. An education is not cheap.
I went through a similar thing. I offered to help a girl get into drug rehab, provide transportation, store her personal belongings while there, stay with me (at no cost) until she found her own place, help her find a job, and to provide emotional support. She turned my help down. Like you, it hurt to watch her self-destructive behavior and throw her life away, but it was her decision not mine.
You sound like a very decent and caring guy. I wish you the best. Taking a break from mongering, or quitting altogether, might be the best thing for you to have time to get over the pain and to get your priorities straight.
Good luck in what ever you decide.
BBB
Here is the Detroit Post Falling for a SW
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?t=2162&page=19&pp=15[/url]
IF you can not get to this Detroit thread from the link, look of Detroit Archive, around July 25 and 26, 2005. There are about three or four posts on this issue of falling for a SW
Re : Day vs. Night Mongering
[QUOTE=KAvenueMonger]
Fellow mongers is there any monger out there willing to show mw the night mongering ropes? .... So fellow mongers please help me learn the night ropes.
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You might want to think twice before taking up mongering at night , K·A·M
A few reasons why =
∙ It's much easier for LE or any·one else to tail you , and almost impossible to tell
yer being tailed , at night
· It's easier to explain your presence in a known SW stroll area during the daylight hours .
The Auto Zone isn't open at 3 a.m. and people don't check out real estate in the middle of
the night , so how are you going to explain why yer there when you get pulled over ??
· The vast majority of LE sting ops and vice squad shenanigans happen at night .
Why be out when they are ??
· One advantage of the night is a two·edged sword = it's easier to hide and conceal
yourself at night , but it's also easier for LE & her BF / Pimp to do the same
· One of the best times to pick up SWs is right around sunrise . At this time of year
that's around 7 a.m. , right when the change of shift is occurring down at the local Police HQ
· Night·time is more dangerous for other reasons , too . All the 'bad guys' are out
at night and there are more drivers on the road who are drunk or drugged
· If yer into the Strip Club scene , you'll get better service there during the day
than at night when you have to compete with the bigger crowds
Just my 2 ¢ ... Do what you will , but I personally stick to mongering when the sun is out
Tell them your looking for the pound chesse steak place
Someone told you it on the corner of lehigh & k ave
[QUOTE=jacken]Here are my 2c, in return.
The K is fairly well lit, if your allert, you can tell the type of cars behind you. However, on the off streets you are correct.
First you don't need to give a reason. just tell them your lost, your comming from a friend house, or bar (thou this may get you to walk the line) if you need a real reason the porn shops are often open.
they can get you day or night, your should always watch your back.
Same as above.
I don't see many out at this hour except in AC. but then again my K ave experance is mostly in afternoon and evening.
True.
This is the only point I agree with 100%. if your into the club seen, check out the reports on Vic in the Newark, NJ board. This is one wierd and risque place.[/QUOTE]