Just know what you're getting yourself into. If it's what you want, then no one here can tell you otherwise. For me, everything is fun and game until she brings up marriage or pregnancy.
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Just know what you're getting yourself into. If it's what you want, then no one here can tell you otherwise. For me, everything is fun and game until she brings up marriage or pregnancy.
[QUOTE=Bronan1;2768367]If an AMP girl gives you her number, then shares her real name and facebook. Just how interested is she?
I'll give a little background.
I've seen this girl only once, and the session was amazing. You guys might be surprised who she is, but it's Luxx. I'm a young semi-attractive guy, she's the same age as me beautiful Chinese girl. I texted her a few times after the session but she didn't respond much due to being busy at work. So I figured eh, I'll text her when she comes back around to make appointments and what not. About 6 months later (last week) she adds me on facebook and starts talking to me telling me she likes me and misses me, wants me to visit her in NY but I can't get the time off from work. Since that conversation it's been pretty hard contacting her, I think she is just really bad with responding. But I'm kind of confused, because it sounds like this girl is interested, but at the same time she doesn't. Because she only responds to me on facebook / text once a day. I would think if someone is interested in you they would want to talk more. Anybody have any recommendations for this one? I want to play it cool but don't want to be hung up on this girl. I understand she is something special and a lot of guys would like to be in my shoes, so I REALLY don't want to mess it up.[/QUOTE]If she doesn't make the time to talk to you, then you know she's not interested enough. What does someone do if he / she is really interested in someone? They go out of there way to talk / be with that person. They're willing to sacrifice talking to / going out with their friend to talk to / be with the person they interested in.
You're already questioning whether she's interested or not. What does that tell you? The interest level is not very high that it's obvious. Sounds like she's just showing some interest just to see if she can get you interested. This way, she can get you to chase her and then get you to cater to her. It can make her feel good knowing that she can get you to do that.
Heh, she saying she misses you but, asking you to go visit her. If she's the one that misses you, you'd think that she be the one wanting to come down and see you.
[QUOTE=Bronan1;2768367]If an AMP girl gives you her number, then shares her real name and facebook. Just how interested is she?
I'll give a little background.
I've seen this girl only once, and the session was amazing. You guys might be surprised who she is, but it's Luxx. I'm a young semi-attractive guy, she's the same age as me beautiful Chinese girl. I texted her a few times after the session but she didn't respond much due to being busy at work. So I figured eh, I'll text her when she comes back around to make appointments and what not. About 6 months later (last week) she adds me on facebook and starts talking to me telling me she likes me and misses me, wants me to visit her in NY but I can't get the time off from work. Since that conversation it's been pretty hard contacting her, I think she is just really bad with responding. But I'm kind of confused, because it sounds like this girl is interested, but at the same time she doesn't. Because she only responds to me on facebook / text once a day. I would think if someone is interested in you they would want to talk more. Anybody have any recommendations for this one? I want to play it cool but don't want to be hung up on this girl. I understand she is something special and a lot of guys would like to be in my shoes, so I REALLY don't want to mess it up.[/QUOTE]I have the same experience; However she is still in Hawaii. Same situation as yours but it was not from first meeting. It happen after a few meeting then I went on a trip and did not see her for over 2 months. After my trip I made an appointment at the AMP she was working at and she was very happy to see me and asked what happen. I told her that I was off island and she felt very happy that I was just did not come and see her. I told her that I enjoy her company. That day she gave me her number but not her name yet. In return I text her first and waited. I waited for a day before she return the text and we started seeing each other outside the AMP. To me she is very attractive however our age gap is pretty large. She told me she like older men cause we know what we want. To make the long story short I'm still dating her and got to share her room mate with her. I am taking one day at a time and what ever comes; comes.
In your situation I think she likes you but not serious. I don't think I will travel that length to meet a girl especially stating that you are an semi-attractive guy. I would find out more and see if she will let you stay at her place and communicate more to see if she really like you; or she just miss the connection she had with you while she was here. Hope that help.
[QUOTE=Bronan1;2768367]If an AMP girl gives you her number, then shares her real name and facebook. Just how interested is she?
I'll give a little background.
I've seen this girl only once, and the session was amazing. You guys might be surprised who she is, but it's Luxx. I'm a young semi-attractive guy, she's the same age as me beautiful Chinese girl. I texted her a few times after the session but she didn't respond much due to being busy at work. So I figured eh, I'll text her when she comes back around to make appointments and what not. About 6 months later (last week) she adds me on facebook and starts talking to me telling me she likes me and misses me, wants me to visit her in NY but I can't get the time off from work. Since that conversation it's been pretty hard contacting her, I think she is just really bad with responding. But I'm kind of confused, because it sounds like this girl is interested, but at the same time she doesn't. Because she only responds to me on facebook / text once a day. I would think if someone is interested in you they would want to talk more. Anybody have any recommendations for this one? I want to play it cool but don't want to be hung up on this girl. I understand she is something special and a lot of guys would like to be in my shoes, so I REALLY don't want to mess it up.[/QUOTE]I don't really post much, mainly because, reviews are generally the same. Girl does this, girl does that yada yada. BBBJ, dfk, blah blah. I might go out of my way now just to post about a terrible provider but an average one? Nah.
I'm going to go off my past experience. I dated 2 AMP girls (I only mongered here after my divorce, I don't monger during a relationship, it's just my own personal ethic, I don't begrudge anyone else's choice or judge). 2 totally different experiences. One was just because we both enjoyed each other's company and the the sex but were realistic that it was just "fun" and time where we could just be ourselves and have fun without acting and worrying about house fees etc. , there was alot of cute dates on her days off with fun casual spontaneous sex that was alot more fulfilling than what we had at the AMP. But once she had her run here and she left the island, we still txted and msged each other but after awhile it grew less frequent till poof.
The 2nd girl was way diff. It started off light but she got alot more attached and it started to rub off on me. Which was unintentional. Tinder / POF / local chicks and one night stands, all pretty much sucked at sex. So I went to the professionals and even there, I could only get satisfied with maybe 20 percent of the providers. But in general I don't want anything to do with a real relationship, 1 failed marriage is enough for me. So yeah this 2nd chick was super serious, and would text me constantly when she was working. In between her clients. Whenever she was on break she'd facetime me to see what I was doing. I mean she's getting dick from other guys on the regular and turning around and checking up on me LOL. Asking me to come see her. At first I thought she just wanted money, but she wouldn't take any tips from me etc. , at any rate. Let's get this shit moving. I got out, I didn't want a relationship. But what I'm saying here is, just adding you to FB and telling you to visit her? That's not exactly much effort on her part. You'll know when an AMP girl wants to be with you. Just my 2 cents man. Don't want to rain on your parade, but I also don't want you to get into something that you might regret later.
- Hikerjohn.
Go get um, bro. Keep posting on your xperience. Plenty of guys date pros.
Play by play with how you do with Luxx is something many guys would be interested in.
[QUOTE=Bronan1;2768367]If an AMP girl gives you her number, then shares her real name and facebook. Just how interested is she?
I'll give a little background.
I've seen this girl only once, and the session was amazing. You guys might be surprised who she is, but it's Luxx. I'm a young semi-attractive guy, she's the same age as me beautiful Chinese girl. I texted her a few times after the session but she didn't respond much due to being busy at work. So I figured eh, I'll text her when she comes back around to make appointments and what not. About 6 months later (last week) she adds me on facebook and starts talking to me telling me she likes me and misses me, wants me to visit her in NY but I can't get the time off from work. Since that conversation it's been pretty hard contacting her, I think she is just really bad with responding. But I'm kind of confused, because it sounds like this girl is interested, but at the same time she doesn't. Because she only responds to me on facebook / text once a day. I would think if someone is interested in you they would want to talk more. Anybody have any recommendations for this one? I want to play it cool but don't want to be hung up on this girl. I understand she is something special and a lot of guys would like to be in my shoes, so I REALLY don't want to mess it up.[/QUOTE]
I'll be sure to keep everyone posted, I don't see it getting much further than "Netflix & chill". Who knows. We do have a video chat scheduled here soon, could be interesting.
[QUOTE=DeepShot;2770396]Go get um, bro. Keep posting on your xperience. Plenty of guys date pros.
Play by play with how you do with Luxx is something many guys would be interested in.[/QUOTE]
You never know. I dated couple of pros. One never told me her real name, but she wanted to go out like a regular person, so we dined, shopped, drank coffee at the mall, and fuck at her place.
The others dated me only on the mainland. This place is just work for them, and not for dating and real life.
[QUOTE=Brudda1;2771231]I'll be sure to keep everyone posted, I don't see it getting much further than "Netflix & chill". Who knows. We do have a video chat scheduled here soon, could be interesting.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Corvette808;2768984]A famous rapper said it best.
"Now this this is one of them occasions.
Where the homies not doing it right.
I mean he found him a hoe that he like.
But you can't make a hoe a housewife.
And when it all boils down you going to find in the end.
A ***** is a *****, but a Dogg is a man's best friend.
So what you found you a hoe that you like.
But you can't make a hoe a housewife ".
True story.[/QUOTE]Yeah. But I see these girls as more doing this for money so they don't want you to get tangled too much in their personal life. Cause they want to go back to it when they are not working or done with the industry. That's why I now don't take going out with AMP girls as anything more than something short term fun. And to be careful when you start getting too close because it will be painful when she cuts you off. And since that has happened to me, I've cut one off too, not that I think it hurt her much or for long since they have so many guys to choose from. But if it's not fitting into my life, hey, I need to cut things off too right?
Peter.
Imagine having this on the front door of an AMP. Hahahahah.
[QUOTE=DeepShot;2770396]Go get um, bro. Keep posting on your xperience. Plenty of guys date pros.
Play by play with how you do with Luxx is something many guys would be interested in.[/QUOTE]Doing a post here a few days ago, but did not show up, so try try again. My exp. With dating, moving in (with me).
Getting serious or very clingy, and breakups. Became SO with a stripper back years ago at RZ, "be" local outer island girl.
Hot as hell, made choke $$ on her nights, PT, and was going to school for nursing. 3 yrs. Up and down, them she started.
Hitting the chem trails, where all went south. She lost almost all, custody of her boy, her job as a nurse, and I had to.
Kick her out. Out of fear of the other BS in doing the chems. Heard she back home with the mom, but as her sister said.
She is all bust in the head. Her mom, wanted us to try again, but hard for me, cared about her a lot, but needed to protect my daughters back then. Will write in diff. Posts here, #1.
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[QUOTE=DeepShot;2770396]Go get um, bro. Keep posting on your xperience. Plenty of guys date pros.
Play by play with how you do with Luxx is something many guys would be interested in.[/QUOTE]Hooked up and dated a few AMP. Girls, but 2 got serious enough where one we both still care about each other.
But not the easiest as her mom does not accept being non-Asian. Started harmless, visits to her AMP, then.
Texting, then feeding me after we done the insanity. Then helping her move to her new place, me fixing some stuff.
There, going out, Starbucks, dinner, movies, then sprung a surprise overnighter trip on her for her BDay to Maui.
Overnighter turned into an extended Vaca. Maui no ka Oi, beach, whales, meals, nasty sex every which way, that included.
One person saying, you make a lovely couple. Again the hitch, I was not that kind of Asian. Does she still work? Yes,
Has everything changed? Somewhat, to the point of we still se each other, off and on, more as a FWB if you call it that? She won't let me come to her workplace anymore, she will text me what I doing, and at times on her days off, just cruise and.
Yes, watch Netflix, cook, pass out, rest. Sex, yes and no, if so more boom boom if she all itchy, but always asks for me to massage her. At least let me keep in practice. If you asking, well reviewed here too, even by me. But don't ask, I will not dime her out, but if you Sr. That know me, I love a specific type as spoiled as I am.
[QUOTE=DeepShot;2770396]Go get um, bro. Keep posting on your xperience. Plenty of guys date pros.
Play by play with how you do with Luxx is something many guys would be interested in.[/QUOTE]I will do. I actually met her years ago, we were about 9 yrs. Apart. Lost touch with her after a few years.
Then saw her as a nurse where I was doing some work there, reconnected and dated. But our work schedules real.
Long so again, fades. A few years later cruising DT, I see her on the walk with Reina, Emi, and others. I go, wtfdaHell?
I go around again, and she gone, I go pick reina up and ask who was that, and she tells me her name and I trip?! So,
I drive around the next few days, and lo and behold, she is there. I go to pick her up, and she did not know was me, diff.
Truck now. She got very surprised, she reluctantly got in and we went to talk. Found out why, kind of understood, but not.
Really and I know she needed the $$ so gave it to her, and no serv. She felt bad, but I realized she was jaded, and had a pimp just by the way she was now. So off and on, we do this, and told her if I see her pimp, oh boy Wesside, style!! Did get into a confrontation, looked like a YouTube vid. , he did his rap BS, I laughed, he did his impression of Ali, I did a McGregor on him, 2-3, and he went out. His friends dragged him away, we drove away, and she was doing good again, got her assignments back.
Making good $$, she actually said the L word to me, and she always have since we first met. Amazing when she is sober, really, the sweetest loving passionate local girl. Loved watching FB and her Steelers, did all the couple things and got her daughter back from CP, and she was loving life. When her dad died, ahe spiraled and I could not slow it down, the drugs hard to escape, esp. When you around it at work. She changed not for the good. Moved, her daughter stayed with me bc. She never had a dad.
Sad, when her family called me to say she is hospitalized, too much her body could handle. She apologized for all the wrong.
Not the easiest when you know you time has come, died so young. Buried her in the plots where I will be and my kids. Her.
Daughter, now my honey cub. Gets all the same my daughters had, warm strong home, private school edu. , dances.
Cheers (ouch for me), plays softball and volleyball. Yes, just like a dad bragging, but every time I look at her, I see her mom.
Some of you can figure out who I talking about, if you figure the puzzle. So goes life. Do I miss her, hell yea, I have yet to.
Move her pictures on our hall wall where she organized and did all the designs, as it reads, My Ohana.
[QUOTE=Hard808;2774956]Imagine having this on the front door of an AMP. Hahahahah.[/QUOTE]LOL, would be funny if the AMP displayed a sign saying "Empty your sac, see mama san".
[QUOTE=Makana9;2776055] Some of you can figure out who I talking about, if you figure the puzzle. [/QUOTE]Yup, by combining (1) nurse, (2) downtown provider (Longs area), and (3) premature death, longtime downtown mongers can solve the puzzle. Thank you for posting that poignant story.
[QUOTE=Brudda1;2768367]If an AMP girl gives you her number, then shares her real name and facebook. Just how interested is she?
I'll give a little background.
I've seen this girl only once, and the session was amazing. You guys might be surprised who she is, but it's Luxx. I'm a young semi-attractive guy, she's the same age as me beautiful Chinese girl. I texted her a few times after the session but she didn't respond much due to being busy at work. So I figured eh, I'll text her when she comes back around to make appointments and what not. About 6 months later (last week) she adds me on facebook and starts talking to me telling me she likes me and misses me, wants me to visit her in NY but I can't get the time off from work. Since that conversation it's been pretty hard contacting her, I think she is just really bad with responding. But I'm kind of confused, because it sounds like this girl is interested, but at the same time she doesn't. Because she only responds to me on facebook / text once a day. I would think if someone is interested in you they would want to talk more. Anybody have any recommendations for this one? I want to play it cool but don't want to be hung up on this girl. I understand she is something special and a lot of guys would like to be in my shoes, so I REALLY don't want to mess it up.[/QUOTE]This girls been spotted with different guys around the island, even Haleiwa. I wouldn't take this too seriously, just have fun. AMP girls are the easiest to say you are their bf, future husband, whatever. Anything just to have their needs taken care of. A girl like luxx has probly thousands of dudes she's slept with maybe 5 "serious" guys at a time. Try your luck and see if you can bring her back down to Hawaii where we can all pound her nonstop once again. (sarcasm but not really.).
As for replying, she got with several guys in New York guaranteed. I've seen bar girls text down the line on their phone and giggle as they called each and every guy on their phone one by one. How? I was a fuck friend and I made it clear I ain't here for no loverboy crap so she was cool with it and she was just showing off her powers. And my, what powers they have!
But the BIG THING you posted was not that she gave you her real name, some have shown me their passport, but never facebook nor did I ask to respect their privacy. If that was real, you could interact with her real friends and family and I'm not sure any amp girls would not be comfortable with that especially cause that could be used for blackmail. And now that this was posted on this forum, I'm curious if she cut you off since she now most definitely knows it was you.