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[QUOTE=LuvR2015;2524681]Just came back from another colossal waste of time and I just reported on another thread.
Why is everyone so unreliable?
Are we experiencing a massive shift in the way people behave or just is it become too easy for providers?[/QUOTE]See those inch long purplish red marks on their hands, wrists, and elbows? They didn't get in a fight with their cat. You expect them to be reliable?
Be careful out there and follow the rules.
[URL]http://www.wdrb.com/Global/story.asp?S=12209631[/URL]
[QUOTE=Docd62;2525637]Be careful out there and follow the rules.
[URL]http://www.wdrb.com/Global/story.asp?S=12209631[/URL][/QUOTE]I knew I had a good memory but when I thought, "huh, these people look familiar" it made me check the date on this article. Thanks for the timely warning though. Sorry, couldn't resist. No offense intended.
I know who the blonde is. Can someone pm about kali. Or other name they use. Thanks
[QUOTE=Norsem;2525645]I knew I had a good memory but when I thought, "huh, these people look familiar" it made me check the date on this article. Thanks for the timely warning though. Sorry, couldn't resist. No offense intended.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=Docd62;2525637]Be careful out there and follow the rules.
[URL]http://www.wdrb.com/Global/story.asp?S=12209631[/URL][/QUOTE]This article is dated March of 2010. It's still a good idea to be careful though.
After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?
Is that considered a common law marriage? LOL. I feel us bro I take a liking to these gals too. Except rather that focusing on one I have eyes for four or more. It's not realistic to pursue in real life. Sounds like you need to take a break from your ATF and find a new one. At least that's what I would do. LC.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probablyr another bipusiness transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]I would say the minute you start to feel "jealous" of her seeing other clients then that is when it is really an issue. I personally would never attempt to date a pro, but to each their own and I would never judge someone for trying. But honestly I don't see anything wrong with feeling passion for someone because it can make the experience that much more fun.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]I had a great, 3-year living together relationship with a provider with whom the same thing happened. Both of us discussed it, left the hobby, and lived happily together for a few years and are still friends today. IMHO it depends on BOTH of you and your desires to include outside of the bedroom. As in all relationships, some work, some don't.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]Might want to move onto another girl. It might be tough at first but probably for the best. If this is just business for her, you'll either end up hurt or in trouble?
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]If it's going good don't fuck it up by changing it. IMHO.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]I wouldn't be too concerned about it myself. You spend that much time with someone you obviously like them. If you like them you will become friends and when you become friends you will care about them. When you care about someone you will think and worry about them. I have one that I feel that way about but it doesn't necessarily mean I want to spend the rest of my living days with her. It just means I'm not the heartless SOB that my ex-wife said that I was, that's all.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]Ask her what she thinks. You never know until you ask. You will find your answer asking her.
I was too chicken shit to respond in public, but I sent you a PM.
[QUOTE=MojoGuy;2526772]I wouldn't be too concerned about it myself. You spend that much time with someone you obviously like them. If you like them you will become friends and when you become friends you will care about them. When you care about someone you will think and worry about them. I have one that I feel that way about but it doesn't necessarily mean I want to spend the rest of my living days with her. It just means I'm not the heartless SOB that my ex-wife said that I was, that's all.[/QUOTE]That cracked me up. I guess I'm not completely heartless. For sure, in the hobby I've met girls that I don't even remember and couldn't care less but this one is different.