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Broke condom
[QUOTE=MaximumDave;5589607] She says she doesn't want it and wants an abortion, but doesn't cooperate in doing it. Weird. After a while I just told her "I'm out do what you need to do. " Just looking for advice.[/QUOTE]This is where I'd hope you used a fake name, burner phone and email address. Vanish, break your phone in half and delete the email addy. Short of that: get proof that she actually IS preggers before deciding the next step even if it means going to the doctor with her. Hookers have been known to lie.
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[QUOTE=MaximumDave;5590584]I don't think so. She does have my phone number of course.[/QUOTE]If you're the daddy and the number can be tracked to you, you're fucked. Pregnant hookers are no different than wives, gf, ex wives, ex gf when it comes to judges and child support.
But you might not be daddy. Make her do all the work, file papers, try to find you, etc. , she's a hooker, she might not be able to follow through. Do not provide DNA. Do not meet her. Do not accompany her to any clinic, Planned Perenthood, etc. Do not answer your phone. Change number. Block hers. Does she know where you live, was it an outcall?
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[QUOTE=AaronHamlet;5590802]If you're the daddy and the number can be tracked to you, you're fucked. Pregnant hookers are no different than wives, gf, ex wives, ex gf when it comes to judges and child support.
But you might not be daddy. Make her do all the work, file papers, try to find you, etc. , she's a hooker, she might not be able to follow through. Do not provide DNA. Do not meet her. Do not accompany her to any clinic, Planned Perenthood, etc. Do not answer your phone. Change number. Block hers. Does she know where you live, was it an outcall?[/QUOTE]It was an incall, the only thing she has is my number. I wish I did use some kind of burner phone, but I didn't. She definitely has my number and I'm not sure if I'm the father, but I want to definitely make sure I'm not. Would rather make sure I don't have 18 years worth of a headache. I'd rather have a small one now. I agree about not contacting her, seems like she's all concerned about going at me rather than having an abortion. Even while saying I'm willing to do the abortion, all she's talking about is lawyers and how bad I am. Women! I did change my number.
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[QUOTE=AaronHamlet;5590802]If you're the daddy and the number can be tracked to you, you're fucked. Pregnant hookers are no different than wives, gf, ex wives, ex gf when it comes to judges and child support.
But you might not be daddy. Make her do all the work, file papers, try to find you, etc. , she's a hooker, she might not be able to follow through. Do not provide DNA. Do not meet her. Do not accompany her to any clinic, Planned Perenthood, etc. Do not answer your phone. Change number. Block hers. Does she know where you live, was it an outcall?[/QUOTE]All I heard from here when discussing going to get the abortion is her suing me for something called "wrongful impregnancy" and how men ain't shit. Its like she's trying to go after me and the baby ain't even here yet. I don't think its costs much to trace a phone number, or file papers on someone for child support. And for that all you need is a name. Rather be safe than sorry, but with women when they have leverage that's all they care about. Just thinking she could have the baby just because of that, I can't look weak but at the same time I need to get her to the clinic.
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[QUOTE=MaximumDave;5591907]All I heard from here when discussing going to get the abortion is her suing me for something called "wrongful impregnancy" and how men ain't shit. Its like she's trying to go after me and the baby ain't even here yet. I don't think its costs much to trace a phone number, or file papers on someone for child support. And for that all you need is a name. Rather be safe than sorry, but with women when they have leverage that's all they care about. Just thinking she could have the baby just because of that, I can't look weak but at the same time I need to get her to the clinic.[/QUOTE]"wrongful impregnancy" is when a doctor fails to perform an abortion correctly. Wrongful impregnancy against a possible father is what, rape I guess??
I wouldn't stress it, just cut all contact which it seems you have done. At the very least google your phone number and make sure nothing traces back to you. Submit takes downs to those lookup sites if you find yourself on one.
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99.9% chance it's all a bluff, and she's just trying to game you to see what she can easily get from you. Cut all contact and lose her, and leave the burden of proof on her. She's probably not even pregnant, and if she is, what are the odds it's yours? I'd personally bet it's all a scam game she's playing on you, and you've just been playing into her hands.
[QUOTE=MaximumDave;5591907]All I heard from here when discussing going to get the abortion is her suing me for something called "wrongful impregnancy" and how men ain't shit. Its like she's trying to go after me and the baby ain't even here yet. I don't think its costs much to trace a phone number, or file papers on someone for child support. And for that all you need is a name. Rather be safe than sorry, but with women when they have leverage that's all they care about. Just thinking she could have the baby just because of that, I can't look weak but at the same time I need to get her to the clinic.[/QUOTE]
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Valuable Lesson
[QUOTE=MaximumDave;5591901]It was an incall, the only thing she has is my number. I wish I did use some kind of burner phone, but I didn't. She definitely has my number and I'm not sure if I'm the father, but I want to definitely make sure I'm not. Would rather make sure I don't have 18 years worth of a headache. I'd rather have a small one now. I agree about not contacting her, seems like she's all concerned about going at me rather than having an abortion. Even while saying I'm willing to do the abortion, all she's talking about is lawyers and how bad I am. Women! I did change my number.[/QUOTE]I hope you and anyone who reads this learns a valuable lesson about using a burner phone or phone app. I pay $5 a month for a phone app with an untraceable phone number. That's $60 to insure that something like this never happens to me. Easiest $60 I spend each year. Don't be cheap, be smart. If you struggle with technology, do what a lot of others do and buy a Tracphone from Wal-Mart or any big box retailer and use it for hobbying. Never use a phone number that's attached to you.
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Which app
[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;5592662]I hope you and anyone who reads this learns a valuable lesson about using a burner phone or phone app. I pay $5 a month for a phone app with an untraceable phone number. That's $60 to insure that something like this never happens to me. Easiest $60 I spend each year. Don't be cheap, be smart. If you struggle with technology, do what a lot of others do and buy a Tracphone from Wal-Mart or any big box retailer and use it for hobbying. Never use a phone number that's attached to you.[/QUOTE]Do you mind sharing which app you use? I've been using a Google Voice number which I randomly picked but I don't believe that it's totally untraceable. I'd prefer to be as safe as possible.
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[QUOTE=Frankie14;5592871]Do you mind sharing which app you use? I've been using a Google Voice number which I randomly picked but I don't believe that it's totally untraceable. I'd prefer to be as safe as possible.[/QUOTE]Google voice is ok if you didn't use any of your real info to set it up, though unless you're connecting to it using a VPN service, it can be traced back to your IP, but not without a lot of effort. I use [URL]https://mysudo.com/[/URL] . There's a free option, and one that's only a dollar a month, and then $5 a month and $15 a month depending on how many texts or minutes you plan on spending. Depending on how much hobbying I'm doing I'll adjust my plan based on my needs.
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Another point.
Since she talked "lawyer", no more conversations with her. Cut it off cold, but I might come up with abortion funds if she provided written proof she was preggers and make sure she goes through with it. But to the other point, if she advertised, screen shot those ads and hang on to them as proof she was hooking, therefore seeing other men. Do nothing more until there's a DNA subpoena. Oh, and do out her here so everyone else can stay away. I do agree, more chances than not, she's bluffing you.
[QUOTE=ILuvEmall;5592495]99.9% chance it's all a bluff, and she's just trying to game you to see what she can easily get from you. Cut all contact and lose her, and leave the burden of proof on her. She's probably not even pregnant, and if she is, what are the odds it's yours? I'd personally bet it's all a scam game she's playing on you, and you've just been playing into her hands.[/QUOTE]
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Time to retire
Well, I've had about all the fun I can stand. The service keeps getting worse and the price keeps getting higher. I'm going to retire, at least for a few years. When a street walker with a cellphone can command 100 for a qv while giving horrible service, limited menu options, have a f'd up attitude, and still get repeat business, I got to stable the horse and wait out the storm. The hos are getting uglier, skankier and have no incentive to improve. I'll spend my money on a more rewarding hobby like dragging my balls through glass and dipping them in Bacardi 151.
I will still check in from time to time, but I'm done with the hobby until things improve. If they do, I'll slink back in, but it's not looking good for the foreseeable future.
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Cheers
[QUOTE=MrHobbyist;5613688]Well, I've had about all the fun I can stand. The service keeps getting worse and the price keeps getting higher. I'm going to retire, at least for a few years. When a street walker with a cellphone can command 100 for a qv while giving horrible service, limited menu options, have a f'd up attitude, and still get repeat business, I got to stable the horse and wait out the storm. The hos are getting uglier, skankier and have no incentive to improve. I'll spend my money on a more rewarding hobby like dragging my balls through glass and dipping them in Bacardi 151.
I will still check in from time to time, but I'm done with the hobby until things improve. If they do, I'll slink back in, but it's not looking good for the foreseeable future.[/QUOTE]I am in the same boat. Service sucks cannot find a reliable lady for a decent BBBJ. AMPs blow around here. Have been ghosted so many times and prices are stupid for what yiy get.
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[QUOTE=MrHobbyist;5613688]Well, I've had about all the fun I can stand. The service keeps getting worse and the price keeps getting higher. I'm going to retire, at least for a few years. When a street walker with a cellphone can command 100 for a qv while giving horrible service, limited menu options, have a f'd up attitude, and still get repeat business, I got to stable the horse and wait out the storm. The hos are getting uglier, skankier and have no incentive to improve. I'll spend my money on a more rewarding hobby like dragging my balls through glass and dipping them in Bacardi 151.
I will still check in from time to time, but I'm done with the hobby until things improve. If they do, I'll slink back in, but it's not looking good for the foreseeable future.[/QUOTE]I completely agree.
I just posted on rants and raves about this.
I tried to retire about a year ago but I couldn't, so I'm currently arranging my life to mofe to southeast Asia.
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[QUOTE=ZeroDude;5656438]I am in the same boat. Service sucks cannot find a reliable lady for a decent BBBJ. AMPs blow around here. Have been ghosted so many times and prices are stupid for what yiy get.[/QUOTE]Check the BBBJTC section of this forum. You might see one you like. Check the BBBJ and BBFS as well.
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Psa
Guys please. Lest help out the forum by posting provider, SW, SB, UTR or AMP info like this:
Looks; 1 to 10 with description of boobs, ass, face, waist, hair, tatts, teeth and hygiene.
Services; MPBBFS CFS OTC UTC CBJ CIA DT 69 Doggy MISH, Cowgirl, BS, TS, ATM, BBBJWS CIP COF DATY FIV FIA DFK etc. And YMMVs as well as atmosphere and attitude like pillow princess.
Donation; $xx. 5 for example.
Location; FIB, Airport, Alpharetta. Don't be specific but close.
And links or pics and a brief anecdote of the event.