Yes it can find your father
[QUOTE=InTight;3963104]This is not a world where you can be found through DNA testing if your DNA has not been tested. I know about the test lab people send DNA samples to for ancestor identification, now limited to finding out if you are a German or whatever decedent not so you can find your long lost father at least not if his DNA is not in the data bank. With NSA and other government and non government snooping (Google for one) it is becoming harder to protect your privacy. Universal DNA testing is too horrible to contemplate.[/QUOTE]Various sites give possible matches of relative. So even if you did not send in DNA, your kid, sibling, etc. Could have. So baby of SB, if DNA sent in might get a report that there is a possible half sibling, uncle, etc.
Yes, 32 & Me & Simular DNA Tests
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3963210]Various sites give possible matches of relative. So even if you did not send in DNA, your kid, sibling, etc. Could have. So baby of SB, if DNA sent in might get a report that there is a possible half sibling, uncle, etc.[/QUOTE]Here is how it can come back to bite you.
My SO got the DNA test done to see where her families originated from.
You also get info on relatives that had took the test. A couple of her cousins came up, plus a second cousin she didn't recognize.
Email addresses are provided for the matches. She emailed the adult male in Texas. He said he was adopted and didn't know his biological Mom but his adopted mother said her last name was ______, my SO’s Mom's maiden name.
Due to his age it couldn't have been her Mom or one of her three sisters, but one of her older cousins. Back in the day there where a lot of babies born out of wedlock were put up for adoption.
I think most people doing those type of tests are over 18 so you wouldn't get hit up financially but no fun explaining it to your SO!
Second Most Fun Ever With My SB
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;3960883]Agreed. Young girls always have and always will love clothes. I've also found that once I'm in an arrangement, watching their faces light up as you occasionally spend a couple hours going shopping with them to pick out a dress, lingerie or shoes they love ends up costing much less than an allowance, and boosts their sense that they don't feel like a h00 ker. They will do pretty much anything for you after that, and it's also fun watching them try on things for you. I say occasionally as most times we straight up meet at the FC.
*I buy makeup gift cards from Sephora at most malls. Again, I only pull those out as a way to clinch the deal AFTER I've verified on the initial meet if the girl is absolutely top shelf AND we click. I've only done it twice ever and they both were girls very new to the site (under one week), down to earth demeanor, and flooded with messages by competing SD's in my area. After starting things with me they also took down their profiles and have never been on since (verified by dummy / separate account). You have to be very selective if you're going to just hand out gifts. Good luck!
Yaya.[/QUOTE]My SB has a live in BF who has no clue we've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 years plus. Our get togethers are hours away in NC where she, until a few months ago was a 25 yo co-ed / waitress.
Our get together's always 3-8 hours daytime / early evening in a hotel suite. Then I go to her restaurant & sit at the bar for a few beers and dinner. We flirt but no one would ever guess that I had explored every inch of her earlier that day, due to our age difference. I'm friendly with all the staff and flirt & chat with all the young females & talk to the male bartenders.
The down side is we don't get out in public. I always have lunch for us in the suite and have cooked for her, which she loves. Other than meeting her once in Petsmart to meet her dog, never got to take her out.
Well a few months ago the BF was out of town for five weeks. Best five weeks of my life. We spent a lot of nights together but still in hotels because of her not wanting to run into one of his friends. With work & school it was hard for here to get away but we finally was able to do a night in Myrtle Beach at an ocean front condo.
Other than being with her for two days straight and taking her out to eat (after eating her out😈, the highlight was taking her to.
An outlet mall. She needed a rehearsal dinner dress for a wedding she was a bridesmaid in. She didn't find the dress but she bought a tiny pair of white shorts and a top.
I wanted her to get something to remember the trip so I took her into to Coach to get her a bag. So cute, she kept wanting to leave because they were "way too much". I insisted and made her get the matching wallet & eye glass case. I know we won't last forever but I'll always remember that trip and how cute and ecstatic she was with her new Coach bag. She couldn't wait to show it off to her friends.
Another time, the only time she wanted something so bad she dropped a hint that she couldn't afford a Lily Pulitzer romper. It was xxs and on clearance ($80) and she described the color & print. I was seeing her at the hotel again the next day so I grabbed it.
When I brought it out from behind the couch and she saw the colorful bag and knew I had got it, she lit up like a Christmas tree.
Definitely major points for a small investment.
It is the Time of the Month
Rent is due. They are desperate. I had a 19 yr old potential I met for a coffee about a month ago. Very personable cute girl reaching almost 10 out of 10 on my scale. When I talked to her, I realized rent for her apartment is number one on her mind. I kept texting back and forth with her, but she never agreed for a date. For about a month, she kept on giving excuses for not meeting. I kept on trying, and at the end totally forgot about her. All of a sudden, I get a text yesterday "can you meet me today". I asked "what's the hurry". She needs help with rent. Although I was little skeptical what the experience would be, she was OK with whatever I can help with. Came straight to my house, spent about 2 hours. We connected very well and excellent experience all the way. I gave her the minimum allowance I usually give and added a small personal gift of top. She very much appreciated me helping her out. The next time I see her may be when her rent is due again, but it is worth the wait.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
Rent is #1 driver of SB activity
One SB I know plays very hard to get, but the past two months has been struggling to make rent due to lack of income. Both months, she was all over WYP and SA the last week of the month, and then gone.
Even my regular SB was back online after she had to cancel our planned meeting on the 26th which would have covered her shortfall.
Dealing with an RVA nut case. Be careful out there
Met a MILF on SA back in August. She drove an hour to meet me, fun fuck, reasonable damage. Lots of naked pics along the way from her. Her profile is since gone.
Tried to meet up again in September, but I had to cancel -- both times the night before. Silence for weeks.
Then I get texts "It took some work, but I foudn out who you are and am going to tell your wife bedause you stuck me with a hotel bill" Have no idea of this is true, but not wanting to press my luck. Tried to get her on the phone, she wouldn't answer.
Thought I got her to calm down by paypaling her the $140 she claims she ws out of pocket. No hits on the number she is using or on the email address or name linked to her paypal.
Then she launches into a tirade, long and short is she quit her PT job because she thoguht she would be seeing me a couple of times a month. Blah blah blah. Then "don't ever ccontact me again".
Then today I get "See me today". I don't respond. "Ill be at your office at 1" I don't respond, and its 215 and no sign of her.
Then I get another message from a different 804 # saying "I found your photo online that you are married and you like young SBs and rough sex" # tried calling my google voice but no VM left. No hits on that #, but I know its a Sprint #, same as the nut.
I'm thinking silence is the best approach.
Her chances aren't good, but greater than zero.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3972835]"mutually beneficial" and "NSA" but platonic? What the hell is that? Who has friends that are mutually beneficial and NSA? Also, she has to like you and be entertained by you (dance monkey, dance), and be paid for it. What is wrong with these girls? The sense of entitlement is downright repulsive.[/QUOTE]As pointed out by others in this thread, profiles like that can be smokescreens for the girl to have plausible deniability if she's outed as a participant on the site.
On the other hand, there are in fact men who will agree to that. My current SB, who is one of the most straight-shooting, forthright people I've met, claims that her other current SD is a Skype-only arrangement and completely platonic. She hasn't shared more detail than that, so I don't know if they just talk or whether it gets into sort of a private webcam dynamic. I will say that she is a joy to be around and stimulating to talk to, so I can't totally fault the guy, but I personally would not be satisfied with that. And neither would 99% of the potential SD's I imagine.
This is one of the few that I went monthly, which has the advantage that we can meet regularly without the pressure that every encounter must not be entirely platonic. Things do get physical more often than not, but sometimes it only goes to the level of physical flirting. And while that's not normally what I'm after, I'm totally cool with a more casual arrangement with this one. To quote Billy Joel: "She's got a way about her".
So now could be the time to take a break
So today my last remaining VCU utr told me a tidbit of news. A friend of a friend, described as "she was a jock in high school: cheerleader, swimming and soccer and she used to be on the dance team, well now she likes coke more than sports and she is a slutty barely legal porn star looking blonde". So this young lady has 2 or 3 sugar daddys that keep her supplied and pay the bills. Apparently she got busted recently and seems none the worse for wear, saying that she got it worked out. If the girl sounds familiar and you are the snow man, maybe take a step back.
DO NOT ASK ME FOR MORE DETAILS. I DO NOT HAVE ANY, I DO NOT KNOW THE GIRL AND I DO NOT WANT TO KNOW THE GIRL. AND MY UTR IS NOT LOOKING TO HAVE HER INFO SHARED, DO NOT ASK.
Anonymous payment with BitCoin
[QUOTE=InTight;3975810]If you are going to be truly anonymous use BitCoin. With a free web base email (use [URL]Mail.com[/URL] not G-Mail) and a Bitcoin wallet on your phone you can transfer $ to SA that can't be traced to anyone. I bought BitCoin at a machine in a gas station then transferred it to my phone app and used it from there. I just went through the process to update my VPN and NewsService entirely anonymously. Simple process once you have figured it out. If there is interest I can explain it on the board or try to put something together to PM those interested.[/QUOTE]Seems I only have one request by PM so I will send that monger my text document. It is long and detailed but the process is rather simple once you have done it. Others interested can PM me.
More leaks than 1600 Penn Ave.
In the past week, I've had SBs in two different cities I've been messaging tell me someone posted pics / messages about them on "an escort website", one specifically referred to USASG.
Search Engine Visibility of this Site
Most people need to be aware that this site is visible and searchable by search engines like Google and Bing. If you write a post with their full username it can be found by a simple search.
From a post I made on another board:
I don't underestimate people's, especially the younger generations, use of search engines like Google. I expect many will Google their own username and the username of people they are talking to. *.
I've done the same and found contact information for girls on SA, outside of SA. Many will use the same username in multiple places like Pof, Okcupid, instagram, twitter, gmail, Yahoo, etc. *.
I regularly Google my own username to know if I'm being talked about on any forums or sites. *.
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;3980986]In the past week, I've had SBs in two different cities I've been messaging tell me someone posted pics / messages about them on "an escort website", one specifically referred to USASG.[/QUOTE]
New York Times. Sugar Date Gone Sour
Interesting article in today's NYT:
[URL]https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/15/style/sugar-dating-seeking-arrangement.html[/URL]
The guy had it coming for not playing the game in an honest and fair fashion and the article skirts around any mention of negative outcomes for him, so who knows if there were any or not. But it just goes to show how easily anonymity can be compromised, even when you think you've got a buttoned up plan with multiple fake names and numbers, as well as very little electronic footprint or paper trail to a hotel room.
Interesting read, even for the SJW NYT.
